Countless Ways To Deal With A Crush

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There are many ways to deal with a crush, and every situation is so unique and different. But we will throw a lifesaver jacket in this hub, before it can be too late... or too early? Remember: This is a real person advicing in real timing. So, we don't know how this hub is going to end.

Relationships depend on two persons. It's not just that,"I wanna kiss you so bad" state of mind. Couples rely on some chemistry that put them together for good or for worse. Crushes are natural attractions to the opposite sex. We react to what is fed through our eyes. Chemical and electric reactions are concocted in our brains; that's why we look silly and start verbalizing that, " she swept me off my feet," or "felt like I was atop cloud nine." This 'precious' feeling was genetically instilled in us even before birth.

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How To Deal With Them?

If you feel like you cannot live without them. Then you are in big trouble: Chances are, you will find ways to be noticed. Some will get to the point of becoming stalkers and even a pain in the butt. Here are some tips to deal with them.

  • Study your affinities and similarities
  • Check her status on FB. You might found the gruesome barrier, after reading that, "in a relationship" status.
  • Like we said in a previous article: Check your anti-deodorant and those socks! Yikes!
  • Find her sign and play the astrological game, if you believe in them. Actually is a great ice breaker to start a conversation. Women are astrologers from birth.
  • If she likes romantic moves, drop a small poem on her social network. See her response.
  • Find out if she really likes you by getting your acquainted with friends of hers. Just find out if she ever talked about you.
  • Somehow, try to connect with her parents. Grass cutting or... just saying hi to them with a sweet smile, can give you a turning point bonus for the future.
  • Do not force love. You might be infatuated and have this feeling for just a summer. Just put that palm of your hand on your heart and ask yourself how far do you want to go.
  • One important and crucial point, where most relationship gurus fail, is in the field of education. Get educated and be proud of yourself. Taking care of a future bride takes some brain, and some cash.

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If You Find out She Really Likes You...

Then you are on the right foot. You have a diamond in your hands, and you should not let it fall between your hands. Just keep asking to her friends, and eventually herself; what was the intrinsic detonator. Women choose by sight and by feelings. Probably is about your lips. Your shoulders, or maybe your funny jokes. She will tell you eventually.

What Do You Do From Now On?

If we are talking about a diamond, we are talking about a valuable package. If you were used to hang out with your friends and became too trashy during past months, you gotta find out where you have gone too far. Did you drink too much? Have you had too many girlfriends? Worst case scenario: are you ready to join the broken hearts Club?

Here Are Some Tips If You Think You Struck Gold:

  • Work in the relationship. You are not in 'Kansas' with your buddies anymore.
  • Romance, romance and more romance: Revamp´╗┐ your qualities as a person. Ask an elder relative how did they last so long. You will be surprised.
  • Make sure the crush is mutual and do not promise that moon. Maybe a dinner!
  • This is a winner: Learn to say thank you to her. Remember: you were used to another language before that crush. Now is time to bring down your tone.
  • Keep checking on your hygiene. She will never tell you that, unless is too late.
  • Don't buy a dozen roses because you saw it in the movies. Buy her heart with actions.


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josh3418 4 years ago from Pennsylvania

Joseph,

Excellent advice! I loved how you put Emma Stone as the top picture, considering my latest interviewed hub by Maria. :) I enjoy your writing styles Maria, keep it up!


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billybuc 4 years ago from Olympia, WA

I have never had to worry about a woman having a crush on me....not with this face I was born with. LOL....now me having a crush on Julia Roberts....that's a whole different story.

Great hub!


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina

This is a great hub that may help those in the situation of unrequited or unrecogized love. Very interesting.

Billybuc, for some reason don't believe that!


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Lord De Cross 4 years ago Author

Thanks Joshua for reading us. You have your style and, hahaha! We love it to the last laugh. Hope this can help you as well.

Billybuc,

Crush on Julia? I thought you got over her long time ago. I know.. I know... Bev knows you were joking. Weren't you? Thanks for checking on this hub.

Tammy hi,

Relationships are so complex and unpredictable; close to be sent to drive a car with no manual and help. Billy is fine with Bev. He is out if the market. Hope this hub helps so many young candidates in search of for love. Take care my friend!


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Photography-blog 4 years ago

great advice! thanks!


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Lord De Cross 4 years ago Author

Photography-blog,

We went through all of these events from life. Thanks so much for stopping by!


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always exploring 4 years ago from Southern Illinois

Ha, Women are astrologers from birth, very true. Some good advice, esp. about the hygiene....


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Lord De Cross 4 years ago Author

Always exploring,

Thanks for commenting. Yeah atrologers, because most of them ask their Gf's, "did you find out his sign?" From then on, they start building a chart of compatibility in their heads. Funny how they trust so much their signs. Thanks again! Regarding hygiene: they should know better by now. Lol!


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Lord De Cross 4 years ago Author

Always exploring,

Thanks for commenting. Yeah atrologers, because most of them ask their Gf's, "did you find out his sign?" From then on, they start building a chart of compatibility in their heads. Funny how they trust so much their signs. Thanks again! Regarding hygiene: they should know better by now. Lol!


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Lord De Cross 4 years ago Author

Always exploring,

Thanks for commenting. Yeah atrologers, because most of them ask their Gf's, "did you find out his sign?" From then on, they start building a chart of compatibility in their heads. Funny how they trust so much their signs. Thanks again! Regarding hygiene: they should know better by now. Lol!


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Tonipet 4 years ago from The City of Generals

Very exciting hub. Gentleness of the heart and hygiene are very important. It's where magnetism of two opposite poles could be strongest. You made me smile, thanks Joseph.


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Lord De Cross 4 years ago Author

Hi Tonipet!

You write such wonderful comments. I guess we writers have an special heart. Keep growing with us at HP! Thanks!


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kj force 4 years ago from Florida

lord de cross....You did a great job on this subject...which I can't relate to...however...

I did have an " Orange crush " once....does that count ? couldn't resist..please forgive...PS...hygiene vs crush, sorry I am confused...


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Lord De Cross 4 years ago Author

Hahaha kJ!~ LOL!

You are so funny. almost spit on my screen..this orange Juice! Gone are the days of that orange crush bottle that we would drink it at the drive in....are we making up our age? Just 50 in 4 months.... Thanks for the fascinating imagination of yours! Just crush what we men forget to think of... regarding hygiene. You can't relate to anymore?


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Gypsy Rose Lee 4 years ago from Riga, Latvia

Voted up. When I was a teen I hated getting a crush on anyone because it was always so hard to not stare at them all the time. lol


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Lord De Cross 4 years ago Author

GypsyRose Lee,

Wow! We were young and we didn't know better. Is a process we all go through. Thanks for stopping by! Your feedback is so much welcome!~

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