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Will my mom get angry if i told her i wanted to live with my grandmother?

i'm 18 years old and niether one of my parents know how to treat me like i am. they still wanna treat me like i am a 16 year old child. whos doing nothing for her life. i go to college. i do not have a job but i have been looking with no such luck. but i clean and cook for her before i head out for school. yet she still wants to deny any opportunity for freedom because she cant sleep cause she' s busy worrying about me. my grandma o n the other hand knows that i am 18 and if they dont open up soon i will end up running away.

asked by whispers of faith 2 weeks ago

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Lady_E says

I don't think she will bcos you are still living with family - which is also her mum. It's not a bad idea.

PS. You'll enjoy it too, grans are full of wisdom - you learn so much from them and they really make you laugh.

All the best.

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Hanna Bambina says

everyone wantss to live with their grandparents. Maybe you should just accept your mother for who she is; although I know that can be tough. I still struggle to get along with my mother becuase she's a single parent and isn't parent material. She does give me money and stuff; but I've gone days without food; and I was beaten up as a child; so all and all; I just had to move out...by myself; I've found that to be the most satisfactory sollution. Think about it, if you move in with your grandparents; they'r gonna want to solve your problems aswell; and you don't want everyone involved. If you look back at your life in 20 years you don't want to say you gave your family a hard time. Maybe you should consider moving far away from home and start college there. You seem to be striving for your independance. I went away for a year; I wouldn't say it was the best year of my life; however, I did realise how good I had it; and how the way I was treating my family over petty things was stupid. If you want to move in with your grandma; that's your choice; but they're old; do you really want to disturb their retirement. just food for thought.

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pisco says

I'm guessing she will be very angry, and wouldn't allow it. I do hear your problem, but you must try and conquer your freedom in small steps, because will also worry about your kids in the same way when you have them.

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