Love & Marriage: How can a couple do things together when the husband and wife don't have many common interests?

One of the ingredents of marriage is for husband and wife to take time to study each other, to konw their weaknesses.The husband should then try to correct gradually those weaknesses in the wife so also the wife should correct the weaknesses in the husband. However, if par adventure, little weaknesses still exist in either of the husband or wife, these should be overlooked bearing in mind that there are individual differences. Two individuals cannot be the same even idential twin are not absolutely the same in all ramifications.

There has to be a common interest. If there wasn't then they wouldn't have gotten married. Marriage is about compromise. Take turns participating in activities that your partner likes that you wouldn't normally do. You never know. You may end up liking it. Search "interesting dates" or "date ideas" or "cheap dates" you will get some pretty interesting and fun ideas that are right in your own backyard.

A couple in this situation would seem to have only a few approaches: Treat activities as "yours, mine, and ours" and find new things to do that are completely different from the activities each partner now... keep reading →

I think the main thing you need to have as couples is love for each other and the want to express that. If you love your spouse you will want to do things that they like because it makes you happy to see them... keep reading →