Are Internet Online Love Affairs On The Rise?

Do you know someone who is strictly in an online love affair?

They say that 40% of married men are in online relationships with women. Why? Its very convenient. Married men and women do not have to leave the privacy of their homes. Internet technology taking off who would suspect their significant other of cheating online. Most people that do have love affairs online do not even think of it as cheating. They think what's the harm, they can fulfill their fantasies online and their wife will never suspect anything. Its just the computer right. There's no physical contact. Lets face it cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it. If there are married men that are reading this and you think its no big deal think again. An online love affair is very damaging to either party. Especially the marriage.

The reason why its on the rise is because the person has lost desire and intimacy in the relationship. They are looking for excitement to fulfill in their lives. Nowadays people are on Face Book, in chat rooms talking as friends. It may seem harmless at first but after a while you end up sharing intimate details with your new friend. You need to be cautious. This is how an online love affair starts. Its very emotional and you start sharing more with your friend than your spouse. The people that do this justify it and excuse the behavior. They may have been married a long time. They have lost communication with their wives and the lack of sex in the marriage has decreased. They do not want to face the fact that the marriage is in trouble so they go online looking for excitement and fantasy.They don't want to divorce their wives they are just looking for excitement.

Women And Men Beware!!!!!

If you are talking with someone online make sure you know where you stand. Can you meet this person face to face? Does your new Internet friend keep giving you excuses? Men and women are using the Internet to draw in lonely people online looking for love and attention. They will be a great friend to talk to. Sure they are! What do they want? Do they tell you they just like to chat? Why do they want to chat? Bottom line, Sex. What do I mean by sex and the Internet. Its called cyber sex and web cam. These men and women want to befriend you so you will start to feel so loved by them that you will be willing to do anything for them. Think twice about this. Are you that lonely and desperate that you are willing to cyber with these people? Have you lost your dignity and respect? Stop talking to these men or women and break off all communication. They are not going to leave their spouse for you. You are only their fantasy. Once you leave they will find someone new. There is no love you are only there to serve the purpose of their fantasy. In the end what do you have but empty words on a screen.

I have spoken with someone in this circumstance. Can you imagine being an an online love affair for 3 years. No physical contact. This woman befriended a married man. It became innocent at first talking and meeting in a chat room. She thought he was such a great talker. He did tell her he was married but most will lie about it. It got extremely emotional for her. She would cyber and expose herself on cam at least once a week. She thought she was falling in love with this man and would do anything to please him. This is a sick and perverted way to love someone. You can love someone in person. She did not realize she was feeding his fantasies. She thought one day they were going to meet but that never happened. They would only communicate through email and a chat room.

This is so sad and I wanted to share this story so women that are or know someone in this type of abusive relationship can get out of it. This woman knew what she was doing but I think this man had manipulated her with all his sweet kind words. He used and manipulated her to the point where she wanted to please him. Women there is no reason for this. These men are sociopaths. This is not normal behavior. You can meet online but watch out for these type of men. If they are lonely and want someone to talk to, tell them to go and talk to their wife or get some marriage counseling. This type of behavior is an addition called cyber sex. They will say they are addicted to chatting but its more than just chatting. They use words to befriend you, to see how far they can get with you. This is not love ladies. This is abusive and invalidating behavior. Watch out and beware!!

God Bless,

Sandy