College Kids Could be Mean
Some people say that college is not like high school. In high school everyone has their cliques but in college you could be friends with everyone. That is not always true.
In college people decide weather or not to be your friend based on your life of partying. If you party a lot or sleep around they will think you are fun and cool. If you are shy, quiet and more into your books they will think that there is something wrong with you. They will say things about you and make you feel bad about yourself. If they see you coming down the hall they will look the other way.
College kids are just as mean as kids in high school. They act as if partying is the only thing to do in the world. There is nothing wrong with going to see a movie or staying inside. To them they do not see it that way. They see partying as a way of life.
Just because you do not party does not mean that there is anything wrong with you. Do not make people make you feel that you are an outsider. It is okay to have different beliefs and hobbies.
A true friend is someone who gives you a chance weather or not you party. A guy who loves you will be with you despite the fact, you do not sleep around. It is not until after college that you learn what a true friend is.
You could be so nice to people in college and they may decide right away that they do not like you. In college they do not care what type of person you are, all they care about is weather or not you are like them.
If you are in college and dealing with people like this do not let it get to you. It is easier said than done. Try to expand your horizons and find people who will appreciate you.
Life is not always a party. Friendship is when you are there for each other through thick and thin. A friend is someone you need when you are going through a tough time in life. A good friend will be your friend no matter what you like or do not like you. They will still spend time with you no matter what.
Good friends are out there, it just takes time finding them. It is not until you are older that you truly see it is better to have a few good friends than a couple of fake ones.
If you are going through a tough time in college know that it will soon end. College is only four four years and once these four years are up you will never have to see these people again. You will go on with your life and they will go on with theirs.
College kids are young and still immature. They think it is fun to be wasted and hung over. You do not need to smoke or drink to have fun. You could be sober and still be funny and fun to be around. It is all about your personality.
People who always party in college end up dropping out or not getting a good job. They never go to class and the kids who do the right thing are the ones who end up with the good job down the road.
If you have a good personality they world will see it, even if you are in college and other's can't. Later on people want good friends and you will be appreciated. So never change no matter how much you are hurting inside and wanting to be liked. Being popular is not everything.
You do not have to change who you are in order to have fun. College kids could be mean and immature. Be yourself and when the time is right you will find that friend who accepts you for who you are. True friendship is being yourself, having flaws and have the other person love you anyway. You also have to accept other people's flaws in order to have friends.
Life is short so smile and do the best you can to be a good person. You might not see it now, but later on you will discover that people do like good people.
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