Do you feel sex is better with someone you truly have feelings for or are feeling irrelevant?

maybe the first couple times are great because its new and exciting, but as for females, our attachment hormones kick in , and we need to have that lovin' feeling... this has actually been researched and it is very much a fact, part of our human nature.

sex is so much better when you feel somthing for the person. at least to me it does. well then again maybe im ther wrong person to answer this because i have only one person i slept with and im madly in love with him. and even though most of the time i dont reach extacy it feels great to just have him apart of me. i remember i few times i just asked him to stay there to not get out :)

That depends on what you want. If your end desire is just to have meaningless sex, then you got exactly what you wanted and should be satasified. You just need to be sure that you have nothing esle attached to those actions. If you are looking for companionship, then it is defenally no. You'll end up feeling used and more of an object than a person. Life is short, know what you want and go for it because it's not going to be a simple journey. Never put yourself in a position where you feel less than anythign or anyone.

As i can't speak for all men,when i was younger sex was sex but since i was around 30 (now 45) for me sex is always better with my true love as i express my self better with her because the love is so real and strong.

sex is very different with someone you care for... I think you would take more time and care to insure the other party's satisfaction.

When you do it with someone you love, then your "making love" and you can feel the passion and all of that stuff.

when you do it with a stranger then its just sex, because you cant intimate feelings for that person because you dont know them..

I have had both experiences, and for me the sex without feelings was always new and exciting. You are never afraid to try new things because there's never that "what if it scares him off" feeling. Where as if its with someone you deeply care about sometimes it does worry you about trying new things or expressing your deepest desires and fantasies. But I realized in the end with the "unintimate" sex it just leaves you empty at the end of the day. Of course its exhilerating and an adrenaline rush but it doesnt last and you go to sleep alone. When you're with someone whom you love or deeply care about you know at the end of the "session" neither of you are going to get up and leave... you still have that person to kiss goodnight and you know that you're going to wake up to their face in the morning. =)

sex is more passionite with someone you have feelings

No do only sex with somebody with whom you sahe your feeling or it will seem like animals.