Why Do Women Find It Difficult To Ask A Guy Point Blank If He Is Attracted To Her?

I have no problem asking a man I'm interested in this question, I think it's a really sexy question to ask. But if a woman is finding it hard to ask a man this question it would be when she is afraid of rejection.

 Shyness is not always the correct word to use when speaking about girl's hesitancy in asking a guy if he is attracted to her.  Women just do not do that and it is probably a cultural thing not to be the... keep reading →

Women hate rejection. If she finds it difficult to ask a guy point blank if he finds her attractive then she must have some attraction to him. She always knows that the possibility is there of him saying "no" which can really hurt her. I think most women flirt to get a reaction, if he flirts back then she knows that he finds her attractive. Much easier than asking point blank!

Most women are even more insecure than men.

There is a saying "Never ask a question you may not like the answer to." Maybe they are heeding that. Too bad they don't remember that when they ask about whether "does that dress look good on ..."

Now, ladies, if you want some educational material that will obviate the necessity for asking that question, rent the movie "Legally Blonde".

I wouldn't ask that question. He wouldn't have asked you out if he wasn't attracted.

I think this is more down to the individual really. Though to be perfectly honest it's one of those questions that you want to know the answer to but at the same time are afraid of what you'll hear.

Women may find it difficult to be so forthright as to put someone on the spot, especially when a negative answer would require quick thinking to produce an artful response or require the respondent to reply with outright rudeness in return. Also, its much more fun to find out in more subtle ways.

Why not , they should and get a true answer instead of wondering.