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What Romantic Questions Would A Lady Ask A Man To Get To Know Him Better?

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stricktlydating says

* You seem like such a nice guy, so why aren't you in a relationship?

* What are the qualities of your ideal relationship?

* Are you romantic?

* Do you believe in love?

* Are you attracted to me?

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Paul Marshall says

Ahh, see this is the challenge in the differences between men & women. If you are trying to get to know a man better, "Do not ask him romantic questions".

Ask questions about anything, but not romanticly based. Women like to be asked romantic questions, but men do not.

I know that this will sound strange, but you need to think like a man & not like a woman.

Show him that you are interested in him & ask questions about HIM. His interests, his work, etc. Men like to think that you like them & what they do & represent.

Most men that I know would run a million miles in fear if a lady start to ask him romantic questions at the start of a relationship or prior to it starting.

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halleyhoops says

i agree with paul. do not ask him romantic questions.

also, a lot of the proposed questions would make me feel awkward. i would never ask a guy about money or things he did with other girls. i would just keep the questions organic and if you want to be romantic, actions speak louder than words.

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wotznew says

"If you were so rich you didn't have to work, and could just spend your time with the perfect mate, what would you two do together?"

"What do you find is the most attractive feature in a woman? Why?"

"What was the sweetest gift you ever got from a woman?"

"What was the most romantic thing you ever did for a woman?"

Of course, a sophisticated man might already have a polished answer to give, that sounds wonderful, but is actually total bull. But then a more simple guy may actually give you a straight and honest answer. And if it's not what you want to hear, then it's time to move on, honey.

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Dr Will 911 says

Creative 64 is correct. Character and integrity is what you need to know about a man not how he will be romantically. Integrity is tested character or character under pressure. Integrity is a man’s ability to remain one with you when his character is tested by one of your hot girlfriends. A man has integrity when he can do what’s right because it’s right; it’s how he conducts himself when nobody is watching.

Many girls have sex with guys because they are looking for intimacy. Intimacy is not achieved through intercourse. Intimacy is obtained through conversation. You have to get a man to talk to obtain intimacy before you have sex. Once a man has sex with you he will feel like he doesn’t have to talk at least until he wants more sex. Then, you will never get to intimacy.

The way to a man’s heart is NOT through his stomach but through his head. The value that a man places on a woman is not centered in how he feels about her but rather in how he thinks about her. If you want to get to a man’s heart, keep him out of bed and get into his head.

Finally, that business about seeing how he feels about his MOMMY is NOT good advice. Many abusive men (like Chris Brown) will dote on their mothers because they are STILL trying to win her attention and affection that they feel they were deprived of as little boys. Most mamma’s boys are abusive to other women; remember that! This is a trap many women have fallen for who did not know what to look for.

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Audacious Shelley says

If you're an edgy lady, ask him "Boxers or briefs?" If you're more conservative, ask him "where do you see yourself in 10 years?"

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WRKennedy says

Please take the word "romantic" out of the question. If you want to be romantic, look into his eyes, find ways to touch, be a little flirty.

If you want to know him better, ask about and show interest in what he does in his spare time.

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Radiance says

Well, it depends on the context in which you know him. If he's a coworker, ask him about a company project he's working on. Be specific: don't sya something like, "Oh how's that new budgeting project going?" He's only going to say something like, "Its' going fine, thanks."

Instead ask him, "I heard your team is implementing an awesome new budget plan. How did you guys come up with that idea?" That way, you are complimenting him (and we all like that) and it gives him an opportunity to go on about himself besides "Fine, thanks."

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J. W. Park says

Seeing that romance to a guy is usually limited to chocolates and roses and not so much the classic "price charming" picture that Disney painted for us when we were younger, I'd say it's best not to ask romantic questions at all. Instead, ask about his interests and hobbies, or if you already have then dive into specifics. Guys usually like to share everything they're interested in and will likely try to get you to participate in some way. However, unless you find "Mr. Right", some of those interests may not seem very appealing or fun, but if you're hell-bent on trying to get to know him better I'd recomend trying at least once and give an honest evaluation of what you think afterwards.

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peterander says

'Tell me about your family'... This question can bring out all the answers sought.

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chechlor.harrison says

NO BECAUSE ITS NOT A GOOD START OFF TOWARDS A RELATIONSHIP YOU GET TO KNOW SOMEONE..

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mad4life says

Don't laugh..romantic or not. Ask your guy questions about his mother. I have heard it said, and observed it also..that how a guy treats his mom is a very good indication of how he will treat the woman in his life. Listen to what he has to say about her, whether she is living or deceased, and you will get a good insight into how he will treat you.

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olgashik says

What sort of convertible would he rent for their first weekend together? :-)

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spharrod says

My first question would be "How are you", then, "what do you do for a living?". How do you feel?, then touch him and say you feel ok to me, you seem to be walking for a living, and you look ok too. If he answered in a positive manner, then I hope the conversation had started. If not, I would move on to another man. As far as romantic first time questions, "Do you believe in sex on the first date." Sounds stupid in away but you get to the point, without games also it depends on age.

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dwippy says

Have you ever been in prison?

Do you have a job?

Have you ever been involved in an abusive relationship?

Do you like dogs?

Ok I guess I'm not the most romantic soul in the world

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Daniel S Campbell says

Men think of romance as a sex game. If you could word the question to include sex your more likely to get an honest answer. Example: "What's your greatest sex fatasy?" If he answers with something including you then pick out the details not involving the sex, like the surroundings or clothing.

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sunil.menon says

What is the best Quality you can have being my husband?

How much you earn?

How you react when i do something wrong/

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