5 Ways To Know For Sure He Likes You

You like him. You like him a lot - so much, in fact, that you'd love it if your relationship moved to a new, more intimate level.

But - and this is a big one, you don't know for sure if he feels the same way. And boy, will you feel like an idiot if you suggest the two of you start dating exclusively, only to find out he thinks of you as "just a friend."

Oy.

So how do you know, without risking terminal embarrassment by asking, whether or not he likes you as much as you like him? Here are five ways to know for sure:

He initiates communication. Whether it's via the phone, e-mail, texting, or Instant Message, if he contacts you as much or more than you get in touch with him, I've got good news for you. He likes you! Guys, in general, are not super-communicators. My husband Alex, for instance, would rather clean the bathroom with his tongue than talk on the telephone - unless he really likes the person he's talking to. I should have known that he was interested in being more than "just friends" before we started dating; ninety percent of the time, he would call me.

He just "happens" to show up where you are. There's a huge difference between a guy who manages to "coincidentally" show up at a party or other event you've been invited to and a stalker. But if he almost always just "happens" to be nearby when you get out of class, or he's a co-worker you just "happen" to keep running into in the hall or the cafeteria - don't believe his protests of innocence - he is more than a little interested in you!

You catch him looking at you - a lot. If you're out on a date with someone, and you catch him looking at you or watching you when he thinks you won't notice, he is hooked. Guys who watch their date more than they watch the movie - especially if it's not a chick flick - are deeply in like, if not in love. His expression is important, too. Up until the day he died, my father-in-law looked at my mother-in-law as if he still couldn't quite believe she'd chosen him - and they were together for over fifty years.

He makes reasons to touch you. And I don't mean sexually. I mean casually-but-often. He puts his hand on your back to help guide you into the movie theater. He brushes a strand of hair out of your face. His foot "just happens" to touch yours under the table at a restaurant. He tells you that you have dirt on your nose when you know you don't. He rests his hand on your shoulder for no reason at all. Oh, boy. Does he ever like you!

His friends know all about you. If a guy introduces you to his friends, and they know all about you, what does this tell you? Especially if the friends are being friendly and polite? Well, it'd tell me that he's been talking about you to them - a lot. It's a Guy Rule: men don't usually talk about specific women with their friends unless a) they've been recently, badly dumped or b) they're very, very interested. Since you obviously haven't dumped him - he must like you!

Men, even when they like someone, are often reluctant to make the first move and say so. So, if you like him, and you found yourself saying "Yeah, he does that" to at least four of the above signs, I say: go for it! Ask him out. Tell him you're very interested. If he's doing everything I listed above, he is a real sweetie. Grab him!

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kaci 9 years ago

omg omg omg there is tis relly hot guy that goes to my school were both popular but im not as popular as him. we have every class togather and we sit right next to each other in everyone to. i dident think that he liked me because we never really talk. i think hes really cute and i really like him but i cant tell him. i always thought that he liked my best friend ashley. every time that i look over at him he is staring at me and he smiles really big i just thought he was saying hi or something. now that i think about it its obvious HE LIKES ME i am going to call him and talk to him. ill tell what happens later peace!!!!!!!!!


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Rhomylly 9 years ago Author

I can't wait to hear what happens!!!!


Molly 9 years ago

I have been BEST friends with this guy for 11 years ever since 2nd grade. I know he likes me but he's not asking me out. Do you have any suggestions on making him feel less scared of asking me out?


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Rhomylly 9 years ago Author

Ask *him* out. Seriously. Think of something the two of you might both enjoy, and ask him to go with you.

Make sure he knows it's a date -- not just friends.


lana  9 years ago

well most of them apart from the fact that he dotn call at all but then again he has no credit and is only 14 as i am but he dose always tell me to phone him and i do always meet him bu its more me going to see him than the other may around but he never goes anywhere anyway what should i do ???


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Rhomylly 9 years ago Author

If he asks you to phone him, and talks to you when you do, then I think he likes you!


krys 9 years ago

hi.. i was hopping you could help me with my problem. i like this guy but he's a lot older than me.. i don't consider it that that old.. but others do. i see him twice a week because we work part time together. he always says hi to me and how are you as soon as i get there and recently came really close to me and initiated conversation in front of all the kids and everything (we are learn-to-skate coaches). i really want to ask him out, or to hang out, but if he says no.. or he doesn't feel that way i still have to see him a lot... and it would be awkward.

help?! any advice would do. THANKS


Sydni 9 years ago

Hey, I'm BEST friends w/ this guy i know-and he calls me ALL the time-like everyday and he always will go sumwhere if i invite him or if i say im going sumwhere he'l be like hmm-i should go-and ive never thought of him as more than a friend-b/c he really is my BEST friend-my parents love him and everything-i JUST recently started thinking of him as more and even after saying yes to all of the above im still not sure if he likes me as more than a friends b/c that's just how its ALWAYS been between us-we r both 16-please give me a lil advice on this-im confused and i don't want to make our great friendship akward by telling him i like him and him not feeling the same way


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Rhomylly 9 years ago Author

kris -- what a cool job! Yeah, it would be awkward if he says no and you still have to work together...maybe that's why he hasn't asked *you* out! I'd stay friends, and try to be as good a friend to him as possible. Both of you aren't going to be working together forever, and it's a short step from "good working friend" to "someone to ask out".

Sydni -- being in love with your best friend is the absolute best thing -- especially if he likes you back, and it sounds to me like he does! Invite him to do something -- just the two of you, and see what happens. If nothing, then you're still best friends and he doesn't have to know. Or he may ask *you* to go somewhere, just the two of you. You never know!


Meredith 9 years ago

My friend does three out of these things and he doesn't seem to like me. he seems to be interested in this girl sara, and hes been on and off with his ex, natalie. but natalie keeps dumping him for someone else. and sara shows no interest. and i change who i like every two weeks or so. but all his friends keep telling me he likes me.

so does he or is he just a flirt??!?! its driving me insane!


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Rhomylly 9 years ago Author

Ask him to go to a movie with you. See what he says.


jamie 9 years ago

What are some more signs within a " friendship" cause i know that changes things a lil bit


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Rhomylly 9 years ago Author

If you catch him looking at you when he thinks you won't notice -- especially if he has a wistful look on his face.

If he gives you a CD full of love songs he's copied and says, "I thought you might like these."

If he never likes the guys you date.

These are all sure signs.


mimi 9 years ago

I like this guy at my camp and he's done every thing in the book . Even cose me over his best firend in a game. He does look at me a lot in a crowed and his friends are joking around him every time I walk by. There nicer to me to. The only thing I'm afraid of is Im not sure if he rely likes me and I'll feel so imbarresed if I asked and he told all his friends he sid no.HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!SOS


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Rhomylly 9 years ago Author

So don't ask him if he likes you. Ask him out. If you have fun on the date, ask him for another one...


Alexis 9 years ago

I really like this guy. He is smart, funny, makes me laugh, and i enjoy spending time with him. We flirt, talk, and mess around. He jokes around and tease each other. I look forward to hanging with him and seeing him in class. The classes that we have together, we seat near each other and talk and all that stuff. I send him signs by flirting and all that, but i don't think he is getting the message or if he is, he may be ingoring it. I asked his best friend to ask him about me so i can know if he likes me or not. The first time that his best friend tried and asked with his mouth, he just ingored him. The second time that he asked he wrote it down, and the guy just threw the paper away. I want to know if he like me or not. I am running out of ideas and i don't want to waste my time on him if he doesn't like me. I don't want tomake him like me, I just want to know if he does or not..


penny 9 years ago

I have a friend who i have liked for some time. He does all the things listed above. However, about a year ago we were e-mailing back and forth which resulted in him saying that he only thought of me as a friend. I ended up dating one of his friends. We have since broken up (nothing dramatic or anything...it was mutual and we are still friends). My ex is on a traveling missionary team, and i never see him. The other guy and I have grown in our friendship and although i thought i was over him, i am beginning to have feelings for him again, i think. Is it an excellent friendship? or is it more? and how can i be sure he feels the same way, without confronting him about it again?


Kasi 9 years ago

I have a friend who is in love with her boyfriend, but he recently told me he is gay. Should I tell my friend, or should I keep my mouth shut?


BJ 9 years ago

Ok there's this popular guy in all my classes I like him a lot! IDK if he likes me and I'm like not pop at all! every time I look over I find him looking at me but then he looks away, and talks to me randomly! HELP


BJ 9 years ago

Ok there's this popular guy in all my classes I like him a lot! IDK if he likes me and I'm like not pop at all! every time I look over I find him looking at me but then he looks away, and talks to me randomly! HELP


Lynn 9 years ago

I am currently dating a guy that has children, I also have a child we have been dating for some time now and we have not met each others children yet, when we do meet them do we introduce the kids to each other as well or is that something that should wait???


vali 9 years ago

there is this boy at school that I really like,and I think he also likes me too .He is constantly traying to give me hugs etc.i would love to get to know him better and go out with him, but it seems that every time I get close to him I have nothing to talk about with him and I don't want him to think I am the stupid kind of girl ; please help!what should I do about it


darleni 9 years ago

i like thiz boy and we have a lot in common but i don't think he knows that and i think hes really cute and when i went on hiz myspace and i read his blog and then i was surprised cuz we have a lot in common, wat should i do to find out if he likes me back??? 


morgy--nickname 9 years ago

hi there is this guy in my class and he so nice to me im the only girl he talk to and we flirt and talk on the enternet together i want to ask him out but how? (EVERYONE say he likes ME.


lala 8 years ago

this guy is nice and so funny we text all the time i told him i liked him in september then i just stopped talking about how i liked him but before that he put his arm around me now its december his friend told him i like him but i don't act like i do and he stares at me at lunch when i am not looking and in one class he looks also but we don't talk as much as we used to don't get me wrong we text but does he like me and if not what do i do to get him to


lennotts 8 years ago

..im confused with my classmate. i don't know if he likes me or he is just too friendly. i remember first week of classess he approach me and ask my name and offer a handshake but i wasn't that too friendly so i answered him sarcasticly.. and later i kinda noticed him talking to persons whom i used to talk to or whom i seat beside to,he always seat at the opposite side where i am seated to and sometimes few seats at my back, i sometimes catch him looking at me. and one time he seats besides me touching my knees unmaliciously.. and days ago when i was sharing a joke on my classmate he actually said that i really makes his day cause i always wears a smile and share a laugh everyday.. i really don't know if he likes me or am i just so paranoid about his friendly gestures.. i think he knows that im already a single mom and im a year older than him, its just recently when me and my boyfriend broke up and is it right if i started to like someone again or starting a relationship again? please help me.. what do you think about it?


One Guy 8 years ago

Oh, dude...

She knows...

Yeah, what she wrote is exactly what I (or we) do...


meghan 8 years ago

OK so here we go. i really really like this boy. and he knows that i like him. i catch him staring at me all the time.he is kinda reserved and gets red when some people he doesn't know talk to him. his friends know i like him and so do all of my friends. i have been wanting to talk to him for a while. and since i see him all day everyday i don't know how to start it. i have practiced saying what i plan to say BUT every-time i want to do it i get to scared and chicken out. i have absolutely no idea why i chicken out., and today i had two very good opportunities to talk to him and guess what i did? i froze and had no idea what to do. now am kicking myself in the ass and regretting not talking to him! ahhh what do i do about this? i want to be boyfriend and girlfriend by Christmas which is not that far away so i have to get the ball rolling. i might be going to one of him home basketball games. when i go do you think that i might be stalking him or just another sign of me being interested? ahh please help.


yogo 8 years ago

hi there is this guy in my class and he so nice to me im the only girl he talk to and we flirt and talk on the enternet together i want to ask him out but how? (EVERYONE say he likes ME.


clarissa 8 years ago

ok so there is this guy at school and my friends tell me that hes always lookin at me constantly....does he like me?????lol and is it possible for a guy to get attached when your friends with benefits too?????


bry 8 years ago

i think tht this is an awesome page. in fact this will sertainly help w/ the problem tht i am gonna solve 2day. i really like this boy. he is 14 and i am 12. i think he will understand when i tell him the REAL truth. he knows i like him, just not the way i really like him. thankx!!!!!!!!!!


sad heart 8 years ago

I had a crush on this boy since I was in the sixth grade,but I`m in the seventh grade.He`s in the same homeroom as me,but everytime I always see him he thinks that I`m mean.And I`m not a popular or the hotter.He`s ex-/I don`t know if they had brokend up back stabbing" friend".(Tears coming out of my eyes) I still do like him even though I have a boyfriend. Last year I had heard that he had liked me too.I am not sure if that was a joke or not.And I am going to try it out.

Please help me


kinishua 8 years ago

What does it mean when a boy licks his lips at you


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Rhomylly 8 years ago Author

He's probably wondering how you taste.


Kyleigh 8 years ago

i like this one Boy but i am scared to ask him out because he is already going out bu ti know he likes me because he always stares at me in class


Confused 8 years ago

Ok ,so theres this boy in my class who's always talking to me,trying to hold my hand nd always putting his arm around me and just iono ...but the thing that i dot get is that if he likes me,cuz here's the thing he does a lot wit me but around my friend he ses sum of the same stuff just not a lot,he waz tlkin to her nd i guess he sits in front of her so he put his hed on her desk and said "lets make out" but im not in that class but my friend had told me then he was walking wit her and he tried to hold her hand an he tries that wit me 24/7 but what confuses me is that who does he like.My friend told me that he is always tlking about me in that class (good or bad),but he doesn't talk bout her in our class and he gets this blank stare to where he stares at both of us for hecka long does he like me ??

CONFUSED


Super Confused  8 years ago

Hey there's this guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. Were in eigth grade, just so you know. I also think he likes my friend. To me though he keeps sending mixed signals for example;

-sometimes he acts like I'm the only person in the room -other times he acts like I'm not even there

-sometimes he wants to be partners for a project -other times he acts like he trys to avoid me

-I have caught him staring at me -but other times i saw him stare at my friend

-We're in this group for S.S. {social studies -that retarded class} and for some reason he acts me for help, when he could have asked anyone else in the group

-He has complemented me before, but that was months ago and he hasn't since

-He also teases me {sometimes it feels like it's not playful}

-At times he makes me feel like I'm one of the guys -other times he treats me like an outcast

-When we do talk in the whole when we walk from a class we do walk a little close, but I'm not sure it's in the 'bubble' if you know what I mean, but still kinda close

-whenever we talk I see him staring at the ground or fiddling with some object, normally never looking at my face

-he does brag a lot around me and brings up a lot of funny stuff

-one time we were in this clas and his friend was sitting right behind us and his friend kept saying,"Poke her." and more stuff about this her, i'm still not sure who 'her' is.

-And finally the scariest part of all, I met someone online with the same name as him, {I know his name because that's what his email adress is and i'm not a stalker!} but he acts differently and claims he is years older than me. We can talk to each other really easily and we can tell each other a lot {just not anyone else's secret}, do you think it's him?


jessica05 8 years ago

Ok, well to start there's this guy i never really thought anything about him because i had a boyfriend, and to top it off he was my manager. im 21 and his 29. well once i started working with him more and more i noticed he would keep suggesting for me to leave my boyfriend that he wasn't good enough for me ( he wasnt and we did end up breaking up after 1yr and 6 months) well a little before we broke up my manager would goof of when we were working and we decided to go watch a movie together one night...well its been going on ever since for like a couple months now but its getting more and more intense..like if im scheduled to work, and his not he comes in. he calls, tx, emails me. his really sweet but he wont make the move and it drives me nuts..but he is super friendly so i wonder if his just wanting to be friends or if he is just scared because im his employee..we both talk about relationships, all the time, what i want what he wants..and than i also don't want him to be playing mind games with me..im just completely lost. i told him the other day if he had something to say that he should and he was like well you'll have to figure it out, so i told him well if you don't tell me ill never know and im not going to beg, so he just said fine you'll never know..what the heck!! he was engaged 2 yrs ago but they cut things off after 4 yrs so he was really really hurt but that doesn't mean he has to be chicken..how much more obvious do i have to be im not going to kiss his ass..HELP PLEASE ASAP


Confused 8 years ago

so, I've been dating a guy for a year n a half, and a few months ago, he gave me his friend's email address, so i added him to msn, and we started talking alott, and i started to have feeling for him, and he's told me b4 that he would date me if I was single, and he compliments me all the time, over msn and in person, we've hung out just the 2 of us a few times, and it hasnt been awkward, I'm just so comfortable around him, I'm going to be 20 in a month and a bit and he'll be 21 in about 2 months, we have a lot in common, but i don't know if he likes me as more than a friend, or if its strictly plutonic friendship... he tells me things that make me think he likes me, and then other times he seems like he doesn't...I'm not sure if its just because I'm dating his friend or if he just doesn't think of me as anything but a friend.....one night we were with our group of friends and he held out his arms to hugg me, so i did, and that was fine, i thought it was kinda odd that he'd randomly do that. but then a little bit later he did the same thing again...and throughout the night he continued to do it every now n then...one of the hugs tho, he didn't want to let me go, we hugged for quite a while...maybe I'm just thinking too much into the whole thing but I really wish i knew what to do, he would make such an awesome boyfriend, and I'd love to try with him, but i really care about my boyfriend and i don't want to hurt him. but I need to know if this guy has feelings for me...if I ask him I think the friendship would be screwed up and we'd be awkward around each other or he may not talk to me as much because he doesn't want to mess with my current relationship....i just wish i knew what to do....plzz throw some advice my way


daddeedaddeedooda 8 years ago

well, i like this boy and he always looks up when i pass him, and my friend obviously likes him too, did i mention my bff since preschool? he always puts his arms on our shoulders when he sees a group of us talking, and he tied our shoelaces together! does he like me?


Cathy 8 years ago

Hey i like this guy. hes 20 and im 16 hes also my best friends brother and i don't even know how or why i started to like him i just do and im really close with their family so it would just be way too embarrasing to tell him how i feel. i used to think he likes me because i would always find him looking at me but everytime i get near him he kinda moves away..i guess that's a clue but i don't want to get over him i want a relationship with him. any advice Rhomylly?


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lapak2000 8 years ago from Cebu, Philippines

You are right because I did it all the things that you wrote here.


Worried 8 years ago

I've been crushing on this boy for over a year. I've had dreams about him, and all my friends say he likes me back.. even my mother. Two days ago, i pulled up enough guts to ask him out. He looked at me and smiled and just shrugged. I asked what that meant and I THINK he said "I guess." I think i should wait and get a definite yes or no to tell my friends. Do you? and, theres rumors going around he's gay. But I know there not true.


hot ass chick 8 years ago

this boy tyler evans asked me out but i said no because i was frustrated and now i really like him but i think he will say no to me because he went out on a date with one of my friends.what should i do?

kaytlin


Cathy 8 years ago

can someone please tell me what they would do about my situation im usually a very flirtatious person but not infront of him i just cant.. my post is the fifth one above this one.


Someone 8 years ago

My friend asked this boy out for me and he said i really don't know her and i cant really go out with her if i don't know her.I don't know if this means he wants to get to know me then he will go out with me or its just a nice way of saing no.


Cassandra 8 years ago

I like this boy at school and he is really hot. He always picks the seat next to mine so i think he likes me. He texts and calls me more than talk to me. Does that mean he likes me? i really want to know. We have sorta been on an unsuccessful date and he asked me out again this time. He's kissed me on the cheek and helped me pick up my books every day. exept for weekends. i think he likes me i just need a second opinion.


Hayley 8 years ago

HELP A SHY GIRL OUT! PLZ!

I like this guy...A LOT. A LOT. A LOT. He works at a gorcery store my dad and i shop at. But i can't seem to form words (coherent words/if any) when i'm even ten feet near him. I see him at school(at lunch & after 4th period) I'm almost always in the same lunch line. His friends are always near him, he's never alone for me to even think of speaking to him. I think he like's me cause he's always turned in my direction, his friends nod in my direction when i enter the cafeteria. and the other day he was outside where I sit (I saw him over the hedge, he looked like he was looking for someone) his friend saw me and piont and for a split second our eyes met and the I ducked under the hedge! I'm hopLESS! HELP! PLZ!


Asimina 8 years ago

Thanks!helpful!But what do we do with the guys that don't want to show that they have a Crush on you??!!! Thanks!


Confused 8 years ago

There is a boy that i have known since kindergarden at least. In second grade he always used to flirt with me. He still does once and a while.We don't have any classes together. But he always stares at me when I walk past him in the hall. I can't tell if he likes me or what. He has not asked me out ever. But I think he would have asked me by now. But i don't know if he just thinks I am not his type and i will say no if he asks me out. I really like him but i can't tell if he likes me. What should i do?


GiecoWasHere 8 years ago

I meet this guy, around the end of Janruary. He happens to be in my moms English class. When we first meet, My mom was talking to him, his cousin and [I'm guessing] hi other cousin. She had told me to sit down and wait while she finished, as I passed by [by what she has told me] he almost called her "Suegra" [mother-in-law] but didn't finish as he as that my mom looked up. She told me his cousin just laughed and elbowed him. That following Saturday they had a small party for my mom's teacher, birthday, and I was sitting a few seats from them. While he was talking to this other woman, I overheard their conversation, and after noticing he was getting fustraded, I spoke up. The conversation went on from there. The week after his cousins [Juan & Humberto] talked to me more but he shy away. The next week, again his cousin Juan was talking to me and gave me a CD of his band and said that the next he would give me his cousins [Andres], he then came out and just said about 2 sentences to me and walked towards these other girls where at. After that, they were having another small party, for no reason, and Juan had told me, when Andres sat down, "Please talk to him, he's lonely and in need of friends." and Andres had answered back by saying "You're just jealous." [Jealous of what, I still don't know] For awhile they went back and fort with the whole Jealous issue. The week after that he gave me a memory card to put music in it because he had asked me if I could the week before. That Sunday he called me, and we spend almost 3 hours on the phone, and along the conversations we had he would say something along the lines of "Imagen if we were going out and I asked you to wait for me" [dealing with his impatieneces] or "Why does a beautiful girl like you not have a boyfriend?" and "Who knows, you might be the next one." and this Saturday that passed we talked before class for about half an hour, and after class his cousin again talked to me, and when he came out, Juan said "Well we have to go." But Andres stayed and just started talking to me, while Juan said something along the lines of "oh, then we're gonna go heat up the car." And just stayed for a few seconds and smiled. The girls from before were staying behind me, waiting for him to talk to them. After a while I told him if he had problems to just call me, and he repeated my number and ask if he could take a picture so it could go along with the number, the girls then left but came back seconds later, and again waited. After another while, he finally said he had to go, shook my hand, said take care and finally turned around and noticed them and said "bye girls" turned again to me and said bye.. [The girls don't like me from what I've noticed hahaha.]

My moms says he likes me, his cousin from what he's mentioned or let loose, makes it seem like he [Andres] likes me, and well everyone else who just happens to know of this thinks the same. He has no girlfriend from what, he & juan have told me & my moms. But I really don't know if he's just being REALLY friendly or if he really likes me.


melanie 8 years ago

i recently got dumped only seeing each other for a month but he has a young daughter he kinda dumped me abruptly none of his friends saw it coming but any how he still messages me but i am doing the silence treatment and let him text first then i reply etc he told me he doesn't want a girlfriend but he wants to hang out with me! i realised i didn't know anything about him, i think it was to serious fast is this way of going slow with me? cause he still makes an effort to say hello when we see each other his ex hurt him bad should i be friends and have fun with him and see if anything comes from it?

thanks


Whispery Ash 8 years ago

I met a guy from a site I hardly used.We started just friendly chatting 8 months ago.We did meet once and have contiunly talked on and off again.We now talk a lot on the phone for hours at a time,we enjoy every minute on the phone from talking about our feelings on life and our own feelings.He is not ready ,but I am .This guy really feels like to me my soul mate.He wants us to be friends for now and see where it goes until he is ready.Should I wait or just move on?I really feel we do share a lot in commom and so does he,he is just messed up right now with everything he is going through and I fully understand.How can I handle this without ruining my chances with him?


Da Girl Next Door 8 years ago

Heyy dere z a guy that i like and i dont reeallyy kno if he likes me bac..

cuz everytime we walk in the hallway at skool he would teas me or out side he would let me borrow hiz sweather if itz cold...nn he would ask me to give him a hug when i give a hugs 2 my girls..

so doez dat meanz he likes me r just playing


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solarshingles 8 years ago from london

I like your direct attitude and your clear descriptions of such a hot topic!


Cait 8 years ago

i really like this guy from my grade and ive known him for a little less than a year were pretty good friends. But he always flirts with me and when i ask him if he thinks im hot or something he says no. HELP ME!!


morgy--nickname 8 years ago

this guy jared likes me and i like him too as in love and we both know and talk about that we love each other and we have sooooo much in common his name is jared he has sat beside my since november and i wanna ask him out but.....all my friends are always saying you are perfect for each other


lena 8 years ago

so i have this problem and i am very confused..there's this guy that i really like, and we have a lot of the same friends and all of them were sure that he liked me, one of them even asked him if we were dating and he said not yet, we hang out and he always gives me hugs that definitely signify he likes me, and then i went to a get together and he met me there...more like told me he'd stop out, and this time they weren't mutal friends i was with, anyway...he called me a few days ago and we talked for about 2 hours and then he said he could see us dating later..and that he didnt like me like that??? could it be becuase he is going to college in the fall and doesn't want to leave me..but i will be going in the winter and will not be far away...? how could we all have been so wrong about this, or is he just trying to hide his feelings? please help me figure this one out.


mimi 8 years ago

I am a little confused on if this boy likes me. I believe he is shy because he works for my dad's company, but when we are together we have so much fun! He ALWAYS looks at me by the sides of his eyes, and I think he likes to show off a bit in front of me. I want to ask him to the movies, but my mom thinks i am doing all of the work and should move on! I ' see that an option right now, so what should I do? I just believe he is shy with relationships. He is outspoken in everything else though.


claudia 8 years ago

there is this really cute guy in my school and i just recently noticed him. i sort of met him 2 months ago while i was in another class talking to my friend. he sat next to her and i saw hi looking at me so i turned my head and said hi. he smiled and siad hi back. after that, i saw him a couple of times around the hallways and afterschool and he would say hi. and i have caught him looking at me a lot. when i notice this, i look back at him and smile back. he stopped doing that when we stared talking more. now he pokes me and pulls my hair (without actually hurting me) whenever he sees me and he sometimes goes through a different path to get to his class which makes him pass through my class. but it is still confusing because he sometimes doesn't show interest. and then i ask my friends and some say he does like me and others say they arent sure...


ilovejustinbraswell 8 years ago

i ove this boy at my school hottest boy ever


zanessalover 8 years ago

ok i hang around with this boy outside of school i really like him but he has a girlfriend and he always giving me signals that he likes me he can be touchey like putting his hands on my back and putting his hand around me.when im not out hes always asing my best friend whos a girl am i coming out and asking loads of question bout me like when am i coming out or if im sleeping over somewere when will i be hme etc.then we recently found out that were going to america together and my best friends thinks that hes going to make a move but hes with that girl and oh hes consently telling my best friend that hes going to break up with her but he wudnt say nothing infront of me bout her well he says he hates her bu that's about it can u help me?? because i falling in love with him thanks xxx


Jennifer 8 years ago

Theres this really hot guy he's almost 13 and i'm almost 12 i think he likes me like he always is messing with me in a nice way when we go swimming . but he act like he likes my friends. but when i asked him he said he doesn't i'm confised does he like my friends or not


Jessica 8 years ago

I want to ask this guy out bu he says he has girlfriend. But y frirnds said that he told them that he likes me. So should i ask him out or not


Angel 8 years ago

Theres this guy he's always telling me to hug him which i think is weird he pulls me in the pool dunks me and follows me where ever i go he's always asking if i'm going swinming and if i do go swimming he's like yea. But He says he doesnt like e. So can someine Help does he like me or not and should i ask him out


McKenzie 8 years ago

Jessica:

ok, number one rule of all things girl:

1. NEVER ASK A GUY OUT IF THEY ALREADY HAVE A GF. Thats just totally inappropriate.

just keep looking pretty & flirting & start texting him or talking to him on the phone & you guys will bond :D


Mel 8 years ago

Hi, i like this boy a lot and he says he likes me back but he also likes this other girl, he said that he is getting over her slowly but i don't know whether he means it or not and i dnt no whether to wait and see what happens or just move on!! HELP ME PLEASEE!! Xo


Tasha 8 years ago

Wow thank you, that helped me. I like this boy and my friends reckon he likes me too and i think that too but we are both too scared to ask each other out! He does everything on the list. In art out of the whole class to ask for a sharpener includig the teacher, he asked me. :)

Thank you !!


reina22 8 years ago

thers's this boy @ skool dat i really like when people ask if we like each other we lie about it ..i've lliked him 4 about almost 2 years ...he looks @ me alot in class and always watches me when i do sumthin ...i think he likes me b-cuz he lives across the street from my cuz and one time i wuz over there and his dad asked my cuz if i wuz his cuz and then he told J*ELLE there goes yo girl ..... idk what i should do ...........HELP i really like him and i know he likes me !!!!!!!!<3


Dicey 8 years ago

Hi, this guy when we are at lunch, he is always looking over at me, and sometimes we make a eye contact for about 3 secs. and then he will talk to his friend one sec. and then his friend would look over at me, what do you think they are talking about, and sometimes, he comes over to my table, and he stares at me, and talks to my friends, but he just glances at me,and sometimes turns his head sideways and smiles and stares at me, what does this mean?, thanks so much ,-)


christina 8 years ago

Hey, this boy is so cute and he just started talkin to me on aim but he got a girl and i think he likes me because he writes to me everyday and i got him as a friend on myspace and he siad ifly and then wrote lolz so what should i do is that a hintthat he likes me also he always write sayin hey cutiie and then it end with bye pretty


Kat 8 years ago

My CLOSEST guy friend, Joshua, is the one i like.

We knew eachother since 4th grade, and we're in 7th now.ANYWAYS, people say he likes me. Likes me A LOT. Since 4th grade, that's 3 years! And i though half-a-year was a lot. But the problem is, no one knows for sure, because he tells no one. Stating that he doesn't trust anyone. But when i read this, i smiled. He does most of the things there. He stares at me, he's everywhere i am (at the lunch table, etc.) and he touches me. Like he would touch my head/hair or tap my shoulder, just to say hi. And he says hi quite often. Hehe.


Vannah 8 years ago

Okayy, I like this guy named Cory and i know for a fact he likes me i over heard him telling his bestfriend & mine also. we flirt all the time at school. If i wear a hoody he puts his caculator in it, and messes with it a lot. he trys to sit behind me in most classes and what classes he doesn't we make lots of eye contact and smile. He totally traded me pincles for his while ii was turned around, and always chews on it. Hes really funny sweet and athletic, your prolly wandering how i have a prob. well he has a girl friend name Courtney i donno her never met her she goes to a dif school, and he says he hasn't seen her or talked to her so he cant break up with her i asked why he Don't call her but he said "he doenst have his house phone hooked up at the moment" im thinkin yeah okayy. sure. so here's where im stuck i need mayjor help what do i do.


Dory 8 years ago

umm...ok so theres this guy who I've known/liked for three years now...and I finally told him that I like him...and sometimes I think he likes me but I have no clue...He asked me to "hang out" once and I have no clue if it was a date or not...and one of my friends asked him if he likes me and he said "I don't know." but we talk like everyday but I have no clue what he thinks of me...every one tells me that they think he likes me but I'm not sure...can anyone help me?


confuzied 8 years ago

ok so theres this gye who i like, like a tone but i don't know if he likes me back he always ends up touchen me! all my friends and his say that he likes me. his sister says she thinks he likes me and my bro thinks he likes me but i don't know what to do! we are really good friends but idk.. we hang out lots, he always smiles at me and always is looking at me but help!!!!!!!!!!!


Jeanette  8 years ago

Okay there is this boy and he has been a good friend of mine since 6th grade (were in 8th now) anyways i just started liking him and i have never felt this way about him but i thought that i would be spontanious and tell him.so out of no where i txtd him and told him i liked him and he said he liked me too! so i was happy then we went to a dance the nxt day and he told me her was going to dance with me so when i got there he was dancing with another grl and allll night thhey danced and then like the last 5 songs he asked me to dance but i was soooo mad i said no but finally i gave in and we danced then he told me he really liked me but he liked her too and i understood cus that's happened to me before to but the nxt day i got a txt from my BFF telling me him and that girl were dating so i was mad anyways the next day at school i wanted to make him jelous so i acted as if i liked his Best friend and he was sooo jelous so he goes so u like austin and i said yeah so then he said so i guess this means ur over me and i said yupp then he said no cus i really like u and i figured when me and my gf break up me and u could go out and i was sooo mad cus he must think of me as his backup girl but im not so blah blah and then he was like i really like u but i have a gf and ughhhhh i just don't no what to do should i move on cus hes a player or maybe fight for him...or etc.

HELP!


Marcy 8 years ago

i told my friend to tell this boy i like him and she did. but im 13 first of all...anyway...this boy stares at me all the time now but i think my friend isn't that trustworthy i think she told him other things about me that are lies but im not for sure anyway i don't know if he likes me yet but once i went to a dance and his friend behind him in class asked him if he was going to the dance he said no. after that in another class my friend asked me if i was going to the dance and i said i was outloud and he showed up at the dance when he said he wouldn't. he said his friend convinced him but his friend didn't show up there.

and also i was talking to my other friend at recess and he came up to us and sat down by my friend and just started talking to her.

and whenever at recess i go outside i see him and he sees me and i go on the basketball court and he comes a little more towards me and stands by his friends on the sidewalk and starts laughing out loud and talking loud. im not sure if he likes me but everytime we pass in the hall he always is staring at me and when i look at him he doesn't look away quick he tries to keep eye contact

what should i do???? please help!


:) 8 years ago

there's this guy that i like, i'v actually liked him for a while now, but he's always been like madly in love with this other girl, but recently he just told me that he likes me, i don't no if i should believe it, so i just said that if he's trying to pull a joke that its not funny, but everytime i say that, he's like, omg im not kidding and he would tell his friends that i don't believe him and they would try to convince me. i really want to believe it but im scared that it will turn out to b a joke since he does seem like the kinda guy that would do that, and besides, he's always been madly in love with this other girl... that's y i thought it was really weird that he just started liking me like that... and he's nvr really that nice to girls (like if u say one thing he doesn't want to hear, he'll just like stop talking to u, but i think i have said a lot of things he pbly wouldn't like to hear, and he's still really sweet to me) when we do projects, he always wants to work with me, and if we just doing our own thing in class and we'r just walking around, he always follows me does the same thing as me, and he doesn't even deny it, he always just says, "im ganna follow u around ok" and he's always asking me for hugs, and he always tries to hold my hand (like jokingly, but not jokingly at the same time, iono how 2 explain it)... should i believe him? i really hate bing tricked.....


??? 8 years ago

i like this guy, we went out drinking last nite with a few friends, and my friends got me really wasted and i started blabling out random stuff and i told my crush that i like him and apparently i even tried to make out with him and kissed him about 500 times.... well now that he's told me everything 2day, and he asked me if its true that i like him, and i said yes, and then he told me that he's not looking for a relationship, but iono if he meant that he doesn't like me, or he just doesn't feel like going out, cuz he does basically all 5 things up there.... iono.... HELP!!!


Keenie 8 years ago

i really like this guy and he does the five things you said how to know a boy like you. i am not to sure if he does though because ever time he wants me to meet up with him, he texts me about ten times a day to remind me the time and where we are metting but he all was phones me at the time we are ment to be meeting and he always says he can't make it. this week he has asked me to go round his house for dinner but i don't know if i should go because i have never been round his house and i don't really like eatting round people i don't know. please can you help me?


LariviereJ6 8 years ago

ok so i went to a maxx and my friend knew i liked this guy so she wanted me to dance with him and i said no and then she gose over and says "oh do u like Jessica because she loves u" and im like oh my god why did u do that and so yeah shes trying to make me fell bad 4 her yeah well idk if he likes me because when she asked him he shrugged is that a yes no mabey or he dosent know?


LariviereJ6 8 years ago

and it kinda seemed like he was following me pretty much every where but mabey it was just really odd timing idk so please can u tell me what u think?


shayne 8 years ago

whoa...

ok, there's this guy. we started off being enemies since 1st year highschool. but then we came to a truce about two years after and became friends again. well, i kinda like him more than just a friend. but he has a girlfriend. although he has a girlfriend, he always, as in ALWAYS ims me and texts me. he even send me load so that we could talk. we went on like that for over 8 months. but anyway, last may, he moved to some unknown province but still kept intouch with me. he even calls me in a regular basis. then on june or july, i think, his girlfriend broke up with him. then ofcourse, he comes to me ranting on about how he hates the other girl. he got over it sooner than i thought. that was four months ago. but until now he still hasn't made a move. could you give me some advice for that? i'm kinda lost here. thanks in advance!


priya 8 years ago

hi wel my problem is same as kaci had before 15 months but i love him very much and the problem is had we never had talk to each other weather we are in same form but his best frend told me forget about him because he is not your type of boy he said that his the one that ever look at you it will better for me to choose someone else ? i realy don't know what to do please help me out friend1


footieplayer 8 years ago

there is this boy at school and guess what he said to me ??? he said '' you look so prity today lets go and have fun'' he also supports da some football team as me


Debra 8 years ago

There is this guy, that I have come to like veryyy much!!! He told me I was hott....and I thought the same about him. so from there we have been talking, he asked me if I was single and i said yes, and so was he!! so then he gave me his # and told me to call him anytime, but I haven't yet...and well i think he likes me like that, but im not soooo sureee!!! and if he does then he hasn't asked me out yet, and I would ask him, but im afraid he may not like me in that kinda way. canu pleaseeee help me!?!?!


hello 8 years ago

a guy invited mo to camp, invited me to watcha movie, invited me to watchlike kinda a concert, told me i lok cute. tellls me that he's glad enough i IM-ed him. does it mean he likes me?


Victoria 8 years ago

There is this guy at my school. I think he likes me, but now that i don't sit by him i am not sure. He pokes on the back, shoulder, and arm sometimes and he also like to throw little things at me and trip me. We talk a lot,but now not so much. I really like him though. I need to know whethter or not he likes me, so i can move on or forward.


vierne 8 years ago

Debra - I think he likes you. He asked if you were single (probably just checking whether he stands a chance with you), and then he gave you his number! Call him, arrange to meet up. If you don't then he'll start thinking you don't like him..!


kellie 7 years ago

wen i first saw ta guy i like hi and i know he likes me me and days ago he say 2 me tat he likes me 2 but after tat i like one guy but i like tem both heheh e and my friend ask me tat i need 2 whoose hehehe and i whoose ta 1 i first likes and he don't like 2 tell me his feeling taaa i say 2 him u need u say wat u feel antill now he don't want 2 tell me and i move i find ta boy who love me and cara me

i thingk u need 2 move on and look 4 other guy


confusedy 7 years ago

right well ie liked this guy for ages and we always flirted a lot we kissed at a party and then we just ignored what happened and carried on flirting then at anouther party we kised again and he said how much hes liked me and how hes mean to me all the time to gte my attention ,he said he wanted to be more then friends and when he walked me home he would stop to kiss my hand or on the top of my head,then we text after but at school he seems like he doenst care but then that night he will text me saying how much he likes me its weird,i don't no what to do as ive tried talking to him but its weird for me as im usually the one being chased not the other wat round.what should i do and what does he actually think about me


michell 7 years ago

i talked to this guy his older than me by 2 years

he texts me alomost every day he goes to my school an see me

but know everything change he wont text me an im the one whos doing it

know what should i do wait for him or just let it go


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lv_cnfusd 7 years ago

IM GOING OUT WID THIS GUY,WE HAD ALREADY GONE OUT B4 N NOW WERE BAK TOGETHER,OK WELL I HAD ALREADY TOUGHT DAT HE LIKED ONE OF MY FRIENDS I JUST DIDN'T KNOW IF HE REALLY DID N ONE DAY WE WERE WID ONE OF HIS FRIENDS N WE WERE TALKIN ABOUT WHO LIKED MY FRIEND HE STARTED TELLING US THE NAMES OF ALL DA BOYS DAT LIKE HER N DEN HE SAID DA NAME OF MY BOYFRIEND I ACTED AS IF I DIDN'T CARE,EVEN IF I DO,NOW I KEEP OF THINKIN THAT HE DOES LIKE HER.EVERYTIME SHES WITH ME N HIM ,HES LUKIN AT HER,N HES ALWAYS PAYING ATTENTION TO HER,A COUPLE DAYS AGO WE WERE ALL TOGETHER N I LEFT N INSTEAD OF HIM COMIN WID ME TO SAY BYE HE STAYED WID MY HER:(N HE NEVER CAME TO SAY BYE.....DOES HE LIKE HER?OR IM I JUST BEING JELOUS?PLIZZ HELPP


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karen 7 years ago

I'm 13 and have no clue if this guy likes me. I like him, but I don't want to be laughed at. Although even if I did try even talk to him I'd lock myself up like always. PLEASE HELP!!!


Sabrina 7 years ago

Well, I got 1 and a half out of the five.

1. He looks at me a lot.

1/4 He makes reason to touch me.

The thing with reason to touch, is because he kinda doesn't have a choice.

We're both in police exploreres,and I always play the suspect, while he plays the cop. But the thing is that he always has backup cop who can handcuff me and all, but then again he takes the initiative to do it.

ex: We were doing a senario and I was a hostage, and he seemed to hesitate to pull my out, he reached for my hand then stopped and grabbed my wrist to pull me.

I invited him to my birthday party, he didn't make it, but he did say sorry and asked me how it went, and i told him what when on.

and 'The Showing up where I am', i only see him at the police department..

so i really don't think that counts for me. =[

Im really confused with this one, then again maybe it's too early to tell? I mean at least im trying?


Ashley 7 years ago

I like this boy named Kyle who I've known since 8th grade. (We're now in 9th grade) He's so cute. He found out that i liked him on my b-day. But we havent been as close as we were before(For a reason that is too long to type)....i mean everytime we stop talking to eachother, we always end up tlkin again. We just started tlkin to eachother again and now im pissed...because i found out that before we came friends again, he was talkin about me to my ex-boyfriend and to my bestfriend from church (who now hates me because i like him) She's known him since she was 2 and i guess she feels that im tryin to still her bestfriend and im not. Kyle was makin it seem like i needed him when i didn't. My friend tld me that she over heard him tell my ex that he liked me......but when she asked him again he said that he hated me. He kept saying that he hated me and that he didn't. I guess he was saying that because my ex hates me. All my friends say that he likes me but im not so sure anymore...but i used to think that. He always looks at me tho....it kind of scares me. And he always pushes me...we always get into play fights. We see a lot of eachother...i mean we go to the same church nd skool. idkuld of found ...i mad and then idk i like him. but i wish i would of found all this out before. But last year he said that he liked me a little bit because he thinks im pretty. Do you think that feeling is still in him even though he says its not? Are we just better off being good friends? IDK HELP>>>>IM CONFUSED!?!?!?!?!


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OMG-confused!!! 7 years ago

well i've been talking to this this guy for a few months online, he goes to my uni but we didn't really know each other, although i'd seen him around. we finally went on a date and it went really really well, we were talking lots and he seemed interested, we hugged afterwards, said we would talk soon and went our separate ways. i sent him a jokey text that night about something which we had spoken about during the date and we were texting for a little while, then the next day we talked online again, but this time it was different, the conversation was slower and not as fun and even though we had both said we had fun on the date and would like to meet again, when i asked him if he wanted to meet up with me and some people from uni the next week he said he was busy. obviously he might be busy but im just so worried he may have gone off me and don't want to ask him, cos i don't want to be the scary girl who pesters him all the time, as i know guys like their space. then the next day he wasn't even online, and he's online every day normally. is he avoiding me or am i overreacting?? i find it so hard to read him, but i'm pretty sure he liked me during the date :S


help me plz24 7 years ago

ok i can see u haven't been on for a while but i was wondering if this guy likes me------ok i really like my bffs brother he is 13 im gonna be 13 in two weeks he knows i like him cuz my friend told him he does none of the things on this list he likes to keep his feelings to him self he is the strong silent type he always has been we don't go to the same school but me and his sister hang out alot and sence we are to young to drive we hang out at her house--a week b4 he knew i liked him he was all like coem here watch me ply vid games and trying to impress me but hehe looked like and idiot and he is really funny i flirt with him a lot but he always lol like im trying to be funny but i could tell he liked me

but when he found out i like him he started acting all weird and some times mean lie on this one sleep over with my bff he was like trying to restle with me and squirting me with his water gun and and being rude and not like him self

then the next day he ignored me like i was not there and then he was flirting with me

im just confused does he like me and if he does how can i get him to ask me out or how could i ask him out uhhhh confused boys are hard to get !!!


Kate 7 years ago

ok so i just met this guy like yesterday and im really into him and i think he's into me too, but i'm not quite sure. When i met him he would find a way to touch me, like he'll tickle me or hold my hand or guide me like you said. He likes to talk. He's a friend of a friend and we spent the night at my friends house and slept in the same bed. Nothing happened though...we just talked which i thought was weird (but cool...i'm not the kinda girl that will just hook up with a random guy) cus a lot of guys don't just want to talk haha...but i found it very attractive. We exchanged numbers but i haven't called him yet...and he hasn't called me. Keep in mind we just met yesterday. Should call him, and if so when? Or should i wait for him to call, and how long should i wait for him to call? We live in the same town, but i go to college in a different city, only an hour away and i have to leave in a couple of days. I wanted to see him before i left. What should i do?

Thanks!


mili 7 years ago

ok there is this guy... i really like him. he comes up to me and starts conversations with me i catch him looking at me a lot his brothers kinda mess with me though like joking and stuff cuz i don't really know his friends.... my sister tells me she thinks he likes me and my friends do too but im not sure if he does......

do u think so?


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adrainsean 7 years ago

ohh u can really read guy's mind only if every other girl can take some clue from you it would be so much easier for us


Aly 7 years ago

I have a crush on this guy. First of all i been friends since September of 2008. I meet him when he came into my work.He was quiet but i found out his name was we will say *Mike*. I went home and search for a mike on myspace and ifound him and i added him and he accept it. Then u called me on that saturday and asked me if i wanted to go to the movie with him. I bought my own ticket. Then Mike and i had a fight 3 weeks after becoming friends, we didn't talk to each other for 2 weeks and then he came back into my work and started chatting again and ever since then we see each other atleast 3 times a week. His grandparents like me a lot and say i a sweet lady. Bad thing is idk know how mike feels about me. I told him i liked him before we had a fight but he said he didn't want to date anyone. but he still wanted to be friends so it was cool with me. Then after are fight i told him i didn't like him anymore. That was a lie, but lately he been sending me text like calling me Hun and Babe. I want to ask him what the hell this is meaning plus he always calls or text me. Idk but i really like him, problem is i moving for college( i am 20) and he going into the army(21). I try to tell myself to forget about him but its HARD. I hate when he talks about other girls in fornt of me it kills me. GOSH IT SUCKS..

What is this boy doing to me?


angelmig 7 years ago

how do you know if he likes you?if he doesn't talk.comment.txt?

because i am in 6th grade and he is highschool...

plz comment back


georgina 7 years ago

hiya i like this boy in my school and i really like him he keeps on looking at all the time i catch him everytime i look at him he looks away everyone in the school thinks he does not like me i think he does he is really shy to he has a girlfriend and he never talks to me or anything i think my best friend likes him to she said he does not fancy u but i think he does does he fancy me?


jessie x 7 years ago

heya.well i really like this boy in my year at school. he's not in any of my lessons, but we are quite good friends. i see him every lunchtime and he gives me cuddles and shouts out my name a lot. i really like him. apparently he's not sure if he likes me 'like that', and he says we don't realy know eachother that well to go out with me. How can know if he does like me, or not at all? how can i make him like me? thankyou.


Anonymous 7 years ago

Well ok umm theres this guy i really really like. my friend says he says a lot of things about me but i don't know..and he acts like i don't even exist.he's like totally popular and im not.. but one day our teachers put us in groups and i was with him and he was like really close to me like in kissning distance and he kept sliding his foot towards mine. and sometimes in the beggining of skool like in my 5th period he would always look at me or stare at me. and he sometimes talks to me and he's so nice. but im not sure if he even likes me..


sarah 7 years ago

there is this guy i like and we have been friends for awhile,then he asked me out, how do i know it's for real?


jacqui 7 years ago

Ok so thers this guy and we went out for three months. He dumped me, but I still like him. I always catch him looking at me. does he still like me or should i just move on?


KF 7 years ago

My guy friend keeps mentioning that people think we're dating, and he denies it all the time, but why does he keep talking about it?

He told me a few years ago he's not interested 'that way', and I accepted being friends .. so this is weird. I brush it off like it's no big deal but I sure wish he'd cut it out: it's like reminding me he's not into me.

He's NOT an unkind person at all. He's just really dense, I'm sure, because I don't think my affection for him is that subtle. I toned it down big-time so we could get along without any drama .. did I overdo it?


Lost in Love 7 years ago

I have a HUGE crush on the basketball jock at my school. We are in the same class and there are huge rumors going around that I want to believe but I can't. One of them is: he says that you are the smartest, sweetest, funniest, and prettiest girl in the school. I am the nerd in the class but he turns red when my teacher makes jokes that he is trying to impress me when he makes me laugh and he follows my eyes and his best friend and him play basketball all the time but when I am around, he messes up and his best friend looks at me and then him and then smiles...I really want to tell him but he is my best friend and I don't want to wreck our friendship by asking him to the end of the year dance!! (That's another roomer that he will ask me!) Should I or shouldn't I beleive the roomers?! Help!!


Lost in Love 7 years ago

I have a HUGE crush on the basketball jock at my school. We are in the same class and there are huge rumors going around that I want to believe but I can't. One of them is: he says that you are the smartest, sweetest, funniest, and prettiest girl in the school. I am the nerd in the class but he turns red when my teacher makes jokes that he is trying to impress me when he makes me laugh and he follows my eyes and his best friend and him play basketball all the time but when I am around, he messes up and his best friend looks at me and then him and then smiles...I really want to tell him but he is my best friend and I don't want to wreck our friendship by asking him to the end of the year dance!! (That's another roomer that he will ask me!) Should I or shouldn't I beleive the roomers?! Help!!


whoot 7 years ago

I like this boy in my school and he likes me too, but i have a boyfriend. Also a lot of girls like him like A lot of girls but he told me he didn't like no one but me (in a cute way) Me and my boyfriend been going out for atleast 3 months. what shuld i do?


Carm 7 years ago

I like this guy we have a lot in common we hung out about three months ago, i met him through my best friend. when we hung out he was very polite and manner-able, on our first date (wasn't really a date lol it was me him and my best friend) he barely looked at me but by the end of the night he opened up and was having a lot of fun. when he left he gave me a hug which was good because that means he respects me. then on Valentine's Day i asked him if he wanted to double date and he agreed so we went to dinner and after he told us that he was gonna go offroading with some of his friends and if we wanted to come along. so we agreed and my friend peer pressured me into riding in his jeep. when i got in he asked if i was cold i guess i was shivering so he gave me his jacket :) then as we were riding along he changed his ipod to tom petty and the heartbreakers "american girl" and said "you said you like this song, right?" i was surprised because i told him that in on the first date and i didn't think he was listening. well anyway while we were offroading his jeep broke down and they were trying to fix it so i stayed out of the way and got in my friends car well i didn't talk to him for the rest of the night until everyone was leaving and we pulled up beside his jeep and said our goodbye's. well i offered him his jacket back (i practically had it off) and he told me to hold on to it and give it to him later. well we were invited to go offroading again but this time a girl came with him and his friends she looked kinda young like 17 or 18. I didn't think much of it until she started following him around every where. well my friends boyfriends jeep tire went flat and he broke his exhaust so they were helping him fix it. during that i was just chatting with her she seemed nice. so after everything was fixed i saw them get in the car and he put his arm around her...of course i was a little bummed. then about a week later my best friend invited him to a barbeque and he came, which is about an hour drive. he hasn't known my best friend much longer than he has known me and the barbeque consisted of close friends and family no one he knew except for me and her. he slept over and my friend went outside for some fresh air and the guy i like went out for a smoke and i guess they were talking cause afterward my friend pulled me aside and gave me the lowdown, basically he asked her if i was mad at him cause he brought that girl, and that he doesn't like her at all she's only 17, then she told him i don't wanna play any games that i want a serious relationship and then he told her he likes me a lot. so when it came to going to sleep he curled up in a corner on the floor and gave me the couch. my friend before i even got a chance to say anything told him to join me on the couch, so he did. he ended up sleeping on my chest lol and i just didn't feel comfortable enough to be that close so in the middle of the night i quietly moved to the floor. when we woke up the next day he asked if he bumped me off the couch and i told him no that i just kept getting up during the night that i didn't wanna keep him up. so he left that morning we texted that week and then the next weekend we had another barbeque and he was invited. so early on that day he seemed very distant from me where ever i was he seemed to be on the opposite side, then he started drinking. well we started acting like kids i rode my friends brothers scooter around the block and then i saw the brothers bike so i get on and the guy i like comes over and stands in front of me with his hands on the handles and the tire between his legs and he just stares at me. i'm a little weirded out not because he's staring at me but because it was a total 180 turnaround this guy that could barely look at me on our first date is staring me straight in the eyes. then to make it even more weird he starts rolling the bike back and forth towards him. i didn't know what to think so i told him i was gonna ride around the block. so i did then i came back and he found my friends brothers skateboard and was doing tricks so i watched for a little while then went inside. my friend then told him he's not going anywhere and that he was gonna sleep over again... he didn't protest lol then she said that we both have to sleep on the couch again and again neither of us protested. so i changed into my pajamas and we watched baby mama lol we layed on the couch and he was in jeans and a t-shirt. he claimed he was hot, but when i told him to just take off his shirt he hesitated but eventually did. after that he cuddled up and got very cozy with me, but was very respectful until the movie was long over and we were supposed to be sleeping. well he reached over and was about to grab my boob then changed his mind and put his hand down he didn't try again after that. well i am a very active sleeper and i noticed that everytime i moved he would move to see if i was comfortable then fall back asleep. well the next morning when we got up he asked for a back massage...honestly i was a little offended but gave him one anyway. then we all got dressed and went to i-hop we ate and then he was gonna leave and i got in the car without saying goodbye to him. so he said "i don't get a hug?" so i gave him a hug. then the next weekend i was texting him and i asked him what he was up to and he said playing pool with his buddy and he asked what i was doing and i said laying in bed sick. we talked some more i then asked my friend what's up and she told me i should hang out with the guy i like then i told her he was busy then she told me that he said he asked me to hang out but i told him i was sick. i was like "HE DIDN'T ASK ME ANYTHING!" lol so my friend talked to him i guess and i asked him if he was gonna hang out with my friend and he said yeah and asked if i wanted to chill and i told him "i'd love to but i'm not feeling too good i wanna rest up for school tomorrow" so then a couple minutes later i get a call from my friend she has me on speaker phone telling me how i need to come hang out and how much i like him and i just need to admit it then all of a sudden i hear him answer the phone...then i said "wait who is this?" cause i really didn't wanna believe that she shared all of those personal details when he was standing right there. then he said "who do you think it is?" then i became embarrassed. they decided that the guy i like was gonna pick me up but i had to get ready so i went and got ready and as soon as i got out of the shower i got a text that said never mind i was like "what the heck happened?" then she told me the guy i liked started drinking already and that he wouldn't be able to pick me up and that when she told him "hey your supposed to be picking Carm up" he said that he thought that her boyfriend was gonna pick me up. so i got a little upset that i got my hopes up. then i decided i always text him first i'm gonna go without texting him for a little while...i lasted three days and was irritated with a lot of things and told him that he needs to pick up his jacket in a kinda rude way. he never responded. i didn't talk to him for four weeks after that i was confused so i texted him again (at this point i have a boyfriend, texted him a week after me and my boyfriend got together) and asked him what's up he said he's been working a lot and i asked him if he wanted his jacket back and he said yeah that he just keeps forgetting about it. so we talked a little after that nothing special. then my friend invites me to the movies with her boyfriend, i agreed and the she told me that the guy i like might come. then i get a text from him asking what's up so i ask him if he can come and he said most likely it depended on the time. it turned out he couldn't go. i texted him a couple days later saying what's up and we talked a little bit, nothing too interesting. then just recently i posted my status on myspace as being the "hula hoop champ" and he texted me saying that he could probably beat me at hula hooping we had some more playful banter then we both had to go to bed. a couple days later i asked him if he was


nikki 7 years ago

hye,


bella 7 years ago

hi

help

there is this really cut boy down the street. he is 14 and i am 13. He is slways looking at me, as much as i look at him! he always tlks to me. but always about girls, and not me. does he think of me as a freind or more? if more, should i ask him out? please elp he is super cute! lol


bella 7 years ago

hi

help

there is this really cut boy down the street. he is 14 and i am 13. He is slways looking at me, as much as i look at him! he always tlks to me. but always about girls, and not me. does he think of me as a friend or more? if more, should i ask him out? please elp he is super cute! lol


rebecca 7 years ago

well .. there's this guy whom i really like .. and when i did confront him he said that he still had feelings for another girl whose already commmitted to another guy .. then after that day we somehow became really really close .. and i catch him looking at me all the time .. and he's given me indirect hints too .. he calls me sweetheart and has asked me out for movies and lunches and swimming n stufff ... but he as far as i know still foes like that girl whom he would previously like .. so what should i do ? does he like me too ?.. i really really really like him


rebecca 7 years ago

well .. there's this guy whom i really like .. and when i did confront him he said that he still had feelings for another girl whose already commmitted to another guy .. then after that day we somehow became really really close .. and i catch him looking at me all the time .. and he's given me indirect hints too .. he calls me sweetheart and has asked me out for movies and lunches and swimming n stufff ... but he as far as i know still foes like that girl whom he would previously like .. so what should i do ? does he like me too ?.. i really really really like him


Lauren Dorsa 7 years ago

ok there is this boy I like.He's in a band with his parents.he's down to earth but has a girlfriend.we have known each other for 8 months.I catch him smiling at me for no reason,he tells me he loves me( but we are good friends), He is talkative 24/7 with me,he hugs me a lot,he is always starting a conversation,He is always hitting me( but not meanly...playfully,), He always pats me on the back,he sings to me,he is absolutely hot and amazing and comfortable around me.He is a shot out of a million.He's beautiful!


chrissy 7 years ago

This guy has no idea i exist but he is rlly hot and is my type. how do I make a great fist impresssion?


chrissy 7 years ago

still no reply? wtf!?!


Justi 7 years ago

I know I have an odd name and YES I am a girl but anyway, there is this guy and I have liked him since like 2nd grade and he is so amazing and sweet but we have been friends since forever! but like yesterday i went to the local super-market and he works in the pharmacy part which is right by the produce and i had to get some milk... he grinned like an idiot when he saw me and he stared at me the whole time grinning at first i was like okay he's up to somethin but like he just kept watching me... is he a stalker or does he really like me? i'd appreciate it if u email me instead of replying on here.

lilmizclumsy@gmail.com


stephanie 7 years ago

My brother has this friend and my dad and him became really good friends so he comes over my house a lot and when he is around me he looks at me a lot(I can tell by lookin in the corner of my eye)and he talks to me a hole lot..when other ppl are around when we talk no one can get a word in because he hangs on my every word..he tells me that he respects me a whole lot because we have a lot in common. he is a shy person i can tell but when im around him his shyness goes away...he comes here everyday...and he tell me how beautiful i am and how attractive i am. he has told me that like 3 times already..he says he likes friends with benefits and isn't into dating. but he told my dad that he would not mind if i moved in with him..does he want me as a friend with benefits? or does he like me more than that? when other girls are around he pays no attention to them....he he sits down he sits next to me but if he cant he pulls the chair away from the girl next to me as far as possible..we have acually kissed he gave me a really good kiss..and before he went home he asked if i was gonna walk him out and i said yes and he kissed me on the cheek and said good night...i was stunned..i wanted a better kiss so i said no no no come back and he did and I kissed him..i mean i really kissed him...I think he is embarrised to tell me he likes me more than just friends with benefits..at frirst he told me he didn't want to date anyone(mind u we are only friends talking) but now hes talkin to my dad about things that he is embarrised to talk to me about..my dad told him that ppl are noticing that u guys like each other A lot and he said ya I know and smiled....i wander if he thinks that a good thing or bad? but anyways what do u think...?... does he like me? or just want a friend?


haley 7 years ago

what do i do ? about this realy cute guy? i don't know if he likes me. i have known him sense i was seven . he realy liked me then but then we didn't see each other for five years.until i moved to a new house and i found out that he is my neighbor now we talk all the time .and i am realy scared to bring up dating dearing a conversation.so what do i do can you help me out


Chrissy 7 years ago

ok well theres this guy jake and hes at this rlly fun church where u run around and have fun,

well ive known jake for about a year now and were really good friends,

well last time i seen him at church

we sat next to eachother,

and i also brought my bestfriend danielle who was sitting on the left side of me while jake was on the right,

there was this cool contest we got to play and i got picked

so i think to myself "this is my moment to shine infront of jake!"

well when im up on stage danielle takes my seat and flirts/destracts jake from me

and he hardy looked at me the wholetime.

well i ended up winning the contest and when i came back to my seat and sat down

me and jake were flirting a lot!

well i knew he has a g/f and he said his name is april,

well i add him on myyearbook

and seen his numberone friend was a girl named an april

well come to find out its the same april who lives next door to my cousints,

I have known her for years and have always hated her, shes a lice infested, bratty, B______!

so I tell my cousints and they tell me that april just made out with like 3 different guys while dateing jake,

so I give my cousints his number and they tell him,

so a week goes by and I logg on to my account, I was about to tell him i love him but then found out he has a new g/f ,

And i thought he was still dateing april!

im rlly confused and heartbroken,

when I told my friends what happened they all said that he was either

#1 precrtecting april

or #2

maybe its one of aprils friends and that hes lieing,

ANd i rlly like him and knows he rlly kinda likes me too,

but now he has another g/f

what should I do at this point??


Shantel Rupert 7 years ago

Hey i need to know if he likes me cause i just met this boy this year. I like him and my friends tease me about him and one of my friends said that she caught looking at me when we were at breakfast. And i kinda of belive her because i peek at him when we are at 5 and 6 period and he already looking at me..... i turn my head before he does and i don't know if he will hold the stare but on the first day of school we had to met people we didn't know in the class and after he talk to the people he knew already i was the first person he came up to after that and his name is Chad and he looks at me but i not for sure cause i sometimes look at the corner of my eye but i always feel someone watch me and when we do talk which is hardly he flirts but not hard flirting probably hit me on the back of my head and says hi or something i just need to know if he likes me


shush 7 years ago

I met this guy at one of the party.He immediately catches my attention but he didn't give me a hint.So I moved on.Later that night I was talking to my friend and he approached me I was shocked for me it was like a dream come true.He is brirish and I'm asian I cant imagine how many compliments did I get that night from him.He asked for my number and I gave it, he gave me his email add in return.I desperately waited for his call but he didn't.Months have past but I can't stop thinking about him.There is another party at that same place we've met at that time so I email him just letting him know that we might see each other again.He replied saying he was sorry because hes caretaker washed his pants early in that morning and have no idea it has my number.Unfortunately, he didn't make it to a party because no one will sign him in...To catch up he envited me for a dinner at his place I was so excited.It was one of my best dates ever.He would hold my hand once in awhile and would go back to the kitchen to check for the food. We've talked all the superficial details in our life and that's it I head home and he kissed me goodnight on the cheeks...I wanted a kiss on the lips but he didn't I went home devastated.But then I realised I even liked him more because of the respect that I've gained...Our second date was cancelled because he was a busy guy.We emailed once in awhile and planning to catch up because I just came from holiday and he is still on holiday as of the moment...WHAT IS THE SCORE???? Im still confused and I don't know...Maybe Im over reacting but spending my life with this man is not my option its my priority.....


anonymous 7 years ago

Um hi well i really like this guy and he always makes sure i get my hug after class and not a regular old tap hug thers no air in between us. he knows that i like him. he always follows me into class and comes up behind me for hug. he walks with me after skool but i have a feeling that the girl he just went out with after him again and she nevr even liked him... bitch. anyways i really like him but does any of that stuff means he likes me at all more than a friend. i mean we started out as frendz but even then he would sit with me at lunch and we were the type to be real close. i used to sit in his lap hehe when we were just frends and he would come sit with me wen our skool had got to watch a movie. sometimes he would look at me in this waay that seemed like he knew every thing about me and he would just look at me like he used to look at his girlfrend but good thing he doesn't look at her like that he looks at me like that what doea it mean.


Sheina 7 years ago

Well, i've got something to ask, .. There's this guy at school.. i caught him several times staring at me, Yes. he is my classmate, but we don't talk, nor greet, and he stays away from me a lot. I don't believe that he likes me or whatev . But I sort of liked him too. :D How can i possibly be close to him, without him and my classmates noticing That i liked him?


Margaux 7 years ago

PLEASE , READ EVERYONE:

It's really nice to read all your comments but PLEASE STOP writing comments that are long as a novel. Instead, Write a review about the topic. I've think that my Aunt Rhomy's article have been really helpful. So write a COMPLIMENT to her and NOT A NOVEL! My aunt's been really up all night reading your stupid nonsense blahblah novels. And now, she got this two embarrassing dark circles.

- Margaux


Jamie 7 years ago

Oh, you're right Margaux.

So yeah. Your aunt's article have been really helpful!

THUMBS uP


Sheina 7 years ago

Are you mad at me guys?

I was only asking a question :]


Margaux 7 years ago

Oh, of course not :) silly you,


Jamie 7 years ago

I can asnwer your question Sheina. Are you a sophomore or a junior? senior?


Sheina 7 years ago

Junior, why? Is this have something to do with him?


shivon 7 years ago

there is this guy i like and we are pretty good friends, he goes my church but not my school so i dont see him very often except sundays and whenever there are weekly gatherings. we have beeen friends for a while but just recently started talking more and whenever we talk we are always laughing and we are comfortable around eachother. hes two years older but hes really seet a nice. whenever he see's me he smiles or sometimes comes over. we always have things to talk about and i have a feeling he likes me too but im just not totally sure. how do i figure it out?


anonymous 7 years ago

ok so i found this article really interesting, and i rlly felt like you could help me...anyone. These points mentioned above "were" occurring, but then they just became less. I rlly like this guy at school and according to him we're "VERY CLOSE". He used to tell me everything, and it was rlly evident he admired me, and liked a lot of traits i had...he told me. I am new at the school, and he was the one to initiate all the conversations, and made me feel like he is rlly interested in getting to know me, in becoming friends or something more. He asked me these questions when we talked that hinted he had feelings for me. He texted me so much, almost every day, and we talked online for hours almost every night. When i stayed after school for certain reasons, he'd stay with me, come back for me at times so i wudnt be alone. Our convos were deep and friendly, they were carefree and i know we both enjoyed them before they gradually became a bit less interesting. Everything was amazing until last week, when we had this misunderstanding situation where he thought i was ignoring him and me the same...we figured it out, and i thought things were fine afterwards, but ever since, he has been different. he doesn't text me anymore unless i do, doesn't call me either, while i do-being a "good friend". He is a senior, and is quite busy with his applications, could that be the reason? When i asked him if something was wrong a couple of times, he denied it completely, telling me to "not worry", that he was only busy and wasn't going online that much. But i rlly feel like he has changed, he's not as enthusiastic as he was before with me...could it be that he WAS interested, but lost interest at some point? I am really attached to him, and have been hoping he'd tell me he liked me ever since we started talking as friends (beginning of november). I dunno if he felt i liked him, then pulled away, or that he simply became uninterested or whatever...but i am rlly upset and i do not know what to do. i am scared i'm a bit too pushy now since i'm putting all the effort for us to talk....i feel like we're going nowhere, and its a bit awkward for me now...i hate it. Pls help me, anyone is welcome to comment.


HEYHEYHEYY 7 years ago

hi.i rlly wish someone cood help you guys but wat i think Margaux is trying to say is if you read the article then thats your answer your supsosed to comment like "oo this rlly worked" this isent for advice about 1 single person each.do you no how annoying that musy be she probly has over 100 questions when you should be commenting not asking questions shes already tryed to answer them and cant answer everything everyday since 2 years ago i mean put yourself in her shoes if you want an advice collom go get one.. im not trying to be mean but there were under 20 comments and over 1hundread questions..the article is your help use it...bc i dought she enjoys all of this qeustioning when if you think about it your answering your own qeustion lik if you say i think this guy likes me then ask him out then youll no.i have boy problems too but if i want to talk to someone about them i talk to a friend a parent and or THEM!! good luck!i mean you dnt have to listen im just throughing that out there.. =]


HEYHEYHEYY 7 years ago

hi.i rlly wish someone cood help you guys but wat i think Margaux is trying to say is if you read the article then that's your answer your supsosed to comment like "oo this rlly worked" this isent for advice about 1 single person each.do you no how annoying that musy be she probly has over 100 questions when you should be commenting not asking questions shes already tryed to answer them and cant answer everything everyday since 2 years ago i mean put yourself in her shoes if you want an advice collom go get one.. im not trying to be mean but there were under 20 comments and over 1hundread questions..the article is your help use it...bc i dought she enjoys all of this qeustioning when if you think about it your answering your own qeustion lik if you say i think this guy likes me then ask him out then you'll no.i have boy problems too but if i want to talk to someone about them i talk to a friend a parent and or THEM!! good luck!i mean you dnt have to listen im just throughing that out there.. =]


Asha 7 years ago

pls. help im really confused. I think this guy likes me becuase he always try to make me laugh w/c is not normal for him, he "rescues" me from certain situations, i always notice him looking at me, and im quite sure that im not just assuming these things...the only problem is: HE doesn't communicate. Im pretty sure he knows my number and my email. Im not sure maybe its becuase of our roles in a certain organization? he's known to be the cool type of guy really...and he's really good looking, a lot of girls like him....i like him, but not that much. Im just so confused becuase he's showing these signs but i cant totally say that he's into e becuase he doesnt communicate...do you think he likes me? or does he like me but is no plans wtever to commit yet?


Asha 7 years ago

pls. help im really confused. I think this guy likes me because he always try to make me laugh w/c is not normal for him, he "rescues" me from certain situations, i always notice him looking at me, and im quite sure that im not just assuming these things...the only problem is: HE doesn't communicate. Im pretty sure he knows my number and my email. Im not sure maybe its because of our roles in a certain organization? he's known to be the cool type of guy really...and he's really good looking, a lot of girls like him....i like him, but not that much. Im just so confused because he's showing these signs but i cant totally say that he's into e doesn't he doesn't communicate...do you think he likes me? or does he like me but is no plans wtever to commit yet?


Tana 7 years ago

Omg there's this one guy that I like but I can't tell if he likes me and I seen him looking at me before lots of times and where ever I've been I seen him around me and Im confused cuz he's goning out with my friend who lives in texas which is far from where we live. Can u help me?


lovelylady 6 years ago

omg this is for comments only! your supposed to leave a comment not ask for advice. and p.s sum of u gus suck a t grammar. gosh.


Samantha 6 years ago

here u go...

i am in love!

i have looked through lots of websites to find out that i am possitively in love with my sisters P.E teacher who is 19, i really like him though am not sure if he likes me as much, i am 16.

there are times when i force myself into going to bishop (shool0 to chat up with him, but is is nearly impossible because his friends are always there with him.

there was this time when i told one of his friend that i love him, and his friend spread it all around! i hate him for that as his friends tease me saying @he doesnt like you, his already married' which is really hard for me to believe because my sister told me that he also has feelings and that he is single.

i love him deeply and i found out from a website that there is possible answer that he likes me too, but nt certain,

HELP

plz

sam


cassidy 6 years ago

iiiiiiiii rrreallly love him


ika 6 years ago

here's my story...

don't read if you have a little attention span or you can't give yourself 5 minutes to read.

i really like this boy. that time in math class, this boy sit in front of me.. and i told him there was something in his hair so i was messsing with his hair.. and then he went blushing and mess with his hair... and he asked me if there's any more in hair (no, it's not dandruff). then when i was concerntrating, he turn his head to me and stare at me and was making cute faces...but i was like, "no, im concerntrating" in my mind.. so i just ignore him. thenn he gets too cute and i push his face aside and he's like holding my hand.. then he smiled at me. we both gets blushed and the whole class went, "WHOOOOOOO!!!!"

then at the time in comp lab, my teacher was lecturing the whole class... and i noticed he keep looking at my direction (at me), but when i looked at him, our eyes met but in a second he looked away... (my friend notice it too).

so all of the sudden, weeks had passed, i began to be mean to him... make mean jokes about him... and so in the bus i fought with him... i really hated this part because he's being a total jerk. i fought with him cos he took my bag to get a "revenge" and then throw at another seat.. i was really in a bad mood so i was kind of pulled his hair really hard so he punched me in the back.

so the next day i chatted with him the msn, i said sorry.. and ask him if it hurts.. he said,"no, it grew longer" and we chatted like random things... he keeps typing such random things... and i was like, "wtf? o.o"

then the day after tomorrow the class had an geog class...i sit behind him.. and i noticed that he seems very uneasy and easily distracted... and my friends and his friends keep teasing about us... and he keeps looking behind (as i sit behind him) hoping to notice him but i act like as if nothing has happened.. i mean i ignored him.

so now, we're like lost in touch (because of the 2 month holiday)... and hey, we never text each other.. or had a real conversation or even go out. because he had this "ego" in himself and he admits to me that he's a computer geek...

and we seldom talk in class...

and my friend told her friend to ask this boy if he likes me (without me knowing until she told me about it), and he said no...

Should I just forget about him? AND "MOVE ON"?


aimee 6 years ago

I like this boy a lot we when owt but he finished me about 5 months and he has been with other girls he allways comes up to me and talks and asks me 4 a hug and stuff he allways looks at me and he allways whonts to meat me he says he likes me a bit but not as much as he did befor what do i do and he asked me 2 go 2 the school disco with him but he dint turn up coz he was ill what do i do i railly like him and i whonna get bk with him


Caroline 6 years ago

Theres a boy i was with last year but its been finished with us since last year and ever since weve kind of been meeting up but recently its obvious hes only lookin for sex and every time i bring up the conversation he ignores it. now i think he thinks he can have me when ever he wants and i have more respect for myself so how can i change this to let him no he cant and how can i get him to be the one chasing after me??


IM SO HAPPY! 6 years ago

HE ASKED ME OUT! HE ASKED ME OUT! HE ASKED ME OUT! IM SO HAPPY! THANK YOU SO MUCH! :) (L&B) HEHE! YOUR THE MOST AWSOME LADY IN THE WHOLE UNIVERSE!


Jessica  6 years ago

There's this guy i really like him, but i don't no if he likes me. we go to the same school and i always see him starring at me when he thinks i am not looking and he rarely talks to me but just says hi and makes small talk and then he starts fidgeting he sometimes teases me aswell but not to hurt me. what should i do help me plz!


Amelia 6 years ago

Okayyy, so I like this guy. We were dating but broke up. I still like him but h has a girlfriend. He does just about all of those... Should I tell him I like him?


Kaity 6 years ago

Okay so I've liked this guy when we we're just friend and we ended up going out but after 3 months he dumped me because we went to different schools . So we haven't talked for a while until like 5-9 months ago when he texted me , i was about to leave so i said bye i . . . Nvm . He finished the sentence for me saying Love you . Then the other day his little sister called me and said He wanted my number but he already had it we started talking told me he missed me that him and his friend would go to Cali and i should go , and that if his friend try do something he wouldn't let him but he'd do it himself . He also said i should go to his school so we could go out and he called me beautiful . Does this mean anything ? Please answer and thank you if you do .


Maddie 6 years ago

Okay so I am 14 and so is this guy I like! He is in this amazing band. He looks like a cute surfer boy that plays the guitar and piano. And he write his own songs and they r awesome. I play the guitar also and me and him always talk about writing a song together :) and he txts me like everyday.We get like groups of friends together and go to the movies and me and him "somehow" end up sitting next to each other I hav asked him who he he likes but he just says nobody!! But then one of his close friends told me that he likes somebody but would never tell me! I really just want to tell him I like him. But I don't want to get rejected and then nevr get to hang out with him cause it would be too awkward. And I hav know him for like 3 yrs


Ali 6 years ago

Hi im 12 and there is this boy and we have quite a lot in common as we are both quite shy and were both quite smart. we have been friends for a while now and we are both in pratically all in the same classes at school. Im in yr 8. well he is top set for evrythin and i'm not quite. if i look around and happen to see him he smiles at me he's got a nice smile and has a sense of humour and i think he's quite cute. Whenever we bump into each other we always say hi and when we leave school he says bye to me. what should i do should i ask him out?


amber 6 years ago

hey, um i like this guy ad he has a gf, but he looks at me alote at lunch and when i pass him in the hallway. But today he just stared straight ahead when i passed him and wasint even look at the person he was talking too.He also does that alote looks straight ahead when i walk by.He is one of those cocky guys and he seems pretty confident so i don't know if he is shy around me or what? He only talks to me sometimes and its usually pretty short like "hi"or the onetime he herd what i was saying to my friend and started talking to us but then the bell rang sooooo. Im really confused too why he isint talking to me this year because last year we were in the same class together and got put beside each other and we talked alote and it seemed like he was flirting.Then he started dating his current gf and they have been going out for a while now:(


holly  6 years ago

hi my name is holly i really like this guy hemoved on the astate about8 month's ago and ever since he has not took his eyes of me but there i a huge problem , he has a girl friend , he jokes around everytime he sees me if he's close by to me , he will touch me , put me to the grouend to have a laugh , his m8 nows me i tlk to him but don't dare to ask him if he ever talks about me , 1 time he was drunk and told me he'd take me home but he was drunk soo ...... but i want to no the truth if he likes me or if he dosant


kales 6 years ago

ok so this guy i like is a senior at my school and he is really really cute and i think we went on a date because we saw the princess and the frog alone and we always hang out. But he is like in my group... does he like me or is he just being friendly?


Erica 6 years ago

umm..i go to the ymca and there's this cute guy.how do i know if he likes me?he stares at me a lot,he tries to impress me with his workouts,and whenever he just always seems to go next to me wherever i workout.


sweet_n_petite 6 years ago

Hello, there is this guy in my class who always teases me in a good way, example. "You're boyfriend's here" when he here an obnoxious man talking in the hall. Also, I caught him looking at me and when i looked at him, he looked at the floor. Lastly he invaded my personal space by walking past me (which i thought)instead he leaned over behind me whilst i was sitting reading and put his arms around me onto my books and said "that my answer was wrong and he was right"...help! I don't know what to do next?


ellie  6 years ago

so basically i really like this boy. he normally always starts a conversation on MSN and whenever i see him around school he always runs over and hugs me. When we're talking on msn he always makes sexual comments and my friend thinks he likes me. He always tells me he loves me but one time on msn he said i love you so much with an embaresed face.. i don't know what to make of it. Does he like me or am i just imagining things?


HELP! 6 years ago

There's this boy i like, and he likes me back right, but everytime i look at him.. he always looks at me back then i get really shy and i was like what? then he was like nothing. then laughs. He told me that he liked me a few weeks ago and i told him that i liked him too, but then he said he had a girlfriend. then later, they broke up.. and he likes this girl in grade 8, and i'm jealous of her because she's like prettier than me and i want him to notice me... but it never seems to work... I need help, and i want him to notice me. My friend told me that i should go for his best friend because he also likes me, but i don't want to hurt his feelings... and i also don't want to ruin their reletionship. His friend asked me out once, and they got into a HUGE fight about it.. i rejected, and i hear that he still has feelings for me RIGHT NOW. I like him too, but i don't want to hurt his best friend too.. D:


Joynece 6 years ago

I swear that this guys does all does stuff with me but I'm really confused. I was in PR for so many years but before I was there we had a very close relationship and even if I didn't like him that time he used to be like that with me. Now that I'm back in USA he still acts like that again but were even closer now but there's only one problem... well actually 2. 1- HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND they met those years I wan in PR and problem #2 HES MY STEPBROTHER so I really don't have the guts to tell him. I'm really not sure because it just might be that he's being friendly with me but the thing is that from all my stepbrothers (3 boys and 1 girl) he's the only one that treats me that way so I'm not sure. God I really need help or I'll go crazy. I'm seeing him everyday and at everytime, we even stay hours talking. HELP!! thanx


LoveDrunk 6 years ago

Can anyone help? Anyone it doesn't have to be the writer.

Ok so there is this boy I went to elementery school with and I have never really thought of him as more then a friend. We've always had a class together and I always thought he was a bit annoying. This year we're both in 8th grade and we have 3 classes together. In science we are always getting into snippets which I started to enjoy. Whenever I try to drop the little arguments he wont let it go and just want to keep going at it. Sometimes he'll turn around and jokingly lick his lips and i always catch him looking my way. When I first told someone who went to the same elementary school as us that I liked him they said it was bound to happen sometime. Everyone in class is always telling us that we're major flirts. There is this one girl who is always throwing herself at him and one day she said "I love youu ****!" My friend told me that he looked at me then back at her and said "Well I don't feel the same way." If he likes me then why doesn't he try to get hold of me outside of class. How come he barely talks to me when we pass each other? Somebody please help. :[


helper 6 years ago

To: LoveDrunk

Well to me it obviously seems like this guy likes you. i was too once in 8th grade and know how you feel. when you guys pass in the hall try giving him a friendly smile and a wave or hi. it seems to me he is scared to say hi to you. so just start out with that. and if he does wave or say hi back then maybe he will become more confident and say hello to you first in the halls.

Sometimes guys and girls play mind tricks with eachother. for example he may really like you and doesn't want to seem annoying and so he just doesn't talk to you because he doesn't want you to hate him. so my advice would be to get his number and be the first one to text him and just be friendly at first and you could always throw a few flirts in there. and hopfully you will get the guts to ask him who he likes or how he feels about you. im sorry if this did not help. let me know if it did not. but good luck for now!


Sophie 6 years ago

hey im going out with this guy i really like

but i think his friend likes me to because me and his friend txt a lot as i do with my bf

and my friend told me that he thought i was hot with my bf

what should i do i don't want to hurt his feelings

thanks bye


Natalie 6 years ago

Oh my god this boy asked me out last night that i really like. Well i did until like ten minutes later he told my best friend that he wanted to go out with her! i was so upset when she told me, but then i thought, who cares about boys, boys come in and out of your life where as friends, friends are there for you all the time! Im definetly going to say no to this idiot of a boy but how can i say it?


Omg 6 years ago

Idk cause i like this guy and he likes me but when ever we flirt or look into each others eyes things get awkward and sometimes he ignores me like im a piece of trash but he is allways flirting with me HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


LoveDrunk 6 years ago

Thank you so much helper. I cant wait to try your tips and report back :D


Totally caught up 6 years ago

There is a guy who asked me to be his girlfriend. About a week later I went on a family/work trip after I said I probrably would not go.. Anyway, I kept in touch but returned and things were differnent. Later he said we were no dating as it was to complicated (his life and mine). He said he wanted to just focus on his career now and not a relationship.

It took me a minute to adjust but I finally got it and repected his wish. He said we were still unconditional friends. That I was special to him.

Anyway, although he will not see me privately(like his place or mine) as he says he does not want anything to happen. When we see each other in common surroundings he is very comfortable to touch me. Things like hands on my waist to pass by me or on my shoulders for me to move to a different spot. The touching of the arm. I get the occasional stare that seems to look right inside of me.

I may just be caught up but I am so confused. Althought I know he just wants to be friends. The touching is confusing me. We even joke about what kind of girl he should date. He even told me go to dinner with someone handsome. I know he likes me but just when I got things together in my head the touching confused me. Any advice from anyone with good advice please.


tamasia 6 years ago

i like this boy nasir .but everyone in my class says he don't like me but the other kids in my class say he likes me so im like do he like or don't he like me so i can move on with my life.But all he do in class is play fight in class and try to hold my hand make up things like I gave him my phone number and we was talking about dating and all that other stuff .he always looks me in the eye he kissed me at my cousins birthday party in the hallway but the kiss was harmfull. He says he watches me when I sleep and he always flirts at me im always stuck with him we sit across from him and in the same reading group when we switch classes to line up he stands behind me I sit next to him in health,math homeroom are we ment to be or not. But he we start dating my friend tia will be upset with me because she been trying to get him to like her for the past few years but then i didn't like nasir so I promised i would date him but know i like him what to do!!!!!!!!!!!! Tamasia


Chloe 6 years ago

Hello!

I need some advice since I'm not good with this type of stuff. By the way, I'm a shy girl. Well..I have this close guy friend and I was absent one day from High School, so we did not talk that day.

The next day, I did not want to talk to anyone in my first period class. (He is in that class too.) I suddenly start talking to this nice guy behind my best friend (for some odd reason)and when I was talking to him. I noticed at the corner of my eye, let's say his name is Cory (best friend) was looking at me when I was talking to the other guy.

A couple classes later, Cory is in my U.S. Studies class and I sat in my seat. He came over and took my purple pen that I sat on the desk and started to walk away with it, smiling. Then he came back and gave it back to me. Cory put his hand out infront of him and wanted me to give him a handshake (he's starting to do this often.)He said, "how are you?" and I gave him my hand and I said,"umm..sorry my hands are cold." Heh, I forgot to answer him.. Anyway, he felt my hands and told me, "wow, your hands are cold." Putting his hand over mine to keep them warm then he had to go back to his desk since the bell rang. (By the way, he is outgoing.)

Do you think maybe he thought something was wrong with me that day (feeling gloomy)and wanted me to smile, I did after he walked away with my pen, haha.

Could he like me? (I'm not sure since I'm not good with this stuff.)

Would it mean anything if we talked everyday, like if I did not speak to him one day and he try to talk to me in another class?

I'm sorry since this passage is too long.

Thank you.


nora 6 years ago

i like this guy in my class and he knows i like him but we are not friends and when ever i would like to talk with him he avoids it and tells me to get out of his life but then then one day he just says hi and gives me a chance to be his girlfriend. What does that mean?


Hm 6 years ago

Well, I like this guy who's a good friend of mine.

His friends, are my friends. So, there's nothing about the politeness. He's normally with me, and my friends, and most of his friends are girls, but he's not too open.

That day, we were all talking, and he was staring at me, like too much. He does that a lot these days, so I looked at him and smiled awkwardly in that "uh, is there something on my face" kinda way, and he started blushing and smiled back.

He keeps teasing me, he does seriously child-ish stuff to grab my attention, he calls me names, (nothing offensive), and whenever we're all sitting together, he taps my hand, or strikes it playfully. Then, the other day, I put my hand on my best friend's hand, as a joke, and he put his hand on mine.

Whenever we play red-hand, he ALWAYS waits for me to put my hand.

What does THAT mean? :S


shy girrrllll 6 years ago

Okay, my friend went on her very first date last night she is almost 13, and she wanted me to come so it wouldn't be awkward. so i came, being a good friend.Well my friends boyfriend brought a guy that was supposed to be for me, but all went wrong. we were texting a lot before that day and he kept telling me how much he likes me and stuff. and then on the day of my friends date, he totally ignores me. this girl invited herself to come with us and she is the hugest flirt, and she just happened to like the guy that was supposed to be my date. and they ended up making out like 3 times, but every time that they made out his eyes were opened, and they were staring at me, what is that supposed to be mean? guys are just too confusing, so does he like me or not? someone please help me!


Girl 6 years ago

I like this boy that i have known for ages. He is coming round my house tomorrow to catch up because we haven't seen eachother in ages. We have been talking for about a year on msn and every time it is me that has to start the conversation but the we are always flirting during the convo. I don't know if he likes me or whether i should make a move. HELP!!


Agnes 6 years ago

hi,

please help me if you don't mind.

ok so this guy i like is in a different group of friends and our friends hate each other..but everytime i pass bye he insists on saying hi, he touches me i tell him to stop but he dosent and every timw i talk about a really hot guy he gets pissed off also, everytime im with him and his friends his friends tend to ask me who he likes.


Shannon 6 years ago

Please help if you can! I really like this guy, and now he knows I like him because someone told him. Anyway, he's around me a lot and he's always staring at me. one time my friend told him to come tlak to me and he blushed and smiled and shook his head no. Later he said to my friend that he didn't want to talk to me. Does he like me or not!!??


kmtz 6 years ago

ok there is this guy and he comes to my work every sunday! well we started talking he gives me high 5's or a fist bumb. And he told me that he is going to virgina to get his brother. then he told me he wanted to say that because he want to tell me that he won't come on sunday but he will come back next sunday and bring his brother that i could meet him. I don't know if he likes me or just as a friend???


maris 6 years ago

please help...i have a guy friend and i am really not sure if he likes me. he carries my things but his overall personality is nice and gentleman. a classmate of mine who somewhat observed us sed to me that he likes me since he has that sparkle in his eyes. but the thing is when another classmate asked us if we were dating...we both sed we're friends. today, i happened to meet his mom...and it seems were close. but i am still confuse if he likes me at all.


Maya 6 years ago

My problems a bit more complicated.. he's my best friends twin brother. She always says that she doesn't think it's weird when people go out with their friends siblings, but i think it's cause she's never been in the situation before. and she is the best friend i have ever had so if the relationship with her brother goes badly, will that put a strain on our friendship? also, he thinks his best friend likes me, so it's a bit triangular..


Dezy  6 years ago

Okay so I really like this guy and he is really popularand I'm not but myy best friend likes him too and he does 4 of the thing up here and I don't know if I should ask him out.....please help


Cynthia 6 years ago

I told a guy that I like him at school, but then he's stopped talking to me and now, i feel like he hates me. But he says that he wants to be my friend but he still avoids me and doesn't talk to me anymore. The thing is that I used to like his friend, and his friend also started hating me when I told him that i like him. I don't know how to win my two best guy friends back. HELP

-Girl with awkward relationship-


Ayla. 6 years ago

Ohkay, I like my friend Austin. I've known him since kindergarten, I have seriously loved him ever since. We're so close it's almost weird to like him like that, But I don't just like him, I love him. I would do anything for him, and I mean anythingg. We flirt a lot (Hugging, smiles, wearing his hoodies, playing 'Tag' sometimes, Always sitting together, sharing beverages -Food, etc.) Yet, I've asked him out multiple times spread throughout our friendship, always come up with the same answer.. No. I hate rejection in general, but getting it from him is 23849377467598436X worse. I got to be the 'Just friend' For almost eight years now. I still remember the day I met him. June-23rd-2002, I consider it the best day of my life. I watched him date most of my friends. I just for once even for a day, I want..no I need to be that girl. The one he can't get out of his head, or who he's crazy about.

We also go to church together, every August they have a church camp at our church property. I know this is wrong but I want this summer to be the one. The one where I get to play that part. I'm totally determined to make him mine this summer. I'm not sure if it'll work considering he's blonde, Blue eyed, Hollister wearing, Hot little thing, with a perfect smile. &I'm just a girl, brown hair, green eyes, Short, kinda chubby, gapped teeth. I can understand whyy we're JUST FRIENDS. He would've gotten the bad half of the deal anyways.

Please helpp!

Love&Rockets- Ayla


jk 6 years ago

i really like this guy. we hang out together and have been friends for 2 years. he'll hold my hand or kinda play with my hand while it rests in his? and when we spend time alone together we flirt. we usually will hold hands. give each other backrubs. but idk if he wants to move forward. hes moving in a year and in high school dating seems stupid. he talks about other girls. and him and i always share advice and stuff about guys/other girls. but idk if he likes me and wants to date. or just keep casually flirting and haning out. how do i bring it up? or ask him? because neither of us really like the 'high school' relationship thing but this has been going on for a long time. how do i knw?

Thanks

JK


SH 6 years ago

i do have a huge crush over a virgo man, and he only calls me a lot, maybe twice a day or something and he look at me a lot, but seriously i don't know whether he likes me or not, sometimes i feel it and then he crashes every thing down by telling me iam his friend and after a while he tells me that i act like his ex that he used to love her a lot

i need yiur help


Jilly 6 years ago

So sometimes me ad this guy hang out. I really like him but sometimes it feels like maybe we are just overly flirting. Sometimes I think he really likes me. Idk. Could anyone help. Wen we are alone we flirt hold hands and hug. An at school we talk ans joke always smiling. Idk. I just don't knw if I should tell him or if that'd ruin our great friendship??


marielle10 6 years ago

There is this guy but I'm not sure if he likes me or not. We both go to the same church. He looks at me a lot and he always finds away to make me smile and laugh,but im confused because he is always asking my sister out, because oviously she likes him, but both my mom and uncle told me that he likes me and not my sister but i don't know how to tell if he likes me or not. please Help me thnx


sakura 6 years ago

a guy friend, he always tells me when we chat online that he wants me to text this other girl to call him, even though she(that girl) has broken his heart twice,

but at school, he always stares at me when he thinks im not looking, then after assembly, i walk out of the hall, and he is looking in my direction, and when he sees me he smiles really big...? and he teases me with a nickname sometimes... is it just me? he tells me he likes this other girl, but always makes me think 'does he like me or?' please help if you can!!! >\\


sakura 6 years ago

a guy friend, he always tells me when we chat online that he wants me to text this other girl to call him, even though she(that girl) has broken his heart twice,

but at school, he always stares at me when he thinks im not looking, then after assembly, i walk out of the hall, and he is looking in my direction, and when he sees me he smiles really big...? and he teases me with a nickname sometimes... is it just me? he tells me he likes this other girl, but always makes me think 'does he like me or?' please help if you can!!! >\\


lovingaguy 6 years ago

HELP! I really like this guy in my grade but I think he likes someone else. I really really like him! I stay up a long time just thinking about him can anyone help me! PLEASE!

- can't take it anymore

P.S. I have heard that if a guy really likes you you could do this thing called a clock test. You wait until you think he's looking at you and then you look uo at the clock. Then you look at him really quickly. If he likes you he would look up at the clock to see what you were looking at, but if he didn't like you he wouldn't look at the clock. This is fairly easy for me to check because he sits beside me in one of my classes, but does it work.


lovingaguy 6 years ago

Sorry where it says uo it was supposed to be up.


Confusing lover 6 years ago

Hello,

I like/love a boy, a nerd, since I guess two years' time.

He knows that I like him, since friends told him so. Yet we have never talked about it. He has never dated anybody, nor has been in any related activity. Friends caught him watching me few times, and I noticed it too. His friends have declared my feelings towards him, to him, via text messages, but he has never replied back. Can someone clear the confusion please? Does he like me or not?


Really confused 6 years ago

Hey,

i like this guy and i think he knows that and i heard he liked me to. but the thing is he always calls me names like nazi and hitler because i recently moved back from germany...

now i don't know if he likes me or doesn't! im really confused, please help me??


helppp!!! 6 years ago

sooo i like dis guy hu is ma (cousion),i do not know what to do i mean when he sees me we do not speak he jus smiles at me i don't think he likes me as more than a cuz but i love him i have tried to tell him how i feel but i get really nervous,like for e.g on da phone i can not do dis i really want to tell him anyone know what i can do to tell him without tellin him and without him knowing i told him and plus i don't wnt anyone 2 find out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1


Problem or Pathetic? 6 years ago

Ok here's my thing...so my sisters and I were at Lindsey park yesterday, and there was this really pretty flower patch, it was right when the sun was setting so it was super pretty, that's when I realized that i really wanted a boyfriend. I like about three different guys, but I don't think any of them like me. The first guy has been my best friend since like 3rd grade, we're both in 7th grade now, but all the girls he's been going out with are these chicks who aren't good for him at all! He's gone out with like 2 8th graders and is going out with another 8th grader, and I think that's the only reason he's going out with them, cause there 8th grade. He used to like me but ever since we've come to middle school he's been acting so different! The second guy is someone I kinda like, he's always flirting with me, but he does that with a lot of girls, he looks at me a lot, and when ever we talk he always says the first word, but I'm getting mixed signals and I don't want to just ask him out without knowing what exactly yo do. And the third guy is an 8th grader. He is super funny and sweet but I'm confused. what happened was I could tell he was into me, I asked him out to a dance but he said he couldn't go and maybe we could hang out some other time. Before that he asked me to come see the jazz band he was playing in. But by the second time I asked him out, trying to be more casual, a whole group of people were going. Since then he hasn't talked to me, gave me hugs like before, twidled with my hair or poked me, but then just yesterday he asked me to put his number in his phone...so as you can probly tell I am very confused, but I need help fast, cause the flowers go away in about 2 weeks!!!


Nicole  6 years ago

Ok, here's the thing.

I liked this guy ages ago who I never used to talk to, then I got over it realising that I just thought he was good looking. Then the awkwardness went away and we've been friends ever since that.

I've been at a Swim Meet with him for the past five days and I like him again, this is what's going on: (lets just say his name is Matt?)

Well, we've been hanging out every day for the whole five days and he was acting normal until about day 3. We were hanging out in a room together (alone, everyone else left) and he randomly asked me if i had a boyfriend.. i answered no and asked him if he had a girlfriend since his last one, 5 months ago. He said no and we kept talking about relationships and stuff.

Then we were hanging out alone again the same day i think and he asked if i like anyone from swimming (where we know each other) and i said, "nahh, whys that?" then he asked a few boys names and i kept saying no, (cos its him) and he let it go. A few minutes later he asked again, this time I said, "Why do you want to know?" =) and he said that hes just curious.

On the bus home that night he was sitting in front of me, and the whole trip home he faced me and we were talking in a group of friends. He began touching my hair and ruffling it, then he touched me on the nose with his pinky when a friend "teased" me (jokingly).

He then asked me if id ever hooked up before (I haven't, but i said yes) and i pretended it was with my ex *Josh*. He kept asking me when it was and what "Josh's" last name was. He seriously wouldn't stop asking, like he really really wanted to know. Then i asked him the same and he told me thr truth and all about his past that i didn't already know. somethings that he told me he didn't want everyone to know.

Then later that night i was a bit upset about a friend who had a bit of a problem going on, and he asked me if i wanted a hug and whether i was OK, not asking my friend anything.

When we were in our own rooms that night, i text him and told him the truth about "josh" and that i hadn't kissed before. then he asked why i was upset and i told him. he didn't care that i didn't tell the truth the first time, cos i was telling it now. We text for a bit more that night.

During the whole days we were touching, and i was watching a funny video on his phone with him and our bodies were touching, our heads together too. We went to a movie on the last day and our arms touched the whole movie (he came and sat next to me). We shared my drink and his popcorn and everything, and were talking a lot of the time.

He also talks to me about this person in our club who is a massive flirt and how his mate wont tell her that shes cheating on her boyfriend! So he talks to me about stuff he wouldn't say to everyone too.

He shows some of the signs, raises his eyebrows, laughs with me, STARES! Oh my god! all the time i catch him looking at me! he either smiles or looks away shyly, depends. ususally a smile though. he used to be really quiet but now he's a lot more outgoing and always laughs with me and stuff. He can be hard to read but he always acts like himself around me.

I really need an opinion on this, because i don't know what to do. Ive never felt like this about a person and don't want to make a fool of myself, nor do i want to miss my chance.

He knows most of the girls at his school like him, (hes really really smart but good looking) so they all fall for him. he doesn't enjoy it and tells me it gets really annoying. that most of the girls at his school are sl*ts.

PLEASE help me, anyone can reply to this, i just want some advice. I need an outsiders opinion.

Thanks,

Nicole.


Jacinda 6 years ago

Huh,

there is this really hott guy in my 9th period class named adam and he is supper cute soi gave him my cell phone number and henever texted me and we never talk?? wtf? And know like 1 month later i catch him glance at me everyonce in a while but rarley i guess what do i do?


charzo 6 years ago

im only 14, and i like this guy whos in the year above me. we have talked once or twice in school and we txt for like 6 hours everyday. he used to go out with one of my friends, we are not really close but still... he kept asking me how is a good way to let a girl down gently so i gave him some advice.. the week later he dumped her and, well, hes really nice to me and actually cares when somethings wrong..he always asked how im feeling and sorta flirts a lot... we admited we liked eachother last night which was great! we both are really into music, he likes heay metal and rock stuff, which is a lil difrnt to my taste but, omg! i cant wait for school to go back to see him again. i cant stop thinking about him... am i crazy?


andrea 6 years ago

i am 11 and a 13 year old likes me but so does a kid on my bus and they both put ther arm around me there both cute but they don't know about eachother what should i do?!?!


sahara 6 years ago

there is this guy on facebook and he always likes what i post on facebook, so we talk 2 times he told me to throw a party at ur house( my house) but im like "you throw a party" anyways i was saying we talked 2 times but he never asked for my number or just hangout, the only thing he says about the party oh and he says throw it and just invite me and you!!! now i like him but im not sure if he likes me :(


Nikki 6 years ago

I text this guy everyday and he always texts me back and we always talk for a long time, but we like joke around with eachother and make funn of eachother but it never seems like he like likes me.. But one night he came over and we were lying with eachother and he kept rubbing my back and keeping his hands on me.. But then he kissed mee.. And I told him I like him and he never has a real answer.. Does he like me?


Belle 6 years ago

Okay do far there's this boy who I like and he was avoiding me for three days until his n day his friends ask me why were not going out and everything and I'm so lost at the moment does he still like me cuz he does these signs and everything but I think he might find me as his friend now HELP ME!!!!!


Natasha 6 years ago

Hello!

well you know how you were talking about the signs and stuff well i have a big problem my bestfried and i like the same guy but she doesn't know that i like him so i don't want to tel her because the guy i like's bestfriend likes my bestfriend and he like the guy i like so if his bestfriend (the one i dont like) asks my friend out and the guy i like asks me out she'll be upset with me for saying yesso im kinda stuck and confused because i love my bestfriend and dont want o hurt her.

HELP!!!


Alice 6 years ago

Hello, I've been interested in this stranger I have recently approached. A week ago, he would pop in and say hi online and then he just .. stopped. My hopes were high and I thought were going somewhere, but might he have lost interest? What should I do? What is happening?


no name 6 years ago

There is this guy that I meet about a year ago and hes 2 years older than me. Our families are close so I see him pretty aften. I was txtn his cousin because im friends with him and thats how i know him and he comes on and says hey this is....! WE txted and then he said txt me on my fone and he gave me his number. Ever since then weve seen eachother a lot and he always talks and jokes around with me. He txts me every single day from the time i get out of school until the time i go to bed. He tells me his secrets and asks me so many questions about my self. We have had some contact like wen he gave me a high five. WE were takin a huge pivture at an event we were at and he said to stand next to him. I dont know if he likes me and hes nvr mentioned anything about it. Should I wait for him 2 bring it up if he wants to? Does he really like me? Help!


Super confused! 6 years ago

i'm a sophmore. i met this guy when we were in 7th grade. Ever since we have been really good friends. The way i met him was from my boyfriend at the time. He was super nice and i thought he was cute. i knew i sort of liked him but never admitted it. When i broke up with my boyfriend, we started talking more often and i started to think of him as more than a friend. I kept it a secret for four years now and during those four years i flirted with him, but he never flirted back. I thought well maybe we are just friends so i started looking for a new guy and i found one. we aren't dating but he makes me feel special. Then i think it was 2 weeks ago..my crush that i liked for four years tells me he likes me! i was happy, but then whenever i talked to him he never talked. he was shy. i could tell. a week passed and i was starting to get anxious. i hadn't talked to him since he told me and i needed to know if he still like me. so after class i went up to him and asked if he liked me...he told me that he didn't. so i was crushed. So i thought i should just focus on the other guy i met. well on the friday of the second week my long term crush came up to me and said a joke about me. and all his friends laughed. I wasn't in the mood that morning so i just ignored him. i knew he was kidding because they always say jokes to me, because i can take it. well i was talking to friends when he came up to me and said that joke. well while i was talking to my friends, my back was turned from my crush, so someone said hi to me and i turned and said hi. Then for some strange reason one of my friends that i was talking to started laughing. i asked what was so funny. he said that my crush was staring at me for a long time and then when i looked back he looked away. then started looking at me again after. ever since.. i've been sooooo confused. he is nice, smart, and understanding. i really like him but i just don't know what to think anymore. Does he like me still? Should i ask him? I NEED SOME ANSWERS HERE!!!!!!


bhakti 6 years ago

omg there is this cute guy in my skuel i relly love him alot i also told him but he doesnt feel d same way for me

but sumtimes i see him starrin at me n smile whenever my frnds take my name in font of him


Krys 6 years ago

okaay,there's this guy from my school, SUPER hot and hes really sweet. iwould consider us as mates. but he has a girlfriend. his friend asked him if hed ever go out with me, and he said "iwould but ihave a girlfriend"

soo.... does he like me? or just enjoys playing with girls?


Broken apple 6 years ago

I really liked this guy since grade 10 now i am in grade 11

in grade he used to flirt with me he used to like wink at me several times (around his friends), then this year people were like spearding rumors cuz he said that he would F*** me. So i asked him if this was true he said he never said that. Then a couple of months later i talked to him on msn. We told each other secrets (old crushes). But then after a week i wrote an embrasing comment on his fb wall and his friends were making fun of it. He still wished me happy birthday buh online not on wall. I made one guy ask the guy i like if he liked me and he said" hell no, i m not ready for a relationship. (he was laughing) (my friend also saw the hello part) i cant get over himm.


dezy  6 years ago

ok so i'm in need of advice ok so this guy hes t years older than me but i reall ylike him and from what ive herd he really likes me he comes over to hang out and everything but he wont ask me out what do i do because my mom always says its proper for the boy or male to ask first so what do i do ????????????????


Cassandra Lopez 6 years ago

Ok so im in 9th grade and I have 2 classes with this one guy i reallyyy like!

We have algebra and english together, and hes ALWAYS looking at me, just smiling, he always trys to talk to me, but often gets nervous so backs off..

How do i respond? what do i do


Me myself 6 years ago

I really like this guy and everyone always say how we should go out but my friend asked him out for me a few months ago but he said no because he thinks it will ruin our relationship but we are still very close. Did he say this to be nice or did he mean it ? what should i do?


broken apple  6 years ago

i need really need advice, i want to get over him, i deleted him from fb and msn.

what else


Clueless and confused! 6 years ago

Hey so there this guy I like. He's in 4 of the the same bands as me (we both play sax). I would ask him out except I'm afraid of rejection and then losin him as a friend, which would suck because he a good friend of mine. Oh I'm not sure if he likes me either. He doesn't stare at me too often from what I can tell, but he is always somewhere near me at school. When we go on band trips he always sits by me in long concerts and his leg always touches mine for most of the concert. Help?


broken apple 6 years ago

need advice styll


iluvubabygal 6 years ago

this boy i like does not know i like him but i think he likes me and he hes laid on my shoulder alot but im afraid to ask him out


jwoww 6 years ago

hey,

There is this Guy at my school I think he really


Katy 6 years ago

So theres this guy that I work with. He's full time, and i'm part time. I just started this past week, and I really like him. He volenteered to show me where to go when I went to orientation and then stayed and talked about 10 or 15 minutes while waiting on the trainer to get there.

He asked me how old he was, when I told him he said "I knew it. You looked 17. We were trying to guess how old you were." Then later we were in the break room. There was him, another guy, a girl, and me.

He was talking to the guy, but not the girl. When I came in he started including me in the converstation. He asked me what I was learning in the orientation, and then asked me what kind of music I liked and said i looked like i like country. Which I do. I like country, rock, and pop.

He asked if i liked the jonas brothers and a couple of other artists. Then he casually dropped in that he was only 20. and he kept making me laugh. I'm not sure if it was on purpose, or just in general.

Do you think he might like me? I haven't known him all that long, but what do you think?


Hayley 6 years ago

Hey okayy so there is this guy that i went out with on New Years this year and now we are just friends. Actually we are BEST FRIENDS! Anyway I like him and he said two weeks ago he likes me too but now he has a girlfriend...or i still think he does, I really really love him and wish we could go out again. All of my friends know im in love with him and it just hurts when i see that slut with him! I know he still likes me and i just want to know how i can get him back..do you guys know how too??


:) Louise 6 years ago

heya... theirs this guy i have been meeting we have met 3 times overall and he shows them signals... i.e. eye contact, touching on the arm, uses my name at teh end of sentences, gives me hugs. he said that he likes me and has got a thing for me. we havent spoken for 3 days then i decided to get in contact with and ask if his alright with me? and i texted him and said do u still feel something for me and he replied with to be honest i look at u more of a friend :(.. what changed? x


jesibel 6 years ago

i think the guy likes you just tell one of your freinds to ask the guy do you like the girl


nikki 6 years ago

hey i really like this lad but i'm really not sure if he likes me bcuz at lunch he always makes me chase him around the field n whn i catched him i keep grabbing his hand but he doesnt tried to wriggle his hand out n stuff he jst walked around wiv me n jst let me hold his hand n we always smile at each other, stare and he always trying 2 get me 2 chase. Also once i was on facebook and one of his m8 asked me out cause he loged onto his account n he said tht it has 2 b done?!?!?!?!?, also a few days ago i said tht i'll walk home cuz i normally take the bus n he jst sort of lit-up. i really like him but i dno if he lykes me plzzz help me out!!!!


Amy 6 years ago

I like this guy and i know he likes me cause his friends watch me and he would push my chair during health but he won't ask me out. Also we don't talk but we're friends on myspace. And we have P.E. together. How can I get him to ask me out???????? HELP!!!


Jamie 6 years ago

Ok so I just started liking this guy in my class, and before that we were just friends. Before I liked him I asked him who he liked and he said he would tell me later but I don't think he will. He does look at me sometimes and when he does if I look up he just looks in my eyes for a couple seconds then looks away. I don't know if he likes me. He teases me a lot but just playfully to make me laugh. Can someone please help me? I want to know if he likes me or not.


Jade 6 years ago

My partner at dance i do like him, and im trying to see if he likes me, more then just a friend. we only met a couple months ago (6 months ) and i found out his girlfriend and him broke up just after we met, everything happens for reason. so i do see him staring at me, teasing me, complimenting me, and that. but im wondering if its just a friend way,


KGurl 6 years ago

i really like this guy:) I know for sure he likes me to, because he even told me he does. i loved how i could compare him to everything that you said. Idk if he likes me as much as i've drawn close to him b/c he was actually supposed to be hooked up with my best friend. guess what....she is into him to. He doesnt like her as much as he does me but if he ever asked me out and i said yeah then i would be scared she'd be mad at me.


Libby 6 years ago

so...i am in 8th grade and i really REALLY like this guy named Joe. we are the same age, but he is 10 times more popular than me, i might have the idea in my brain that he likes me, because he is always staring at me, and smiles when ever one of my friends say my name in front of him! idk! i really need help, thanks!


Gamerchix 6 years ago

I am really into this guy && I'm not really sure if he likes me back. We met over the XBOX && have not met in person. We talk about meeting soon but, I'm not sure if he just thinks he might get something out of it. I really like it a lot. We use to talk everyday for like hours && then we stopped talking because he got shipped out. Other day he emailed me and told me he missed me && told me to add him on xbox again. I didnt, instead he added me. Him && I have good chemistry and always have a great time playing with each other. He makes me laugh and smile so much. He tells me he misses me when he hasnt even left yet. He loves me laugh and that Im beautiful. But, I really just have no clue on if he likes me more than a friend && if so how much...please help! Thanks!


Megan 6 years ago

Okay...so i like this guy thts popular nd is friends with like evryone...im not tht popular. he constantly annoys me(nd teases me) nd we txt each other all the time. I really like him, nd my friend casey thinks he likes me... But i dont think he LIKES me. We r really good friends. How do i figure out if he likes me???? Im so confused!!!


kat 6 years ago

bit of a long story I came out of a bad relationship when I was 19 and ended up having a miscarriage. I got with a guy after that who was really sweet took me under his wing and was there for me all the time. At first we were just friends then we started seeing each other. It got to the point where we lived with each other and when it felt serious I asked him where we really stood and I think that scared him because he ended up having a go at me. (I was prepared to take him and his baby on he wasn't with the babies mum) I moved out and he wanted me back we carried on seeing each other. it later got to the point that I finished seeing him because my feeling for him were really strong for him and it hurt me. Since then I have gone out with other people and my feelings had gone away till lately when I go on nights out with my friends (when I'm back from uni) and he watches me dancing and having a laugh with my male mates but when he catches me eye and I look at him he acts like he hasn't been looking at me. When I try saying hi to him and ask how he is he acts like he can't be bothered to talk to me and makes me feel small and hurt. he is a few yrs older than me I don't know why he is like this with me. I walked passed him in the street the other day on my own not seeing him he said hi and stopped to talk to me.


kim 6 years ago

i really like this guy. Hes 3 years older than me. Hes called me a few times, and texts me all the time. Weve hung out(just me and him) but when we hang out hes texting other girls too. He has also left the youth group we go to to see another girl that was having a bad day, but hes never done that for me. Am i just another girl in his phone or am i actually someone that he likes?


reehrehh 6 years ago

omg so there is this guy i met in one of my classes and in the begining i didnt know a thing about him he would always walk into class late thinking hes all cool and stuff and i dont know but for some reason i;d always stare at him but not because i like him its just i would. and we finally talked a little bit bc he would always catch me staring and when he would he'd smile real big. but here was the problem

he had a gf who was a senior and she was really weird she would always look in our class to see if he was talking to any girls and really obssessive i guess, but once me and him started to alwys talk somoeone ended up telling her about me talking to him and she told everyone how much she hated me this and that. and they are known for breaking and getting back together

and once she came up to me telling or asking if i liked him i said no. and

she came up to me again and asked me why i lied because i do but i really didnt

and now they have been broken up for i think 3 weeks she dumped him and ( still hates me) and me and this guy talk but see heres the problem i feel like everytime him and his ex break up its come running back to me like idnt wnna feel like a rebound ad stuff. and he acts like he liikes me but says "were just friends" like we've kissed and everything but then agains were just friends idk what to think of him.

everyone is telling me im too good for him and hes just using me as arm candy bc his ex dumped him. and they are warning me to stay away. but i dont know what to do and honestly i dont wanna date him but then again i dont wanna be friends with benifits bc thats just skanky(no offece) please tell me?????


Diana 6 years ago

i like this boy in sixth grade, his name is martin. his sister cecilia and i are close friends..and whenver we go somewhere..he is always there..and he likes to participate in some of the things i do..like volleyball, running and stuff like that, he already knows i like him....but when i actually told him myself, he didnt say anything, he just said he already knew i do like him , and everything was just quite. sooo do u think he likes me back? and im not really sure i should ask him to be my bf.


frustrated 6 years ago

ok so after months of flirting and chrushing on this guy i went and told that i like him. It was the end of the day so i just turned around and walked to my bus. That was yesterday. Today i expected things to get awkward between us after what i said but he still acts the same way and talks to me, if not more, and lets his friends call me his girlfriend( they found out from him, me and best friend). But he still hasn't told me if he likes me, and i dont know if he's playing with my feelings or not.


NothinOnYouBabyy 6 years ago

there's this guy in my class who I really like and waits for me 2 go 2 the bus 2gether and helps me with everything and talks to me a bit during lessons (depending which teacher we have). But everyone knows that he's absoultley mad for this other girl and has been for years :/ what should I do!! i need help desperatley!!!!


I'mjustme 6 years ago

@nothingonyoubabyy

He probaly likes u my crush does the exact same thing I'd

just ask him someday after school

he probaly says he just likes her to coverup

the fact that he likes u

Hope I helped :D


Mary 6 years ago

Okay, i like this younger guy. He's in 9th and i'm in 11th. I hungout with him with like a group of friends for the past 3 weeks. Well he was really making sure I was single or always asking who i was "talking" to and making sure i didnt like this other guy. Well he texted me the next day, but idk if he likes me or not? Or does he seem shy? Idk, i'm confused helpppp :)


sarah 6 years ago

Ok, so i really liked this guy and we went out and he broke up wit me a week later. hes said we could be friends and see what happens from there, but all we do is say hi, adn he smiles at me and makes eye contat. its really cute and hes always pointing at me or looking with his friends..idk whats going on!i just really want him bak =/ anytipss? i wanna start talking again too


fatima ;  6 years ago

i like, my boyfriend, i love him with all my heart but he likes this other girl too. he told me, before we were ven going out, & he flirts with her more then he does with me, & i don't know what to do.


Livie 6 years ago

so i like this guy alex and he's a year older than me and is going on to highschool. About in may i told him that i liked him and he said that he figured it out. But when i asked him if he likes me back he sneaks out of the question - its frustrating. I think he likes me tho cuz he would come up to me randomly in the hall after gym and start talking about any random topic and he'd be smiling like he won a million bucks and he'd always be looking at me wen he does talk, and then to add on he did ask me if my face still hurts aftr i got hit in dodgeball. And a feww more things a few weeks b4 school ended we were having this competition and his team was right bhind mine and i startd arguin with his frends and he just butted in and said hold up ill handle this with her and startd cheering me on and the last thing is that i turn to look at him all the way across the gym and see him staring at me with his head slightly tilted and lips a bit parted withthis dreamy look in his eyes


jade 6 years ago

i like this guy named austin and i think he likes me cuz he is always at the dances i go to and he always stares at me and smiles when hes around me even if he is down about something


Monica 6 years ago

I really like this guy but i dont think he likes me back. He is a really big flirt and recently, he really liked one of my best friends, she doesnt really show interest in him but she plays hard to get. Everyday, after we leave school, everyone gives eachother hugs, and he hugged my and picked me up, and hes always flirting. I dont know what to do because i think he might still like my friend, help?


Sally 6 years ago

This guy that i really like ALWAYS looks at me in the halls.

but, he always tells my friends, that are friends with him, how much he hates me.

to me, he can be super sweet, but to my friends, he talks about me badly.

we dated a while ago, and he said he would never again...


Super Confused x 2  6 years ago

i really like this guy and iv liked him since the beggining of the year, he showed all theses signs in the very begining of the yar to the almost end but then we just like stopped tlkin after i didnt tlk to him so muc, i still ctch himm looking at me and every time he makes a joke he watches to see if id laughed and he gently brushes up againdt me when he walks by and he recently grabbed my hands and he asked me to hold his hands down so my friend could kick him (long story) then i said eww after i held his hands and he was like sad and saidd a disgusting remark about why i let go . I dont know if he still like me bu i really really really like him plss help me cause i dnt wanna ask hi out and get super embaressed thanx lotsss


Confused 6 years ago

hey, I need help this boy in my year the other day came up from behind and hugged me. I've liked him for a while now and we spend most of our lunch times together in a group with a few other people. But the bottom line is I don't know if he likes me back :/ please help me xx


confused 6 years ago

by the way he doesn't usually hug people!


Artimis 6 years ago

wow this is suprisingly right, i like this girl in my class and i did 4 out of 5 of the things listed here.


confizzled 6 years ago

dhis used 2 like me bt i wuz cool bout it i acted like i didnt like him bt i did...nd somebody told me some stuff about him nd i started hate him soo he kinda got annnoyed nd stoppd talkin 2 me ... nd one time wen just both of us wuz talkin he askin me if i likd any of his freinds nd he went through each friend pickin out their flawss... nd in d end hez like well me, im already hooked.... in school he's not talkin 2 me at all nd even if he does, he stops talkin as soon as his gf walks by d class :( wat does this mean is he still interested or he like hates me 4ever??? help ;(


Girl 6 years ago

There is this boy I really like and his told me he likes me to but he told my mate he wont ask me out because of his friend. I dont want to go out with his friend what should i do?


A Girl 6 years ago

Ive been best friends with this guy for only 2/3 years and he has being doing all 5 of those things.What should I do?????


lost:S 6 years ago

hey ...there is a guy that i like but i dunno if he does ...he doesn't initiate conversations and he doesn't talk unless i do and he is so cold i cant know what he's thinking :S. he sometimes even ignore when am chatting.but when am around him face to face he is a different person,he shows some care and he keeps on teasing me and playing with my hair....so please help me i dunno if he likes me or not


lost:S 6 years ago

hey ...there is a guy that i like but i dunno if he does ...he doesn't initiate conversations and he doesn't talk unless i do and he is so cold i cant know what he's thinking :S. he sometimes even ignore when am chatting.but when am around him face to face he is a different person,he shows some care and he keeps on teasing me and playing with my hair....so please help me i dunno if he likes me or not


Unsure 6 years ago

There's this guy that I first met in my English class at school at the beggining of Y9. He also does Duke of Edinburgh in the same group of me.

Sometimes I get the feeling he really likes me but othertimes he's really distant and just pretty much ignores me.

He's 16 days younger than me and has an identical (or very nearly identical) twin, but I can tell them apart, easily.

A few days ago he asked my friend to move up a seat so I could sit next to him instead. And later on that day when I came out of a room at lunchtime he was outside the room and his eyes were looking straight into mine, he looked confused, like he wanted to talk to me and lost, but today, when I was checking my school e-mails, he said that he wasn't going to give me his e-mail, I didn't ask for the e-mail either. I pointed out that I could find it anyway and he just shrugged and went 'I know'.

He usually says hi in the corridors to me but never my friends.

I don't know what to think as sometimes he is so nice and acts as if he really likes me but other times... yeah.

He says he doesn't want to go out with anyone, but my friends says he really likes me.

Sometimes when we look at each other across the room we look away quickly but othertimes we look at each other longer than normal, but never the middle.

I don't know, can someone please help!


lost 6 years ago

i have a similar problem .......i went t a new class and in this class there was only 2 girls me and another one and the rest were boys............


lost  6 years ago

and sometimes when i look at them i find that they were looking at me ...........my friend from another class told me that one of the guys likes me my personality and other things but not (love)..... he was always tryies to make me happy and sometime he would make jokes on my and make me upset .....later he will apoligize but am confused .........is it cuz there was not alot of girls or he really like me ?????


katie 6 years ago

i really like this guy i mean love but he is in one year above me. but today we were in the same class and i saw him keep looking at me and if i looked at him he would look at me. but i dont no if he feels the same way because this is the first time i have meet him ? please help me


simone  6 years ago

so one of my best friends has recently moved to a co-ed school and i have gotten to know some of her guy friends and one in particular has caught my eye! i bumped into him in town one day and he gave me a hug...but it was like super long and then he gave me his number but he didnt have his phone so he didnt take mine

after a few weeks he sent me a message and said that he'd asked like 10 people if they had my number and then he finally asked me to go to the movies with him...and he didnt want me to ask my best friend....im sort of confused and im not sure if he likes me, HELP!


gina 6 years ago

basically, im in year 9 and im friends with this guy. its really confusing beccause most of the time he flirts and teases me in a funny way and then sometimes its serious teasing and bad comments. about three of his friends have told me he fancies me but they didnt seem serious and recently we had sports day and the whole time we just spent together while we were waiting for the events but i was going over to him most of the time. its realy confusing that he shows so much interest in me but i can never get his attention or im the only one who makes the effort, how do i get his attention? HELP!!x


Katie 6 years ago

For 2 years now this guy and I have been obviously showing we like each other but it's been an on-off thing. Whenever I like him, he seems to like someone else or has a gf and when he shows interest I'll already have a bf. Finally when he and I are both free he doesn't ask me out. It's like everlasting flirting but no matter what I can't stop liking him. I'm afraid that he's trying to be "cool" to impress his new upperclassmen football friends by only dating girls that he thinks are more popular. He doesn't realize that I'm friends with the guys who hang with these guys he looks up to. I'm tired of playing games but I just can't work up the guts to ask him out or to hang together. Should I hang with the guys he looks up to so he can see I'm better than what he thinks? I just don't know what else I can do. Does he just want to flirt forever?


Mariel 31;) 6 years ago

PLEASE READ! Cuz it is not the other ques.that r given!Hi I'm 13 and I have this classmate and we have been friends since pre-k . This 7th gr yr. was awkward.For 10 yrs. we used to hate each other and criticize each other.Then during the last months be4 school started,he acted wierd like being nice to me.Then I tried to make him spill his guts that he likes me and he does.My best friends told me about wat he says about me that I'm pretty and hot! But I honestly in my opinion not but my friends say I'm pretty. Now it's summer break and we now said good bye,smile,nd flirt. But wat will I say or do when school starts again. I need to be focus on school more him . But I like him so HELP!


karina 6 years ago

hi im 13 and i like this boy hes a family friend but he lives in canberra i live in sydney me and my family visited him recently i had so much fun on the fist night i went outside to look at the stars i was sitting on the top of my car. he came outside we talked for a while and he asked if i could move over so he could sit next to me we kept talking asking eachother questions like what do you wanna be when you grow up and what the best and worst thing thats ever happened to you he was really honest and so was i he also asked me if i had ever had a boyfriend and i said no i always caught him looking at me and he was really nice do you think he likes me??? pleasseee help


karina 6 years ago

hi im 13 and i like this boy hes a family friend but he lives in canberra i live in sydney me and my family visited him recently i had so much fun on the fist night i went outside to look at the stars i was sitting on the top of my car. he came outside we talked for a while and he asked if i could move over so he could sit next to me we kept talking asking eachother questions like what do you wanna be when you grow up and what the best and worst thing thats ever happened to you he was really honest and so was i he also asked me if i had ever had a boyfriend and i said no i always caught him looking at me and he was really nice do you think he likes me??? pleasseee help


Maggie 6 years ago

There is this guy I like, but everyone in my grade hates him.I KNOW he at least used to like me, but since i started liking him I can't tell. We both go to the same camp, and we had an overnight last week. We spent an hour talking alone, and he agrees to everything I said, attempts to impress me, and always makes me laugh. I brought a movie that we could watch, and had made everyone watch it, even though he didn't remember the title. Later this girl that annoys me more than anything comes over and starts talking to me. She says that she is playing truth and dare with her friends, and that i have beautiful eyes. He comes over, because he is the only one to help me get rid of her and asks what she is saying to me. I say what she just told me, and he is like " that's not how you do it, if it was me i would just be like Maggie, you have beautiful eyes, and you would be like what!?!?!" He looked in my eyes when he said that. I think he knows i like him, but does he like me??


Haley 6 years ago

There's this boy who I have a huge crush on... I don't know if he feels the same way about me...he always texts me and calls me but he says he likes this other girl... I always catch him looking at me, and he pokes me. What should I do?


Gemma Williams 6 years ago

theres this boy ... :L and well hes just so lushh and stuff, everybody knows him, and hes been out with all he pritty girls and stuff. And well ecently hes started coming out with me and my friendss and we like sort of flirt , like he makes fun of me in a joking way and chopses me and be's realy sarcatstic to me. So that makes me think he dosnt like me cos he like picks on me all the time but the other day he asked me for a hug and well it was amazing and all my friends were going he SOOO likes you and then yesterday his mate said i think He likes you mind.

But its like i'd never get a chance with him, hes like gorgeus and i know im not ugly but ... :/ yeaas people say im pritty and stuff but to be honest i think hes just taking the P*ss out of me and i dont know what to doo :/ help anyone?x


Rachael 6 years ago

OMG this guy in my class is a tottal HOTTIE!!!! I have no idea if he likes me or not. He made an excuse to be able to hurt me would that be a sign? He always looks at me in class, and when ever I go outside the classroom with my BFFS he always is there!! But sometimes I get the feeling that he likes my BFF because he is always nicer to her and not me and then yeh... If he flirts with my BFF is he trying to make me jelous or is does he like her... and if his friends try to flirt with me could they be seeing if I would be good for him coz my BFF told me that. I really hope he likes me. Also if he and his friends ask me and my BFF to join there group are they trying to make an excuse to be closer to us??????????

Please reply soon coz I am in DESPIRITE NEED OF HELP!!!!


nicole l. 6 years ago

hi

i fell in love with someone, but he went away for another country. his friends says he likws me and i also like him a lot. im still hopoing that hell come back even after 2 long years. now i met someone and i like him a lot. his my classmate the boys tells me he likes me or that i have a big chance on him, but the girls say that they might just be teasing me.who should i believe? or should i wait for the other guy?

cymone or kazuma?


kayla 6 years ago

my best guy friend used to like me he even told me but then he freaked cause evrybody said ooooo n everything else they werent really makin fun of him he told his friends and they were the ones sayin ooo i text him and he texts back we stay up till 11 o clock talkin he helps me nomatter wat i told him this one guy likes me n he freaked!! then he said al of a sudden i hte that guy does he like me???


Babby 6 years ago

ohkayy i went to a family reunion as a friendd of the family and we had a picnic and he stared at me non stop . then we all went backk to the hotel we all went to the pool and he stared at me . then that saturday his cousin came up to me sayinq you like him ad i said yea they wewre tryinqq to hook us up .. but when we left and went back home his cousin told him i liked him and he said lol and she gave him my number but hee never called . Does that mean dw dont like me .?


MQ 6 years ago

ok so I started this new college at the start of last year and I started to really like this guy in one of my classes but he had a girlfriend which he had for a year so I did nothing about it and we only had like one conversation anyway but for the end of the year we went on a school trip to France and still nothing much happen however I could tell he was looking at me more than he used to and when I tripped he was the only one to ask me if I was ok anyway when i got back from France he added me as a friend on facebook and started talking to me saying things like how come we never spoke on the trip and calling me babe then when i said on facebook I was off on holiday he wrote to me saying " I will miss you" I then find out that he broke up with his girlfriend :D I was sooooo happy but then when I was on holiday I got a missed call from a number I did not know I txt back asking who it was and I got a txt say from the man of your dreams however 2 weeks after I got back i find out he got back with his ex and ever since I cant stop feeling devastated and upset and now im wondering if he ever liked me i did give him hints i liked him to like telling him i miss him to and always started the conversation off is it something i did wrong HELP !!!!!


MQ 6 years ago

ok so I started this new college at the start of last year and I started to really like this guy in one of my classes but he had a girlfriend which he had for a year so I did nothing about it and we only had like one conversation anyway but for the end of the year we went on a school trip to France and still nothing much happen however I could tell he was looking at me more than he used to and when I tripped he was the only one to ask me if I was ok anyway when i got back from France he added me as a friend on facebook and started talking to me saying things like how come we never spoke on the trip and calling me babe then when i said on facebook I was off on holiday he wrote to me saying " I will miss you" I then find out that he broke up with his girlfriend :D I was sooooo happy but then when I was on holiday I got a missed call from a number I did not know I txt back asking who it was and I got a txt say from the man of your dreams however 2 weeks after I got back i find out he got back with his ex and ever since I cant stop feeling devastated and upset and now im wondering if he ever liked me i did give him hints i liked him to like telling him i miss him to and always started the conversation off is it something i did wrong HELP !!!!!


Bethan 6 years ago

Im 13 and had a boyfriend a few weeks ago. he asked me out. but he dumped me the next day. I still really like him and am unsure of what to do.

a couple of days after he dumped me my friend and her boyfriend & my ex went to see a school play. We were on the park before we went into the show. My friend was with me and her boyfriend was with my ex. My friends boyfriend called her over so she went to him. 'apparently' my ex had asked me back out. i said i didnt believe him so he yelled my ex. but when my ex answered he said 'yes' but was shakin his head asif to say no. I was playin hard to get saying i dont know. then we went to the show and when we came out i went before them and my mates boyfriend said give my ex a kiss but we where not even going out. i am so unsure of what to do now. i still really like him.

If you could help that would be great x


ugh....... 6 years ago

Okay I like this guy, and he used to like and I liked him too.plus my friends would say he did too but we never got the courage to do anything,I mean we both playfully asked eachother out, but weren't that serious.also there is a two year age difference and his mom doesn't really like that.now I still really do like him and i think he does too but he has a girlfriend.my friends have seen her and so have I and she does kinda look like me...is this a coincidence or am I just paranoid xuz i still really like him, what should I do?


6 years ago

ok so me and my ex are still good friends but he keeps kissing me and cuddling me he even made an excuse to come and lay on the sofa with me last night i really really like him does anybody else reckon that he wants to get back with me?


Deidre107 6 years ago

WOW, i loved you advice.. maybe you can help.. i met this guy at a recent show... he expressed an interest but i didn't return the favor... but the more i hung out with him.. the more i began to feel great around him.. when i told him about how i felt when i was with him he said the things he did were to teach me that.. but even now its been like 2 weeks, he calls, makes shout outs on the radio to me, and i have the overwhelming want to see him again, but he doesn't plan, and he doesn't talk much.. im confused should i just ask him what's our status or should i just wait around some more?


Sara 6 years ago

It's in our school z boy i love him is so hooooot. First i so him with my classmate students zen i try 2 know some information about him. My classmate boys told me that he really like me.i was shocked. OMG.OMG.OMG. At that time when z bell rang at classtime z boy just came 2 my class. When my friend told me zat he is waiting outside i was amazed bt. After reading this 5 signs i was happy cause that means he really like me. So 10Q VERY MUCH


kid 6 years ago

there is a boy at my school he has blond hair i realy like him but i dont know if he likes me because im mean to boys but also i usually always hang out with boys what should i do?


dana  6 years ago

omg im really confuse right now . theres this boy who i talk to and his taken and im taken to , after school he was walking directly to wer i was so i tried to move then he walks where i am again , so i was like "where is he going" so i just stayed where i was already and he came to hug me . we talk alot but there are some days we dont talk , i think im falling for him but i tell myself that i cant because he might not feel the same way and were both taken.what do i do ?


Ninagurlie 6 years ago

Well I've liked this guy at my school n I think he likes me n he wants me to ask him out.........idk if I should though


bea 6 years ago

there is a guy which i like but i can't determined if he likes me because he does not make any conversation to me unless we quarel or we really have to talkand sometimes i caught him staring at me...... we are also always teased in school...... but i don't think he likes me....


Jenni-bear 6 years ago

Im so taking your advice, Im going to confess my feelings for this super cut football player. he shows all the signs! He buys me water at lunch cuz he knows i hate soda, he wears my favorite color more often after i pointed it out, he walks me to class and holds the door open for me (and if someone walks out after me he runs to catch up), and most of all he loves staring at my eyes and taking my books so I could try to pry his fingers off. Im almost positive he likes me!!! except when he sees me in the morning, I say Hi buy he shrugs off towards 1st.... =[


tazzyy 6 years ago

heyy i use to like this guy sooooooo much...for 2 years but he never liked me back..maybe he thinks i am ugly or smth...when he started dating this super cute girl...i was so upset...n then his friends hated me so much coz i lost ma walet n they found it n they saw hiss name all over it...except one of his friends..he is quiet nice...we juz talk once and on facebook once...my bestfriend is his ex...she says he is such a flirt...i juz left school few dayz ago but ma brother is still there so i go to visit them...he was staring sooooooooooooooo much and i was staring back...i don't knw if that means he likes me....any help plllllllllllllllzzzz...i really need help


jazzy 6 years ago

OMG OMG i deeply like this relly hot hot hot guy but i dont know if he likes me bck and there are some girls who r flirting with him and giving him hugs in 6th grade and 7th and hes in 7th and so am i but we r not in the same class and i sent my frend over to ask him him if he likes me but he didnt know tht i sent her and shes like u no tht girl i said who likes u yesterday A.K.A me and he is like yea and she is lyk well do u like her and there were a few people stanfing a few inches away from him and he said no my frend says kinda nervously but shes not sure!so i cnt go up to him and say i like him or else the whole skool will laugh cuz every1 will find out even if we do it alone cuz he mite tell so wt do i do??oh and he doesnt follow any of ur sings except i saw him looking at me a a few times tho he has never talked to me...so did he say no cuz he didnt wnna be embarrased infront of those ppl or doz he relly like me cuz he didnt say no to me he said it to the gurl who was asking for me,and he didnt know i sent her but he sitll said no soooo tell me wt to do plzz and thnk u soo muchh!!!u give aswm adviice,i jst dnt wnt to embarras myself plz give me an easy way!

thnks!!:D


Jessica Romero 6 years ago

okay, i got a question and i need a answer bad... i know this guy for like a year or two.. at first we are cool friends he wanted me to hook him up with one of my friends.. so i try but it didn't really work.. but at first we would text each other everyday and it was all about her.. then when he realize that he can never be with her.. now it is all about me and him.. what dose that mean? everyday we text each other.. or sometimes every other day it depends.. then in the text he calls me baby chimp.. good morning.. and all kinds of things.. i just wanna know if he likes me and want to go out with me.. b4 this has never happened until July this has stared.. he is a very sweet guy.. and kind.. please comment if anybody can help me thanks Jess


Kristen  6 years ago

Heyy , i'm in the 6 grade and i just met this boy but i'm starting to have feelings for him and iknow i'm a little young but hes reallyy cute but for some reason i think he likes me every time i walk into class he stares at me then stops and just continue with his work I have'nt really talked to him the only time was when i bumped into him we both just said sorry but hes also sits ahead of me i'm not sure if he likes me and there this other boy who i have been friends for awhile i told him i liked him but not any more is it true when u tell a boy u like him then he starts havin feelings for u ?


alley 6 years ago

okayy there's this guy i REALLYYY like and i think he likes me too because he always is being nice to me and at lunch i always catch him looking at me and then he smiles and in P.E we hang out and he always laughs at me and he wont let me do anythingg by myself like he took these basketballs out of my hand and put them up for me...idk if hes being a gentlemen or doing it cuz he likes me and he ALWAYS pokes/tickles me....but today like he didn't even talk to me....I'm in the 9th grade and i need some major help...i want to ask his friends to see if they know if he likes me or not...but idk...I'm confused....HELP would be nice(:


I'll help you out 6 years ago

k so I have a prob and I'll help u with ur prob if you help out with mine.

soooo... I've been liking this guy for a yr now and idk if he likes me cause evry1 says he likes my best friend cause he's always cold/then sweet to her..

BUT the thing is he never wants to look at me in the eye even when he's talking to me, I catch him staring at me alot, he gets really interested when ppl say stuff about me, he TOTALLY likes showing off infront of me-more than any1 else... and he asked my bff (the one evry1 thinks he like) if she knew who HE likes..well I'm totally confused so I wanna know: does he like my bff or me? I wanna ask him out in school buut Im scared.. we're both 16


in luv 6 years ago

Hi i met this guy at school but he started chilln with a friend first cuzz she met him first but i ended up liking him but he would never chill with me maybe cuzz he didnt want to make the other gurl upset but he didnt and doesnt want a gf and when i got his number it was me that always hittn him up or txtn first he would never txt or call first but after we left school for that yr in the summer he started txtn me and calling me out the blue and even wished me a happy 4th through a phone call i was shocked but he still doesnt want a gf and he transffered to a new school but hes only 3hrs away from me but hes originally from ny and im from tx but ive been so into this boy for the longest and want him to ask me out so bad but i dont know how he feels about me he called me the other night telling me about his cold and he wanted me to get on skype, and u should here how he talks to me he dont really talk to others gurls like this he talks to me like he's in charge like the alpha male lol its cute and funny to me but we stay play arguin on the phone he likes teasing me alot too. I just want to be his girl


girl in trouble  6 years ago

Please answer this :)

I like a guy, but he says to every other girls that he likes them. He is good looking and nice. When we're out with friend, he holds my hand, like when we're alone. he looks alot at me, his friends are nice to me, and they new who i was before even meeting me... but, what should i do??! HELP PLEASE :)


girl in trouble 6 years ago

knew*


No namer 6 years ago

Hey i have this crush on this one guy but i im still wonderin if he likes me so im sooooooooo confused can you guys give some more advice on how to tell if he has noticed you???? Thanks


TotallyInLoveAmber.  6 years ago

Hey! I was really hoping if you could help me, see, I have this friend who I've loved for over a year and a half, and he keeps looking at me in class. When we're in class we laugh so much, and just have a really good time. Our personalities go really well together, and my friends say they think he likes me. We never meet up out of school or anything, but when we do talk in school, we have the best time. I'm kinda fatty, and not one of the most attractive people in the school. But I am really rather pretty. His past girlfriends have been pretty and thin, but he never really loved them. He actually likes me, but may my 'weight' be a problem for him as I'm not very thin? And does he like me?

I'd really appreciate if you answered. Thankiez! x

Oh! And Im kinda popular, but not as much as him


billiejean 6 years ago

I really like this guy hes soooo CUTE ive known him for three years but i never really thought i was his type but i noticed that he started looking at me alot. so i talked to him and he was really funny and everything and then we hugged! but idont know if he actually likes me . oh and im not as popular as he is :D i hope u can answeer PLEASE AND THANKS:)


me 6 years ago

well.....

actually i ve a frnd....i do like him..an' maybe love him !!

but i just dont knw if he likes me or not??

at first i thought i am just a college but now, he calls me only when he is alone and keep talkin like half an hour or more, and lately he just notice everything i do like for instance if i put make up he notices it and my perfume smell and if i wear smth new he notices it.

is that enought for me to knw that he likes me or not ??

till now i think thats normal?

is this normal ?


TwinkiePie 6 years ago

Okay, I like this guy in my class...quite a lot!

I liked him once, a few months ago, but he was dating a friend of mine, and when he found out, he ignored me completely. So now hes single, we're kinda friends, and I dont dare to tell him I like him again. It could ruin our whole friendship thing! But in class, I sneak peaks at him, and sometimes he's looking at me too!

I dont want to get my hopes up, he probably doesn't like me, and I know that, but should I tell him again??


Hannah 6 years ago

My EST guy friend shows all those signs....and i really like him.....ALOT.....i want to ask him out but....idk if i should.....HELP!!!


Jackie 6 years ago

I reallly like this guy but im so afraid to ask him for his number! We talk a lot and flirt and i think he likes me i need help!


Liz 6 years ago

me and my boyfriend met around 5months ago and i swear hes the one,

~ he was always stairing at me and when he put the move on me, i told him off, now we've been dating for almost five months,

i remember he was on this one date and i kept looking at him wondering what he was doing whit her, she'd grab her phone to i dont konw maybe she didnt like my staring problems, but ill never for get them moments


liz 6 years ago

yes i do think its true when you tell i guy you like him he starts having feelings for you too:]] isnt it wired how this world works


Cerise 6 years ago

Help!!

There's this guy from my church who really likes me but I don't know if I should date him or not. He picks me up, stares at me a lot (especially when I'm in my swimsuit or gymnastic outfit), smiles at me, talks to me a lot, helps me get things, and tries to hug me. He's 14 and I'm 13. He wants to date me but I just want to be friends. IDK what to do???


Kaley 6 years ago

Cerise, I think you should date him, he sounds like a really nice guy. Hope I helped!! :)


Isabella 6 years ago

I need help!!! Theirs this guy I REALLY like, we have been friends scene we were both 3(he is the same age as me, 13, we were even born in the same month!) and I really like him, i think he used to like me cause when we were like 9 cause he kissed me once at that age and he kept telling me I was hot and stuff but then he stopped and a couple of my friends(who were also his friends cause we have a lot of mutual friends) asked him if he like liked me and he said he aolney liked me as a friend!! I wanna ask him out anyway but if he says no it might ruin our friendship!!! PlEASE HELP ME, WHAT SOULD I DO!!!???


JENN hizzle 6 years ago

okay so thid guy invites me to his game, reminds me on the friday and reminds me the day of the game. when i was at the game i had this feeling liek someone had their eyes on me... my friends where looking anroun and saw teh guy taht invited me to the game looking at me (alex).they said he looked at me about 20 times but when i looked nuthing.... when i brought it up teh next day he said he didnt see me but i bff says she swore he was looking at me and in my science class he always bragged so i could here about how fats his serve was. Then today we had a lab today and he made himself in our group we said no he said yes. then he always sat next to me, but then when one of my friends sat in his seat he kept telling her to move. then when she didnt he left and sat on the desk next to me.... and grabbed my foot. and also we kept like hitting eachother like tapping on the arm ( me to him) and poking me in my stomach where im tickleish. but he always throws paper balls down my shirt.... ANd he alwasys talks to me first in sceince (only class togther this semester) liek this boy can he really sweet to me, but then mean, like he was holding a lab tube, and i needed to see it i grabbed his writed and tured it and hes like "why are you touching me!" but then hes liek fist bump im like no then he forced me to! like ughh and he always kinda brings up sexual things... :S liek oh we masterbate this all day and stuff im like okay that gross ... but then he keeps a joke going on AND ON AND ON for days with me....... like what does this tell u ? does he like me or no? bc like i really liek this guy and idk if he feels the same..... :) or :( please help me i really really would appracte this since it may be my first bf :) and im 15 almmost 16..... please :) u would rock my earth :)


Cerise 6 years ago

Thanks Kaley!!!!!!!!

That really helped!!


hyorin 6 years ago

hii i just meet a guy at my working place every now and then he keep on staring at mii and even same times smile at mii i'm not too sure whether he likes mii or not but i just got this feeling and i did some change which is i wear contect lens he even notice and ask mii whay i'm wearing contect lens he even say tat i'm pretty,kind and cute but when another lady says he got girlfriend already when i look at him he says noooooo i don't have a girl friend no one wants mii when he saying tat he's looking at mii so does it means tat he really do like mii?? i don't even dare to ask him out!!!


Jenny hizzle help me please! 6 years ago

okay so thid guy invites me to his game, reminds me on the friday and reminds me the day of the game. when i was at the game i had this feeling liek someone had their eyes on me... my friends where looking anroun and saw teh guy taht invited me to the game looking at me (alex).they said he looked at me about 20 times but when i looked nuthing.... when i brought it up teh next day he said he didnt see me but i bff says she swore he was looking at me and in my science class he always bragged so i could here about how fats his serve was. Then today we had a lab today and he made himself in our group we said no he said yes. then he always sat next to me, but then when one of my friends sat in his seat he kept telling her to move. then when she didnt he left and sat on the desk next to me.... and grabbed my foot. and also we kept like hitting eachother like tapping on the arm ( me to him) and poking me in my stomach where im tickleish. but he always throws paper balls down my shirt.... ANd he alwasys talks to me first in sceince (only class togther this semester) liek this boy can he really sweet to me, but then mean, like he was holding a lab tube, and i needed to see it i grabbed his writed and tured it and hes like "why are you touching me!" but then hes liek fist bump im like no then he forced me to! like ughh and he always kinda brings up sexual things... :S liek oh we masterbate this all day and stuff im like okay that gross ... but then he keeps a joke going on AND ON AND ON for days with me....... like what does this tell u ? does he like me or no? bc like i really liek this guy and idk if he feels the same..... :) or :( please help me i really really would appracte this since it may be my first bf :) and im 15 almmost 16..... please :) u would rock my earth :)


Jessi 6 years ago

I dont really know if he likes me please help me send me a message @ jessicalizeth@ymail.com


Olivia 6 years ago

Ok, so there's this boy in my class. We sit near eachother in a lot of classes. He always asks for my help and we work well together. All my friends and his friends keep saying we fancy eachother but we both deny it. I kinda lied when i said i didn't. I used to, then i got over it, now i do again. We almost started seeing eachother once and then i went over to him and we cleared it up that we weren't seeing eachother, that it was all just rumours that i'd asked him out and he had said yes. We only talk when we're in school, not online or anything because he is never on MSN. I think if he was, i would try and talk to him secretly to see if he liked me. I would like to start seeing him but i dunno what to do.


Sophie 6 years ago

Ive been fiends with the guy i like for 3 years and ive liked him no stop throughout. But recently things have changed he broke up with his girlfriend and he was asking me to help him get rid of her. but after a few days of no stop tlaking he asked me to listen to a song called 'i'd rather be with you by joshua Radin' i listened it was lovely. and all the lines i felt related to me and him :/ and ive caught him looking at me in school and stuff but when i look over he still looks at me for a few seconds then looks away. he asked me to ring him when i wake up in the morning, becuase his alarm wont go off :) but im not sure if im looking into it too much and just imagining he likes me or if he actually does :/


molly 6 years ago

ok im not the molly uo there ^.^ im a different molly ok i like this guy and i dont know if he like me back and today (he is my bodyguard not incase i get stomed on lol im only in 6th grade) i dont want to act weird like ask him and things anyways today he wanted his cheack for being my body guard(fake check) so he comes up to me and like is 6 inces away i coul feel his body heat and if i would stepped forward we wouldve kissed its always on my mind what should i do beware im only 11 and he is 11 too i think lol


Amber 6 years ago

There is this guy that I like I have known him sence we where kids but I moved and hen moved back and we meet this summer and now we r in the Same gym class eveytime in gym if I look or glance at him he is looking at me and we have lunch together and he also looks at me during lunch and sometimes smiles at me we also txt I don't know if he likes me but I really like him can some one help me with this please comment back if u have any suggestions or email me at pinklover@aol.com


A dude 6 years ago

I just read the oposite one and i was just curious to see what this one said basically to see how obvious i am when i like a girl.

And i have to say this is accurate, but girls, this is for him being CRAZY about u, for me atleast. unless i know she has some feelings back or i am obssesed with her i only display the 1st three, as in i dont really look for any excuse to touch her incase it puts her off, and im not big on tellin all my mates, but thats just me


ame 6 years ago

hi,i really like this 1 guy in my school but he only does 3 of the things up there. and im not sure if i should ask him out or just wait because he always talks about me to his friends, looks at me, and he always talks to me and he always makes me laugh but im just not sure what i should do.


Faith 6 years ago

Im a freshman and theres this really hot sweet guy whos a senior. I have a class with him and i text him all the time. He teases me playfully and seems to at least notice me. I really like him but i cant tell if he likes me or just thinks of me as a friend...ugh what should i do?


Lovestruck 6 years ago

I really like this guys, he is my friends dance partner. I've had a crush on him for almost 2 years. He stares at me all the time and talks to me. I think he likes me, but my friend says he likes her because he gave her a handbag... WHO DO YOU THINK HE LIKES??? He's been my friend (normal) for a bit, I just don't know what to do......... most of my friends think he's cute and... SOMEONE PLEASE REPLY!!!


Lovestruck 6 years ago

Faith??? Out of what I know, the boy(s) who have a crush on me always tease me. I think he likes you, try building up a relationship with him. It might help.

Meanwhile, SOS!!!


greenplusblack 6 years ago

there's this boy i like and he does all of this but he's so unlike other boys nor different or normal. i really like him a lot [: i just wanna be friend and get to know each other. but there's just one thing....he smokes weed, and even though i still like him. is it wrong? am i being silly? i mean i wouldn't do it cause it makes me sick >P but he's a good guy =( i can tell just with a bad past. what to do?


Amber 6 years ago

Theres ds guy who ive bn frends with 4 ova 5 years now. he use 2 like me wen we wr in the 8th grade buh i ddnt feel the same way so he went out with my besty n ds yr idk how i started 2 like him in ds wierd way.. he keeps on telling me he wants to telll me sth buh he thinks its impossible n i wud say it is impossible (cz of my bsty) buh its not!! my besty agrees with the fact tht we like eachotha and i try 2 make it clear 2 him that the feelin is mutual so he wudnt feel shy to ask me out buh he jx cant! n i cnt afford d embarasment of askin a guy out cuz its gna b alil desperate on mi part! wt do i dooo PLS HELP............


Erika 6 years ago

Theres this guy who hugged me today and i was just wondering what it means when a guy pulls you in by the wrists for a hug? is it anything special?


Rania 6 years ago

hi, i have had a crush on this guy for a year. we were really good friends and i knew for sure he liked me. But now a new year and highschool. I barely see him but when i do his face lightens up and we talk for the time we have. I dont know what he thinks of me now. A friend or more? When he notices me he calles my name. but sometimes when hes in a group of friends i dont know if he sees me or not but he never says hi? So i am just confused? Does he like me?


cindy93 6 years ago

Hello, ive known this guys for two going on three years recently he started flirting with me i didnt give it m uch attention because im a natural flirt but my friend that was there she thinks she a love guru caught on to it. the next day she asked him if he liked me he said said yes that he wants to talk to me i didnt really want to do it but she had me thinking so i said said yes so now im starting to ctach feelings for him and its obvious he likes me but he gets scared to talk to me sometimes what should i do?


Jessica 6 years ago

I have this boy at school I been friend with him for 9 years!! This week he told me he liked me. he hugs me and puts his arm around me and wants to carry my books for me he was werid thoughts that he never tells me he want to kiss me but he never did. and everytime you ask him a question he says he doesn't know!! i want to go out with him and i know he wants to but he never asks me does that mean he is shy or doest want to go out??


Marie 6 years ago

I have this guy in my grade who claims to dislike me and everyone says we fight like an old married couple we always flirt and are sometimes a little mean to each other help I am so confused about our relationship.


shruti 6 years ago

hi ,i am from india...


fruti 6 years ago

plzzzzz help me hi,am frm india..i study in 9th standard..frm 8th standard a boy nd me wr in a relation ship..he gave me roses..he gave me a heart drawed on a paper..we talk to each other through message we both study in same classes now also...in 9th standard he touches my hands bt...aftr summer holidays he is angry frm me ..he told me that by which talks i (fruti) can say that he loves me ...so how to make him love with me again..coz i love him soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much bt he takes me as a true frnd...through messages he also told me that he loves me...bt now..so plzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me...


alex 6 years ago

ok so my ex and i broke up 4 know real reason i guess i might have been showing off a bit in front of my friends & just dumped him we r still friends & he lives just down the road from me but he always pretends we were neva going out but i know he knows we were but i'm not sure if wat we had was real cus on the first day we met we just started going out but he's always asking his brother that i babysit if i ask bout him or how come i didnt come in when i drop him off but u know how u & ur friends muk about and make up random storys well we sorta did that and he's like have i eva mention how much i love u but he's brother was there and started talking so he said it again but more awkward & this time it was how much i LIKE u and lately i'v been missing him and likeing him again wat 2 i do???


Mirandaa 6 years ago

kai i have a question, me and my ex havent seen each other in four years now and i only talk to him every 5 months thru txt messages since he lives 2 hours away. but i never have the guts to txt him he txts me, and we talk about not seeing ech other and then sex bc we never had sex then,and he wants to come see me to have sex with me... but i love him soo much, sounds retarded but i cant let go of him. question is does he have any feelings for me? what do i do ?


Larnie 6 years ago

I really like this guy and I had a boyfriend and my boyfriend didn't do anything so he said he'd acted like my boyfriend and kept hugging me and talking to me and touches my ass and he hits alot of girls but he dodnt go up to them they come to him but he comes to hug me, my boyfriend dumped me because of him, and because my mate who hugs me was hugging me and my mate said you shouldn't do that larnies boyfriend is here and he said so what he going to do, beat me up ( he can't as my mAte is double his height) so I don't no if my mAte fancies me please help x


Pupcakez1 6 years ago

Ok Like help! There is this guy I have all of my classes but one and we sit by each other in each class. He gives me hugs and flirts with me alot. But he also flirts with other girls. But he talks to me the most. Does he like me or is he just a flirt?


Heart Stopper 6 years ago

I really like this guy @ my school and I think he likes me but I'm not really sure. I've caught him staring at me a lot, he'll help me whenever I ask him to, he'll talk to me seldomly but that's because he is very shy and doesn't know how to talk to girl's especially one's he doesn't know very well. But sometimes when I try to get close to him he'll walk away. Now I've only known this guy for like a month and when we were walking home together one day he basically told me his life story, what does that mean? and also what does all of this mean? plz help me!!! :S


sweet angel 6 years ago

wat if u meet a guy shortly and few days later u end up kissing,u tell him u hate it and he tries it again??few days after ur first kiss he tries it again and this time round u we both go deep what could be the outcome??can sex come into the picture sooner than l8r.??


Star  6 years ago

so i know this guy, lets call him ... frank. thats obviously not his actualy name, but i reeeaaaally like him. he is so adorably, irrisistably cute, and hes oober swwet :) hes like the perfect guy, and so i told him i liked him. and he said he likes me back!!! but the only one out of any of those he ever does is look at me ... once every like 2 minutes, but only for a second. as soon as i look at him, he looks away and starts talking to the person next to him. he never talks to me, ever, except on facebook, but even then i have to say hi first. does he actually like me or is he just playing? help, please?!


rocknrollchick5 6 years ago

(Warning, this is pretty long)

I really, really like this guy who is the accompanist in my college's chorus. He is one of the most genuinely nicest, sweetest, funniest, chivalrous, most caring guys I've ever met. (and this is coming from someone who has been bullied, thrown into lockers, pushed down stairs, tricked, been picked last for teams at school, among other things) (which I am a part of. I've been in the chorus since last spring) This guy's a lot older than I am. I'm only 25, and I'd say he's somewhere in his 40's. (But I really have a thing for much older guys.) So, last year, during our rehearsals that we have every Tuesday, I slowly started crushing on him. Then, I eventually got the courage to say hi to him when he came in for rehearsal one night. Then what really got everything started was at the first concert that we had. It happened to be at a church (and I'm terrified of churches. Long story that I don't want to get into.) and when we all arrived, everyone was around socializing with each other, and I was just standing there waiting around for my teacher/director to call us over to do vocal warm ups. So he sees me standing there, and he comes over to me and strikes up a conversation with me! I was so happy! We talked for a good ten minutes, and then we had to go over and warm up (my crush had to go over and play the piano for us so we could sing our scales.) So after we sing our scales and get warmed up, we go backstage to wait to go on. While we're waiting. We're all just talking, and I see him standing there so I go up to him and ask him jokingly 'sooo are you ready to play?' and he laughs and is like 'haha, no.' and I was like 'awww, what's wrong? You're going to be great!' then he smiled at me was like 'thanks, I feel better. and you're going to do great too.' It was time for us to go on so I smiled at him and wished him good luck. When it was over, we all went backstage and I was like 'You did GREAT!' He smiled and thanked me for the compliment.

We also had to sing at our college graduation. (which happened to be on my birthday) The diplomas were handed out, then some guest speakers came, and then the president of the college sang a song, and then we came out and sang our songs. While all the other stuff was going on, we had to sit in this area full of chairs. In between each 'act' we'd go sing a song, then go sit in the seating area. Then we'd go back to the cafeteria. And during the last time that we had to walk outside to be seated and sing our final song, my crush walked down the hallway with me and was cracking jokes with me. He was making me laugh so hard that I could barely breathe and tears were coming out of my eyes! (and my mascara was starting to run a little) Then, when we had to sit for our final time, he sat down next to me! And just to be funny (because he knew the whole routine of the program. He just wanted to have some fun with me.) He leans over to me and asks me 'Sooooooo, what's next in this finale thing?' And I tell him 'ummmm we have to sing our last sonnnnggggg!!!!' (then I start laughing) Then he's like 'oh yeaaaaahhhhh, there's this speech thing and then we do our last song!! And you gotta make sure you sing extra loud 'cause I wanna make sure I can hear myself play!!' and then I'm like 'Don't worry! It'll be great!' and it WAS great! I sang EXTRA loud just as he requested, and the whole thing was brilliant!

After that awesome performance, I didn't see him all summer which really sucked. I really missed him a lot! I was so happy when chorus started back up again last month. It took me a little bit of time, but we're slowly starting to talk again. Yesterday at rehearsal was sheer brilliance! I had worn a really nice outfit, and because I went through all that effort, I had made a promise to myself that I would talk to him after rehearsal. So, I'm waiting for him to arrive (there's a choral workshop class before rehearsal which I'm also a part of) and all the community people start to come in but I don't see him. I was thinking, 'what if he's sick or something?' but sure enough he walks in the door, and who's the first person he says hi to as he walks in the door? ME! He smiles at me and says hi, so I smile and say hi back! (I got really excited!) So we have rehearsal, and when it ends, everyone leaves. He's still there (he was talking to some random guy) so I wanted to keep my promise and stick around and talk to him. The random guy finally leaves, and I walk up and talk to him. I was like 'you know what? you play really well, I mean REALLY WELL!' he gave me that adorable smile that I love so much and was like 'Awwww you're embarrassing me (he even blushed a little, which I personally thought was reeeeeeeally cute)!' 'Then I was like, 'Awww, no really, I meant that as a compliment!' So then he smiled at me again and was like 'thanks a lot! I'll see you next week!' Then we exchanged goodbyes and we both left.

After all that, is this the start of some sort of relationship (I don't mean boyfriend-girlfriend route, although I'd like it to at some point.) I'm talking like a budding friendship? (and he's not married, and I'm 98% sure he's single) What could all this be leading to?


Karrie 6 years ago

i need help this guy i really like him i even walked him n i lived over i mile away n skipped my bus so he always comes up to me and randomlly tickles me n gives me a hug i dont no if he likes me but i like him ALOT what should i do ooo n he is always flirtin wit my friend who alredy has a bf HELP!!!!!!


amellia 6 years ago

i need to know something. okey, so he was kindof made sit by me at lunch, and i about squealed i was so happy and i was So excited. it was like a dream come true. Then, he made me CRACK UP the whole day. THEN, he asked me for a pencil. So, casually, i gave him one. BUT HE HAD ONE AND HE GAVE HIS TO ME. (and i kept it


lauren 6 years ago

ok...I like this boy jackson and we used to have 2 classes together but now we have 1 and in the class we no longer have together he gave me a nickname jayjay and hes johnny and he still calls me that and in the class we do have together we sit across from eachother or a seat away from each other and he stares at me sometimes but usually its me following him in the halls and once he played around with me peeking from the sides and top of his agenda then hiding again


brooke 6 years ago

Thies is this boy , hes in my grade but not in my class he likes my bff so its kinda wierd , but hes always looking at me hes always saying like nice hair and he always says my smile is the best ever oh and we sit together all the time and hes like oh hi didnt know you were sitting here ... do you think he likes me?


brooke 6 years ago

me again...he asked my friend out but she said no so i called him and i was like hi and he said hey so the convo went on for a minute then we said bye and hung up so this gurl maya found out i like him and now shes running after him i asked him out he said im on hold wat does that mean?


Jakie 6 years ago

I think I like it but I want to know is that he knows already it just when his sis or his little bro and my friend r trying 2 be bf and gf I want to be friends and get to know him and more then we could bf gf I just I like so much so there I said it


Moon 6 years ago

Omg He does all this :D

Right me and my besto like our best guy friend (i know D:)

ANd lately shes been telling me all these stories about him and her.(ya know;he talks to her constantly,ppl say r u 2 still flirting,u like each other omg! n stuff,I see her with him and shes very..very...i duno hyper,pushing herself?)

So then I think he doesnt like me but he does thinks he doesnt do with her;always talks to me during football,Praises me,helps me up if i fall,offers help,Carried my bag when i was on crutches ;even though sum1 else was to,once i got hit by the football;Like always but this 1 wasnt as hard and he rushed over and pulled me over and hugged me~ .


Vanessa 6 years ago

I'm a junior in highschool and dated this guy in freshman year. We dated for a couple of months and we had a great thing going but due to the lack of rides we never saw eachother nearly as much as we wanted to. So I broke it off with him and we've been on the best of terms ever since. This year we have been extra flirty, he texts me very often, at school we hangout and are always together. I have feelings for him again and I'm not sure if he really does have feelings for me again too. Please help; it has been stressing me out because I see him everyday but don't want to say anything incase he doesn't want to be with me.


melanie 6 years ago

so im in love with my bf and my buddie my buddie is sweet and cute and funny and he loves me and he calls me baby unlike my bf and hes better them my bf bu i really love my bf we'v been daiten 4 7 months and well i dnt wanna lose him i really could use some advice who do i choose? and advice?


Confused=\ 6 years ago

Omqqq I like dis boy who in mii 7th period class. My bff sed she asked him if he liked me he sed no but da next daii ma bff sed dat he be dead lukkin at me nd smilin when I don't notice. Solo if any1 of ya wanna help a gurl out nd give ha gudd advice about if he lyke me or not den I'll b happy 2 c. Also wen ma friend dared him to kiss me he almost did it but I left nd da next daii afta dat he wiz lyke y didn't you let me kiss you? I wanted to do it but you left!


Anonymous 6 years ago

Hello , I really need some help , My best friend goes out with this guy that I think i am starting to like and I just found out he likes me back only me and him and one other girl knows we are flirty to each other when people arent around and call each other names like babe and stuff how can I tell my friend , she is going to dump him next week though.


Confused 6 years ago

Hi I met this guy at a club and we instantly hit it off. We were inseparable for the first few days and then everything changed. Even though he lives 5 mins away from me I rarely see him. He'll text and say he wants to see me but when I call him to meet up he doesn't answer. When I confront him about it he says that I'm over reacting. I'm clueless as to why his behaviour switched so dramatically. Can anyone help???


sherrol 6 years ago

Okay this is what happened . my last year (my 10th grade year) i wss starting at a new school and i met this guy who was a senior. i made little hints here and there, especially smiling a lot! but one day i got the guts to ask him for his myspace info, he gives it to me and later that night we sat up instant messaging and thats when i told him, i typed ive liked you since the first day we met. he claims he knew cause he noticed how much i smiled when i looked and spoke to him! we talk and then we take it to the next level i gave him my number we start texring and talking late till it was time to get ready for school. we talked and thats when he said he liked me too, a month or two into talking everybody round school knew . he was inthe band and iwas popular for being me. never the less around the end of the school year we began to drift apart mind you were in no relationship cause he never asked me, i found out that he had a girlfriend but yet he was talking and txting me every night. but after i decided not to talk to him school ended and he went to college FAMU! i think about this boy all the time and i want to know what should i do PLEASE HELP IM STUCK)!!! im scared though hes in college im a junior in highschool &&& theres a 2 year age difference HELP PLEASE I THINK I LOVE HIM!!!!!


Alexis 6 years ago

hi, there is this boy at my school who i think likes me but im not 100% sure yet. Before when he didn't even know me, he used to randomly say hi to me in the corridors a lot. One day he said hi, and i was like who is this guy? so i followed him into the playground and he saw me. he and his friends said i look just like his gf, but he's not acting like he even has a girlfriend. He always says hi to me, he asked me loads of questions about where im from and other stuff and his friends are also really friendly too. The first day I spoke to him in the playground, he followed me for the rest of the lunch break and I saw his friends looking where i was going and then he would just appear in the other direction.He always gives me high 5s and on the last day before half term, he hugged me as well. I know it sounds like he likes me but I'm still not sure because he might just be being friendly cos he doesn't really know me that well. All the stuff i wrote above happened in 1 school week.


Crystal 6 years ago

Hi, well here's the problem. There's this guy, and us too are really close good frieinds. We used to date but we were better of as freinds so we remained freinds and we became close but latley he's been acting kinds wierd. Like he's been hugging me a lot, carrying me. Then we got it into a fight and me and my best freind didn't talk to him. So we were having lunch at school and we were in the canteen. My other freinds were there to ( some were boys) and we just chatting having a laugh and he was sitting in front of me. I looked at him and saw Him staring at me, it was sorta wierd so I ignored it. Then I slouched in me seat and my knees touched his by accidently and he just looked at me before looking away. It was....again wierd. No where freinds and my friends keep on telling him to ask me out but he keeps on saying no. Which I'm happy for because to be honest I just think of him as freind but my other freinds think he likes me. I am really confused. Help please?


j hizzle help!!  6 years ago

Jenny hizzle help me please! 5 weeks ago

okay so thid guy invites me to his game, reminds me on the friday and reminds me the day of the game. when i was at the game i had this feeling liek someone had their eyes on me... my friends where looking anroun and saw teh guy taht invited me to the game looking at me (alex).they said he looked at me about 20 times but when i looked nuthing.... when i brought it up teh next day he said he didnt see me but i bff says she swore he was looking at me and in my science class he always bragged so i could here about how fats his serve was. Then today we had a lab today and he made himself in our group we said no he said yes. then he always sat next to me, but then when one of my friends sat in his seat he kept telling her to move. then when she didnt he left and sat on the desk next to me.... and grabbed my foot. and also we kept like hitting eachother like tapping on the arm ( me to him) and poking me in my stomach where im tickleish. but he always throws paper balls down my shirt.... ANd he alwasys talks to me first in sceince (only class togther this semester) liek this boy can he really sweet to me, but then mean, like he was holding a lab tube, and i needed to see it i grabbed his writed and tured it and hes like "why are you touching me!" but then hes liek fist bump im like no then he forced me to! like ughh and he always kinda brings up sexual things... :S liek oh we masterbate this all day and stuff im like okay that gross ... but then he keeps a joke going on AND ON AND ON for days with me....... like what does this tell u ? does he like me or no? bc like i really liek this guy and idk if he feels the same..... :) or :( please help me i really really would appracte this since it may be my first bf :) and im 15 almmost 16..... please :) u would rock my earth :)


chanel 6 years ago

hi i want to know if he like me but im homeschool an he live next door next jear im going to 8th grade then he is in grade 10 i realy dont know if he likes me i hevent notesed if he like me what must i do

..................luv chanel...................


some person 6 years ago

i used to like this guy last year and he's always staring at me. my friend knew the situation, so she decided to play love doctor and talk to him. next thing i know, she tells me that he asked if i still like him! what should i do? now, i usually see him looking at me! its so intense...


Kayla 6 years ago

Hi, Im insanely in love with this guy named matt at my school my friend hazel told him that i liked him like 2 months a go but he hasnt said anything. he just recently broke up with his girlfriend Brianna. I am really good friends with his ex Bianca and we make fun of him but I wanna know if Matt likes me back! I need serious help!!!!!!!!!! when ever he talks or i get close to him it feels like im gonna pass out!!! I told my friend Jenifer she said I have it bad!!! HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Taytay 6 years ago

omg i am in the 6th grade and their is theis guy named kyle and he is just so sweet and i would do anything to go out with him but here is the prob, i am dateing someone elese so what do i do. i was thinking on dumping him not just because i like kyle but because he is always treating me like one of his dude freinds punching me. i thought it was okay because he said sor ry but now i am just sick of it. what do i do?


IM SO CONFUSEDD 6 years ago

Theres this guy i really like and have known for alittle over a year now. we're good friends and we talk a decent amount. Hes a very friendly guy and he hugs people alot. but one time we were saying goodbye after school and i usually never felt anything when he hugged me, but this time it was different and i wasn't sure why. it was like i sensed something different in his hug...and i've been crazy about him ever since. and then all of a sudden i started to see all these things about him that appealed to me and sooner or later i realized...wow i really like him. and then i realized he'd linger just a fraction of a second too long whenever he hugged me or he would stare at me constantly. and if i ever said hi to him his face would light up and he'd smile and wave back. so thats why i thought he liked me. and about 2 weeks ago i got a text from one of my friends pretending to be him and saying he loves me and im like, "tom, i know this is you....why are you posing as zak?" and hes like,"because zak is too shy to tell you himself." so i asked zak about the text messages and he said that he never said that and that he doesn't even know tom. so i was completely confused because i didn't know how tom knew his name or that i liked him. then i noticed that zak never said anything about not liking me so i had my friend emma talk to him and bring up the text messages and she asked him if he liked me and he told her no. so for awhile i was like, "well maybe he doesn't like me." and then recently..like yesterday..he was acting even more weird. he hugged me alot all day...more then usual. then he would lean against me and he used a totally different tone of voice with me...its quite hard to describe but i guess it was softer and lighter then the tone of voice he uses with other people around me. he kept staring at me and smiling when i caught his stare. he also got alittle nervous around me and he kept dropping things or putting things in the wrong place by accident. its like whenever i spoke to him he didn't really know what to say. so i was thinking, if he really didn't like me then why does he act so strange around me?? i thought he didn't like me and his behavior is making it hard for me to get over him. and my friend emma tells the truth...shes bi-sexual and she has a girlfriend so shes not trying to keep him to herself or anything...plus she and him are good friends and he tells her alot about his life...so if she asked him i don't see any reason why he would lie to her. and i see no reason why emma would lie to me. shes probably the only person i truly deeply trust. so idk why hes acting like he likes me o.o maybe he just realized it now?? idk...im so confused.


Completely Confused! 6 years ago

Well me and this boy started talking a couple of months ago and we really startted to get along :) He met me out of work and we hung out over the summer. One day i was having dinner in the caferteria and he was with his friends on the table behind me, Suddenly one of my friends noticed they're hole table was looking at me. I blushed alot and didnt know what was going on. When we went outside a load of his friends kept comming up to me and saying stuff like " do you like __" So i just ignored them and went away. Now we're texting again but we dont like to talk at school cause our friends just watch. I started to think he liked me but then i realised hes quite friendly with other girls :/ This weekend i proposed we did something together, and he said we could go for a walk just the two of us. So to check he really wants to go i've started saying we cant cause of the weather and he just keeps making up reasons why it will be ok. Does he really like me? Or am i just reading him wrong.


Tabitha 6 years ago

I have a friend at school and I like him a lot. If we're near each other he's always staring at me and when I walk down the hall and see him he's looking right back. We share my ipod between the two of us everyday and he smiles at me when we're just sitting there listening to music and he is always waiting on me outside of my 6th class and we talk until he has to go to class. I can't tell if he likes me or not and it'd be really awkward if I asked him strait forward because he's super quiet sometimes, and I was wondering if you had any suggestions of asking him casually. One more thing we never really have any alone time because of school and that's something that we need.


ac 6 years ago

i really like this guy he is one my brotheers friend but hes always messing with me like pushing me up against walls in school and in to the corners but he is 2 years older than me does that mean anything ??


Suzie 6 years ago

there is this guy i like sooooo much, and he says that he likes me too a lot, but in school he simply ignores me. He is always with his friends...i told him not to ignore me, he said he will change, but doesnt. He is just a different person in school and a different person out of school. But i just dont like the fact that in school its as if we are'nt even together!! what can i do? please help me...


Charlie XxX 6 years ago

I have a crush on a guy ad he knows n he does alot if not ALL of these things everyone wants us to go out but I cant work out whether he is neverous or does this stuff because hes my friend but i think another girl is coming on to him having reciving advice form friends and making little progress i neeeeeeed to know what to do

help me please xxxxxx


Ieshaa. 6 years ago

I Know This Guy Likes My Because He Has Told His Mates.

But He Asked Me Out But My Friends Said "No" To Him I Felt HeartBroken For Him..Ive Liked Him For A Few Years Now....Were Lie Bff`s...But When I Try To Talk To Him,His Friends Keep Saying That I Dissed Him,When That Was My Friend...What Should I Do?

Help Please


paperplain 6 years ago

Okay so, The guy I like does a couple of those things, andhe recently brought up the realtonship...

talk and said "I like you, I ike hanging out with you whenever dont think I dont, but after my last gf I am not looking for anthing serious." so but then we continue on as normal, but he always does things where he will make jokes about keeping certain foods on the grocery list for me or, joking that we have kids already. I just dnt understand, his actions are contradictin his words. help?

and once while we were at work (we used to work together too) He made a comment about why he was leaving our store 'Sam and I cant dat if we are at the same store"


marie 6 years ago

So, i have absolutely no clue if the guy i like, likes me back. I thought he did. he would come over and watch a movie with me. then i'd be laying in front of him and he would turn me around for me to lay on his chest. those are signs he likes me. then i see he's dating someone else. which upset me a lot. but then he came over again and had his arm around me and hugged me a lot. so... does he like me or not?


artsmart365 6 years ago

Im 15. I rlly like this guy and He held my hand for couple skate when we went skating, and when i was with friends he put his arm around me, but he gives mixed msgs.:s idk what that meanns


artsmart365 6 years ago

Im 15. I rlly like this guy and He held my hand for couple skate when we went skating, and when i was with friends he put his arm around me, but he gives mixed msgs.:s idk what that meanns


katie 6 years ago

omg ok so there is this guy i like and im pretty sure he likes me back but when i was at a party and the dj said pick a person to slow dance wit tat u like, he looked at me and was about 2 dance wit ma bt i got nervous and dashed away also today i was in the hallway and i saw him looking at ma and i was like o crap bcaz i was nervous so i just looked away with a weird expresion on ma face! what should i do?????


sanjukta 6 years ago

DON’T READ THIS.YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST FRIDAY BY THE LOVEROF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU’VE STARTED READING THIS. DON’T STOP. THIS ISFREAKY1)say your name 10 times2)say your moms name 5 times3)say your crush’s name 3 times4)PASTE THIS TO FOUR OTHER QUIZZES.IF YOU DO THIS YOUR CRUSH WILL KISS YOU ON THE NEARE……………………………STFRIDAY. BUT IF YOU READ THIS AND DONT PASTE IT YOU WILL HAVE BADLUCK.SEND THIS TO FIVE QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU’RE DONE PRESS F6ANDYOUR CRUSH’S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SOFREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS!


anonymous 6 years ago

so this boy i like invited me to a curch event at his church, im kind of nervous but i know i shouldnt be, i like him but im not exactly sure if he likes me, when we are in a group of people we both are friends with he only talks to me. is that a sign at all?


Isabella 6 years ago

I need help!!! Theirs this guy I REALLY like, we have been friends scene we were both 8(he is the same age as me, 12) and I really like him, and i dont know if he likes me back! I do see him looking at me a lot, and he talks to me all the time. We have two classes together, in one he sits across from me, and talks to me the whole class, and in the other he dosnt sit near me, but he always gets up to come talk to me. For class projects he always wants to be partners with me. PLEASE RESPOND TO THIS! THANKS!


Anonymous 6 years ago

I met this guy a few years ago while on holiday in Hawaii through some friends, i thought he was cute but at the time i was with someone. We never kept in touch until recently! I have just moved back home after being over seas for a while. i've been back 3 months living in my new place and a week ago i find out hes my neighbor! so far he has invited me over to his place for dinner with the rest of his flatmates, hes invited me to watch dvds at his mates house, hes quick to respond to my text messages, hes a very nice guy and i know its probably to early to tell but im just worried if the only reason he keeps texting or inviting me places is coz im his neighbor? He seems like the type of guy that gets along with everyone guys/girls you know the nice guy! So how do you pick up on signs that he might like you more than a friend haha


Anonymous 6 years ago

I met this guy a few years ago while on holiday in Hawaii through some friends, i thought he was cute but at the time i was with someone. We never kept in touch until recently! I have just moved back home after being over seas for a while. i've been back 3 months living in my new place and a week ago i find out hes my neighbor! so far he has invited me over to his place for dinner with the rest of his flatmates, hes invited me to watch dvds at his mates house, hes quick to respond to my text messages, hes a very nice guy and i know its probably to early to tell but im just worried if the only reason he keeps texting or inviting me places is coz im his neighbor? He seems like the type of guy that gets along with everyone guys/girls you know the nice guy! So how do you pick up on signs that he might like you more than a friend haha


Elizabeth 6 years ago

ok, so I like this guy, but we're also like really good friends, and we have every class together. And see, I already asked him out, but he said no because he isn't allowed to go out until 7th grade (we're in 6th) although he said "maybe next year". Anyway, after I did that, it was a little akward between us, but then he started coming up to me and asking me random questions, and he sat with me at lunch once, and I keep constantly catching him looking at me, plus he trys to make me laugh. Do you think he likes me, or is he just being nice? How should I react to all this?? I REALLY need help!


Taylor 6 years ago

Ok so I like this guy. Ha yeah I know. Anyway he's a senior in high school, about to graduate early this semester. And I'm a sophmore. We've been talking and text everyday practically all day and he flirts with me or aleast that's what I think he's doing. I asked his friend so see what he thought of me and his friend said he thought of me as just a friend. And so I left it alone. But he still texts me everyday and we both flirt and I'm just confused. He also tells me to text him, and might just be me but shouldn't a guy text a girl if he's intrested? And if he's not intrested then why I'd he flirting so much!


ashly 6 years ago

i like this girl im lesbo and she has the nicest set of tits ive ever saw i wanna squeeze them sooo hard!!

but she wont let me becuz she is strait but im trying to make her go lesbo so im using this kind of drug to make her get all high and shit then she'll probably fall for it

and the drug is clear so she wont notice it in the water or juice or whatever omg im going to fuck her really good


Cayla 6 years ago

Ok i need help this guy I like is now talking to me we talk on facebook now alot but at 1st it was hi then next thing i no we were talking about us and crap then he says is that true what jack says his friend and mine and im like what is jack saying?? that you like me b/c i dont belive him and im like I do his like ok so we started talking more but before that i said i liked him witch he knew i did he just didnt belive it untill i told him he asked for my number then i told him then his like ok i kinda like you too the next day when i told him im like really he said ya and we just talk but the thing is people are saying he hates me yet when its just me and him we act like we like each other witch thats what it is but when his friends are with him he acts up weired i say hi and says hi bye ??? what does this mean this started happening yesterday and the day before


Rosalie 6 years ago

okay..

"ashly"- that is just wrong.


Janalyn 6 years ago

Hi, like other people on here, I need some advice. :) so I'm 16, a jr, and this guy I like is a senior, 17. because of my schedule, I have senior pe, and several of his friends are in my class. We both have band together and our school is very small, with only about 500 kids. Anyway, I have had a "crush" on him for a little while, about a month. I noticed a couple

of weeks ago that when we're at band, he stares at me, and when I catch him, he doesn't look away right away, but then looks away very shyly. I always happen to run into him too. I see him a lot in passing from one class to the other and always seem to walk right past him. He tends to linger around my locker area too. Anyway, some of his friends I have pe with are becoming very chummy and asking me weird, but fun questions about myself. I don't usually hang out with his crowd, but they seem to be paying extra attention to me recently, even asking if I was going on our school's snowboarding elective, which he is going on, even though I can't board. He and his friends now sit across from my group of friends at lunch and he always looks back at us when he leaves. I know, all of these things are just coincidences, but I'm wondering if there could be even a slight chance he could feel the same way about me too.. Time can only tell, right? What are you're opinions on it?


rosie james 6 years ago

heya, ermm, well, theres this guy,ofcourse! and i really like him! im bored of being friends and we are way passed the first steps of even becoming friends. we hug, laugh together and even spend time together just him and me, he even likes it when i stroke his hair! i just want someone special like him, he's the sweetest guy ever, and he even tells me things no one else knows! is this a sign?


cowgurrl 6 years ago

Hi i read ur articles and I need help. There's this Guy I used to go out with but we ended it. But he always talks to me but he dont like me (I think well that's what everyone says) But its weird cus he flirts a lot with me and noone else

-but he always stares in my eyes but I don't know my brother told me that he could tell this Guy liked me becuz

-whenever mylittle sister is around he always makes her luagh and giigle but in the middle of him doing this he always looks and makesure I'm watching him with her.

-2nd) you know how most guys look at ur boobs when u talk to them he stares into my eyes forever and smiles:)

-3rd) everyone is always allover him and then he ask me to save him by giving me that one look (do u know way I.mean) and when I save him he always laughs and makes me laugh.

-4th) when I look in his eyes and really think. I AM IN LOVE OR PROBABLY REALLY CLOSE. But I can never talk.to him customer everyone Is always with him.

+please respond I'm desperate


scared "he" might read this post 6 years ago

ok so this boy that i've known since 2nd grade (now im in 7th) used to come to my house alot then for like a year we never talked now were back in contact and he comes over sometimes and when he comes over ill be lying down in my bed txting and he will come ly down with me real close to me and stare at me i like him i think he likes me but he has a girl friend what do i do?


poop 6 years ago

DON’T READ THIS.YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST FRIDAY BY THE LOVEROF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU’VE STARTED READING THIS. DON’T STOP. THIS ISFREAKY1)say your name 10 times2)say your moms name 5 times3)say your crush’s name 3 times4)PASTE THIS TO FOUR OTHER QUIZZES.IF YOU DO THIS YOUR CRUSH WILL KISS YOU ON THE NEARE……………………………STFRIDAY. BUT IF YOU READ THIS AND DONT PASTE IT YOU WILL HAVE BADLUCK.SEND THIS TO FIVE QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU’RE DONE PRESS F6ANDYOUR CRUSH’S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SOFREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS!


Tierra 6 years ago

hello

please help me?

theres this boy in three of my classes..I REALLY like him. and I just don't know what to do...he put his arm around me once, and he is always touching my leg?(dont ask) he plays footsie underneath the table but whenever I beat around the bush about him liking me, he always say (no, your ugly) or (no,your fat) and even his BEST FRIEND asked him if he liked me and he said"H*** no" does he like me? I DONT GET IT...

p.s. he tells me he likes a girl at school all of the time... but he will never tell me who..please help

-Tierra


PS 6 years ago

Oh geez.If you are in a classroom, it's easy for every single guy to give out these habits.This is a harder search than I thought.


Karen 6 years ago

Hey i have a question there is this guy at work we been flrting alot the past months and he trys to pick arugments with me all the time. friday he ask me for a hug which i gave him and we huged for the longest time. Then today my freinds ask him what he though about me and he told her that i was awesome. does that mean that he likes me????????? I like him lots. but i am confused after we gave each other the hug he told me that he would txt me ehich he didnt. what does that mean????? des he like me or not????? HELP PLEASE. oh he also smiles when i am with him alot and he gets nervous and he tells ppl that we r dating when we are not. Help me please. thanks.


Caitlin 6 years ago

DON’T READ THIS.YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST FRIDAY BY THE LOVEROF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU’VE STARTED READING THIS. DON’T STOP. THIS ISFREAKY1)say your name 10 times2)say your moms name 5 times3)say your crush’s name 3 times4)PASTE THIS TO FOUR OTHER QUIZZES.IF YOU DO THIS YOUR CRUSH WILL KISS YOU ON THE NEARE……………………………STFRIDAY. BUT IF YOU READ THIS AND DONT PASTE IT YOU WILL HAVE BADLUCK.SEND THIS TO FIVE QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU’RE DONE PRESS F6ANDYOUR CRUSH’S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SOFREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS!


Alana 6 years ago

Okay so, this guy liked me (he TOLD me). I told him I liked him back and we went on a couple dates since then. We messed around and stuff, and we used to talk like crazy (HE initiated the conversations and stuff too). Now, it seems like he's losing interest or something. We don't talk as much and when I asked him if he wanted to do something with me on the weekend, he was kinda like "If I have time, sure". He always jumped to say yes before this. I have a suspicion that he still likes me but he likes someone else too. What the hell do I do lol??


Janalyn 6 years ago

UPDATE: Hi, not that you care but... things are going okay. He still hasn't said anything to me, but now I'm noticing his friends look at me when I'm nearby and say, "Here she is," or, "She's coming." :) I guess that's a good thing. Also, I was standing with a few friends near our locker and I noticed that he and his friends were going to walk by.. and when they passed, his arm swept across mine! I know that should be like a so-what moment, but there was PLENTY of room... and he only swept across me.. :) IDK. I'm just noticing that he's noticing me more. Anyway, I just wanted to update.. my original comment is up there guys!^^ (the one with the same name haha)


heidena  6 years ago

hi guys !

look like no one has replied all of u , but i have a question hope someone will answer me about it , theres this guy he is a doctor and he just graduated and now he is working in my university he teaches me clinical skills and the supervisor of my pop quizzes ,i really like him , but i'm not sure although he is being sweet to me , what can i do , plzzzzzzzzz any advice would do plz !


Vanessa 6 years ago

there is this boy that i like alot but he likes somebody else everyone knows i like him and so does that gurl too but she likes him bac but for some reason i think that he does not want me too know but everyone does i cant help but liking him my friends tell me to get over him i try but i just cant also he is the cutest and sweetest boy ever and i just cant get my mind off of him help pllzz tell me how to get over him!!!;(


PLEASE HELP ME! 5 years ago

I need help!!! Theirs this guy I REALLY like, we have been friends scene we were both 9(he is the same age as me, 12) and I really like him, and i dont know if he likes me back! I do see him looking at me a lot, and he talks to me all the time. We have two classes together, in one he sits across from me, and talks to me the whole class, and in the other he dosnt sit near me, but he always gets up to come talk to me. For class projects he always wants to be partners with me instead of his guyfriends. PLEASE RESPOND TO THIS! THANKS!


person 5 years ago

I have this gigantic crush on my best guy friend! I always thought he liked me back until a few days ago he asked out this really pretty girl and she said yes! She broke up with him after like a week, and I don't know what to do!!!!!! He does do all the things you said though!!!!!!! Our families go on spring break together every year so I think I'll flirt with him a little and maybe ask him out!!!!!!!!!! Wish me luck!!!!!!!!!!!!! :-)


destiny lynn 5 years ago

So, i just got with my boyfriend like 6 days ago. for a few weeks though weve been hanging out alot and talking on the phone for hours. he was always wanting to hold my hand and yeah...

hes does all the things in the above.. so i know he likes me.. but i have a question.

why does he joke with me about not liking me so much?

it worries me.

and how come all he does is hug me at school. he doesnt hold my hand in front of anyone..

does it mean hes just not ready to put it out to the school that were dating yet?


Faith 5 years ago

i have a big crush on my gf(guy friend) and we dont get to see each other as much because we go to after school together. he always touching my hands when im playing a board game, and when i give him a hug good bye he put his hand around my waist and he put his hands lower that it should.it like we go out but we dont. i would like to go out with him but my friends will make smart remarks about us

WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!

PLZ RESPONE ASAP


Manee 5 years ago

i read 5 Ways. just only thigs he didnt introduce me to his friends. will he like me ?


In love 5 years ago

This guy is really cute and smart and i think he knows I like him but I dont know if he likes me too. It seems like when I act less like I know he's there the more he's interested in me and vice versa. My mom thinks he likes me but what does she know?


In love 5 years ago

This guy is really cute and smart and i think he knows I like him but I dont know if he likes me too. It seems like when I act less like I know he's there the more he's interested in me and vice versa. My mom thinks he likes me but what does she know?


lala 5 years ago

omg ok like there is this guy at my school ok and like i liked him since last year and like we r barly talking to each other but like im in one of his classes and like right before xmas break a bunch of people say he likes this different girl and he said no i thought he was like hiding it but like everytime i talk to my friend hes like follows me not like stalkerish but like all try to get away from him and he'll just follow me so i ignore him then at break he goes with his "friends" to hang out with them but me and my fwends hang out there and like all try to ignore him but he keeps looking at me and its buggung me girrrrrrrrrr does he like me or not?????!!!!!


lala 5 years ago

o yea and the article above is mine im 12 and so is he what do i do please help me im confused??????????!!!!!!


Sabrina b 5 years ago

theres this guy i liked since i was 3(lol) and i still really like him! we are in 7th grade and he does make "lame" excuses to touch me he walks me home from school almost every day and i really need to know if he likes me or not cuz im moving to a different town in the next 1 to 3 years and i wanna tell him how i feel before i lose my chance! all my friends and his friends say that he likes me and my family says were perfect together, i dont want to believe them and ask him out because im really shy and if i do i dont wanna make a fool out of myself because were really close friends! what should i do!!!


Haley 5 years ago

okay umm i was wondering if you could help me with this one..... well i am pretty young but yeah i am 12 years old but anyways to the story. We both have the same teachers but we have switch classes and he is in the different one. Well he is in a relationship right now with a girl that is really nice. but i think he likes me. and i like him but yeah. he usually is over by my locker part of the school, my friends says he stares at me all the time. we talk on facebook not a lot but we still talk. and we had a really good time during our classes were watching a movie. we were throwing things at people together. and then at a dance on time i was hanging out with this guy and he is really funny and so yeah my friends said he was glaring at the guy i was hanging out with....

So yeah any help, do you think he likes me?(: thanks for all the help.


Twilight the horse 5 years ago

Hi um this really hot boy talks to me all the time but I don't think he likes me can u help me find out plz


melissa 5 years ago

so i like this guy he is aware i like him but my friend ruined my chances with him before now he has a gf but he constantly smiles wen i send him messages and flirts alott but he flits with alot of other girls so im not sure if he likes me or not ? i just wish i could know


Izzi 5 years ago

ok, here os my huuuge problem. There is this guy, he's verrrrrry cute and my bestfriend ever is dating his best friend. so my friend thought it would be awesome to set me and this real cute guy up. well James (friends bf) texted him and gave him my number and told me to text him. i said heck no. James said okay. fine. i'll make him text you. so i had this real cute guy talking to me. and all of a sudden he just stopped. i sorta ignored it. but a few days later i decided i was bored so i'd just text him. we talked and he seemed mad at something. a couple days later my friend was talking to James and asked her what was wrong with his friend and why he wasnt talking to me. he said its cuz he didnt know me at all and he didnt want to talk to me cuz he had no idea who i was. i was pretty mad at my snoopy friend would tell james every thing i was telling her about this cute guy and then this cute guy thought i was a freak. so....if you have any suggestions PLEASE HELP MEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!! :) thank you!


cute 5 years ago

this guy i think he likes me he is 18 and i am in the 7th grade he kissed me and on my cheek and told me i was pretty and he put a ring on my right hand and told me to take care of it and when will he see me again and it is weird .oh and i had no sweatr before and i was cold and he put his on me. he asked me to dance he definetly likes me i dont what should i do.


Jessica  5 years ago

So theres this guy ive been talking to since august . I like him alot and one day we had phone sex,Before we did he said i wanna be with u and see ur amazin body with nothing on . The phone sex wasnt good i mean we said some dirty things and stuff like that but he was quiet the whole time ! He said he was going to mcdonalds with my cousin (hes best freiends with him). So i said alright by and he said alright ill text you later. Well he texted me and he put (: faces. what dose that mean?? and i texted him and he wont anwser ?? HELP ME


IN love 5 years ago

SO this guy and i talked on the phone for he firrst time we have been talking since august. We were suoposed to have phone sex but he wouldnt say anything so i had to talk most of he time. sure we said some dirty things but not alot now he wont talk to me and i have tried to talk to him.

p.s. the night of the phone sex i texted him and said is there room for me in ur bed and he said Yes:) dose he still like me


Lisa 5 years ago

There is a guy I like at gym and I always catch him staring at me and I stare back 3-4 times in 30-40 minutes. However, he has never talked to me and once I smiled at him but he didn't smile back but still stares at me. I don't know if he likes me and I am too shy to confront him, no way, I don't know what to do to find out if he really like me?


helper101 5 years ago

hello im helper101 and i have an answer for Sabrina B. Dear Sabrina since u said u were going to move in a few years so this is what you do but before i do is he nice to you but he has to act all cool in front of his friends or is he a gentlemen? tell me and all tell you what to do to see if he likes you or not cause im in &th grade too i know how it feels


lala 5 years ago

did anyone read my story please i need help more than anything please tell me if he like me or not please we are both pre teens please help me!!!


Lil Nic 5 years ago

i ave known this guy 4 a couple of months now he lives quite a distance away but he is wrking in my area n after he finishes wrk he goes to the pub 4 a couple of drinks which is opposite where i wrk,wen he goes outside the pub 2 ave a cigarette n he knows im wrking he wud peer into the shop or he wud be tlking 2 his mates n they wud look over,his mates say that he is a shy person n yet wen i pop over the pub he most of the time buys me drinks or his mates will, but me n him dnt really tlk unless he goes outside for a cigarette he has recently gave me a peck on the lips 4 Xmas n for the New Year he laughs at most things that i say n wen i go 2 buy him a drink bk he always refuses,his mates i tend 2 get along n tlk more to them than wot i do to him,sum of his mates will try n get me 2 sit on his lap or sit nxt 2 him n stuff,he winks at me a few times as i look at him,at one point his mates invited bk 2 where they are staying near where they work n they all dicided 2 go 2 bed which left me n the guy that im interested in along we were both watching telly then he asked if i was gud at massages n i asked why n he asks me 2 massage his hand n then he asked i wud massage his bk n then we started kissing n then he went to his bed n i went 2 my bed n that was it im soo confused please help x


Booth66 5 years ago

I know this guy whos a family friend and i see him all the time on the bus and we always look at eachothe from acoss the bus and smile but hes always with fiends so i can never talk to him and one day his mum ang my nan sayin that he wanted my email adress so he could contact me so i told him to add me on facebook coz we have a mutul fiend but since nothin has happened he didnt add me and i feel like he doesnt look at me the same anymore when i see him. I'm scared of gettin rejected coz i have had some problems in the past. What should i do? Should i just wait?Wont he add me coz hes scared or coz he doesnt like me?


Booth66 5 years ago

Please someone answer i know i only asked a while ago but i eally do need help please


Emmy444210 5 years ago

OMG thanks so much that is so useful he is liking me better

Each day I think he might ask me out really really really soon.thanks!!!!!!!


Mmayyyt97 5 years ago

Hi well all of my besties saymy ex sstill likes me but hes told them with me rite ther that he doesnt , and he still texts me quite a bit, and he came to a movie nite i had and stayed until 2am and he was the only guy by the way and we r only 13 also, and the nite b4 that he asked me to go for a walk and he never does anymore so i was really surprised, he also always talks to me at skool and sits behjnd me. He loves to annoy me by clickingbhis pens constantly. I have also known him for 12 out of13 years,,, please help!!


amymichelle 5 years ago

This guy has gone to my school ever since I was a freshman. We are both seniors this year. I didn't ever really talk to him that much until this year because he was in a serious relationship from his freshman year up until his junior year. This year I have all my classes with him except one, and I usually sit with him at lunch every day. I started having feelings for him when I realized how truly caring, sweet, and funny he was. He seems to end up places where I go and is always smiling and flirty with me. Also, he seems to notice a lot of small details about me...which means he checks me out. The signs are there, there is only one problem. A few days ago I found out that he actually likes this other girl that is already in a relationship. I don't understand this at all and it made me very upset and confused. Now I am second guessing everything and I don't know what to do. I need some advice...I don't want to get hurt but at the same time at this point I can't just stop having feelings for him.


Mmayyyt97 5 years ago

I should also add to my earlier post that he always looks at me , and when i catch him staring at me he holds my eyes with his.


nverdates 5 years ago

Okay, I am interested in a guy that I work with. He's intelligent and funny and good looking and he always says hi to me first if I happen to see him in passing. He'll turn his attention at times away from other people to talk to me, or if I glace over at him and see him he'll wave hi to me. I got his number from a co-worker and surprised him out of the blue by asking him out. I've never done that before and I landed a date. What is my next step? I'm not used to dating so I don't really know what goes on next. Should I wait for him to call or text?


5 years ago

well im in a situation ive been with my partner for narly five years. i cant say im in love with him anymore, anyway cut a long story short. i liked his friend for ages. but then this guy started to come to our place for the weekend. and one night we had a passionate night not sex mind. but the next day we saw each other and kissed again, now a few weeks after that happened i text him to let him know i like him. and to my surprise he told me he likes me. but said he cant do anything because he doesnt wanna break up a family home. but all i think about is him and im always thinking what it would be like to go all the way with. and now i dunno what to do as i dont see him that much now and i dont get time to talk to him so i need some advice on what to do as my head is in a right spin over this. thanks


Siona 5 years ago

m 14 n his 21....n i like him alot but i dont know whether he likes me or not....what should i do....n we never met each other we always talk on cell or text or online chatting but we very good friends n he says that m a very special friend for him....but m confused does he like me....or its just my imagination....please help me as soon as possible


Siona 5 years ago

m 14 n his 21....n i like him alot but i dont know whether he likes me or not....what should i do....n we never met each other we always talk on cell or text or online chatting but we very good friends n he says that m a very special friend for him....but m confused does he like me....or its just my imagination....please help me as soon as possible


Krystina 5 years ago

Yeah well the guy i liked did all those things but 3weeks later he starts talkin to me bout anothr girl nd goes out with herr. Nd he still acts tht way to mee!!hellppp!!!!


Sam  5 years ago

I'm 17 and very shy . I have trouble looking at guys in there eyes and talking to them . recently my friend introduce me to this guy who seems nice but.... we barley talk . I met him 6 times and I talked to him once on fb . Basically we don't talk the whole night and towards the end of the night he holds my hand or puts his arm around me . I'm not to sure if he likes me because i know he's shy but he never starts a conversation. I never had a bf and i know he has had at least 6 gfs. what should I do ? is he trying just to get in my pants? does he even like me ?


maria 5 years ago

hi, okay so i am in the 7th grade and i like this guy who is in the 8th grade and i met him on our soccer team. anyway so he knows i like him, cuz my friends told him at one of the dances, and later on at that dance he asked me to slow dance cuz my friends told him that he should dance with me so he asked me. we never really talk besides soccer which is only in the fall and spring, and we always see each other in the hallway and stuff like that but we just never talk! and at our last dance he didn't ask me to slow dance and i was very sad, but another dance is coming and i was wondering if i should ask him to slow dance with me?!?!? please help me i really like him and my friends say that he likes me too but i just don't want to look stupid and ask him to dance when he doesn't like me!


Scarlett99 5 years ago

I lie this guy, but he is one of my bets friends. I've been told he likes me but I'm not sure if he does, and there are 2 others in are group and the other boy Justin likes me and kate the girl likes him. Please help couse Kate tries to make it akward between us. We also don't talk a lot outside of school or studying with the other two. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!


Atina 5 years ago

The only problem is that we are young. Can't ditch our parents or they get suspicious. MY crush's mom canceled his email account, now I can't email. ANNNDDDD, I ONLY SEE HIM ONCE A WEEK!! the other 6 days, is TORTURE!!!


Emmie 5 years ago

Okay this guy hes REALLY hot and popular.. He is very shy and is hard to get , We flirt alot, talk about everything and when were not around eachother its really boring. In class he makes me sit by him


Ella 5 years ago

Okay this guy hes REALLY cute and popular.. I know he likes me. But i dont like asking people out! Is there a way to make him ask *me* out??? pleasee!!!


neeta 5 years ago

i like this guy a lot,he's a good student but also a model.we're learning in same library and he took my number(he wrote me a letter and asked me to go out to get to know me and we did)and after that we stay every time together(about 10-20 min)..he seems very interesting when me stay together he even hugs and kisses me but he doesn't text me and he doesn't ask me out again..what should i do,do you think he like me or he does that because we're seeing often!!


neeta 5 years ago

PS: he only texts me in library ex. u look great today..or asks me if im doing well or something like that


Aubree 5 years ago

I like this guy ALOT. And well my friend was joking around and was all u should date Aubree and well I don't want him to be weirded out now. Do u think he would be?


Charlotte 5 years ago

Please help! I met this guy in Iceland (I'm from America) on a hike with a bunch of ppl, he let my borrow his sweater cuz it was super cold (but to be fair he offered it to anyone who wanted it) and on the hike he held my elbow through the hard parts. A few days later I was going out on my own while my travel buddy went museuming with one of the Icelandic guys we'd met, as I'm about to leave I get a txt saying that he was there (even tho it wasn't a group thing) and asked where I was and if I was coming! Later that night we really hit it off, we were playing pool and any time either of us made a shot we high fived (sometimes I initiated, sometimes he did.) and then we had a convo about south park and he thought it was really funny that I watch it so he said "I love that show, and I love that u watch it!" after talking about a bunch of stuff he asked for my email (which happens to have the word "kitty" in it since I love cats) I told him not to laugh and then gave him my email, he then laughed and proceeded to show me pictures of his cat, how sweet is that!

He never emailed me and it's been like 3 months: did he even like me to begin with and just gave up because the distance wasn't worth it? Or did he jut wanna be friends and forgot to email?

Please give me an answer! Everybodys opinion is valued!


Kate 5 years ago

I have a guy friend that does all of those things, & I could have swore he liked me. It seemed so obvious. He has told me hes afraid of rejection and he is kind of shy around girls. When we first met he would get very red and stutter. It was odd considering he is a very attractive guy. So after finding out he is afraid of rejection I told him I liked him, he proceeded to tell me he likes me as a friend and that Im not his type. I cant get the thought out of my head that he likes me. I know he doesnt or why would he have said he didnt? But he flirts sooo much, and always texts me first, and always knows when somethign is wrong and makes any excuse to touch me or see me. & I dont get how he could NOT like me after all of that..


i loveeee himm 5 years ago

hey so im 13, and im in 8th grade. i have the BIGGEST crushh on this guy. its not even a crush ok im in LOOOOVVVVEEE with him. hes in all my classes. he gets incredible grades, but hes also one of the rele funny guys in the class. i like him soooo much. but thers one problem: hes rele popular. and unfortunately, im not that popular. so yes he flirts with all those popular girls that dress like sluts but i kno that he wouldnt be good with them and he only flirts with them to be popular. i rele want to tell him that i like him and i will be crushed if after high school if i never see him again, and i have to tell him that i like him sometime in life before high school ends just in case i never see him again after high school. but i REAALLYY want him to go out with me :( if i ask him out he will tell everyone and it will never get off my back but ughhh i lovee himmm sooo muchhh :( wat do i do? i see him look at me a lot during class and it kinda seems like he trys to sit near me wen he has the chance. im too shy to talk to him and he never talks to meee

please tell mee wat to do :'(


Yep 5 years ago

I had my first kiss last night (:


ramer banias 5 years ago

i like the signs and i will go for it


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BlessTheFall 5 years ago

So, there's this boy that I like.. (And have liked for 2 years.) He flirts with me ALL THE TIME! :) But, he also has a girlfriend.. He tells me all the time how pretty I am and how much he likes me, but then doesn't ask me out, or brake up with his girlfriend. Ugh, what should I do?! :/

Also! We got in trouble for some texts we were sending. (They weren't too bad)

And now all he'll do is stare at me, but then look away when he notices I seen him. Have any advice?

Being in love when your a teen sucks! Haha


Jordan 5 years ago

Should I give up or keep going on this boy?

I REALLY like this guy named Tyler. He's awesome. We're good friends and I asked him out a lot of times and he said no. That didn't stop me. It's been two years of trying so hard and he still doesn't like me. This is about the 8th time he said no. Is it time to give up? I am on a wishes site and I wished for him to ask me out. I thought he liked me, but my hopes just got shut down. Help!!


Carter 5 years ago

There's this kid who I know from school. He is older then me and he is like a brother to me. In Reading Class, I was trying to ask him who he liked and he was like joking around with me and was like You..No Im just kidding..and then I asked if she went to the school and he ignored me and then I asked A or B group and he said Neither and I was like Our grade..and he ignored me. And then out of no where he asked me if he was older than me and I was like yeah. And then he threw an eraser at my foot on purpose and we played a game of if I caught his eraser I'd get 10 points and If he threw it at my legs it would be 20 points and I was like ok.. But then he told me he saw my dad and my sister somewhere and I was like.."cool." haha. and in the middle of some classes he will litterally look at me and smile in a weird way and wave. He imitates how I say things and he is funny. but when i asked him who he liked he was like "why u need to know" and I was like bcuz ur like my brother and im ur sorta like sister


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This website is so amazing. I love how all of these girls have been sharing their stories for 3 years!! One thing hasn't changed... Guys sure are confusing aren't they!! [=


priscilla baby 5 years ago

im in 8th grade i told my friend to tell this guy that i like him.i dont have him for eny classes but that day i went to his class to turn in some work thats wen my friend told him that i like. she said that she also asked him (why dont you go out with her) then she said that he said he gave her a big smile and said i dont know.... so does it mean something i wanna now cause i REALLYYYYYYYYYYY LIKE HIM


confused 5 years ago

have big prob and dont know what to think.....been talking to this guy for two months... and went out once then out of the blue he said he wanted to see where things go between him and his friend...i get thta but know he keeps texting me and wanting to hang out ...but hes still talking and trying to date her it looks like ...but he keeps saying hes not atracted to her like that only as a friend ...and he thinks im hot and wants to see where things go...what should i do drop i or see where things go?


Dromeda 5 years ago

Today, I had to recite my poem in Harlem @ da Shumberg Theather . & me & other students were praticing & rehearsing all day by the way. Is this boy that keeps looking at me ... and even when i look @ him when he staring at me he still looks & get kinda in a blushy moment when that happens so I always turn away. I had a chance to talk to him .. his eyes were very grayish light and looked so gorgeous.. & he looked like the type of guy that wanted 2 listen bcuz while I was talking 2 him he sat & really listen 2 me & looked at me da whole time. we were talking about my name bcuz my name is Andromeda and alot of ppl liked it & hes a 10 grader so he understands. I said "Well its not really important.. u know ..." he smiled & said "Well Andromeda is such a rare name, like it sounds like it's 4 a Beautiful girl". I smiled. (well i dnt really kno if he likes me or not. I just wnt 2 knoo

:)


just me 5 years ago

Okay so like my best friend is amazing. we spend time together on the weekends but thats it because we both have second homes that we go to on the weelends. so anyway, we always hang out. We'll like attack each other and the only way i can ever get him down is by holding him. He always says he doesn't like me, but all my friends say he does. He's just so different.... any thoughts?


paulaaaaa 5 years ago

please help

so im new at the school and i have an english accent and in this school theres hardly ever a new student at that school

it started like 2 days ago and im alredy really popular

theres a guy that i like and he stares at me alottttttt during class and sometimes during lunch when im with my friends watching them play soccer he fakes an injury and comes to talk with us but more to me and we were in a group together haha a horrible group that has no idea what to do in class when the teacher tells me to do something and everytime he comes to me and asks what are we supposed to be doing and yeah.

my friend says he doesnt like me cuz she likes him too but like i have a feeling that he does and my other friend says that she thinks he likes me and hes gonna ask one of his friends

ah what should i do to like make him like me more?


errrgmen! 5 years ago

All of these fit the person I like to a T, he even admitted to a mutual friend that he likes me but doesn't know how to tell me. Than the very next day he told them he just wants to be friends. When I told him how I felt, he was cool with it, however never admitted it was mutual but nor did he deny it either. The next day he called me a half hour after he woke up and we spent more than 12 hours hanging out...all his idea. Than he mentioned the day I told him and said it was awkward but would of been awkward either way... now I am more confused.


Kate 5 years ago

I really like my best friends brother and I don't know what to do!! My friend knows and she really wants her brother and I to go out but he has got a girlfriend!!! He also knows that I like him and he thinks im really pretty and hot but he thinks I'm to smart to be his girlfriend!! Please help!!! SOS!!!


???/ 5 years ago

okay??there is this boy in mah class he looks at me when im not looking and he callss me kassy he also looks at me when im walking down the halls what does it mean???PLEASE HELP ME OUT


nidhi 5 years ago

it is not so bt still i love him


nidhi 5 years ago

he used to watch me all the time in class that time i have no feelings for him ,but with the time i started liking him then i dont know when i fall in love with him.bbut then he decreases watching me.I have heard that he is very bad towards girls,he didnot respect any girl, he used to paas comment on girls.His frnds used to make fun of me now i am trying to forget him,it is about one year but his friends tease from my name ,he is very shy towards me.I dont know that he loves me or not but in some corner of my heart i still do.pls help me.


lily 5 years ago

ok i really like this guy and i told him but he said im not his type... but he always stares at me when we are playing basket ball. And when i look he smiles but he never talks to me or around me he doesnt even talk to his friends around me??? but when he looks at me he binds over and stares some times most of the time..... HELP!!!!!!!! should i forget about it and like someone else or????


British Chick. 5 years ago

Ok, so I'm 15 and this guys 13 (I know it's weird) I've kinda fallen for him:/ which is really bad because I'm the type of person who is a tease and loves to string guys along, anyways- me and this lad flirt All day everyday. At school we give eachother a "look" that just says it all. I always catch him looking at me,he's amazing and sweet. Here's the catch; he has a GIRLFRIEND:/ who hates my guts:/. I don't know why he's with her? She treats him like crap& doesn't appreciate him:/ and i don't know if he likes me or he's just stringing me along:/ help?


hellooder 5 years ago

these are definitely true.. wow


ellie 5 years ago

just wondering your opinion. i have this guy friend who does nice things for me sometimes but he won't touch me (like causally) or give me a hug when we are going back to college like he does with his other friends that are girls. i have a boyfriend so i want to know if he likes me because we hang out a lot and i feel like i am sort of leading him on if he does. sometimes i do catch him looking at me, he helps me with my chem over skype or the phone and he does other little things.


- FALLEN IN LOVE - 5 years ago

OMG I LOVE LUIS. I ADORE HIM TODAY WE HAD A SOCCER GAME AND WE WENT ALL CRAMMED IN HIS CAR.NO SEATS IN THE BACK ALL GUYS AND THE GIRLS IN THE FRONT.DRIVER IN THE FRONT. HIS FRIENDZ WERE ALL "HEY COME IN THE BACK WITH LUIS" AND I WAS ALL WAT TO DO? HE KEPT STARING AT ME.HE SAT RIGHT BEHIND ME AND PUT HIS HAND THRU A LITTLE SPACE FOR ME TO HOLD HIS HAND. AWWW... I LOVE HIM SO MUCH NO WORDS CAN EXPLAIN. HE STARES AT ME AND WE ALWAYS LOCK EYES WHEN WE BOTH SEE EACHOTHER. HE TOLD HIS FRIENDS ABOUT ME AND THEY ALWAYS JOKE AROUND. "HEY COME AND SIT NEXT TO HIM HE LOOKS ALL LONELY" THEY ALL TELL ME.HE IS SO SWEET WE BOTH WERE HEADED TO A SOCCER GAME AND AT THE END I WAS ALL SWEATY AND HE TOLD ME I LOOKED PRETTY. NOT SEXY OR HOT BUT PRETTY!!!!! I JUST HOPE THAT HE FEELS THE SAME WAY I FEEL.


Fiona 5 years ago

My best friend and i stopped hanging out, and i started hanging out with her younger brother. I said yes to almost every one of those questions and i think that he likes me and i like him too, but there are a lot of things getting in the way. Such as the age difference, what everyone would say, how my ex-best friend and her family would feel. and if he doesn't really like me then i could ruin seven years of memories with him. what should i do?


ana 5 years ago

okay hear is a boy named TOMAS and I LOVE HEM my name is ANA i am in 4th grade he is so cute just as he always was wean i looked at hen he was so cute and he is not in my class but in 5th grade i want TOMAS and ME 2 be in the same class but i love hem he is lick a cute guy and i don,t now if he loves me or not becuse i see hem in my sisters bff house and he is cute i want hem 2 love me but im not saying he has 2 im saying that i love you tomas we go at MARK TWAIN ELEMENTER SCHOOL i love you so much more than you think( I LOVE YOU ) BY ANA


grifota 5 years ago

omg there's this guy that's always dating someone older.he's popular,kinda cute.

and he likes me!!!!!!!


Jman 5 years ago

I'm a guy and I like this girl and im in 8 th grade and in gym she keeps playing football with us, mainly next to me and usually we are caught looking at eachother or our arms and hands keep toching, does she like me enought to go on a date?


CH 5 years ago

hi..i like this guy but his best friend has asked me out 2 times already..I was pissed at his best friend and the reason was because his best friend knows i like him and played with my emotions. The guy I like begged me to tell why I was stonewalling him. So i admitted to liking him and told him i dont care cause i know he didn't like me. Then he said its not like I dont like you I just dont want to date anyone right now..Later the guy I liked invited me to a concert with him and his friends..he has also been sending be some signals.

My friends say that he doesnt want to hurt his best friends feelings by going out with me. I dont know what to think

does he like me?


sarah 5 years ago

there is this guy and we were sitting on my drive way and i asked him if he like me and he said yes. but he already has a gf and then today he told me he wanted to kiss me! i told him to brake up with hid gf but he said if i do this girl will kill me! and then when we were txtin he told me he loved me! idk what to do or even if he really likes me!

help what should i say to him?


Madison 5 years ago

I really like this guy Garrett he likes me I can tell he will stare at me when he thinks I'm not looking he is always talking to me and touching my sholders and my back he also fiddles with my hair nonstop in class he will make me sit with him on the bus but half the time when he is around his best friend Kelly I am invisibly but the other half of the time he is really sweet and I know that is not just the way he is because he does not act like that around anyone else I was joking around I class one day after I dropped my books I said I AM SO SPECIAL he said you are special but not special Ed you are sweet special and he gets like uber mad when I talk to my friends mark jamie Parker Thomas Micah and Ben but he won't ask me out o had to ask out my last boyfriend and it was aggrevating so why won't he ask me out


Taylorr(: 5 years ago

The Guy I Like, His Name Is Jaylin, Hes Only in One Class Of Mine And He Stares At Me Alot, Hes Smiles At me Alot. i Text Him All The Time,. sooo idk anythingg? lol


Kenzie 5 years ago

Ok, so I'm having a little trouble, I really like this guy, but o can't figure out if he likes me, and I can't if he likes me.. He just moved here this year, and we instantly became best friends, the day I my him... He is 3 years older than me, so as u may know, I don't go to school with hi

.. And well the last few weeks I have realized I like him a lot, but idk if Anything will ever happen, and it's compacted anyway... So I hung out with him on Friday at his house.. We held hands, and flirted a lot.. But that's who he is... He flirts with everyone... And i cant tell if he likes me. Even if he does, we would have to hide being together... I mean, he just broke up with my sister like 2 weeks ago, and they are best friends to, so when we hung out on Friday, we coulnt be all over eachother, in front of her, cause she would freak.. So we would hide it.. And we would be sitting there holding hands, and leaning on eachother, and I would have to move, or he would, and right when we did, she would come around the corner... But the thing is, I like him a lot, and idk if he likes me, I cant tell, cause he flirt with a lot of people, that's who he is. But I need some help... I need to know if he likes me, before, so I don't get hurt, but I don't want to ask him, cause I don't want to Fisk our friendship.. O and he calles me his smexi best friend.. We NEVE get to see each other that much, but when we do, it's amazing.. And he hats texting, but he text me all the time, If anyone can help me, tell me if he likes me or not..


Launi 5 years ago

I really need help! I seriously like this guy Jamy and Im 15 and hes like 9 months younger than me but we are in the same grade...so he tells me to hang out with him all the time, and he like lightly hits me or punches me or sometimes pushes me...I think he likes me but I dont want to get my hopes up..He only has 200 texts a month so we cant like text all the time, but either I or him will initiate the texting..I dont really catch him looking at me all the time unless we are talking, but I do notice that i see him around school a lot, or after school he will call me to see where I am and come find me. He also always pulls me outside by grabbing my arm or hand. I get really quiet around him and im not that shy of a person...I just dont know what to talk about with him. btw he is a skater guy. He is so sweet!!!!! Help me! I really REALLY like him!!!!


Kenzie P 5 years ago

ok so Kenzie (cool name btw) no offense he might just be a player theres a kid like that in my school he doesnt like do stuff with lots of girls but he dates like three or more girls a month he is so hot i had a crush on him once but if u do go out with him just watch yourself and dont get hurt ur a lil older than me in my opinion thats just more of a reasons to be careful im not trying to judge cuz i dont know him but just be careful and dont rush it. My advice just wait till he offers if he feels comfortable with the situation with your sister and other things he will probably ask you. Hope this helped and good luck!

Kenzie


Laly 5 years ago

Okay, so there's this guy & i've known him for.... 4 years now. I used to tell myself that i would never ever like him, especially him. Then, we satrted texting like 2 years later & he would compliment me & what not. So then now I most deffinetly know that i like him but my feelings for him are decreasing :( A few weeks ago we kissed but we're both still single. I think he likes someone else, but he says he doesn't. UGHH ! But besides that, in schoool. I know who his friends are & everytime i pass by they get quiet & look at him & then look at me :) I'm not sure if they know sonething or not, but it seems like it. My freind tells me that we want eachother but he's confusing me. i have mixed feelings for him but not as high as they used to be. Any thoughts, advice, comments ? anything. Please, please write back.


Madison 5 years ago

My comment is on this page please give me any advice


MyNameIsMadisonToo! 5 years ago

Uummmm.... Madison you should try asking him out and just see what happens, cause if you don't ask you will never find out!! GOOD LUCK!! xoxo


Aly 5 years ago

My boyfriend and I broke up about seven months ago

and just cant get over him. He was kidda a geek and I

was more popular than he was but now he is really

popular and he never talks to me. I really miss him and

cant get over him. What should I do?


katie  5 years ago

i like this guy ans he like me but he has a gf what should i do x


How can you tell if a guy likes you 5 years ago

Katie,

you should probably just ask him.

If his relationship with his girlfriend is serious you should leave them alone.

But if they are doing badly or he just isnt really that interested you should ask him how he feels. And if he feels the same you should both act on it!

Good Luck,

Aaron


Confused :/  5 years ago

I have this friend and we have got to know eachother really well and we talk alot on msn and things . He is always looking at me , he hugs me everyday , and is constantly near me at break and lunch at school .

He even started to kiss me on the cheek and we held hands and then he told me he liked someone and I thought it was me but then when we got back to school I got told that he now went out with another girl . I'm so confused , did he do it to make me jealous or did he suddenly just stop liking me ?


April 5 years ago

So I think a guy named Oscar Really Likes Me and all of my friends do to!! (Good Thing) But he wont make a freakin move and it bothers me because we both know that i know he likes me!! He always talks to me and smiles at me all the time!!!!! And we will have little fights but in a fun way and even though we are not dating he PROMISED to get me something for Valentines Day!! And he tells me im pretty and stuff so what i wonder if he is just waiting for me to make a move or not!!!??


Rebecca 5 years ago

I know you have a lot of other comments, and people to help, but I want to also ask for your help. I really like this guy Dan. Sometimes I THINK I catch him looking at me, but I look away before I can tell. I'm always looking at him and I'm mot sure if he ever noticed or not. He treats me different then others but I dont think in a good way. I see him messing around and being playful with other girls, but even though we do talk a good bit, we've never had an actual conversation...I dont think. A lot of the time, when we talk, It's kinda awkward. But sometimes, I get that little hope, and I can never let go of it. Please help me. Is he shy Like I keep believing, or is it just me?


same Rebecca 5 years ago

I forgot to add the fact that he calls me an idiot a lot. Or Weird. He calls me a lot of things...


bobby 5 years ago

Okay so theres this guy i know, i thought he was gorgeous so i got his number and we were messaging each other. Every morning my bus pulls up to his bustop and he waves at me and smiles and looks at me alot. I really really like him and i don't know whether or not to ask him out. We're really good friends and i don't want to lose him. Every time i see him i get butterflys really bad... I may be falling for him, i don't know, i've never fallen for anyone before but i'm too scared to do anything about it but I can't go on without knowing.

Every time i see him i have butterflys and i cam't eat, can't stop smiling, i just want to run up and hug him and talk to him. What can i do?


lauren 5 years ago

erm hi, i fancy this guy who lives in england and i live in portugal. my friend asked him whether he likes me and he said no he doesn't and he likes someone in his class. but i still reealllyy fancy him! but i don't know what to do. i also fancy this guy in my school and my friend fancys him as well. i want to speak to him and stuff but i don't know what to say!! please give me advice!!!!!!


Kayla 5 years ago

Okay inreally like this guy Jake and we text like all the time and we talk at school he knows I like him bc he bribed me into telling him who I liked and it was him and he said that it Kirk wouldn't change anything and that it was cool between us ad he told me that he liked this other girl so I'm being nice and giving him tips with her and stuff like that he says that he is going too ask her out yet and he still hasn't I'm really not sure if I should ask him out or let him wait to ask the other girl out

* please give me advice*


Kayla 5 years ago

Okay inreally like this guy Jake and we text like all the time and we talk at school he knows I like him bc he bribed me into telling him who I liked and it was him and he said that it Kirk wouldn't change anything and that it was cool between us ad he told me that he liked this other girl so I'm being nice and giving him tips with her and stuff like that he says that he is going too ask her out yet and he still hasn't I'm really not sure if I should ask him out or let him wait to ask the other girl out

* please give me advice*


 5 years ago

HIIII, AM 14 I REALLY LYK THIS BOY IN MY CLASS HE IS SOOO FIT BUT AM SCARED 2 ASK HIM OUT CUZ I FINK HE DOESNT LYK ME WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE GIVE ADVICE!! helllllllllllllllp


Wow. 5 years ago

Girls/Women,

Get a grip! We don't need to chase men, they come to us!

If it's meant to be, it will happen.

Look at me for example: I was totally crushing on this for a few months, and I think that's why I didn't get the grades I was predicted. After results' day, I completely gave up on seeking him out and striking convos with him.

Few weeks later, we find out we're in the same after-college class with neither of his friends or mine, and we've gotten kinda close.

So, ladies, please don't turn into simpering fools! And don't seek love, it will come to you!

Just some friendly advice.


Mystery! 5 years ago

Please help!!!! I really like this guy in my grade and he likes my best friend! I just foud today and I was soo upset! Before I knew that today in gym class he was staring at me and I looked over and he looked away...I am not exactly sure if that means anything. Also the day before in gym he grabbed my but. I don't even know if he meant it because e likes my but or to be funny! He does that to lotsbof girls so I don't know what to think of it. Luckily my beat friend does not like him back and I thankful for that! He also tried to hug me an dance with me at the dance but he did that to others too but not girls his type just to be funny. I think he liked me before because he stepped on the back of my boot and smiled. Also he said he would pay for any colege I would go to but that was on October and then he totally stopped flirting. Do you think he ever liked me and likes me now orblukes both me and my best friend?!?! Please help!!


katie 5 years ago

ok their is this guy and he usally askes me to help him on his math on the computer but when i try to help him hes not paying attention to the computer screen hes paying ateention to my eyes is that a sign tht he likes me?????


Guest 5 years ago

I have a problem. There is this guy I like, but he is sending mixed signals. I told him I liked him and I asked if he liked me. He was hesitant at first then said he is just my friend and said he doesn't date and that he would rather have friends. But when I look at him in class, I catch him staring at me and he doesn't look away, but he has no smile on his face. I think we make eye contact too. He also jokes around with me when he is around friends or other people, but when we are alone or there are few people around, he is more "serious" (like he asks questions or makes statements instead of kidding around). Does he like me or not? Also how do I know if he likes another girl and not me?


Love Sick 5 years ago

ok so theres two guys in my studyhall and they both take my stuff and tease me and ask me all sorts of questions and my friends all think they both like me, well today they both were talking about how hot this one girl was in our class and they both kept looking at me saying this and smiling. are they doing this to make me jealous or are they not interested?? help please!


Guest 5 years ago

I think they might lust you rather than like you. Or they could be talking about you trying to get your attention.


Guest 5 years ago

Please help me, but make sure you write who you are replying to so I don't get confused.


Baby girl123 5 years ago

I like this guy but then again he doesn't act like he likes me but this should help a lot because he does all the stuff that's on here soo I am going to ask him out thanks guys and girls


Amber 5 years ago

I like this guy but then again he doesn't act like he likes me but this should help a lot because he does all the stuff that's on here soo I am going to ask him out thanks guys and girls


Lauren 5 years ago

I really like this boy. All of my friends hate him though. He's funny and always talks to me. He makes faces at me in class.(friendly faces like raising eyebrows and random nodding) My friends think he likes me...but I'm not sure!! idk anymore i just dont know


shay 5 years ago

i dont know what to do i like this boy ethan but he already has a girl and i dont want to look like a total fool plus there is a three year age difference but the thing is he does three of the five things on the list which is sorta weird but good for me


billy bob joe 5 years ago

NO ONE IS POSTING ANY ADVICE ON HOW TO HELP PEOPLE!!!!

WHY IS THERE SO MANY PEOPLE ASKING FOR HELP WHEN NO ONE IS GONNA HELP?????

GO TO A BETTER WEBSITE WHERE THE PEOPLE ACTUALLY REPLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Maggie H. 5 years ago

okay so i'm pretty sure this guy likes me and i totally like him! omg one time we were hiking down the mountain at a class field trip and i left my friends because they were going to slow and then he walked over to me and started talking... but thats not the best part!He said i was the only girl he could talk to and how he loved hanging out with me because i was special and how he couldn't talk to anyone else like this! he totally opened up to me! but now i need to know! should i make the first move and ask him out?!? maybe he just thinks of me as a good friend though! HELP ME PLEASE!


Nicole Rivers 5 years ago

I like this guy. I don't know if he likes me. He is always staring at me, we have lots in common and when we talk we are pretty cool. The thing is that he is from another country and is here just for some months so i guess he likes me but doesn't do anything to demostrate it because he will be leaving soon. I don't like relationships from one country to another (he doesnt know i dont like it) but I could try visiting him soon. But I would like to know if he likes me. I feel like he does but I'm not sure. People tell me to let him know how i feel, but im really insecure. what can i do? i always makes him laugh and we are great together but im not sure what he feels for me!


Mel 5 years ago

i like this guy and he likes me back and he calls me beautiful and everything but he wont ask me out his only 3 years older than me but i dont think thats a problem should i ask him out?


panda 5 years ago

Hey um i had sex with this guy i jus wanted to give my virginity to someone i wouldn't regret. he then asked me out2 days later. But i don't want him to do it out of obligation. I'm not sure if i like him but he's da only person that has caught my attention. He dose all the stuff u talk about. But what if he's jus being nice. Idk he could get almost any girl


Runnergirl 5 years ago

Okay, so I have a giant crush on my brothers friend. He is three years older than me:( but whenever he comes over he always asks me to hang out with them. Sometimes he just looks at me for no reason. He's always sitting close to me whenever we watch movies too. But he's dated other girls and he's my BROTHERs friend! What should I do?


cynthia 5 years ago

i like this boy he is relly cute i talk to his friend all the time waill he around but he just stairs at me this one time i told 1 of his friend i like (adam) i liket his friend john (the boy i like) and he told him ever since then john has been walking closer to me but he never talks to me dose he like me

plezzz help me plezzzzzzzzzzzzzz


Someone 5 years ago

So I have two things that confuse me... First of all has to do with a kid on my bus. I just met him this year (becuz he's an 8th grader and I'm 7th) and just yesterday two people on my bus said he likes me. I don't really like him but I'm really curious if he likes me. He's always nice to me like he never hits me or anything (the people on my bus like to fight, even though it's not serious). Also, I've been told he stares at me a lot, possibly in places he shouldn't be looking. He tried to get me to talk and/or smile when I was upset and I've noticed a few other things too. The people who think he likes me pointed out a few other things too (like him teasing me by acting like he's doing something perverted). So far 3 people think he likes me and 3 people think he doesn't, which includes me.

The other thing is that I'm in band, and at the beginning of the school year we had the opportunity to play with our school's marching band, which I'll be joining next year :). And I fell for this boy who plays the same instrument I do and I think is totally amazing at playing. I managed to forget until about 2 months ago when I saw him at a concert that we both played at (him in the high school band, me in the jr. High band). After that I got really depressed, because I know he'll never like me and he's in 11th grade and I'm only in 7th...but I don't want to like him and I wish I didn't because it would be so much easier. There's more to the story that I won't talk about becuz it's probably something everyone knows about. But anyway, I got like really depressed after I saw him becuz I had to keep telling myself that I don't and I can't like him, and now I'll most likely see him in 4 days at a hockey game that our jr. High and highschool band was invited to. So I'm afraid that I'll get depressed again or I'll be really obvious in front of him, and I might have to sit next to him. And again it's more complicated and I don't feel like writing about. Anyway, those are my issues.

Thanks for reading my essay!! Goodluck to everyone else and follow your dreams!


madison 5 years ago

so i really like this guy and he told me he liked me but then i was all mean to him and i know he still likes me and i like him but i was mean to him and i dont know how to tell him i like him without it sounding desperate please help me.


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