50 Ways to Meet people and Make New Friends

Skills needed for making and keeping friends

Show others that you are a good listener by restating their comments in another manner.

Let the natural you come out when talking to others. Be able to tell others what you do in a few short sentences.

Reintroduce yourself to someone who has forgotten your name. Be able to tell others something interesting or challenging about what you do. Be aware of open and closed body language.

Use eyecontact and smiling as your first contact with people. Greet people you see regularly. Seek common interests, goals, and experiences in the people you meet. Make an effort to help people if you can.

Mobile phones make it easier to connect with people from all over the world. It is a good idea to look for local groups in your area to meet and greet those who have similar interests as you do.

How to make friends and Meet new people

Ways to meet new people Be connective with others, when you are in a new environment use it as an opportunity to meet new people and make friends. Some simple tips on how to start conversations and communicate with confidence.

  1. Be the first to say hello.
  2. Introduce yourself to others.
  3. Take risks. Don't anticipate rejection.
  4. Display your sense of humor.
  5. Be receptive to new ideas.
  6. make an extra effort to remember people's names.
  7. Ask a person's name if you have forgotten it.
  8. Show curiosity and interest in others.
  9. Tell other people about the important events in your life.
  10. Tell others about yourself, and what your likes are.

Looking for Online Sources for Meeting New People.

  • http://www.meetup.com/ Here you can start your own group and talk about mutual interests, a internet platform that leads to offline contacts. Meetup is the world's largest network of self-organized clubs and community groups.

Meetup helps people:

  • Find others in their area who share their interests
  • Learn, teach, and share things
  • Make friends and have fun
  • Rise up, stand up, unite, and make a difference
  • Be a part of something bigger-both locally and globally

Places to meet new people and network with like minded individuals, is how you can lead a more successful life.

A great article on how to make friends and meet people can be found at WikiHow http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Friends

How to get others to open up to you

Let others play the expert. Be open to answering common ritual questions. Get enthusiastic about other people's interests.

Balance the giving and receiving of information. Be able to speak about a variety of topics and subjects.

Keep abreast of current events and the issues that affect all of our lives. Be open to other people's opinions and feelings.

Express your feelings, opinions and emotions to others. Use I and speak of your feelings when you talk about personal things.

Don't use the word you when you mean I.

Show others that you are enjoying your conversations with them. Invite people to join you for dinner, social events, or other activities for companionship.


Friends Having Fun
Friends Having Fun

How to get others to do what you want

Keep in touch with friends and acquaintances.

Ask other people their opinions. Look for the positive in those you meet. Start and end your conversations with a person's name and handshake or warm greeting.

Take time to be cordial with your neighbors and co-workers. Let others know that you want to get to know them better.

Ask others about things they have told you in previous conversations.

Listen carefully for free information. Be tolerant of other people's beliefs if they differ from yours. Change the topic of conversation when it has run its course.

Always search for another person's passion of interest. Compliment others about what they are wearing, doing or saying. Encourage others to talk with you by sending out receptivity signals.

Make an effort to see and talk to people you enjoy and have fun with. When you tell a story, present the main point first, and then add the supporting details afterward.

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