Men Don’t Understand Women. What Does A Woman Really Want?

Most woman need love, honesty, and security. I made a hub about this!!

Women don't understand women either. Nor do men understand men.

I have asked hundreds of women this question over the last 30 years: What do you want most? The universal answer has been this, with no exceptions: To be adored and cherished by you, and to know that she is more important than any person or anything in the world. But you must give enough evidence of this to be convicted in court.

I know this is an old, old question, but I can't resist.

To answer honestly (and possibly put some people off me for good)... first of all, I'll just say I don't want a man at all.

I'm done with that. Maybe there are some decent men out there, but I have yet to find one. I've got some good male friends, none of which would make decent husbands or even so-so boyfriends.

I had somewhat low standards in the beginning, found a guy who seemed great and turned out to be a dangerous sociopath. I had a boyfriend who seemed great and turned out to be a pothead. My father IS great, but he's bipolar and that makes life very hard.

All people, including me, have glaring flaws, and I'm just not willing to live with anyone else's. I don't need the mess. I don't need the strain. I don't need the emotional abuse. I'm sick to death of it.

But that's me. Stricktlydating said it best... we all want something different.

FROM MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, I HAVE DISCOVERED THAT WOMEN ARE COMPLEX. THEY COULD BE DIFFICULT TO UNDERSTAND. I FEEL IT'S AS A RESULT OF THEIR EMOTIONAL NATURE AS OPPOSED TO MEN THAT ARE LOGICAL IN THEIR DISPOSITION.

 There is a popular song that goes like this:  All you need is love.  That is what a woman really want.  The love can be from a boyfriend, a husband, or a partner.  Love covers a broad range of emotions... keep reading →

- security and honesty of relationship

- mutual understanding and respect

- Some tender love and care

- a true recognition for her contributions

these are top 4 I have felt over years in my friends circle

I feel we have come far way in our cultures however as a society we are still far from strengthening these factors in female society.

Could be attributed to number of factors however i am thrilel dby improvements society made in last over few 100 years.

feeling of not being loved, not been accepted,not been respcted is killing for any gender. Gets worse when signals from a love partner indicate so.

Women want a lot of what a man wants, they just need to experience in a different way than a man. I wrote an article that talks about that here: happyher.com/blog/2008/04/how-to-be-the-best-lover-ever/ It's not just about being a lover, but how to love a woman. I hope that helps!

What I really want as a woman, could be different to what another woman really wants. We are not all the same in our wants and needs, just like men.

read my hub and it will give you EVERYTHING you need to know.

YA man never know what really want in this world

When man have money, she look for love.

when man have Good position and Salary, she look for status.

When man have Car and other stuff , she aims for Buglaow.

When Man have nothing, she aim to leave her alone.

A woman lets you know what she wants as well as needs. As for a man, if you are attentative and pay attention to the woman in your life, you will know what your woman needs and provide it accordingly. It's called communication, whether verbal or physical---- it never fails!

Vonda G. Nelson

women want a stable relationship.

we want to feel special, and like to feel like we're the star of a romance novel.

we want to be spoiled and loved and we want to know for sure that we are.

Women want honesty, loyalty..(no cheating) and recognition as a human being. They do not want to be put down, or considered as lesser because they have more visable emotions, and because they do the dishes instead of "work."

Women are a bit schizophrenic about what they want. The female accesses both hemispheres of the brain and approach the same basic need in two apparently different ways. They want security, a basic primitive desire, and they want excitement. The docile man who is a steady dependable provider is attractive to a degree but he lacks the animal magnetism of the strong caveman bad boy type. The latter ,in a primitive setting could provide safety and security to sleigh the saber tooth tiger but in this society he is the predator (so to speak). The former is todays provider, steady and constant, but a bit boring. Occasionally the two are blended but not often!

Women seem to think they want the bad boys, but in fact they don't. They want to feel loved, secure, beautiful and special. We do not like liars, cheaters or snakes (men who openly flirt with other women in front of you), otherwise known as 'sleazes'.

Hope this helps!

Women want a man, someone that holds them at night, honest, and trusworthy. Someone who is on the same level. Hard working, Loves, that's soulmate that God sent just for her. Man who knows how to be gentle and caring, Laughter is what he brings to my life. He makes me smile from my soul, When he's here my world is at peace, this man this man, A man who knows how to be a strong man, standing on his own to feet, a man who is a King looking for his Queen, to cherish for the rest of their lives, build a life, start a family.