Brides - did you make a speech at your wedding? How did it go? I want to but I don't know how it will be received.

Hi, J Eds -

As a Celebrant, I've talked with brides and grooms, and offered them the opportunity to include a Parental Honoring right in their ceremony. Here's one I like:

" (bride) and (groom) want to acknowledge their parents on this occasion, They offer their profound gratitude to their parents for all the love and care they showed in raising them. The unconditional gifts of love and support that you have continually offered have inspired them to become who they are today, and they thank you, from the bottom of their hearts, for guiding them to this celebration of love here today. Without you, this day would not be possible.

Many couples have also chosen a welcoming to their guests that mentions how important they, and their presence, are. Here's one:

"Although this is their day, it is also a tribute to all of you. For knowing you and interacting with you has helped to make our Bride and Groom who they needed to be to find each other. They would like to thank you all for that. All of you are the threads of which are woven the tapestry of their lives. Each one of you is an important piece in the story it tells. It is the fabric that they wrap around themselves and take comfort in when the world seems cold. And on days like today when everything is right in their world, that tapestry is proudly spread out and displayed for everyone to see, with all the glorious colors and textures that your diversity adds. You all hold a place in their hearts reserved for those that they have chosen to call 'Family' and “Friends” and they are deeply grateful for each and every one of you here today."

 Yes, making speech is one of the most important thing during the wedding.  You have a chance to thank your parents for their presence and utmost support during the most important moment of your life, your... keep reading →

While it's not traditional for the bride to make a speech it won't be frowned upon and many brides take the opportunity to thank their husbands, family and bridesmaids. Remember though, your guests have already sat through the bestman's speech, the groom's and the father of the bride's so you might want to keep it short.