Dating: 10 Opening Lines That May Get A Positive Response

Opening Lines


Yes this is about opening lines, but if you don't go up and say something to the girl of your dreams you'll regret it forever. Here are some ideas to get a conversation started:

  1. "I've got something better than a drink for relaxation. Here are two passes to a top notch spa in the city. Enjoy yourself." If you say this she won't know what to say except maybe "Thanks, could I buy you a drink?" You never know...
  2. "Great car. If you would ever like it detailed I know the best man in the area that will really make you proud." She could take this a couple of different ways. She could think that you're saying she doesn't take care of her car, or that you're really into cars. She may then ask you what you drive, and the conversation will be off and running.
  3. "Would you like to trade notes before the review?" This could mean a test in school or a session with the boss at work. Either way you'll be offering something she may want to look at. If you feel you're being too pushy then just offer to let her see what you've got in your report, and forget what she's got in hers.
  4. "Your shiny lips highlight your beautiful smile." This is an old fashioned approach, but it never fails to get her attention, especially if you're a catch. If that's the case she may compliment you right back.
  5. "I have spent the better part of an hour trying to get the confidence to come across the room and talk to you." Girls like guys that show a little bit of what makes them real. It's endearing.
  6. "Try this, it's tasty." This is perfect at almost an occasion because even if they don't serve dinner there will be some sort of snacks out and about at a party or at a restaurant. Everyone can communicate about food. We all have to eat don't we?
  7. "I'm giving you my card because if I don't I'll regret it forever. Text me." This approach is standard, but it's direct and it's a powerful thing to do. She'll think that you have faith in yourself, confidence, and the ability to make things happen.
  8. "Are you on a social media site? The world should be able to see your profile." Even in this day and age flattery will get you places. How could she not feel special after some guy says that to her. You know she's never heard it before.
  9. "Where on this planet have you been keeping yourself? It seems I would have noticed you if you've been around here at all. Why don't we dance and talk about it?" If you say this with real sincerity she'll probably indulge you.
  10. "I really like ___________________________( say something you like about her and tell her why. Women love to talk about themselves. Indulge her. If this doesn't work, pull an old joke out of your hat.

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dotty1 4 years ago from In my world

Interesting and useful hub :)


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lisasuniquevoice 4 years ago from Michigan Author

dotty1,

Thank you for reading.

Lisa


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lisasuniquevoice 3 years ago from Michigan Author

Whitesnow,

You never know what's going to work. You might as well go up and say something to that cute guy. What do you have to lose?

Lisa


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jmartin1344 3 years ago from Royal Oak, Michigan

"I have spent the better part of an hour trying to get the confidence to come across the room and talk to you."

Always wanted to use that one! Fits my personality - I'm not sure I've ever used any line though, never mind that one! :)

Nice hub!


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tomy101 3 years ago from Midland, Texas

Amazing, I like this article. I write about relationships and how to approach girls and women , and this just adds spice to my daily living. Love the lines you suggested. Very clean and well approached. I will have to print this out so I can remeber some, and then most of them are just being considerate. Thank You


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lisasuniquevoice 3 years ago from Michigan Author

Thanks tomy101. I'm glad you liked the article. I just tried to come up with lines that you don't hear everyday. Also, I know what I'd like to hear from a guy I was interested in talking with.

Good luck out there,

Lisa


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lisasuniquevoice 3 years ago from Michigan Author

jmartin1344,

I like your line. I wouldn't be put off by it. I think it's sincere.

Lisa


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HaileyAdams 3 years ago

Hi Lisa great hub, i enjoyed reading your it, great opening lines, I'd love to talk with a man who start with one of the suggested lines.


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lisasuniquevoice 3 years ago from Michigan Author

Hailey,

I know, right? It would be nice to hear some creativity coming from the single men out there.

Thanks so much,

Lisa


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tomy101 3 years ago from Midland, Texas

Emotionally speaking to women is key to her heart. Listening to her is most important to men. Most men do not know how to tap into the emotions of a women to turn her head. It's a learned gift for a man to have.


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Eiddwen 2 years ago from Wales

A great hub which will benefit many I am sure.

Voted up and shared.

Eddy.


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Bk42author 2 years ago from New York

Great conversation starters. I love #5. When I was single I was always attracted to the guys that showed a little bit of vulnerability like that. As you mentioned, it's endearing.

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