Best Break Up Song for Her, "Bust Your Windows Out Your Car."
Dec. 28, 2010, Updated October 15, 2014
She Opened Her Heart And Trust To You
It is true, men get their hearts broken. Hopefully this song will cheer him as well as her when you listen to the words, grab the cat and tango across the dining room floor.
When one person violates trust by deceit or theft it is violence against the heart of the one left with tears running down their face. At least one person is left wounded, usually several people and family members are also affected by a bad break-up.
After a break up, yes mourn, but it is important that he or she move through the stages of grief. It is a type of death. The final death knells of a trusting relationship can feel like a physical wound.
How can one survive it?
Artist, singer and performer Jazmine Sullivan, belts the answer in an awesome formal dance tune; "Bust The Windows Out Your Car!"**
you had my trust, you had to lie
Bust the windows out your car...
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Jennifer is a beautiful young woman from Memphis, Tennesee. She is well educated, with a strong focus on business. Her black hair shows dark blue in the sun, she is fit, focused and fun. Jennifer firmly believes that getting married too young limits ones choices. She is 35, and only had three very serious boyfriends.
Jennifer put her time and energy into school for 7 years, she is an RN, working her way up to a directors position for the hospital she interned in.
Jennifer does not have children, she wants travel to third world countries, and spend her vacations helping others in desolate areas. She plans to be accomplished and married by the time she is 50, where she can enjoy the fruits of her labor. Jennifer has been able to make her plans short and long term, sticking to a life long plan.
The only thing she has not been able to align to her plans, has been her love life.
There has been a hitch in her stride the last twelve months; since she met the love of her life, Carlos. He moved quickly into her life, that is for sure. One weekend Jennifer is dancing at the club, with her two best friends in tow, and within six weeks, he completely filled her calendar.
She did not realize that Carlos had built a wall around her to keep her from learning about his dirty, dirty deeds. Whenever he would violate a trust, or become enraged while intoxicated, he may bruise her eye, but he is always very sorry. He proves it with expensive jewels and trips. At least he is true, until he is not.
The last straw:
He sends her on a spa trip, the journey is stopped because of a storm, Jennifer is turned back. She sees the strange car in the driveway. She has to walk past the convertible to get to the door; the wind carries Chanel® No 5.
Jennifer does not intend to go to prison for the rest of her life over one scandalous man. She goes to a local Holiday Inn. Jennifer needs to breathe and think. She decides to fix herself up, and act like she is just getting in from the airport.
Eight hours later, she returns. The red convertible is gone, and so is Carlos's Escalade®. She enters the house. There it is again. Chanel® No 05. There is no doubt what has transpired here.
Jennifer begins to burn, and boil. He had been controlling her and lying to her about his love and devotion. He brought up marriage, and she was surprised that she even considered it. He said all the right things. It was all crap. Her heart was broken, she could not understand why he had to play her so hard.
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Don't Be The Tool She Needs To Bust Da Windows
Break Ups! She Gonna Cut Yer Stuff Up
I Lori J Latimer aka Lillygrillzit Do not advocate violence or the destruction of someone else's property. No matter how mad or justified a person is in exacting revenge, it is good to consider the attitude stated in this old Chinese Proverb: "
Old Chinese Proverb -
"The one who pursues revenge should dig two graves."
It is not worth it to lose the ability to get a job, or go to school, or maybe even travel freely when trying to pay someone back by violence.
This is a healing song.
- Great rhythmic beat
- After listening to this on full blast for a couple of weeks, the heartbreak dissipated considerably.
Jazmine Sullivan is a young artist who has a lot to offer. This song was the tonic that helped my friend through a horrible break-up
Crank it UP!
It feels pretty good, a breakup song, just for her.
a few words of the break up song for her:
"...I must admit it helped a little bit
To think of how you'd feel when you saw it
I didn’t know that I had that much strength
You see you cant just play with peoples feelings
Tell them you love them and don’t mean it
you’ll probably say that it was juvenile
But I think that I deserve to smile ha, ha, ha, ha, ha
I bust the windows out ya car
Wrote my initials with the crowbar..."
Jazmine Sullivan, Bust the windows
Bust Your Windows
Roll The Windows Down - Not As Easy To Break
Tint Those Windows
Come On, Play It One More Time - Dance With Me
Whenever I listen to this song, it gets me all sassy. I will listen to "Bust Your Windows Out Your Car," a few more times.
For the creative dancers among us, I can think of some great dance routines that can be done to this amazing break-up song by Jazmine Sullivan.
© 2010 Lori J Latimer
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