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Is it wrong to flirt online (while married to someone else) with someone even if you have no intenti
A lot of men go online to chat and flirt with women while their wife is in bed - most don't have any intention of meeting or going further. Is this wrong?
asked by SimeyC 6 weeks ago
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stricktlydating says
It's wrong if they have a profile on a 'singles' website. And especially in cases where they have any kind of online profile which does not indicate he is married.
Many an affair has started out this way and the woman really has no idea he's married, when the man might start off with good intentions but get a little carried away.
On the other hand, if it's a Social Networking site, where the other women know that he's married, and they're chatting harmlessly about things, then he's not really causing any problems.
blatva says
Honestly? Yes, It is wrong. Not only is it in bad taste, But you would probably be deceiving two different women. Your wife, and the woman online. I don't care what anyone says about "If it's online, its not real." I had a long distance relationship for over a year, and that was real. And this would be too
pisco says
There is really no way around it, if you flirt while married, something is wrong, this is valid online or offline.
From my personnal experiencie social networks are nice and fun if you are single/non-commited, but when you step up with someone, just let it go, you will avoid all sorts of troubles down the road, trust me, been there, done that, and i am still suffering from it.
tmom says
I would say yes. Simply because that is time that they are spending with other women, eventhough it may only be casual conversation online. I would feel terrible, almost betrayed, if I were to find that my husband stayed up late at night chatting with other women.
prm.peddada says
it is the mind setup with the individual that prefer the chat with other women who has no intenstion.
fashionlove says
I think if you have to ask if it's wrong then you KNOW it is. The main point is flirting ... not whether it's online of offline.
Question why someone would want to do that if they are in a happy loving relationship.
I wouldn't accept it in my relationship.
The intention to go further may not be there initially but the more you do it the more you could develop the urge to go further than flirting.
wsp2469 says
The correct answer to this question is no . . . not in and of itself. This is the internet. It's not real. Women who give a damn about the marital status will ask . . . not that it matters unless things progress to sex in the real world.
Read this hub. It might help.
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