Adult Nursing Relationship, ANR- Bonding Becoming Close

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ANR Relationship


An Adult Nursing Relationship is a relationship in which a woman who is currently lactating is being suckled by her husband, boyfriend, friend, girlfriend, or some other significant other. This hub is not to glorify this type of relationship. This hub is to help those in a committed relationship try something new to bond and become closer to each other. You can set your own goals as far as if you are already lactating, or if you want to induce lactation, but there are various reasons a woman and her adult partner would want this type of relationship. There are rewards for the woman and her partner in this type of relationship. A couple’s bond deepens as you both spend more quality time together. A baby is close to her mother during this time, and when an adult couple can also spend this type of quality time together to hold one another is a true deep emotional experience that few can truly say they have ever had the opportunity to experience.


This is a physical bonding experience, but it goes way beyond just the time spent nursing. The physiological effects that one can have thinking about spending this type of quality time with your partner helps relationships become strong all over again. You have to take this type of relationship serious just like any other relationship you have had in the past. This is not a relationship to “Get off” on. You have to be willing to talk to your partner about the joys and pitfalls of what you both want out of an ANR relationship. Some men and women enjoy it for the lactation experience; some enjoy it for the quiet time spent with one another. I know a few couples that have told me that they were apprehensive at first, but after a few months, they can’t live without each other and can’t ever imagine doing this loving gesture to one another, with anyone else.


If your relationship is already strong, this can only enhance it to another level. It is not something that happens overnight. And you have to know how to separate sex, from an ANR relationship. This is about spending time with the one you love in an old fashion way, which has been done from the beginning of time. I have had the fortune of experiencing this before and I can personally tell you it is wonderful, and when you let yourself go, you realize you love the person for all the reasons in the world, the good and bad reasons.

Some couples who are adopting and infant will try to enter into an adult nursing relationship to aid in inducing lactation. A woman’s natural milk has been well documented as being healthy and nourishing. For those who have adopted an infant, to help the mother bond with her new baby, the couple can engage in this type of relationship for help with lactation. You are a team, married or not especially if you have adopted an infant, increasing milk production can be tough. Your local hospitals or certified nursing specialist have many options to help you with increasing milk production, but breast massage, nipple stimulation and breast pumping cannot bring you closer in an relationship like ANR. I personally would prefer the emotional attachment that I would gain by deeply committing myself to helping out my partner, my best friend, my love, my wife, my significant other.

I have friends that are deeply committed, to each other but they exclude sexual contact altogether during their nursing sessions. Quality time and the pressure of the world during those moments can bring the heavens and the earths all to ground level. There are many ways you can bond with your partner. This maybe new to some or it may be taboo to others. Some couples go to counseling, some go workout together, and others watch a movie. This is just another way and reason for a loving soul to interact with another loving soul to come together and help each others thought process fade away while holding each other close and relaxing without a care in the world. The only thing that should matter is the person who you are holding tight, in each other’s arms. Be open, be honest, be up front, be ready to enhance your relationship skills with the simple request and talk about what you want. If anything, try it before you say no, and at least you know it was or wasn’t better than just going for a jog with your partner. An ANR relationship can be for emotional reasons only to achieve both of your goals to become as one and walk as one again.

Non - Lactation Friendship

I have had a lot of people contact me on here and inquire about just a suckling friendship without the goal of lactation. And I have to say, that is a great type of friendship also. There is nothing wrong if you enjoy the stimulation of someone suckling you if you both have an understanding up front. This is not a game, and this isn't a ploy to go any further than the mutual agreement that two adults share to have a strong bond. Again, I have friends, that are married who's husbands or wives do not enjoy it, but they look outside of their marriage. You have to do what makes you happy. Interacting with another loving soul with the same wants and needs brings joy and calm to the aura around you.


P.S. I apologize to those that have contacted me, but I am not a dating specialist, this is just a topic about the joys of one type of relationship. Finding someone is up to you. It can be difficult, but life is not a race it's a journey and you start to understand the commitment one makes to this type of lifestyle/friendship. Its not instant, give it time, and the rewards will be worth it. My advice to those involved or curious... try it out, you live once, don't knock something until you try it, you may miss out on something that is wonderful, which it is.

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anonymous 4 years ago

This is interesting....


david Wilbanks 21 months ago

I would love to try this I think I would. Love it


anonymous 20 months ago

This relationship is incredible. I am currently nursing with my wife, we have a new baby and she can not finish all the milk. It started with us as a way to relieve engorgement, but its continues. I am on 30 days nursing my wifes milk a couple times a night. I pray we are able to continue, I have never felt as connected and needed by my wife as I do now


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JustSimple info 19 months ago from Puget Sound Author

That is beautiful to hear. It does create a lasting bond that is different from a regular relationship. I hope others that are in the same situation can understand and connect with their significant other as you have. Good Luck, and thank you for your post.


Lorraine 12 months ago

I'm 50, & live in Mobile, Alabama. I would love to find a good relationship with a good man that enjoyed sucking breasts.


Curtis Ford 9 months ago

What a relationship to have with a woman. I live in Gadsden, Al. Would be nice to explore the joys of a womans breast in a different way,


JLlovesanr 5 months ago

It is a fantastic experience. Speaking from a non-Lactation point of view, there's a bond and special feeling experienced if approached from a non-sexual place. Think ultimate relaxation and connection. The only comparison I can think of is massage.

I can't speak to the Lactation experience but we offer a baby/child a pacifier when they are unable to or we are weaning them from the breast/bottle, so there's clearly a calming effect implied.

It's difficult to connect with someone who can truly view it as such a connection!

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