How can i make my girlfriend fall crazy in love with me and never want to leave me?

Ill give you some ideas in my hub tell me what you think

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What did she tell you her mistakes were for booking on you with the other guy? How can it be your mistake she did this? Or is she off the hook completely just because she is "gracing" your presence?

Don't be a chump.

Maybe you should reveal just exactly what you did to make her take off on you in the first place. You said it was your fault in some way but you did not expand on that.

Whatever you do... do not let her use you and the other guy like a couple of pawns. If you suspect she is doing this, grow a spine and drop out of the stupid game before you get hurt even worse. And do not think of the other guy as an enemy, chances are he is getting played just like you, so have some sympathy for your brother.

Looks like this has been a while since you posted this. In four months what has happened? Let us know, There are folks here who want to help ya out.

you cannot make someone love you/as a parent his is evident the first time your child crosses their little arms, looks up at you with a tear stained face and declares "you are a mean mommy and i want my daddy" then it just gets worse...but as a person this is something everyone needs to learn early on...if you had a magic pill and could make your girlfriend fall madly in love with you and never want t leave you wht you would be stuck with woulb be the carbon form equivalent of a blow up girly doll...you dont want that!

you cannot MAKE someone love you dude!

get over her;she isnt worth it

Okay, first don't let yourself fall into the trap that you can do the things it takes to make your girlfriend do anything. She has to want to be in this. Being overly "into" the relationship can be the actual cause of your problems.

Be romantic, but not over the top. Don't text, call and email all the time. How about handwritten note, sent regular mail once in a while.

You have to be interested enough in your own life to get someone interested in being in it with you. Take a class, take a walk, join a club, feed the homeless, but have something new to do and do it now. Get busy... Do things without her.

You can't pine your way into someones heart. Love triangles rarely end well. As a student of Dale Carnegie, I would advise you to get straight with the worst that can happen. If that is the idea that "he" walks her down the isle, then let that be the goal. Be alright with that in your mind and you're half way there.

Remember, even your dog will run if you chase after it. Take it easy and be yourself. We all know when someone is trying too hard. Makes it seem like you're not worthy. Be worthy, get busy, be alright with the worst that can happen and I predict you'll end up with the girl in the end.

You will have better luck hanging on to your lady if you can convince her that she wants to be with you - and doesn't need to be. Sound confusing? Let me explain - you said that she left you a few months ago for someone else - pouf like magic. From the female perspective she would have left you because on some level or for some reason you stopped her "wanting" to be with you. If a lady is with you because she "needs" to be (either from your perspective or hers) then circumstances change and her (or your) needs will change and your relationship won't last. But if you can convince her that you being in her life is something she "wants" then that is less likely to change and she will be more likely to stay.

Good luck

Lisa :)

Son you are living in a fool's paradise. Sorry but forever and ever amen and happily ever after,

They don't play out in real life. Real life is tough and day in and day out with the same person is even harder.

Don't get the idea that if you knock her up you'll lock her up

That is way old school and this is a strong chick she booked

Right into another dudes bed once already. Give yourself a second then think about that for a minute.

In every relationship there is always one that loves more harder and stronger then the other half they

Will be loving but usually conditionally so.

Your going to be holding the hot potato as long as your with this woman

She hold's all the card;s and just like you said yourself.

Pouf like magic one day she will be gone.

Your best chance is to show her true respect and appreciation and hope for the best.

Marriage is not a guarantee of a damn thing other then you will loose one half of everything you have worked for up to that point. When the marriage ends and the odds are not on a

Long term union. I'm just saying don't rush to the justice of the peace a piece of paper won't stop anyone from hitting the door. when they are at the point of done.

Don't want to be a downer just want to share some life lessons

You'll make your own mistakes we all do.

Good luck to you either way. It's a winding road you've got to maneuver the turns the best you can.