A 62 year old man and a 30 year old?

High five, low five, fist bump, hoo-ya! (I'm assuming 62-year old guy and 30-year old female.)

At first thought it sounds nice. But in reality, she wasn't even born yet when the 62 year old man had most of his experiences in life. Things such as politics, music, in theater, war, natural disasters, major power outages, etc... that occurred in his life. When he talked about it, she is clueless. I wonder how that might affect the relationship?

Personally, I don't think a girl should date anyone older than their own father. But to each their own.

I wanted to answer this question with the same answer I gave to a different question. The other question was (Which one is dearer to man – sexual appetite or love of affection?) And the answer I gave to that and this questions is:

For the most part I think that, the younger the man, the more of a sexual appetite he will have. And the older the man, the more he develops his sense (and maybe need for) love of affection. This may be one reason why you find older men with younger women, and older women with younger men! Maybe both are filling a need.

So when the 30-year-old is 62 and full of life, he will be 94? Tables are quite turned! If this man has a lifestyle he's not wanting to give up due to retirement, he may very well have ulterior motives for falling in "love" with a 30-year-old that could support him for the rest of his life. Who will be there for her in her golden years? Kind of hard to date at 62 (for women anyhow). I dated a man 18 years older and was warned by my daughter's grandmother who did the same thing: she ended up having to take care of her older spouse (failed health) for years until he eventually died. I'm all for love and sacrifice, but just advise to really think and be aware of reality before allowing such a thing to solidify.

It all about what make you happy. I said what make you happy because a person can make you feel good but in the long run makes you unhappy. That is a major age difference. But in any thing in life, you have to give up something to gain something. Its call sacrifice. iF a older person makes you happy, then acceot your happiness, but you will have to sacrifice or give up a desire to gain a desire. As long as you are willing to accept that then be happy. sexual satisfaction is also important, if this older person cannot perform athen ask your self if that is a sacrifice you willing to accept. If they does, ask your self,for how long? you feel me. Its all about being happy in the end.

I once dated a guy 25 years younger than me. Crazy, huh? To be honest, I really, really, loved him and he loved me. but in the end I had to break it off. It was just... unhealthy for a few reasons. It seems people get into these autumn-spring relationships, and they may be intense and exciting for a while, maybe even a long while, but they just don't have "staying" power.

Yes there are numerous such instances and hence they are no more matters of interest. But why the question?