Girl is a Game Player

Guy is Being Played

Here's a question too.

Girl cried.

Girl tells guy she misses him.

Girl wouldn't tell guy if she likes him because "it would make things difficult."

Girl has a long distance bf.

Girl knows how guy feels.

Girl tells guy to forget her.

Guy is sleepless, not in Seatle.

What is guy to do?

-Posted by vinny

Vinny,

Thank you for your very eloquent question.

I'm sorry you're going through this.

Vinny, this chick is a game player. She's playing with your emotions, and clearly that game is also a reflection on her regard for her long distance guy.

She likes the idea that you're there on stand by, and she purposefully gives you just enough to keep you there, misled and baited. She doesn't give you anymore than that, so she can delude herself and anyone else that will listen, by saying she warned you, she told you to forget her. She can honestly say, she never told you she cared for you... but she knows she's let you think it. She knows full well what she's doing. She is manipulating you into thinking and doing exactly what she wants.

She likes the idea of you: the idea that you ache for her, and write about her, and want her. She likes the idea that you've been fooled into seeing her in some positive way. She likes that, because she knows the reality of the kind of person she is, is no where near the light in which you see her. She likes herself in your eyes. She likes the whole idea.

She also likes the safety net. It is surely very empowering to think some good man is just waiting in the wings, with his life on hold and his heart in her hands, ready to swoop in at a moment's notice and be her everything.

This is not a lady, this is a girl. No real lady would let you ache like this for her advantage.

It should be painfully clear that your feelings aren't reciprocated. You will never have what you want with her. I guarantee it.

Vinny, guy is to let go of this one. Walk away. Delete her. From your email, cell phone, calendar, heart, and life.

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6 comments

vinny 9 years ago

Veronica.. thank you for taking the time to reply to my question. As painfully clear as it is, I can't bring myself to believe that she's doing all this on purpose. My heart won't allow it; tho in my mind it's clear that's what she is doing.

Back home, I think after I give her the "things," I will let go. But to delete her, that's an impossible task. I couldn't bring myself to delete her from anyone of those things you've listed.


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Veronica 9 years ago from NY Author

Vinny,

You can only do what you can do. The heart and the mind are two very different things. We live, we learn. And then 9 times out of 10 we do it again.

It's a long journey. A long and lonely beach.

Best,

Veronica


kelly 9 years ago

V, how did you get so smart? Spot on once again.


Charlie 9 years ago

Vinny, you gotta grow a pair and cut her loose, man.


Job Nigeria 8 years ago

yeah, i think so.....


i need money fast 8 years ago

wow...sexiest girl

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