We've just started dating and he requested I confirm our relationship on Facebook. What do I do?
I've only been on a few dates with him and not sure I want to change my relationship status to "In a relationship with ...HIM" for all my friends to see. It seems too soon, do I decline to confirm the request? Will he feel rejected?
asked by stricktlydating 4 weeks ago
flagsandwichmom says
I would not post this onto any website, I would talk to the person face to face- I think it also may depend on the seriousness of the relationship- Even guys are prone to fall head over heels- and just want to share with others
Cagsil says
Ask him why does it matter, whether or not, you confirm your relationship on a website.....is it to confirm his 'ego' or to establish the fact that you are really taken.
His motivational reasoning needs to be checked, observed and monitored closely. He is already displaying signs of a 'control' freak, who could get worse as the relationship progresses forward.
Do not make any commitments you are not comfortable with.
topgunjager says
the fact that he had to ask makes him insecure, you'll do that on your own when it feels right, don't let anyone make you do something you're not sure you want to do=)
JenniferRae says
It seems to me that this person has low self esteem and trust issues. Maybe he feels if you dont confirm your status that leaves it open for other men to contact you which leads to the point of him not trusting you to make a wise decision. The way I see it is even if you change that status, how is that going to stop you from moving on to someone else.. if you go home to him everynight and you are completely 100% faithful then there is no need. Me personally I felt proud to change my status the first time..lol.. but I was never made to do so.
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