The Importance of Being a Good Neighbor

A brick house being built in the neighborhood. A neighborhood is  a street, an apartment complex or other area where people live. The people make it a neighborhood.
A brick house being built in the neighborhood. A neighborhood is a street, an apartment complex or other area where people live. The people make it a neighborhood.

You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your neighbors. If you are lucky, you have good neighbors. But some neighbors are not pleasant and can make your life miserable at times. If you have good neighbors, consider yourself blessed. Neighbors can play an important role in our community and our lives, and remember, you are a neighbor too.

What's a good neighbor?

By definition a neighbor is someone who lives close by you, but "close" is a relative term. For the citydweller, the neighbor is probably someone in the next apartment, but for the urban family, the neighbor is a bit further away. And for those who live out in rural areas, the neighbor may live a mile or two away. But what's a good neighbor? A good neighbor is friendly and considerate. Though good neighbors may live close, they respect your space and privacy. Good neighbors wave at you, may stop to pet your dog and chat, and buy lemonade from your children. Good neighbors take time to talk and smile. They reach out to connect to you.

Good neighbors' actions support community. A good neighbor looks out for others. This idea is illustrated in communities throughout the United States who have developed neighborhood watches. To deter crime and violence neighborhood watches comprised of people who are good neighbors have developed. Their goal is to keep watch on each other's homes so if a burglar is prowling about, or suspicious people are casing out someone's home, a watchful neighbor calls the proper authorities to investigate the situation.

Good neighbors help each other. For example, in my community we sometimes get heavy snowfall. When this happens, younger people in the community go out and shovel for people who are older or who have medical problems that prevent them from shoveling. Also, people help each other when cars get stuck, a common occurrence during the winter months.

Most importantly, good neighbors are respectful. They consider the others who live around them. They avoid keeping others awake with loud parties and barking dogs. They mow their lawns and maintain their property. Thet try to keep their kids to be respectful too.

The Importance of good neighbors.

Good neighbors are important. Hillary Clinton said,"It takes a village to raise a child." Our neighbors are our village. My son knows our neighbors, and I'm glad for that. I'm lucky enough to live in an area where I have good neighbors. My son has had the opportunity to learn from the older gentlemen in the neighborhood, and being exposed to these older men has enriched his life. And they in turn have gotten a lot of joy from associating with my son. My son has also played with and done activities with others in the neighborhood, and through neighbors, he's come to appreciate the idea that we have something in common with everyone. Perhaps sometimes we should focus on our similarities, and not our differences.

Ask yourself, "Am I a good neighbor?" Remember you get what you give. Try to be a good neighbor.

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Sarvesh kumar 12 months ago

neighbours is important of our daily life.


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Kristen Howe 14 months ago from Northeast Ohio

Great hub, Julie. I would love to be friends with some of my neighbors in my new apartment, though I'm shy and have been a good neighbor for sure. Voted up! This is useful for everyone in my position!


Kristy Flynn 4 years ago

Now you can connect with your neighbors online on WizeNation.com


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teaches12345 4 years ago

Our neighborhood is filled with great people but it takes time to get to know them. When there is a need, they are there for you. My sister lives in a neighborhood where everyone knows each other, visit mornings over a cup of coffee, walk the sidewalks daily and do other neighborly things such as block parties. I guess it depends on where you live as well. I am so blessed to live where people care about each other and look out for their neighbor.


anjali singh 4 years ago

i like my neighbours


pinky 5 years ago

I like my neighbour.


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triciajean 6 years ago from Bantam, CT

Hi, Julie. I'm reading this two years down the line. I remember when my husband and I were deciding whether to sell our home after the kids were grown, the question came down to whether we were willing to keep the property looking good for the sake of the neighborhood--so you make a good point there. I also remember how neighbors helped our sons--and understood when they needed to play music (as long as they stopped at bedtime).


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Julie A. Johnson 8 years ago from Duluth, MN Author

Dottie, To have good neighbors you need to be a good neighbor, and it sounds like you are one. I wish our whole country could be made up of good neighborhoods with good neighbors. Thank you for your positive comments and support-- it's very neighborly, at least in the cyber neighborhood. Julie


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Dottie1 8 years ago from MA, USA

You can pick your friends but you can't pick your neighbors, how true. I have had neighbors in the past whom I was happy to see go. Now I have neighbors I would not want to live without. We all watch out for each others homes when on vacation, we share plants and food from our gardens, and celebrate our family successes and much more. I am blessed with good neighbors. Another great article, Julie

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