Are You Willing To Change? Pt. 1 (Breaking Old Habits)

Sometimes it’s hard to break old habits. If you’re used to acting a certain way in a relationship (or life in general), changing your ways may seem difficult. However, if you’ve noticed that things aren’t going so well in your relationship, you may have to say or do things differently. That is of course you want the relationship to last.

Here are some things you can do:

  1. Communicate. Knowing what your partner likes about you is great. However, if you want your relationship to progress and grow, it’s absolutely essential that you learn what he/she dislikes. Have a deep conversation with your partner…and take everything he/she says into serious consideration.
  2. Check yourself. Ask yourself this question…”what can I do differently to make my partner more happier in our relationship?” Or, take out a piece of paper and write “In order for my relationship to get better I need to…” and make a list of a few things that you need to do.

If there are things you need to change about yourself when it comes to your relationship, then you should change it. You have the power to end your relationship or make it better. If you make a decision to make it better, you’ll see great results and a more satisfied partner.

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QudsiaP1 5 years ago

Breaking old habits can be quite dificult but it is not impossible. Thank you for sharing this hub.

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dashingscorpio 5 years ago

It's also important to keep in mind if you have to "change" very much in order to remain in a relationship it's very possible you may be with "the wrong person".

Ultimately we're all looking for someone who will love, appreciate, and accept us for being who we are.

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loveguru23 5 years ago from Queens, NY Author

Thank you QudsiaP1 and dashingscorpio for your comments. I appreciate the response.

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