Super Models - Wise Women (Part 1)
Who is a wise woman?
Wise women are very intelligent, clever and sensible and these are some of their attitudes:
They don’t have babies for the wrong reason
Some women have a baby so that the man would marry them. Its not a good thing to get commitment from a man using pregnancy. Some men fall into this trap, get married to the woman but end up resenting her and eventually split up. Other women have babies because they just want someone to love.
A wise woman doesn’t fall for the status of a man
Naturally, women are attracted to powerful men but what happens when he loses his status? Will they still be in love with him? Some women, when talking about the new man in their life - say, “Oh he is lovely, he drives a convertible BMW, owns a few companies and lives in a Pent house etc In these times of recession wouldn’t it be easy to fall in love with him? Heaven forbid, the day he loses it all, they automatically fall out of love.
Wise women don’t get involved with married men
They are not home-wreckers. People reap what they sow in life – It’s a law of Karma. If you do it to a marriage, someone will do it to yours. Also, some men just want some escape from pressures of home and once the pressure is over they warm up to their wife again and dump you. Then you get angry saying you feel used and abused.
Don’t see expensive gifts as a sign of love.
In relationships it’s the heart that matters not the Purse. Whether he takes you to Pizza Hut or The Ritz for a meal shouldn’t matter. A £500 or £5,000 engagement ring shouldn’t make a difference to your love.
Wise women don't compare old boyfriends.
If you talk to your partner comparing him with old boyfriends he might feel like he has to live up to a certain expectation and also feel that he is not doing enough. This could make him uncomfortable in the relationship.
Avoid rushing to the Altar.
Your biological clock might be ticking but its better to get to the altar late and have a long fulfilled happy marriage than to rush to the altar and divorce in a matter of months. They also don’t marry for convenience e.g to get status/citizenship.
Look out for: Super Models - Wise Women (Part 2)
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