Feeling insecure when your partner looks at an attractive person?
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Its only natural that when an attractive man or woman passes by, people look at the person.
- Some will look and look away in seconds. Like a reflex.
- Some will look and do a double take.
- While some will give a long lingering look.
Would you feel insecure if this happens to you?
I did a short research on this with friends on Hubpages and people have mixed views. I have put them in different categories:
Group A - It doesn’t bother them and they trust their partners not to stray.
Group B - would be jealous and annoyed if it were a long, lingering look of desire or something.
Group C – They would feel insecure because either (1) Already, they were not confident with their looks or (2) they would think they were not attractive enough and would start making comparisons with the person being admired.
My favourite response was that: A "six pack" can’t outweigh years of commitment, support, conversations and shared experiences.If your partner finds you attractive and you have a strong relationship, there should be nothing to worry about.
My Advice
Example: If it’s the man looking at an attractive, lady. If your partner catches you, just say something along the lines of......
“Isn’t it terrible the way ladies dress these days? No fashion sense whatsoever!!” The chances of your lady agreeing with you, will be high and their will be no arguments. ツ
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