Is he still interested in me, should i wait it out and see what happens or should i move on?

Yep, you're definately still in with a chance! See the thing is about dating, sometimes guys leave and then come back when they've realised they're missing you. It sounds like he's just making sure that you haven't moved on yet. He is giving you an opportunity to express your feelings maturely now that some time has passed, take the opportunity, but do it with a mature attitude, just tell him how you're feeling without too much bla bla bla, and then leave him to think about it some more. Best wishes!

Once a relationship receives a major wound, it turns into an ornery, fickle beast. If you both have a lot of love in your hearts toward each other (and this sounds pretty one-way and unrequited), you would be able to discuss getting back together a lot more easily than just getting a mumbled "maybe". It all depends on what you want. If you want an easy-going, see-you-every-few-weeks kind of thing, you can ease the strings up between the two of you and still hold onto him. But it sounds like he's at least in neutral if not reverse, and you're more committed to staying together. If you want to make all the efforts to stay together, be ready for a day when your love isn't returned.

I don't know. I am guessing, "no". As a guy that's how I see it. But of course, until you know then you'll know.

Well my answer to this question is: Guys always seem to want what they can't have. So, I suggest that you don't make yourself too available to him. Go out and have fun, hang out with your friends, meet new people. When you do talk to him, let him know what a great time you are having. Not in a rubbing-it-in-his-face sort of way, but just so he knows you aren't sitting around waiting for him to make up his mind. Don't be available to him every time he wants to talk. Guys like the thrill of the chase. When they know they already have you hooked, they will sometimes string you along forever. He may be playing the old game of keeping you on the line until someone he likes better comes along. If another hot guy asks you out, go ahead. If he wanted to be with you, he should have said so. If he decides to come back to you, great. If not, you aren't wasting your time on someone who isn't interested. But in my experience, a guy who is interested will always come back if they feel like they might lose the chance. So play it cool with this guy, go on with your life, and don't be too available to him. If he really wants you, he will come back. If not, you may meet another guy you are crazy about who knows how lucky he is to have you and will never want to let you go.

i agree with dolcegabbanagal, she has hit the nail right on the head! Practice makes perfect in dealing with situations as such!

You guys, before u answer this question.....we didnt spend 4 hours talkin about football, we were flirtin. we set up a football date....2-hand touch. We were laughin and havin fun...the weird thing is that we were talking as if we were still dating. Alot this happened through emails and stuff, so on the first day of school, i am going to talk to him face-to-face. If he is really done with me, he has to tell me. But i doubt he is, one thing i learned. If a guy falls in love with a gurl he isnt that ready to let her go.

My answer at this point is No. I do not have alot of background into the exact situation or the exact guy, but I have seen this a number of times before.

4 hours talking about playing football? It seems that he is willing to give you a few extra chances because you are a good friend........but nothing more.

I am sure he misses you and at some point it could work out. At this point though it really does seem like "He's just not that into you"

All the best

Leaving him alone is sort of like using no contact, but if you don't know the whole strategy behind using NC you will not get the results you want.

I suggest finding and following a good plan using the no contact rule strategy.

Right now you're stuck in the "just friends zone" properly using NC is the quickest way out.

When the dust clears you would have emotionally evolved and it will be your choice if you want him back or not...

But!

You will be free of relationship limbo in the just friends zone.

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