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What does it he really mean when he kisses you but doesn't want a relationship?
I have liked this guy for 2 years while I was in a horrible relationship. And I know he liked me. Well two weeks after I was dumped he kissed me. And not just like a little peck, like full out kiss. It actually made me dizzy. Well ever since he has kinda been avoiding me. Stopped coming in my work and stopped hanging around me. When I finally got a hold of him ater 3 weeks more I asked him what we were and he said, "I don't really want a relationship. I want to 'focus on school'."
asked by Poetic_1 4 weeks ago
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Hmrjmr1 says
He probably had built up an unrealistic expectation and when he got his kiss he realized you weren't the "one". He has done mostly the right thing though by not leading you on after he knew, It's hard for guys to do the break up thing verbally, (though we should do it more). Take it for what it's worth and move forward, keep looking for the right one. Good Luck.
stricktlydating says
He probably wanted to kiss you for two years, but knew he couldn't as all that time he knew you as being someone in a relationship. When he finallly got to kiss you he completely freaked out! Went into hiding, didn't know what to do. He feels uncomfortable about it for whatever reason. Just give him a little time to calm down (sort his feelings out).
liuwenhua says
Did you brush you teeth? :) Jusk kidding.
He could be a 'player'. Some guys like challenges. They court girls who are attached. They find it a great sense of achievement if the girl started to fallen for him but eventually they lose the sense of challenge and start looking for new target again.
Well, my advise is ignore him, don't answer his calls, avoid any form of contact. Start dating someone else. He will know and now its your turn to play hard to get.
MysticLingerie says
If you like him and would like a relationship with him. Just tell him put it out on the table, maybe hes just nervous. If you tell him you wouldnt mind trying out a relationship with him, then his true feelings might come out. ONly thing is that make sure he is not the rebound person. After getting dumped some people tend to feel sad and often on the rebound end up hookin up with someone worse or that they dont even like. Just make sure thats not you other then that best of luck.
Laura Thykeson says
He "wanted some" at the time, but either changed his mind or has found someone new....Sorry, but "he's just not that into you..."
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