Body language signs of attraction in men: Signs that a guy likes you
Noticing body language signs of attraction can instantly tell you if a guy likes you or not. Reading a man's body language includes looking at the way he carries himself, the movement of his eyes, stiffness in his posture and some of the other obvious signs of passive flirting. Glossy magazines and fancy blogs senselessly talk about male body language signs in uniformity without considering the opposite behavioral traits of introvert and extrovert men. This post helps women decode the male body language depending on whether the guy is a shy introvert or an outspoken extrovert. Look out for these vital clues to decide if he is really interested in you.
Body language signs of attraction in shy guys and introvert men
1) A guy stares at you but takes his eyes away when you look at him
This is a classic body language sign of attraction especially in shy guys. When a guy keeps staring at you but looks away at the very instant you look back at him, play this game a couple of times.
If he keeps doing the same thing every time, it is a sign that he can't keep his eyes off you but he does not have the courage to approach you.
2) Break down of body language: A guy suddenly starts fidgeting
Another clear sign of attraction is when a guy's body language seems to have a complete meltdown and he starts to nervously fidget when you are in front of him. This is a common trait in men who are not confident enough to stand up and ask a girl out.
He will start playing with his fingers, keep taking his hands in and out of his pockets, move his tongue on his lips, shift his position unnecessarily, run his finger through his hair and make other fidgety body movements. These are standard signs of attraction in a classic flirting environment so you can approach a guy if you are crushing on him and waiting for him to make a move.
3) He become uptight and seems uneasy
Feeling anxious and uneasy could be a natural outlet in a shy guy's body language when he sees an attractive girl walking towards him. His body will become rigid and still if he finds you hot.
You can easily stop these signs when a guy suddenly starts sitting straight as if he were doing Yoga or stands stiffly as if he had a back problem.
4) The guy suddenly looks for things to do
A shy guy will typically feel his anxiousness getting the better of him when he starts getting intimidated by the presence of a beautiful woman. He is much likely to start looking for things that he can do to keep himself busy and mask the obvious signs of awkwardness.
He may needlessly start going through different apps on his smartphone, fiddle around with his laptop or do anything that makes him look busy. This is typically portrayed in popular culture as something a shy guy would do in an elevator when a pretty girl walks in.
5) A guy flinches when you touch him
You can find out whether a guy likes you or not by engaging in some flirty body language tactics to look for signs of attraction. Touch a guy by putting your palm on his thigh with your fingers facing inwards or by placing your palm on his biceps.
If the guy was really waiting for a spark between both of you, these moves should instantly evoke a flinch. He may suddenly act weird or have a quirky look on his face.
6) His eyes get drawn towards your curves
Take it as a sign of attraction when an extremely shy guy can't draw his eyes away from your curves. He may be unable to stop himself from looking at your cleavage while talking to you but don't mistake him as a pervert instantly because he is simply intimated by your looks. Expect this nervousness in his body language to calm down once he gets comfortable while talking to you.
Body language signs of attraction in extrovert men
1) A guy comes too close for comfort
A telltale body language sign of attraction in extrovert men is when they come inside your personal space. This will be a guy's way of heavily flirting with you and testing if you respond to his moves. You will notice this when his body dwarfs your personal space.
This is typically the scene especially in crowded pubs, nightclubs and other public venues when a guy stands foot to foot with you at the pretext of saying something to you in your ear because there is too much noise.
2) A guy keeps staring at you, looks into your eyes and smiles
An extrovert guy who likes you will instantly look into your eyes and give you a small smile. He will try to judge the way you react to see if you like him back. Extrovert men don't like to leave too much to ambiguity when it comes to flirting with women. They will want to give you every possible sign from their body language to let you know that they are attracted to you.
3) He pulls up his shoulders, holds his arms wider and pushes his chest out
A guy will instantly want to look his strongest when he wants to impress a woman that he likes. This will involuntarily make him pull up his shoulders, suck in his stomach, push his chest out and hold his arms out as if he were a bodybuilder with a massive frame.
This is a common body language sign of attraction in men who have a strong sense of ego and pride in their bodies and physical appearance. They want to use their body as an asset to show their masculinity and strength.
4) His voice become loud and affirmative
You can judge your first impression on a guy by the fluctuating pitch of his voice. A sudden increase in the volume of his voice and crispness in his words is a sign that he wants to get your attention. It is in an extrovert guy's personality to carry a loud and affirmative voice when he wants to impress a girl by making his presence known.
5) He is sitting with his legs wide apart
A common sign of attraction and strong flirting is when a guy sits with his legs wide apart so that his crotch area is on full display. Only alpha males and guys who have extremely high levels of confidence have this involuntary body language sign built into their genes.
A man with a reserved personality may not display this trait. Take it as a sign of attraction if the guy is outspoken and a complete extrovert.
6) He shows disgust when you speak to other men
An extrovert guy who does not hold back showing his feelings will give out a sign of disgust when he spots you talking to another man. Consider the classic example of a guy talking to you in a party. He will frown or grimace if another guy approaches and has a conversation with you. This will be evident because if he is really attracted to you, he will want to have your complete attention.
7) He put his hands around you, holds your hands or get touchy
Guys who are outspoken and extremely friendly might get touchy if they are strongly attracted to you. He can put an arm around your shoulders while you are sitting on a couch or place his palms on your lower back to guide you into doors as you walk.
Getting touchy will be a natural sign of attraction for a guy and these movements will be driven by his subconscious. There will not be any hint of nervousness in his actions when he gets touchy because these levels of interaction are a normal trait in his behavior.
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