Online Dating: The Warning Signs For Women

Five Warning signs for a suspicious online relationship.

1. Beware of con artists and players who appear overly zealous in the beginning.

They may act cute & charming one minute, domineering the next. It will leave you bewildered.

They play on your needs and desires by fulfilling you in every way; sexually, emotionally.

.2They want to get close to you fast so they can feed their excitement to the fullest.

3. They always seem to want more: first a sexy picture, then phone/cyber sex, then full nudity or acting out on a web cam.

4. They may berate you for hesitating making you feel guilty for not wanting to "trust" them.

Watch for the empty holes & lies. Don't ignore anything that doesn't sound "quite right". Follow your gut instinct.

Their charm is almost overpowering! Once you fall for them, it's easy to be manipulated.

5. Once they are through with you, they may make themselves suddenly unavailable, not answering emails or phone messages. This will leave you feeling heartbroken, as well as completely betrayed & tossed aside.

Please don't fall victim to an internet predator. Listen to the warning signs, go with your gut feeling!

These are words written by a woman who was scammed by an internet predator who stripped her of her dignity. I'm seeing more & more women who have been victimized in one way or another by men looking for a cheap thrill. Please take a moment & ponder the sadness felt by yet another victim. Also, please go to the suggested readings at the end of this article for more help.

I feel very sad tonight. My new hopes dashed.

You’re not in the picture.

Now I’m really alone here.

But does it really matter?

I still wonder if you’ll call,

But know in my heart you won’t.

I just don’t understand

Where the substance went.

That emptiness pulling at me

From inside is almost more than

I can bare!

On one hand I think,

What happened? Where are you?

But I dare not try to reach you

For fear of what I will find

Then I think, you went away because you

Were bored and got everything you wanted.

That is the most logical explanation deep within a secret place.

I wish this emptiness would go away.

I feel totally stripped from inside, like you gutted me.

Damn, why’d you have to do it like this?

I was so stupid, I’m angry at myself.

So there’s the issue of trust.

Somebody works on you, implores you, flatters you, builds you up, makes you feel wonderful

Beats against your walls while you lower them bit by bit.

Then you finally give in, believe it, allow it, welcome it

Then trust. Then it's smeared like excrement in your face.