Few helpful tips for a happy married life.

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Tips for a happy married life.

Through this hub i like to share with you some helpful tips for creating good family relationships.

  • A good marriage must be created.
  • In a marriage the little things are the big things.
  • It is never being too old to hold hands.
  • It is remembering to say 'I LOVE YOU' at least once a day.
  • It is never going to sleep angry.
  • It is having a mutual sense of values and comman objectives.
  • It is standing together facing the world.
  • It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.
  • It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
  • It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
  • It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.

IT IS NOT ONLY MARRYING THE RIGHT PERSON- IT IS ALSO BEING THE RIGHT PARTNER....

The relationship between husband and wife begins in sex. The ultimate goal of a married relationship should flower into compassion. I call this ladder as the incremental growth in relation between husband and wife.

SEX >     LOVE >     FRIENDLINESS >       DEVOTION >        COMPASSION

^              ^                          ^                          ^                                ^

LUST > CARING > NON-DOMINATION >    SACREDNESS    > FORGIVENESS

From the above, it can be seen that the centre of sex is lust. The centre of friendliness is non-domination. The centre of devotion is sacredness. The centre of compassion is forgiveness.

The relationship between a husband and wife begins in lust. The next stage is caring - they feel for each other. The third stage is the friendship that blossoms between the two. In pure friendship, persons can remain equality. They would not feel that one is inferior to the other. They would not plot to ruin each other. There is no domination of one over other.

When friendship develops between the husband and wife, both of them would cherish their relationship as something sacred; they would protect the relationship!

The final stage in this relationship is compassion. The basis of compassion is forgiveness. Whether it is the husband or wife, it is but natural, mistakes do happen. Forgiving mistakes made by the other is the last and highest stage of the relationship. Only at this level, does relationship become complete.

Can you transform your sexual relationship into sacred relationship? In this process a spritual inimacy will develop. If your relationship has forgiving quality, then you don't bug each other but lovingly hug each other. Only in this space, is a relationship fulfilling.

In married life do not think of how your partner makes you happy...insted, think how you make your partner happy!

MARRIAGE WORKS WHEN WE ARE GIVERS OF HAPPINESS AND NOT BEGGARS OF HAPPINESS.

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Anis 4 years ago

Very very helpful tips.

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