Girls Know That You Are Not Interested in Them When You . . .

Girls get disappointed in guys who do not pay attention to them
Girls get disappointed in guys who do not pay attention to them | Source

The curtain opens

A pretty girl spots a hot guy in the office, grocery store or movies. She makes an attempt to make herself noticed by him. He does. Then asks her out. She is so excited. But not long after they enter a very plush, upscale restaurant, she soon realizes that "not all that glitters is gold."

This girl is almost begging to be noticed
This girl is almost begging to be noticed | Source

I had a change of heart

I said about four or five hubs ago that I would not write a hub about the male/female relationship again. Well, we can now watch that ship drift to the bottom of the Pacific. Just as soon as I was enjoying my freedom, if you will, from the stigma of being a "love advisor," another idea began to eat at me. I tried to ignore it, but all hubbers know that you can only ignore a hub idea for just so long.

So I am weak. Sue me. I thought I would offer you this extension of a hub that I wrote some time ago where I listed certain signals that guys give off that tell the girls they are with that the guy does not really go for them. Of course that hub was incomplete. There are way more subliminal signals that guys give that most people are not aware of. That is a shame.

This girl is angry because her boyfriend fell asleep while she was talking
This girl is angry because her boyfriend fell asleep while she was talking | Source
A girl feels shattered when some jerk-of-a-guy takes her for granted
A girl feels shattered when some jerk-of-a-guy takes her for granted | Source
This girl is lonely due to the fact that only jerks said they wanted to take her out
This girl is lonely due to the fact that only jerks said they wanted to take her out | Source
This girl is finding out the hard way that they guy she's dating is a jerk because he demands that she sees things "his" way
This girl is finding out the hard way that they guy she's dating is a jerk because he demands that she sees things "his" way | Source
This girl is desperate to have a respectful guy in her life
This girl is desperate to have a respectful guy in her life | Source
Any girl would pout like this girl when her date prefers to tell nasty jokes to his beer buddies via cell phone
Any girl would pout like this girl when her date prefers to tell nasty jokes to his beer buddies via cell phone | Source
Poor girl. She will soon see that her "perfect" man thinks of her "second" to his gal pal at work who sends him texts all of the time
Poor girl. She will soon see that her "perfect" man thinks of her "second" to his gal pal at work who sends him texts all of the time | Source
This guy is so insensitive. He is very childish in the fact he refuses to listen to his girlfriend talk about her feelings
This guy is so insensitive. He is very childish in the fact he refuses to listen to his girlfriend talk about her feelings | Source
This self-promoter left his girlfriend to be the center of attention at a child's birthday party where a hot girl whom he used to know just happen to be with the children
This self-promoter left his girlfriend to be the center of attention at a child's birthday party where a hot girl whom he used to know just happen to be with the children | Source
I do not blame the girl on the right for being upset. Her low life boyfriend is actually flirting with another girl in her presence
I do not blame the girl on the right for being upset. Her low life boyfriend is actually flirting with another girl in her presence | Source

John Lennon was right. "Love is all we need."

This text capsule headline says it all, wouldn't you agree? There is way too much violence and hatred being produced and cultivated in our society, so at least I can do my part of helping keep the idea of love, kindness, and appreciation among men and women in play.
So with a great sense of pride, I present . . .

Girls Know When You Are Not Interested in Them When You

Strike up Conversations - - almost immediately after being seated at the table with you. I can understand and appreciate a friendly greeting to someone he knows, but great Ghost of Zeus, for him to just walk from table to table introducing himself and sometimes dragging up a chair to talk to people he has just met.

Stab At Your Food - - while having dinner with the girl. And by 'stabbing,' I mean just stabbing at their food, but not eating that much of the juicy, delicious steak or seafood.

Attack Your Food - - like there was no tomorrow. This signal means that the guy wants the dinner to hurry along so he can take the girl home and seek female companionship elsewhere.
Giving Incomplete - - answers to girls' questions. This signal is not only rude, but insensitive.

Example: Girl: "So you are a writer?" Guy: "Uh, yeah, sorta." How does one just be a writer "sorta?" Girls, if the male of your fantasies answer you like this, hate to be blunt, but move on.

"Pardon Me" - - fills the guy's conversation with a pretty girl. Obviously "Mr. Love Man," has a hearing problem in that he doesn't know how to listen to a girl on a date.

Looks Past - - his date because he finds an elderly couple directly behind her more interesting than his date who just won a role as Jessica Alba's body double.

He Forgets - - how to use his own telephone when it applies to calling a hot girl back when they meet at an office party. What is frustrating for the girl is that while at the party, this guy almost takes her in his arms in front of people and ravishes her without shame. But once he says to the girl, "please call me next week," and the hot girl does call him, she only gets his voicemail. This guy is not a traveling salesman. He is unemployed and works from home calling people to sell them a new type of oven mitt.

He (Also) Forgets - - the girl's name while on a date and on the phone. What a doofus. Example: The girl, who is hot by the way, has a name, "Carrie." But doofus keeps calling her "Margie," "Annie," and sometimes "Jenny." How insulting can one guy be?

He Has No - - focus at all. None. Na, da. Zilch. Girl: "Do you think that this skirt makes my butt look big?" Guy: "Sure does! I was amazed at how much weight you gained from our first date." This guy is not just stupid, but obviously has a death wish.

Male Trouble Sleeping - - must be this guy's disease for around six times he fell right to sleep while his pretty date who is so pretty she would make Sophia Loren green with envy, was simply sharing her hobbies, dreams and goals in life. This guy must be related to the doofus above who has a memory problem and a problem holding focus.

Making Food Animals - - to keep from answering his hot date's simple questions such as: What is your middle name? Where do you work and Do you like Fleetwood Mac? This idiot makes giraffes from fresh Italian bread plus hippo's out of the meat loaf main course. What makes this worse is that his hot date was starving for a good meal and now will have to settle for a bag of fifty-cent salty peanuts from a gas station he stopped at on the way to take her home.

Rolodex Topics - - could be this guy's middle name. Oh, he is a decent listener and conversationalist, but he never completely finishes one topic before jumping on another one. The poor girl. For her it is like trying to listen to the radio while a kid is constantly changing the stations.

These are only a few ways that girls can know that the hot guy they like is not interested in them. Believe me, there are more, but I didn't want to overload your plate giving you too much to digest.

Have a good week.

Good night, Hoboken, New Jersey.
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"Thank you all for reading my hubs."

Sincerely, Kenneth

Guys, time to get schooled

© 2016 Kenneth Avery

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Jodah 4 months ago from Queensland Australia

Good advice for the ladies here, Kenneth. I think all these instances are sure fire signs that guys are not interested.


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breakfastpop 4 months ago

Great advice and insight into the male-female relationship.


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The0NatureBoy 4 months ago from Washington DC

Since I don't, as a rule, have relationships other than passing ones because I've been a nomad for 40 years, I can only say your statements are probably very true.


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kenneth avery 3 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Jodah,

Thank you, my good friend, for your comment and reading this hub.

You are a blessing to me and I am sure other hubbers as well.

Have a great night.

Write me anytime.


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kenneth avery 3 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Hi, breakfastpop,

Nice to hear from you again.

I appreciate you stopping by and leaving me such a nice comment.

Peace.


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kenneth avery 3 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

The0NatureBoy,

Thanks, my friend, for the comment. You made my night.

And be careful out there in your life as a nomad. I do envy your lifestyle. Just don't forget that I said this about your life.

Peace.


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The0NatureBoy 3 months ago from Washington DC

I'm only a nomad at heart now, Kenneth, I've had a room since late March 2013, necessary for my destiny's work of bringing the constitution over this nation before I can get back into the life of my cherished desire, traveling and learning. That require being more careful than the nomad life, they kill whistle blowers so that require more care than wandering the earth and learning. Since I'm working on eliminating the corruption what do you think they are planning for me? Yet I am at peace with it, blood is usually required to chang things.

Peace to you.


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kenneth avery 3 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

The0NatureBoy,

Hey, my friend who is more encryptic than a certain agency somewhere near the E Coast that it is not even funny, how are you?

Do you often wish that you had the ability to unravel the message within a message (like this one)?

Blowing a whistle is not the adversity. The first one to feel fear from that sound is the trouble with feet.

Corruption, if neutered with truth is just as harmless as a Cotton Mouth without fangs.

I am glad that you are at peace. "All you need is love," as said by a fellow darkness rider once upon a time inside a cold castle.

I can just see the "plants" with eyes and ears trying while sweat floods their white van which has been "made" weeks ago to see what "I" am telling you.

Peace back at ya, bro.


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The0NatureBoy 3 months ago from Washington DC

I am well, my friend, how about you?

Those are not raveled, look at them like:

"Blowing a whistle is not the adversity. The first one to feel fear from that sound is the trouble with feet" simply means to 'blow the whistle' cause those in power to become afraid therefore their running feet causes then o kill or incarcerate them.

"Corruption, if neutered with truth is just as harmless as a Cotton Mouth without fangs" means government they have people conditioned to obey their leaders most will accept that corruption without question, the few who opposes it will die.

I "love me" therefore I have love from everyone including my enemies who are there to make me stronger rather than TO DESTROY ME, because I realize indifference require accepting what is because it is but I must do what I must my understanding of life has shown me needs to be done, such as accept discarnating because of browsing the whistle blower: but I'm not shut I can unravel the last 2.

Peace.


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kenneth avery 3 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

TheONatureBoy,

You are well on your journey having already passed the area of our human lives that either hold us as hostages for most of our lives or spurn us on to more peaceful areas where we can thrive and flourish.

Cudo's to you, my friend. May the sun of (this) solar system as complex as it is, be your guiding star to steps higher and yet so slower.

Thank you for the much-enlightening discussion.

And peace to you as well.


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Shyron E Shenko 3 months ago

Kenneth, thank you for pointing out that the male jerks of this world who would ask a girl out to dinner just to be so indifferent to her.

I think if a guy treated me that way, I would ask him 'why did you ask me out?' and excuse myself to go to the restroom and head for the nearest exit, as a matter of fact I did something similar.

A guy asked me to go on a picnic and I said ok. At the forest preserves about two miles from my home. There were a lot of people there and riding stables nearby.

All that Al did the whole time was talk about other girls he was dating and comparing them to me and when I would not let him kiss me, he got angry and said he was going to the restroom, which had a long line and he had to wait his turn. I know it was cruel but, I gathered up the food I had made and packed in a box, put it in my car and left him to walk back.

The next day at work I felt bad and told my friend Jeanette about what I did and she laughing so hard she was crying. She told me the week before she had gone to a drive in movie with him and she took her Great Dane and every time he leaned her way the Dane stuck his head between them and he kissed the dog.

We did not see Al again after that, but did hear that he got a good gig and was doing fine and sometimes I thought of the song "How do you like me now" but he was still a jerk.

When I first met Al, I like to sing and he came around where I was working and would play his guitar and some of us would sing and he just seemed like a nice guy, harmless guy (NOT)

Yes, Kenneth girls do pick up on the vibes -- and hopefully before they go on that date.

Blessings my friend.


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kenneth avery 3 months ago from Hamilton, Alabama Author

Dear Shyron,

I LOVED this comment and your insight. I was right. Females were born with a "special" gift or sense as it were, to "weed out" the jerks trying to use them for his gain.

Great thoughts. Write me anytime.

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