rvsource says
Sit down with them and ask them to join a 12 step program. If they continue drinking, then take it to the next level and threaten to leave, if they don't
theomzone says
Al-Anon is your best first step.
You can't "deal" with a person active in addiction. You can't change or influence them in anyway. Threats don't work - for one simple reason - they are "powerless" over their addiction.
The ONLY thing you can deal with is you. You need tools and support. Al-Anon is a good place to start getting those needs met.
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