7 Myths About Girls Debunked

Ahhh, pretty girls. Don't we love them, guys? Yes. God was in a good mood when He made girls. This is said with all respect to any or all females who might be reading this story.

But down through the centuries, many myths surrounding girls have been handed-down from generation-to-generation, and most of them are not true. And guess whom had the agony of enduring these myths that were conceived mostly by ignorant men who didn't know one thing about girls.

I am not going to pretend that "I" know all there is to know about girls, but I do know a few things.

And these "Seven Myths About Girls" below, will be debunked when this story is published.

Does "this" scene look familiar?

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MYTH NO. 7: "all girls talk about is sex when men aren't around."

How naive can menfolk be? It had to be a man who started "this" myth about girls. And the poorly-educated man was afflicted with a self-absorbing, self-important attitude. Actually, girls have great minds, I.Q.'s, and points of view. Girls do, I would guess, discuss sex such as we guys do on occasion, but not all of the time. Girls talk about their jobs, bosses, boyfriends or husbands, and politics. Not just sex.


MYTH NO. 6: "all girls "love" to be flirted with and complimented by men."

Okay. Let me get something straight. "Some" girls "do" love flirting with guys, and the occasional compliment, but dear God, around the clock? Not on your life. If a man is so dumb as to think that this myth is true, and continues in his pathway of following a pretty girl home bombarding her with flowery words, she will call the police and report him as a "stalker." If you must compliment a girl, do it in severe-moderation. Then stop.


MYTH NO. 5: "girls are so jealous that they fight for attention."

What moron started this myth? Okay, the same stupid man who said that "all girls talk about is sex when menfolk aren't around." If girls are friends with each other, why would they "fight" for the attention from a handsome guy? Girls today are mature, empowered, and secure in their womanhood, so there's no need for juvenile scrapping to get a good-looking man to look at them.


MYTH NO. 4: "all girls are born gullible, so "playboys" can lie to them easily."

Listen. If you truly believe a girl is gullible, try telling her a lie about why you are late coming in from work. A girl is NOT born gullible. She trusts until that trust is broken. Then you have trouble. A girl has "that" secret sense of evaluating instantly when a guy is telling them a lie or the truth even without asking him which is which. Like I said, guys. If you love to gamble, tell your girlfriend a bold-face lie and see where you end up? Probably walking the streets in the cold wind.


MYTH NO. 3: "girls cannot do the jobs that men do."

Tell that to the servicewomen in Iraq and Afghanistan who are fighting for our freedoms. Women today have positions of command in the Marines, Army, Navy and Air Force, and they are "tough as nails." Some even are on the ground using high-tech weapons to secure a village against terrorists. Now what was that, girls can not do the jobs men do?"


MYTH NO. 2: "the way to get a pretty girl to love you is ignore her."

When researching this story and ran across this myth about girls, I almost fell in the floor laughing. Ignoring girls can make them love you. Is that right? Well, as in the myth that "girls are gullible so you can tell them lies," the same chemistry and mechanics applies to this myth. If you are wanting a pretty girl to like you, tell her so. Do not play these outdated, stupid, and untrue games like "ignoring her" in hopes to get a date with her. If you want to be lonely, just do that one thing: Ignore the pretty girl. And do it often. Now you have your wish to be lonely.


MYTH NO. 1: "all girls want a "take charge" guy."

So by this myth, some girls want an M.P. (military police) as their companion? What was the guy thinking who started this outlandish lie? I've seen this theory attempted in my single life and without missing a beat, saw the same "take charge guy," get told to "go to hell," or "get lost, creep," by a girl who "wanted" that type of guy. Actually girls want respect, honesty, and a caring man who will treat them like people, not objects.



COMING SOON: "Myths About Men Debunked," . . .all three of them.

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writinglover 3 years ago from Lost...In Poetry

Thank you for writing this! I definitely agree with #3! I've tried to enlist into the Air Force but, unfortunately, MEPS has stalled out on my medical review. I have to admit that it may have been for the best; otherwise, I would never have become a dietary aide! Later!


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Curiad 3 years ago from Lake Charles, LA.

Good job debunking these myths!

Mark


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ChitrangadaSharan 3 years ago from New Delhi, India

Thanks for this interesting hub. I must say, you understand girls to a great extent. Looking forward to your next hub.


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Mhatter99 3 years ago from San Francisco

Thank you for this. You might want to kill my youthful daughter; but you will be happy to learn that the woman who graduated from cooking school makes this an understatement.


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catgypsy 3 years ago from the South

Kenneth, you truly understand women! Great hub!


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Gypsy Rose Lee 3 years ago from Riga, Latvia

Voted up and interesting. Thanks for sharing. You've definitely got it all straight. Passing this on.


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DDE 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

An excellent Hub, well explained and I agree with you


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kenneth avery 3 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Hi, writinglover,

Thanks for your kind comment. And I am so sorry about your military review. "I" have faith in YOU and don't forget that YOU can do whatever you want to do and BETTER in most ways, than men. Okay?

Have a good day and a Merry Christmas!


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kenneth avery 3 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Hey, Mark/curiad . . .Thank you, buddy. That means a lot. Oh, don't get me wrong. This WAS work. And lots of it. Stories about girls and women are touchy and complex. And require time, patience and taste. I hope I have done the girls on hubs some degree of justice.


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kenneth avery 3 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Dear ChitrangadaSharan . . .thank you so kindly for your warm comment. And thank you for your statement of looking forward to my next hub. I hope you wont be disappointed.

Merry Christmas.


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kenneth avery 3 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Hi, MHatter99,

"killing" one's daughter "could" get one into hot water with the law. So I choose to do this: "shame on you, MHatter's youthful daughter," for whatever you did, or doing, that caused him to say this. Now.

Do you feel better? I do.

Merry Christmas.


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kenneth avery 3 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Dearest catgypsy . . .Thank you for the observation. I was raised by my mom, a true saint of God. I loved my dad, but he worked away from home for our living, but mama taught me those things about girls and how I should conduct myself with them.

I will not forget mama.

Merry Christmas to you and yours.

And Peter says YOU are one hot chick.


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kenneth avery 3 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Hi, Gypsy Rose Lee,

Thank you kindly for your sweet words. I appreciate YOU so much. Have a great day and a Merry Christmas.

Kenneth


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kenneth avery 3 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Hello, DDE,

You are way too kind to me, but thank you sincerely for your support and comment. Visit with me anytime. I appreciate it.

Merry Christmas.


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writinglover 3 years ago from Lost...In Poetry

Hi, Kenneth! Thanks for the boost of encouragement! It's been a while since I stopped by and said hi. Hope you and your family are doing well and, once again, have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! See ya!


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kenneth avery 3 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Dear writinglover. Hi. Dear friend, you are very welcome. Anytime. I love to build-up friends, not tear them down. And the same wish for YOU and your family too.

Your sweet comments, friendship, and presence in my Hub life is so rewarding.

God bless you!


Sueswan 3 years ago

Dear Kenneth,

Another myth to add to the list is girls want a bad guy. Not this girl.

MYTH NO. 4: "all girls are born gullible, so "playboys" can lie to them easily."

My philosophy is three strikes and you are out. lol

Voted up and awesome

Hope you are well my friend. Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas.

God Bless

Susan


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kenneth avery 3 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Dearest Susan,

2:29 p.m., Dec. 17, 2012

Thank you so dearly, Susan, for your comments and thoughts. I do appreciate your input so much.

You have helped me more than I can repay you during my time on Hubs and I wont forget it.

I hope that you and Harry, oops, I mean, Vinnie, have a nice, candlelight dinner overlooking a peaceful park and be lulled into a peaceful atmosphere by a flock of doves resting from their yearly flight.

And be blessed with a master violinist who plays ancient Italian love ballads for you and Vinnie at your table.

That is my wish for YOUR Christmas.

Love ya, Friend.

KENNETH oops, I think Ive "let the Harry out of the bag."


Sueswan 3 years ago

Dearest Kenneth,

"Oh Sole Mio! You are such a sweet and caring friend. :)

We can always shove Harry back in the bag. No, better yet, let's get Vinnie to do it. lol

Christmas hugs and kisses to you.

Love ya, Friend


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kenneth avery 3 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Dearest Susan,

Thank you, from the heart, for this wonderful Christmas comment I took as a gift.

Yep, Harry loves to sit in the back and quote early Cambodian poetry and smoke unfiltered Camels. He is an undercover genius.

Christmas hugs and kisses to you too, Dearest Susan.

Love you LOTS :)


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picklesandrufus 3 years ago from Virginia Beach, Va

You are spot on Kenneth!!! Sage advice to guys out there.


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kenneth avery 3 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Dear picklesandrufus,

Thank you a whole lot for the sweet comment. I appreciate YOU so much. Have a Very Merry Christmas and enjoy "the reason" for this season.

Kenneth

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