Top 7 tips for a successful long distance relationship.

Your partner shared his/her love life with you & after a few days, months or even years he/she goes abroad or went to live in another city. You will see them on a few days holiday or on the Internet /in a bar. You can not forget the wonderful moments of happiness that you shared with him / her. Don’t give up. Here are some hints and tips for successful distance love.

Love at a Distance

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Be sure that - love is sincere!

If you do not want to suffer later, be sure that your partner truly loves you before you commit to a long distance relationship. We must realize that this is a rather difficult situation to handle psychologically because the voltage is often high (one you miss, you miss it, fear of failure, and fear of being deceived ...) It is unnecessary to engage in "adventure", if you're not sure how to handle this pressure. Raise the question to you self “ Is this love is genuine and mutual” ?. A good start is essential for romantic relationships at a distance. If you actually stay for love, when you see him/her again, happiness is at its peak.

Call up!

A healthy relationship needs a lot of communication and idea exchange from one to the other. The more you communicate, the more trust will settle and remain on the long term run. This can prove to your partner that you value him / her, and you're willing to invest time in the relationship. He / she will then recognize that you really care about them & love them genuinely. As a result they will happily invest their trust and love in this long distance relationship.

Call him frequently

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Have things in common!

A couple usually needs to have things in common; for example it may be traveling together in a foreign country, in the same country or just to see each other. But this can be more ambitious call like living together or even create a family. Whatever the things you are involving as a couple together, the key is to give a future dimension to your relationship so that it persists over the long term. You and your soul mate you need to plan ahead for the dating relationship last, so this is one of the most effective ways to create a lasting romantic relationship at a distance.

Enjoy the time together…!

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Try to see each other as often as possible!

It not sufficient to see your lover through web cam or talk with them via Skype. You should physically see your lover as much as possible! Finding love is not enough, we must maintain, and unfortunately the phrase "out of sight, out of heart" was not invented by accident. If you do not see quite regularly, your love may fade, to wither, and you risk yourself to get bored. So as soon as you can, arrange as you want, but take a train ticket, take your car, take the plane: no matter how! Go , see as often as possible!

Don't Let  Distance Kill Your Love !
Don't Let Distance Kill Your Love !

Prove your love to your partner!

Let him / her have your love as self-confidence fact, so that the relationship continues. This can achieve by honestly expressing your intentions, such as what you want to do with him / her in the future… ect. Be sincere about your future goals. If you just want a sexual relationship say it, it might avoid your companion / companions much suffering and misunderstanding and it will prevent you from disappointments. However, if you really want a loving relationship, be prepared to invest much time to communicate by phone, Internet, Skype…

Avoid MSN, prefer the phone!

Internet certainly has its advantages for remote communication (including free availability). Existing ways as MSN, texting and other communication media can’t improve the quality of the human relationship to a greater extend. Prefer more routine means such as telephone or Skype, which allows voice and see the person in the best case. This helps maintain a relationship much stronger between you and your true love at a distance. But beware, this does not mean that a text messaging from time to time is no fun. If you want to communicate often, prefer phone as the most smart way to keep in touch with your love.

If you're feeling down? And if it increase?

If you feel down, do not hide and be true. Don’t wait till your partner realizing it by him / herself, which eventually gives them a great suffer. Try to be maximum true and sincere to your partner, but also to yourself. This is also one of the key factors in improving any relationship. Whatever happens, if you want a romantic relationship at a distance, you must invest your time and show the other that he / she can trust you. This matter of trust is the foundation of a relationship in normal times, but more important when the relationship is remote. The other needs to feel that you're not going to / deceive or drop overnight, hence the importance of being honest and transparent about what you expect from each other, and therefore communicate up on this subject. Finally, you must find an actual way to see them regularly, nothing but the feelings keep the tension high until you meat them, the need and Love at a distance.

Best of luck with your relationship....! May you be happy at all the times.

Watch...! 5 Steps to a Better Long Distance Relationship.

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bontle 3 years ago

m in lv with this guy 2 years younger than me n n its a lng distance wat mst i do to keep it alive and strong?


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Bestlife 3 years ago Author

Hi bontle; if he's in a distance you can keep in touch with him in many ways..! Skype video calls /SMS/special emails .....ect. main thing is to let him know that you are thinking of him a lot & you value his friendship a lot. wishing u good luck & may you find your love of life soon...!


SNSD123 3 years ago

hi, so me and this girl, we known each other for a year, a year ago i get to spend quality time with her a little bit, but then she brings me bad news and told me she has to leave the country because her family having problems. the time she been away, we always talked (text/phonecall/skype) almost regullary, we often sends photos of each others and tell each other that we missed each other. she send me a birthday present all the way from her country but i havn't send her a thing. its been almost a year now and i havn't seen her in real life. she always asked me to come visit her, but im having money problems!

we are not in a relationship, but i am surely crazy about her, but im afraid that she is not interested in me. but with everything i just explained about the two of us, i think it is not just a friend thing! i was just wondering if shes really into me or not? is been really hard year without her around and i really missed her, and im willing to visit her if i know for sure that this is love


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Bestlife 3 years ago Author

Dear SNSD123;

for sure you are in love with her buddy. you miss her so much after she left to her country. in other hand she too, care about you a lot. i do understand it will be a considerable expense to visit her. but my advice is to make that call. when you see her there , i think you should say that "you love her very much" & you want her to be part of your life. I'm pretty sure that you will not be disappointing. best wishes for both of you...!


abc 2 years ago

Hi.. im in love wid a guy since 2 years... we both r in relation. He loves n cares 4 me a lot.. but on the other hand he has a friend.. she is married... my bf n she they r very good friends n there frndshp is extrmly strong... but there frndshp is destroying our relation.. he says I thnk wrong about there frndshp... but I dnt understand that if a frndshp is tooo much strong how they r not in love yet? Is it possible?... he left dat girl now as I asked him to choose one... he chosed me. But is not talking to me I a good way.. he is upset... what should I do. Im confused... what all this means... I always felt dat , dat girl is more imp. But he left her.. so I thought im more imp. But now he isn't behaving well... what all this means..... y she is dat much imp if he loves me? How its possible.....


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Bestlife 2 years ago Author

Hi ABC;

Yes; that kind of friendship can exist. unfortunately this kind of close friendship are misunderstand by lot of people including there partners. when ask; he chosen you; because he loves you. but its not good to put a pressure on his friendships. the more you try to control , the more he goes away. if you love him truly; make him free. he will be your's for ever. Good Luck.

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