Getting Over Lost Love

How To Pick Up Where The Break Up Left Off

If your the dumped or the dumpee have no fear there is light at the end of the tunnel. Although there is no official rule as to how long a person can dwell on a love lost, there is however, an unspoken deadline and of course the sooner the better.

The wheather's getting warm and hopefully these tips will help your love life heat up as well. Try these easy tips for picking up the pieces:

Step 1: Get out of bed already!

You can't simply linger in your jammies waiting for Mr./Ms. right to sweep you off your feet. Stop the sad movies and put away the snacks and junk food because you can't eat your cares away.

Step 2: Get into the Gym!

Sure its a great place to flirt but exercising also helps your body produce its own natural anti depressant, endorphins. Endorphins are produced in the brain naturally by the body during activities such as sex or exercise and make you feel naturally high. There is also no better way to punish an ex than with a body that says, look at me now!

Step 3: Mingle!

Try speed dating, online dating or having your friends hook-you-up Its an easy way to see what's out there without a lot of effort. Just remember even if you don't fall madly in love right away, its a lot better than saturday nights on the couch. You may be a little leary to online date at first, which is understandable and if the thought of paying money to these sites is even more ridiculous try your luck at one of these free dating sites.

Step 4: Test the Waters!

There you have it you are now on your way to making a love connection. These steps may seem easy to some, but moving forward can be down right debilitating for others especially when they have fallen in the relationship rut. You have to find the strength to dig yourself out, but alas you've made it.

Good Luck!

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guidebaba 8 years ago from India

Excellent Work. I am going to read more of you. Keep it up.

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epifanny 8 years ago from AU

hey this was a great read. fabulous get up and go tips to find a mate.. thx for sharing !! go to the gym and mingle !! haha .. cheers !!

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blue.lotus 8 years ago from Cali

Very nice article. Real emotions and actions, and I love your suggestions of how to meet people. It's so hard as a single Mom. Very little time between, work, laundry, and mommy duty.

In fact, I think I'll text a friend right now and see if she knows someone I might like to meet... whoo-hooo!

Chris 7 years ago

As far as the dating part, I would also suggest the site where I found my date, still free and real - Enjoy

Admin83 6 years ago

I've found my wife at I would recommend it to anyone.

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RecoverToday 6 years ago from United States

Good advice!

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KateWest 5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA


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