10 Advices For Your Love Relation
People often tend to forget the essence and important factors that contribute for a long life of a healthy relation. Because of the persistent ignorance about your partner and relation needs, the situations are often led to catastrophic results and bring disasters and depression because of the break up or because of that unhealthy relationship where lovers go on to fight everyday.
Below are the 10 important advices for you to follow in your love relationship. I hope you will try to find out the weakness in your relation (if any) and this effort of mine will help someone out there. Be gentle, be kind and best of luck.
10 Advices for a Love Relation
Following are the '10 Advices for your Love Relation'. Each point has been explained in detail.
2. A Flavor of Friendship
3. Must not be a result of 'Need'
5. A sense of care
7. Compromises and Adjustments
8. A sense of security
9. A sense of Equality, Partnership & Companionship
10. LOVE ♥
The first and foremost thing in love, on which all the romances and love-affairs settle on, is no doubt, TRUST. There always goes a saying that “To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved”.
But trust and relation goes hand in hand, one develops it gradually but his/her acts and daily behavior. Do NOT do anything suspicious or anything that may leads him/her to doubt you. This can seriously harm your relation and once a trust is broken, nothing can turn it back they way it was.
2. A Flavor of Friendship
A sense of friendship is extremely necessary for any relation. You also must be the ‘Best Friend’ of your lover. So that in this way, he/she can easily express the difficulties in general life or that are in the relation. The level of frankness in the love relation should be such that one may not miss any other friend to open his/her heart out. YOU should complete his/her life and for that reason alone; you will be loved by your lover through-out your life.
3. Must not be a result of ‘NEED’
A relation, in order to last long, MUST NOT be a result of ‘need’. If the basis of your relationship is merely a ‘Need for relationship’, ‘Depression’, ‘Social awkwardness’ or ‘Being tagged as a nerd’ will not help you in any way and will harm your relation and your life in significant manner. Moreover, if you think that ‘things will work out later’; then I would only recommend you to be a little mature and pragmatic. Be honest with yourself, you know this is not going to last any longer.
This point is one of the most important factors of any relation. Communication is a key thing for any healthy relation. This is exactly why; it is generally known that long-distance relationships seldom work. Just imagine some of the most common problems that we usually face in a love relation. Communication is one of those. Your lover/spouse always complaining about the lack of communication, the lack of time you spend with him/her. You need to be in touch for a reasonable time to solve this problem and it is an important one.
5. A sense of care
An important contributing factor for any healthy relation is that sense of caring that makes you happy. Everyone needs some caring from his/her partner, it is a fact that no one can ignore. So, the best thing is to live with this fact and to use this to your own good. You have to care for your spouse or lover. You need to be affectionate; this would not do any harm to you in any way, only that it brings a smile on your partner’s face and will eventually increase your relationship health and life.
Honesty, transparency and sincerity in a relationship are some of the things that cannot be neglected or under-rated at all. Whether it is a love relationship or any other one, mutual honesty and sincerity are the needs of every relationship. If you love your partner truly, then you will not have to work hard for bringing the honesty and sincerity part in your relation. It will come naturally, and in case if it doesn’t, there is a hint for you that something is wrong or isn’t perfect in your relationship that seriously needs attention. Go for it!
7. Compromise and Adjustment
There is no shame or no harm whatsoever in some sort of adjustment and compromise in your relation. Won’t this be rude if you compromise NOTHING? And every time your lover will have to adjust? It surely will be termed as rude and arrogant and will not help you or your relation in anyway. I read a quote that:
“If someone really wants to be in your life, he/she will make an effort for it”
Make that effort, show your affection and prove that you are the perfect one, and that your lover will never find anybody better than you.
8. A sense of security
Whether you take this sense of security as the security for financial stability, security for emotional needs or just the feeling of being secure whenever she is with you; everyone searches for that ‘sense of security’ in the relation. And this is one of those intangible feelings that one find extremely visible when someone breaks up with you (he/she misses this feeling the most) or when someone compares you with his/her ex or the future ‘would be’. You need to be in such a way that your lover feels secure, complete and accomplished.
9. A sense of Equality, Partnership and Companionship
Dominance on a single half leads to destruction and catastrophic results in every way of our life. Do not be that dominant in your relationship that your partner lost his/her voice. You need to give him/her the right to speak, already possessed. A relation is between TWO people, there must be TWO voices to be shared, no?
Discuss with your lover, share with him/her. It is a mutual feeling, a mutual relation. You cannot just drive it all alone.
10. ♥ LOVE ♥
Apart from all the points, this is THE MOST important one. JUST LOVE YOUR PARTNER.
That’s enough. Affection, trust, companionship, sincerity, honesty, care, communication, all are automatically covered if you LOVE your lover. It is the most fundamental part of any love relation.
Show your love, say that ‘I Love You’. Do not miss any single second by not loving him/her. You never know how much time is left for you people to spend together. Make each second count, and create some loveable memories to cherish upon =)
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