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What Are The Secrets That A Lady Should Never Tell Her Man?

asked by ngureco 4 weeks ago

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suiteorchids says

How much is in her bank account. (ha-ha)

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stricktlydating says

She should not tell him any bedroom secrets from a past relationship.

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Hmrjmr1 says

I don't think it is wise to discuss the details of any previous relationship. And even when discussing generalities it should be minimized. Most guys ( I can think of exceptional circumstances) are perfectly willing to deal with the relationship from the point you met. IF there is a point that could be particularly contentious, past prostitution for example, tell him early and be prepared to deal with his failure to understand. If it's not going to work out now because of it, then it will be worse by ten fold the longer the relationship lasts before the info is known.

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advisor4qb says

How many people she has been with. Talking about past relationships just mucks up everything! No matter how old you are or even if you slept with the person or not, men get jealous, whether they admit it or not!

I am not saying to lie, but to just not volunteer information!

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Nan Mynatt says

Men will not forgive you when you confess your pass sins. Confess your sins to God only. Even when they think that you had an affair with someone else they become withdrawn. I am telling you with a voice of experience. I divorced my ex-husband and 3 months later married someone from my high school days. He was from Boston, and I had not seen him for years. Well the marriage never got off the ground. We had a fight right after we came from the court house being married by a judge. I had the marriage annuled and later remarried my old husband, because of my children. It was pure torture for 10 years. He was sulky and most of the time evil. I never talked to him about the short marriage. However, he could not forgive me. I believe he was extremely jealous, he was before I divorced him. Sometimes mistakes are not forgivable. Watch what you say, and don't confess. I had a right to be happy and tried! Some doors can't be reopened after you close them. A bad marriage is one that you need to walk away from never to return.

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spiritactor says

Never relate anything that diminishes your man's sense of worth to you. What would the point be? Unless you WANT to hurt him. Indepth information on past relationships is therefore a no-no! The male ego can be fragile-- just as anyone's ego. If he nourishes your ego-- do him the same, right?

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StarB12 says

Which BF was 'bigger', lol.

Her REAL age of losing her virginity. (If promiscuous)

All humor for me...as u can see.

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ODDJOBSMOM says

When another man is your "type" (real or on the screen), what your mother really thinks of him, what you really think of his mother, ALL of the things he's EVER done wrong to YOU - even when ending a relationship it is sometimes better to leave a few things unsaid, maybe I should make a hub - my marriage is trying to heal and I have a list of what not to do or say - for men and women.

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TammyK says

if it was something that was pleasing to you, or something he or she might enjoy, i think you can do it or suggest it without telling your mate that someone else did it.

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Sexy jonty says

that she cares for him a lot ....... knowing this would make him restless .....

but not controlling the emotions would lead to careless approach of men towards women ......

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