Do Men Stop Wearing Women's Clothing?
Ah, the other side of the coin, how shiny and new it is here. Many men who wear women's clothing and their partners wonder if this will be a life long thing for a man. The good news (if you're of the mind that you shouldn't be wearing women's clothing, or that your partner shouldn't be,) is that men quite often lose interest in wearing women's clothing.
The bad news (if you happen to be of the mind that you shouldn't be wearing women's clothing, or that your partner shouldn't be,) is that this normally only happens when a man has explored every inch of what he enjoys about women's clothing and it has thoroughly lost its taboo and become almost mundane.
If you're constantly fighting yourself, or if you force your man to hide what he is doing, it is actually more likely that he (or you, if you're the one reading this and you're the one fighting your desires) will wear women's clothing for his entire life.
Please realize, this applies to some men only. Those men who wear women's clothing because they get a thrill from the taboo of it all are the most likely kind of men to quit women's clothing quite naturally and of their own accord once the shiny newness of it all wears off.
Like anything in life, things that are forbidden seem exciting and often become self rewarding behaviors. If it's always a taboo, then he'll always get that rush when he puts panties on. If it becomes just another ordinary every day thing, then sooner or later he may simply tire of it. Or, he may not. Some men love lingerie their whole lives simply because they like the way it looks and the way it feels. Let's face it, men's underwear is not all that appealing. In some cases, you have to get to the point where you no longer really care all that much to find out what kind of man you are. And by that time, it doesn't matter.
So what can you do if you want to stop wearing women's clothing? Well, simply stop beating yourself up about it and do it. Seriously. A desire that is repressed becomes a thousand times more powerful than a desire that is expressed. Don't make a big deal out of it, just lounge around in it for as long as it takes for the novelty of the feeling to wear off. If you want to wear women's clothing again, don't stop yourself. Cross dressing doesn't harm anyone, so it's not something you need to concern yourself with quitting cold turkey. Oftentimes, if you know something isn't an issue and you can do it whenever you want, the desire to do so will fade.
Your mind is a powerful beast, but it
can also be tricked quite easily. That ginsu knife you bought? You
bought that for the same reason you wear women's clothing, because
you thought it would be special and make you feel good. The fact of
the matter is though, at the end of the day, the ginsu knife is just
another knife capable of cutting through a shoe, and a dress is just
another expanse of fabric, like your drapes, or the carpet.
It is attachment to objects that gives them power over us, and you can dissolve your attachment to anything if you want to, even pretty women's panties.
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