10 Funny Indicators that You Should Probably Get A Divorce / Divorced

Sad but true life experiences:


10. He constantly told you when you first got married, you had a heavenly body.. but now he sneers and says you look like more a cherub.


9. The only sparks left between you are each other's attempts to set each other on fire.


~He actually said, "I didn't realize your hairspray was flammable."



8. For your birthday, he gives you a handwritten card scribbled on the back of a flyer from the Wet T-Shirt Contest he recently attended.


7. Every time you are certain you have found Mr. Right, your husband scares him away.



6. He tells his friends, "I Got This Car for My Wife.. What a Trade!"


~ That was my ex's favorite thing in the world to say.



5. Your husband tries to buy you a cemetary plot for Christmas.


4. Your wife comes to bed with a T-Shirt that says "Sleeping With the Enemy".


3. He calls taking you to the airport for a week's long work seminar as a pleasure trip.


2. He tells you that you are a great housekeeper.. then he explains that if he leaves you, you would do a great job of keeping his house.


1. He either forgets your anniversary... or he buys a card for you that he doesn't even read that says "I am so glad to be your wife"... or, if he DOES try to shop for a card for you, he walks into Hallmark and asks the clerk, "Where is the Fat, Controlling, Bitch Section."


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wonderful1 profile image

wonderful1 5 years ago from Southern California

Oh, no! That was too funny-- I hope you were being sarcastic? Thanks for sharing.


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tammyswallow 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

Hi Wonderful.. Thank you. I wish I could say it was just sarcasm.. but I guess it is all how you look at it. I appreciate you stopping by!


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Sunshine625 5 years ago from Orlando, FL

Well I can understand why someone is an ex!! Kicked to the curb!! Way to go Tammy:)


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tammyswallow 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks Sunshine.. I wish I could tell the world that if you are not happy.. move on with life. It is too short to be treated poorly. Always good to see you.


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Sunshine625 5 years ago from Orlando, FL

Some people are just to afraid of change and they settle. Sad. Hey if you're on Facebook look up a group Hub Hoppers, you'll like it! Hope to see you there.


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Sunshine625 5 years ago from Orlando, FL

Found you!:)


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RealHousewife 5 years ago from St. Louis, MO

Hilarious! Sunshine told me to look you up - so glad she did! Ilove the writers with a great sense of humor! Welcome to HP! You will have a great time writing here!


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tammyswallow 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thank you RealHousewife. I have had the best time here and met some wonderful people. I appreciate the welcome very much. I love writing funny hubs.. I have a warped sense of humor. I look forward to reading your material as well. Thank you!


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Austinstar 5 years ago from Somewhere in the universe

I think you should expand this hub to 100 indicators. Here's another one - When you have heard the same old tired stories so often you can lip sync with him.


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tammyswallow 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks Austinstar.. If I did 100, I would be so MAD by the time I got to then end..lol.. I like that suggestion. I should have made a sock puppet to mock him. You crack me up. Thank you for reading and leaving your thoughts!


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Just Ask Susan 5 years ago from Ontario, Canada

Your 25 year anniversary comes along and he says to you If I'd murdered you when we first met, I'd be out by now.


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tammyswallow 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

Susan,

That is scary. Sometimes people let their true thoughts and intentions slip out.. Yikes. Wouldn't that be a great anniversary card..lol! Thank you for your comment!


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Austinstar 5 years ago from Somewhere in the universe

Susan! Yikes!

Or how about when he pours hot grease straight down the drain for the one millionth time when you've told him over and over not to do that! The next time he does it maybe the wife should pour hot grease over him!


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tammyswallow 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

Yes Austin.. then he complains when you need to call the plumber... Men! Thanks for reading!


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JamaGenee 5 years ago from Central Oklahoma

Just Ask Susan stole my line! Only in my case it refers to what I said several times about the ex who was a total butt about custody and was that way for many more years than I would've spent behind bars for offing him if I'd known what a butt he was going to be about custody. (And hindsight shows our daughters' lives would've been MUCH better had he been totally OUT of the picture...)


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JamaGenee 5 years ago from Central Oklahoma

In a more humorous vein, how 'bout his idea of a "romantic" evening on Valentine's is bringing home a bag of burgers and 3 horror movie DVDs when he knows horror movies DON'T turn you on.


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tammyswallow 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

Hi Jama, it is terrible when men play these sort of games regarding custody just to assert power over you.. Luckily.. my ex didn't want the kids.. That is a funny analogy.. horror movies for Valentine's Day.. Does your ex know my ex? Thanks for the chuckle!


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Ramsa1 4 years ago from A citizen of the World

A great and funny hub. Sometimes it's best to move on, but it's not always easy. BTW, I've been married for 42 years. To the same woman.


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Hello Ramsa.. You MUST be doing something right.. you need to write a hub- "Survial Stratagies in my 42 years of marriage.." That would be cute! It is rare to last that long nowadays.. Good for you and your wife! I am always glad to see you!


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Austinstar 4 years ago from Somewhere in the universe

BTW, how do you get rid of a husband that refuses to leave?


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Hmm Austin.. not sure I can write that response here.. :) You can try to introduce him to your boyfriend, insult his mother.. What is his astrological sign?


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Austinstar 4 years ago from Somewhere in the universe

A freakin stubborn Taurus. We've been married nearly 21 years now, but the last 10 have been a waste of time. I asked for a divorce then, but he just won't hear of it. I plan to just disappear some day after my dogs are all gone. He can have the cats.


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

A Taurus hmmm.. Hard to get rid of. They settle in and don't budge. The best way to get rid of one.. stop cooking! No more goodies, home cooked meals.. leave the fridge and the cupboard bare. Don't keep alcohol in the house and make him find his own. Wow.. you are in a tough spot? May I ask what your sign is?


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Ramsa1 4 years ago from A citizen of the World

Hi Tammy, thanks for the suggestion (about the hub I should write). I've added it to my list of hubs to write. :-)


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Ramsa,

I think that is wonderful. You are certainly doing something right!!


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Austinstar 4 years ago from Somewhere in the universe

I'm a Libra. And of course, Bob and I have our good days and our bad days. He's loyal to a fault and I know he has my back, but as you say, he's also a freeloader and something of a parasite.

I think your suggestions would work actually. Since I'm now out of a job, this is a great suggestion. Maybe he'll step up.

The weirdest thing he does that I hate is he takes credit for everything I do. I started an online business and he listed himself as CEO! He doesn't even lift a finger to help with the business. It's maddening.

Thanks for the great advice!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

That is to bad because there is no one easier to get along than a Libra. Sounds like he is too comfortable. I hope you can make the situation better and create some happiness for yourself. You deserve it.. You may just need to shake the sugar tree. :)


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Ardie 4 years ago from Neverland

Bwahahah! I hope your ex never really said or did this stuff to you...wait, not possible. But still hilarious in a way only a divorcee might understand :) Excellent hub


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks for stopping by Ardie.. He did. He was not a nice person.. Sounds much like your ex.. But it is cool.. I will have the last laugh through the written word. Living well is always the best revenge.. Muuuhaaaa...


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Ardie 4 years ago from Neverland

I agree, my Mom always says the best revenge is being happy - same thing in my book! So lets give them heck :)


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

:) Sounds like a great plan Ardie!!


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kenneth avery 4 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

12/17/2011, sunny afternoon

Hi, Tammy,

I was just cruising around Hubs and thought of your works. I am so glad that I READ THIS ONE. Great tips. Great advice. I guess you are curious as to why THIS hub? Well, honestly, "some" of your indications are prevalent to me. And that is the truth. I never expected life to be fair. At all. I supposed it was God who impressed me to read this hub, that I found both a comedy, very funny too, and some underlying truth in the tips. You are a wise girl, Tammy. I am GLAD, I tell you, that I met you on hubs. And that hub of mine about My Songs that Make You Feel Worse When You Are Already Blue....that is being worked on. Now I have domestic peace to build. Just wanted to visit with you a moment. Like going out of town, or out of prison, LOL, without buying an American Airlines ticket. Hooray for our friends who started HubPages. Amen????


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kenneth avery 4 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

PS: Dear Tammy . . .I forgot to tell you I voted UP and All the way on this hub. Great work. If I die tonight, I will meet God but with an honest confession about someone else's work being on my eternal record.

Later . . .


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Kenneth,

You are a hoot. I always love it when you stop by. I appreciate it my friend. I doubt you are anything less than honest.. I love it that we can inspire eachother. Your onryness will keep you kicking forever.. We won't worry about that part for a long, long, time. You are so sweet. Thanks for reading and voting!


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kenneth avery 4 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

Dear Tammy, my dear ally, thank you for your sweet remarks. And I have begun the music hub you inspired me to do. I may get to work on it Sunday afternoon. I got my artwork and outline...and now, I am spent. But I am giving YOU credit at the top of it because it is true. You are an amazing person. Hubber. Friend and Follower. Oh yes, very sweet too.


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

I am just glad you are inspired and feeling better Kenneth my friend!


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kenneth avery 4 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

Dear Tammy...I WAS feeling better. That was then. I have most of the body of MY song hub finished, but now comes the aligning of my artwork and descriptions of the songs and how they make me feel worse. LOL. Today is Dec. 19 and I am at 'snail speed'--catching up on comments that I DO NEED to read to get valuable info and to NOT be rude to my followers for them taking time, LIKE YOU, out of their day to leave me a comment. I WILL get the song hub done soon and since you inspired it, I want It to be a Masterpiece. Have a great day, Tammy./////Kenneth


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Good luck with your masterpiece. I am eagerly awaiting it! :)


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kenneth avery 4 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

12/20....Dear Tammy...I've finished, yes, finished yesterday, the rest of the lead-in paragraphs where I talk about you and your hub. Its only fair. I may get it published Thursday for Im going out of town this afternoon to a Christmas family thing...I dread it. A long ride = a painful, stiff body when I get there. I think you will like MY music hub. I hope.


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

I have no doubts it will be wonderful. You never disappoint!


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kenneth avery 4 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

1:16 p.m.,cst, Dec. 20

Dear Tammy, about 1 hour ago, I sent you an email telling YOU that MY Music Hub IS UP and RUNNING. I hope you enjoy this and it was all because of your hub that inspired me. Thanks, Tammy. God bless you.


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justateacher 4 years ago from Somewhere Over The Rainbow - Near Oz...

Austin - I see you found MY ex! I couldn't get him to leave so I did! Now he lives with his daddy so that he still doesn't have to do anything!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Just a teacher, is your husband a Taurus too?? LOL.. Good for you for not accepting less than you deserve justateacher!


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justateacher 4 years ago from Somewhere Over The Rainbow - Near Oz...

Ya know, Tammy, I can't remember what he was! (Well - except for a word not fit to print!)


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kenneth avery 4 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

Dear Tammy: Did you ever read My Music hub? I am worried sick that I may have upset you! Please read it..."13 Songs That Make YOu Feel Worse..." Thanks, Kenneth


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Hey Kenneth,

I am sorry I have been really busy this week. I read and commented on your hub. Outstanding! It drove me to drink..lol! Merry Christmas to you and congratulations on another great masterpiece!


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teenboyproblems 4 years ago from Nebraska

Thanks for the laughs!


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kenneth avery 4 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

12/25 . . .Dear Tammy, I know. And Im sorry for being a chornic worrier. LOL, drove you to drinking . . .great line. Some of MY songs on that hub, drove me SOBER. And thank you for your SWEET compliment. You are a gem. A diamond worthy of being at Cartier Jewelers, New York.


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks for stopping by Teenboyproblems!

Hi Kenneth, no worries. You are a beautiful gem yourself!


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kenneth avery 4 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

Dec. 27

10:16 p.m.--cst

Dear Tammy, Hi. And thank you so much. Wow! What a sweet thing to say!!!!! I wish I had an equally-nice comeback...how about, "it should be a sin for someone to be as nice as you, Tammy!"---huh? Will that work? Talk to you later. Peace.///////////Kenneth


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Jean Bakula 4 years ago from New Jersey

Hi Tammy,

These are so funny (and sadly, some are true)! When we made it to our 25th anniversary, many of our friends did too, since your friends are often of similar ages. All of them got divorced! It was incredible. The attitude was like, "I already wasted 25 yrs. on you, I'm out of here"! We are still together, but I married a Taurus. And it's New Year's Day and the Twilight Zone Marathon is on, just like every year. I know them by heart. That's why I keep coming to the computer to get away in small doses, lol. Happy New Year!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Hello Jean,

It is an epidemic with these Taurus men! They are the most stubborn, set in their ways, opinionated.. The recurring theme with them is that things seem to get very stagnant yet they resist "change" and new things. I would never say leave, but; don't let your life pass you by. Just because he choses to sit and watch life go by, it doesn't mean you have to. You are too smart and pretty to let life pass you by. I hope you have a wonderful New Year and LIVE it fully!


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Stephanie Henkel 4 years ago from USA

Very funny, Tammy! I definitely give it an UP and funny vote and a Tweet!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks so much Ms. Stephanie. Thank you for visiting and sharing!


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American View 4 years ago from Plano, Texas

Well after reading this, no wonder I cannot get a date.

Funny hub Tammy from the ladies point of view. I do have to say one thing, in dealing with my ex, it is amazing how she has such a different view of our marriage. Do you ladies experience the same thing with your exes? Do you all when talking or arguing with them, have different views of how things were?


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Daisy Mariposa 4 years ago from Orange County (Southern California)

What a great Hub, Tammy! I'm sure there are many more reason than 10...like calling you by his ex-girlfriend's name, for instance.


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Curiad 4 years ago from Lake Charles, LA.

This is great Tammy,thanks for the humor this morning!


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mpoche4 4 years ago from Baton Rouge, LA

hahaha those are great things to laugh at after the fact I am sure but probably not so funny while they are going on. I will keep my eye out for these warning signs ;)


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

I think this is why they say men are from Mars and Women are from Venus American View. My ex and I didn't agree with anything. There were of course two versions of everything... his version.. and the truth. :)


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

That is a big no no Daisy! That is definatley grounds for a divorce. Thanks for your visit!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks for reading Curiad!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks for reading mpoche4. I hope you don't ever see these signs. :)


iamaudraleigh 4 years ago

Been through a divorce...I think you are going in the right direction with the sarcasm. Expand on it by quoting famous divorcees and adding some pics maybe?? Otherwise, two votes up if I could :)


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Alecia Murphy 4 years ago from Wilmington, North Carolina

I would add if you have nothing in common besides being human. That's a dealbreaker :0! For one reason or another I keep thinking about that Tammy Wynette song "D-I-V-O-R-C-E!" Awesome hub!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks Iamaudraleigh! These are great suggestions!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

That is a good slogan Alecia! I will look up the Divorce song. Thanks for your help!


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DexisView 4 years ago from New England

Great, humorous take on divorce. I would definitely say, "Yup! Probably", after reading this. Sounds like he thought he was the funny one....he should read this...LOL!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

He really did DexisView. He would chuckle about his insults all day long. Thanks so much for your visit!


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Madurai 4 years ago from Online

More than your tips, comment is very funny and deep discussion. Thanks for sharing the indication for divorce.


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks Madurai. I appreciate your visit.


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alocsin 4 years ago from Orange County, CA

Lol, I should think the first one or two would be indicators enough .Voting this Up and Funny.


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billybuc 4 years ago from Olympia, WA

What a great way to start my day, reading a hub by one of my favorite hubbers...and it was hilarious as an added bonus. Great job and thanks for the laugh!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

You would think so alocsin! Thanks for your visit. :)


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks for your kind comment and visit billybuc! I appreciate that!


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AudreyHowitt 4 years ago from California

Ouchhhhhh! I think I would get a divorce too!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks Audrey! I appreciate your visit!


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ananceleste 4 years ago from California

After being in bed sick for most of the day, This hub has made me laugh so hard to the point of tears. Both my husband and I are sharing this hub!


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DeborahNeyens 4 years ago from Iowa

Hilarious, Tammy! Your ex my have been a jerk, but at least you got some good material out of the deal. : )


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

I am glad it made you laugh ananceleste! I hope you feel better soon.


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks Deborah! I got some good material and three great kids, so.. this is why I haven't completley destroyed him in print. :) Thanks for reading!


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barbergirl28 4 years ago from Hemet, Ca

I guess my marriage is good... none of these situations fit with me. However, I would love a t-shirt that says sleeping with the enemy! That would just be fun! Great hub - made me laugh!


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Keeley Shea 4 years ago from Norwich, CT

Hysterical! I love this hub! I am divorced and many of these rang very true....sad but true! Thanks for the laugh!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks for sharing this barbergirl28. Sounds like you have a keeper. That t-shirt would be great for some chuckles. Thanks for your visit.


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

These smug men need to be stopped Keeley! But, the loss is theirs. :) I appreciate you stopping by to read and comment.


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dwachira 4 years ago from Nairobi, Kenya

I don't know now but this is awesome! i liked your #4 and 5 but number one is a rib cracker. voted up, interesting and shared.


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks so much Dwachira! :)


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kenneth avery 4 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

July 23 . . .Dear Tammy,

had to re-read this marvelous hub. You, my friend, are a super-taleted writer.

I miss you too.

Kenneth

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