Are You Absolutely Sure That She's Not Tired of You?

When her man talks to her, she starts looking off into space.
When her man talks to her, she starts looking off into space.
With selfishness involved, there is that danger of not paying attention to others when driving.
With selfishness involved, there is that danger of not paying attention to others when driving. | Source

Boredom is not a new thing.

It's been here since the days of Adam and Eve. Sometimes my thinking is that the man reason the serpent, aka/ Satan, got Eve's attention was that she was tired of Adam and his inability to pay attention to her and her needs. It was always, "Eve, we have a new orange grove." or, "Eve have you taken time to inventory the deer population?"

Any woman or man if given the same circumstances would grow bored. I would. And that same lethal device, boredom, is still around in 2015. How do I know this? Just look at the many social media outlets and check the relationship status of people and you will be a lot of "now single" as opposed to "happily involved with a loving partner." Things change. But does the area of love and happiness have to suffer so much?

"Hey, where did my lover go? Oh no! What was his name?"
"Hey, where did my lover go? Oh no! What was his name?" | Source
"My boyfriend hates for me to daydream when I am with him."
"My boyfriend hates for me to daydream when I am with him."
Her boyfriend talked to her all night and a yawn is all he got.
Her boyfriend talked to her all night and a yawn is all he got. | Source
"I think of myself so much that I have no time to think of my boyfriend."
"I think of myself so much that I have no time to think of my boyfriend." | Source
"Tom" was so happy that this hot girl was so easy to talk to. Little did "?Tom" know that she was a call girl.
"Tom" was so happy that this hot girl was so easy to talk to. Little did "?Tom" know that she was a call girl. | Source
How many people are in her bed besides her? One. You see what selfishness can do to a relationship?
How many people are in her bed besides her? One. You see what selfishness can do to a relationship? | Source
"Perfect place for me to sit around and think about me."
"Perfect place for me to sit around and think about me." | Source

I am here to step in and help.

So men who are unsure, torn apart with doubt and plagued with mental grief if his girlfriend tired of him or not, I am going to give you these near-priceless signs that if you take time to lay down that worrying and simply look at your sexy girlfriend's body language and facial expressions, it will not take you all day to know . . .

If You Are Absolutely Sure That She is Not Tired of You

Facial expressions

  • Her eyes are always cast away from yours when you talk to her.
  • She thinks you do not see her biting her bottom lip.
  • She licks her lips often because of nerves you are thinking.
  • Frowning when you call her name is getting way too frequent.
  • Rustling her pretty hair to hurt your train of thought is just one of her tools.
  • She winks at you for no reason.
  • She purses her lips at you as if to agree with you on your thinking that she is the BEST girlfriend in the universe.
  • Her left cheek starts to twitch when you start asking her the tough questions such as: "Cynthia, tell me the truth. Have you grown tired of me?"

Disturbing body language

  • Crossing and uncrossing her legs several times to keep you distracted.
  • Taking her soft hand and caressing your chin.
  • Running her hand through your hair and giggling when she messes it up.
  • Hugging you when you weep about the possibility of her leaving you for "Sanchez," the Latino building janitor.
  • Putting her feet into your lap when your voice starts sounding very serious.
  • Sitting in your lap when your face turns red with frustration.
  • Pulling you toward her bedroom as if this will cure what is wrong with you.

Words and phrases she misuses

  • She, for some reason, calls you "Dave," when she knows that your name is "Frank."
  • She says, "hun, you are so funny," and giggles, but you confided a serious problem to her, not a joke.
  • "What now?" is said by her so much that you can predict when she is going to say it.
  • "My name is "Helen," she storms at you, but you stand your ground and reply, "Helen? Last week you said your name was "Barbara?"

  • She interrupts many times when you are making her edgy then smiles at you and says, "you are so, so cool. Are you like this when you teach your college classes?" You suddenly realize that she has no idea who you are.
  • "Please, whatever your name is, get out of my apartment," you say firmly to her.
  • "But I need to stay here in case my boyfriend should drop by," she replies with doe-like eyes.
  • "Hey, I AM your boyfriend," you say with anger.

"Oh, yeah. Sorry, "Bill." I will be gone in an hour," "Helen" says.

"If I change my name tonight, then whom will I be Friday night?"
"If I change my name tonight, then whom will I be Friday night?" | Source

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Wissam Qawasmeh 15 months ago from Amman - Jordan

Great article, it's very useful

We except to read more article from you, good job


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word55 15 months ago from Chicago

Hey this was real cool Ken. You made some drastic points here. Something to really think about before falling head over heels in love. Great job!


Abiodun 15 months ago

Great piece


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alekdo 15 months ago from Cherkassy, Ukraine

No one can be 100% sure the partner is tired or bored with the relationships. Sometimes this can be inevitable, but it doesn't mean that any of the partners is guilty here. Well, sometimes it may happen that a partner may be extremely busy at work or tired with children crying all the day long. Household chores may also be boring and there are lots of other things that may affect your mood and behavior. I really wish to believe that my wife is not bored of our relationships and I try my best effort to preserve our feelings and emotions. I love my family and

I'm sure I'll never be tired of it, even though I am too busy and worried about the problems at work or other issues sometimes.


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Suhail and my dog 15 months ago from Mississauga, ON

Well, I have passed that stage, but a great article, nevertheless!

Loved it!


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JayWill 15 months ago from Austin

Funny and clever. Hey, you might enjoy my blog The Thurber Brigade as it's along the same line. Try this one for example: http://thurberbrigade.blogspot.com/2014_07_01_arch...


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kenneth avery 13 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

JayWill,

How are you and the good people in Austin? Hope you are okay.

I appreciate you and your comments very much.

And write me anytime you like. I love to make people happy and hey, if you are not one of my followers, I cordially invite you to be one. That would make my day.


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kenneth avery 13 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Wissam Qawasmeh,

I take this moment to thank you for the kind words about this piece.

May God send His very best blessings your way.

If you are not one of my followers, I invite you to be one.

Thanks, Kenneth


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kenneth avery 13 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Word55,

Thank you, bro, for the humbling words you left for me.

And in your comment is a pure gem that all guys should do: Think real hard and pray hard before you let yourself fall for ONE girl.

Thanks, my friend. God bless you.


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kenneth avery 13 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Abiodun,

Thanks so much for your nice comment. I appreciate it very much. May you have a great Tuesday filled with joy.

Kenneth


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kenneth avery 13 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

alekdo,

I enjoyed your comment and the great wisdom you left me. I agree with your thinking up to a point, but nevertheless, I appreciate all you said.

Peace.

Kenneth


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kenneth avery 13 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Suhail and my dog,

I am so impressed with what you said in your comments. Great for you. Thanks for the nice words about this piece. Stay cool and I pray for you to have a Tuesday filled with laughter and joy.

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