Five Reasons To Date A Man Who Wears Panties

Good news ladies! There is a whole untapped wellspring of male talent hiding under your very noses. Men who wear lingerie. Not quite cross dressers, not quite the traditional male, these men walk a fine line; embracing their masculine side, but also honoring the feminine. I know there has been a swing in popularity away from the SNAG (sensitive new age guys) and back towards caveman Og and his club, but ladies, you may not want to let your personal pendulums swing you right past a subset of male society made up of men who have the ability to make the women they love very happy indeed.

So what do men who wear lingerie have going for them?

  • I moderate all comments, and I very rarely have to moderate a nonsense ridden travesty to grammar as has become native to the Internet. What does this tell you? It tells you that men who wear lingerie are educated, eloquent and willing to take five seconds to proof a comment before they send it. They pay attention to detail. In a realm where 99% of comments run along the lines of 'OMG ha LOL f4g', these men really do stand out.
  • Normally, men who wear lingerie concoct some amazing lingerie outfits that a woman just wouldn't think of. They will mix and match styles, cuts and brands to create cute outfits that put most women's lingerie ensembles to shame. You shouldn't be put off by this though, it is just one way that men who wear lingerie showcase how inventive and creative they are, not to mention how much effort they are willing to put into things they care about.
  • If you find a man who wears lingerie and embrace it along with the rest of him, he will appreciate it greatly. Although wearing lingerie isn't inherently a bad thing, many men who wear lingerie themselves actually regard it as a handicap in the love game. Because their taste for lingerie generally begins early in life, they've often been rejected by one or two high school or college Barbies and therefore learned that a woman who can open her mind just a smidgin, just a touch, just enough to allow a skerrick of satin and nylon to pass through, is a woman worth holding on to.
  • The great thing about dating a man who you know wears lingerie is that you're actually cutting out automatically what I would call the less desirable portion of the male lingerie wearing group, ie, those who do so and don't tell their partners. A man who wears lingerie and tells you about it is a man who is more likely to be honest in your relationship on the whole.
  • Of course, one cannot draw too many conclusions about a man simply because he wears lingerie. Men who wear lingerie come from all walks of life and come in all shapes and sizes. From 'macho' military men to mild mannered librarians, there are men who wear lingerie just waiting for you to discover them. This also means that there's a man who wears lingerie to suit the tastes of every lady.

I understand the temptation to be close minded and simply dismiss all men who wear lingerie from your dating pool, but when you consider that many men keep little secrets like this hidden away from their partners simply because they fear that the women in their lives will judge them, you might find it more useful to just consider embracing the alternatives from the get go. In other words, if you laugh at this sort of thing and think that your guy, your rough tough guy would never wear lingerie - you could be very, very wrong about that.

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ILoveLingerie 7 years ago

It's very nice of you to advertise a little bit for us lingerie-wearing-males here.

I hope it will get noticed.

Thank you very much, Hope!


likewhatiam 7 years ago

Hi Hope thanks once again for promoting us in a positive light it sure makes a change from being berated and labeled as a queer or gay person simply because you wear lingerie.Keep up the great hubs and thanks once again.


STEPHEN 7 years ago

THANK YOU FOR THE SITE. I WEAR PANTIES EVERYDAY AND ENJOY VARIOUS CUTS-STYLES-MATERIALS ETC..

LET ME POINT OUT..I AM NOT GAY, I AM HAPPILY MARRIED WITH KIDS ETC AND MY WIFE KNOWS OF MY LIKES. WE HAVE ASUPER SEX LIFE AND NOW BUY EACH OTHER LINGERIE FOR BIRTHDAYS ETC OPENLY.

I HAVE RECENTLY FOUND ONE OF MY WIFES GIRL FRIENDS WHO LIKE TO WEAR MENS BOXERS AS WELL AS HER LINGERIE. SO NOW I HAVE A SORT OF SOULMATE/ALTER EGO TO TALK TO AS WELL.

I NOW GET MY WIFE REGULAR, AND SO FAR 'OUR' NEW FRIEND TWICE FOR THE PLEASURE


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Lisa Hess 7 years ago from gsh393@yahoo.com

I hope you will post this. I really respect your freedom and am open to all sorts of things but as a woman it seems very feminine to me.


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Hope Alexander 7 years ago Author

Of course I'll post that Lisa :)


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smoothbikini 7 years ago

so well said, like all of your posts, intelligent and articulate! i fear, though, a stigma exists towards those of us who enjoy this particular idiosyncrasy (or fetish, call it what you will) that will take some time to overcome, much less be tolerated, by most girls (the w. bush right wing legacy of "morality" will endure longer then the acceptance and embracement of individualism experienced in much of the world enlightens our culture).

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