Every woman is a gift to the world. As a woman, there is a lot for you to be grateful for. As a woman we owe it to ourselves to be good role models, we should be good role models to our environment and children. As a woman, you should be the pride of your home, you should be supportive, caring for not just your immediate family but to others.
As a woman, you should be the light of your community, you should be a proud career woman who takes her career and well being very seriously. Even if you are not a career woman, being a woman with or without a career puts you on a pedestal. As a woman, you have this God given natural endowments that can make you rule anything.
Every woman should always be careful on how they live their lives because the way you live your life today determines your future. I will discuss it in three different categories:
1. Choice making in marriage: women must be very careful in taking decisions about marriage because your choice determines your future. Like an adage goes say “it is how you lay your bed that is how you will lie on it”. Every woman should engage their selves in counselling before marriage so they don’t fall into the wrong hands.
2. Decision making; women should be very cautious in the way they make decisions because the decision you take may lead to destruction or life. Whatever decision as a woman, you make should be heavy thought through, Count the cost before you engage in whatever decision you wish to take. For instance, Decisions in the areas of: career, business, adoption, clothing etc.
3. Determination; every woman must be determined no matter their state or condition. With determination, the sky is your limit. A woman should not easily give up; she should be able to press on. There is an adage which says “the downfall of a man is not the end of his life”.
With determination you can go a long way to make it in life, whatever you hope to do in life with determination you will reach your goals at last. Every woman must not be quickly in loosing hope; for instance, you engage in a business, then you find out that things are not working, my advice is not given up. Also, maybe you have been seeking a job without success that should not discourage you as a woman. In whatever area of life which cannot be overemphasized you must be determined, with determination I bet you the sky is the limit.
Now you might think I am beginning to exaggerate, but if you think about it carefully, you will understand my point of view. In relationships it is the way and manner at which the lady is able to handle the relationship that will either make it a success or a failed relation. Knowing your man and knowing how to play your cards well would bring you victory in your relationship. Same as in marriages, the mood at which you are able to handle your home matters a lot. The key to a successful married life is the woman being able to care and love both husband and children
Most crumbled marriages results from lack of love or inadequate love for either the husband or home. Some women love their kids too much and neglect their husband forgetting that he desires love too. You have to be collected as a mother and a wife; you should know how to manage people and materials. Have a programmed time for your kids and create time too for your husband. Don’t forget that a man will always be a man so he would need your attention or he will seek for it elsewhere.
It is heartbreaking when I hear some women complain of having low self-esteem issues. Ladies common, no matter your size or shape or looks you will always be beautiful Even the bible lets us know that all things were created beautifully. All you need to do is look in the mirror and think of only your positive, don’t dwell in your disadvantages because everyone has got one. Just breath, be optimistic, everything is going to be alright.
Here are tips I think would help you through whatever difficulties you might be encountering:
1 Be nice and homely to people. No one wants to associate with a wild cat.
2 Be accessible, Let people meet you and know you.
3 Interact more with people because no man can survive as an island
4 Treat people with respect. Treat people like you would want to be treated.
5 Be your neighbor’s keeper of all time. If you watch out for people they will watch out for you.
6 Lastly, don’t ever get tired of looking beautiful. Remember, you have a man you need to shine for. Always use those beauty cosmetics because they work like magic. I tell you!!!
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