Don't change youself for a guy

There are a lot of sterotypes in America. At a young age we are taught that someone who is only like us will go out with us.

Our head is filled with different sterotypes. A good looking guy wants a girl who is a size zero. A bad boy won't go out with a good girl. A guy who is supersmart won't go out with someone who isn't supersmart.

If we listen to those sayings we could ruin our self image. It will make us change ourselves because we feel that that is the only way we could be with that someone. That is not the case at all.

If someone loves you they love you for you. You won't have to change. Don't listen to those sterotypes. There is someone out there who will appreciate you just the way you are.

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dashingscorpio 4 years ago

I agree with you that no one should have to change in order to be with someone. Be yourself and let the chips fall where they may. However I do think the happiest couples are those that (naturally agree) on the major things in life and share the same values. Opposites may attract in the short run but it's like that attracts like in the long run.

There is no amount of "work" or "communication" that can overcome being with someone who does not want what you want.

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