Give Me a Cowboy Any Day- Why Today's Metrosexual Male is Unattractive to Women
I'll admit. My man isn't a sharp dresser. There are times when his shoes don't match his belt. He is more comfortable in his t-shirt. He can be crude and masculine. He could care less what his hair looks like and he doesn't wear cologne. He gets dirty fixing the car or mowing the lawn. However, I wouldn't change any of this about him. He is all man, rugged, hairy, uncompromising, strong, and not to mention.. HOT!
Today's "Metrosexual Male" can be defined as an urban dwelling professional male who enjoys shopping, getting the latest hair cut, and accessorizing his wardrobe with glamorous shoes, belts, ties, and jewelry. He does not have time to do his own yard work, and frankly it is below him. He pays the common folk to do these chores. He has the latest gadgets, trinkets, and grooming products. He is a straight male who goes on the occasional date as long as it doesn't interfere with his shopping schedule but he rarely finds a female that compares to his own reflection. This sensitive new man will be glad to meet you at the coffee shop and have a good cry with you over your tiff with your BFF.
It is a good thing that metrosexual males have themselves and their metrosexual friends to admire because today's woman isn't interested in dating him.
Women are naturally drawn to "bad boys" or strong, protective males based on years and years of survival and evolution. When a woman is in the company of a metrosexual male, she can not pick up his pheromones over the expensive designer cologne and feels as if she is in the company of a female friend. Nothing about the metrosexual male makes a woman feel attractive, protected, pursued, or womanly. He won't shower you with genuine compliments because he is absorbed in himself. Because of his expressed femininity, females are uncertain of the metrosexual man's orientations and won't ask him out.
What is it about the Cowboy that is so appealling to woman? Many things.. his uncompromising dedication to integrity, his own values, his steadfast ways, and his unwaivering sense of self. You could never sway a real cowboy into getting the latest Justin Beiber haircut or anything else to make him more popular. He is his own man.
If you are looking for a real man with deeper values, sex appeal, grit, and masculinity.. the metrosexual male is not for you. Personally, I would prefer a cowboy any day.
Famous Cowboy Quotes
Talk low, talk slow, and don’t talk too much. ~John Wayne
Don't squat with your spurs on. ~ Anonymous
Speak your mind, but ride a fast horse.
Why We Love Cowboys
Be it the way a cowboy looks in his jeans or the way he treats the ladies with respect, the cowboy is an American icon that isn't going away any time soon. He oozes masculinity, has self confidence, and has an aura of mystery that metros just don't have.
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Feedback to this Hub:
- Give Me a Real Woman Any Day (Princesses Need Not Apply)
- Tammyswallow wrote a great hub about her choice in men - Hub love at its finest
Relationships today are great things to discuss, but choice and preference in your mate, well Tammyswallow has her own perspective on things, so this hub is an inspired response to her awesomely written hub.
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