Find Your Love Today!

Maybe you've been dating for years and just never clicked with someone. Or maybe you've never been kissed. Either case, you want one thing, and that's to find your life long love. 

I'm a believer that when that person comes along, you'll just know. But, finding them can be a challenge to say the least. It might take a 100 dates or it might be the first person you date that leads to your true love. You just don't know. 

It's important to get out there and in the mix to find the person for you! Try looking in one of the places described below...

Think about what you want

Are you an athlete? Is being athletic something that's really important to you in a date? Well, look for a partner in places like the gym and stay away from places where athletic people don't hang out like video game stores. Otherwise, you'll just be wasting your time. You might get a date, but it will be with someone lacking some of the things that are musts for you. 

By the way, if you're not sure what you want, that's okay. Now is the best time to sit down and think about what you want. Some things will be a must, or a deal breaker. Other things won't be as big of a deal and aren't musts. Prioritize these things in your mind, or even on paper to give yourself more guidance about where to start looking. You need to know what you want before you can find it!

Word of Mouth

So you've thought about what type of person you want to date and you've started to look for him or her in the places they're most likely to be found, but maybe it's just not happening yet.

You might be too shy to approach a girl or guy in the middle of the gym or there just might not be any attractive men or women at your gym. And, that's okay. 

You might have to ramp up your search efforts and start actively search. Put your friends on the hunt with you. Talk to them about what you're looking for and ask them to keep you in mind and set you up on dates. Your friends can be an awesome dating service!

Dating Services

So your dream date isn't at the gym and your friends are not help, what to do now?

Turn to a dating service.

It's common in this day and age to meet a date online. Many couples use online dating to hook up. And, traditional brick and mortar dating services are out there, too.

Just remember people lie online so take things slow and take safety precautions before meeting up for dates like telling other people where you're going and with whom and meeting only in public places. 

Stay away from shady sites like Craigslist and sites geared towards hooking couples up just for sexual escapades. 

Wrong Places

Have you been looking for love in all the wrong places? Here are some places to avoid and why:

  • Work, if things go wrong you're in trouble. And, if things go right, your work might not like you dating a coworker and fire one of you. Just avoid dating coworkers.
  • Your friend's ex's, off limits, end of story.
  • Your friends, friends shouldn't date, it ruins friendships 


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