6 Steps For Getting Over That Guy - You Just Can't Get Over!

Getting Over Him!

Who of us does not have somebody in their yesteryear they just can't quite forget about? Maybe he's from 5 years ago, or maybe he's from 5 minutes ago. Either way, you deserve to get on...And yes, it's possible, for although your heart might have been broken...You will come through.

>>>> Step Number 1: Break off all contact...Of course, it's going to be hard. But a clean and absolute break off is the most crucial component of getting over somebody, [It lets you start healing.] What if no contact is not an choice because, maybe, you work together? Avoid events that you don't absolutely have to go to, and resist the desire to coax mutual friends or colleagues for information. When you do need to interact with him, keep it concise and abstain from any resolutions of love or war. You'll be able to triumph later about how your coping just fine attitude drove him crazy.

>>>> Step Number 2: No sleeping with him...I know your lonely and want him...But don't. [As a woman has an sexual climax, the hormone oxytocin is discharged, which causes a feeling of attachment ] Sex will make you more attached to your ex, which, distinctly, is only going to put off the issue. And still without your body chemistry leading you astray, ex sex can be tricky.

>>>> Step Number 3: Feel free to wallow...Putting off the pity party will just come back later to haunt you. Matters will be tough for a while, so Cry...Cry...Cry. Get it out.

>>>> Step Number 4: Remember what went wrong...For this one you'll need an close objective friend who can tell you the truth, softly. Ask her what she believes the problems were, then search for patterns in former relationships so you'll be able to doing it over again...And again. Think about what it was that held the relationship together, what made you happy. When you are able to identify your role in the good and the bad issues, you'll do much better in your next relationship.

>>>> Step Number 5: Keep yourself number 1...Once you get through the first grief-stricken period of your breakup, Start traveling again, do your hair the way you like it. Get back into some hobbies or start new ones. The person you are today isn't anything like who you were when you were with him...Your better now!

>>>> Step Number 6: Get on with your life...At some point you've got to take heart, even if that stands for faking it for a while. Listen to this...

Folks who act happy, by smiling a lot more, laughing, in reality become more cheerful, Your very likely dying inside...

Start dating again, even if you don't want to...Going through the motions will get you used to the idea of being with someone new. Bottom line? Pain is unavoidable. Suffering is optional. Sounds good, and it's true. The heart can be broken, but it can also heal.

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