Help I Want A Girlfriend!

Get to Know who she is by spending time together
Get to Know who she is by spending time together

Girlfriend Wanted

There are alot of boys out there who are simply too afraid to ask a girl to go out with them. Fear of rejection and humiliation in front of their friends is far too much to endure. This makes a simple conversation an impossible task and a losing battle for any chance of romance. What you need to know is that getting the girl doesn't have to be so difficult. When love is in the air there is nothing more important than being natural. I know easier said than done.

Dating Tips for Guys

The Word No to a boy is like a kick in the teeth and he finds it hard to accept that he has been rejected by the girl of his dreams.

But if you follow my advice hints and tips they will help you get back on track and you will soon be dating that girl that you have always wanted. Take it from me, I know what girls wants from a boy because i was one of those girls.

Perfect Boyfriend and Girlfriend Walking Together
Perfect Boyfriend and Girlfriend Walking Together

Know Your Reasons For Wanting a Girlfriend

First and foremost is for you to want her for all the right reasons. This is not about being cool or impressing your friends. And it is not about getting the hottest girl just because she is pretty. This is about having a real relationship all the great things that come with romancing a special girl. Bottom line is wanting her for who she is and how great you two would be together. Just know that this kind of thinking is one of the biggest turn on for girls.

Get to Know Her

Find some things to talk about. Ideally, you should find a girl who shares some of your interests. Even is she doesn't, sometimes opposites attract. Bottom line is that the "it" factor in love relationships is all about the chemistry. Diversity is an asset in relationships as you will never get bored with each other and you may even learn something new. Whats most important here is that you need to always respect all that she is. Its not important what your friends think of the two of you as a couple. The pursuit of each other is more important than popularity.

Be Confident!

Honestly there isnt anything more important than showing the girl that you are a guy who knows who he is. If your confidence is low now is the time to start to think differently so build it up first. Remember, you are who you are, being fake will only make you crash and burn later. Try enjoying the great loving guy that you are. Romance is yours for the taking and you might just be surprised and see how well others will pick up on this. For sure that girl you want to call your girlfriend will admire that quality.

the best relationships take work
the best relationships take work
2 hearts together
2 hearts together

What Women Want

When you talk to her make sure you look directly into her eyes. Some girls like to playing hard to get just to see how much you really do like them. Like you girls too fear rejection. And so mis-communication may get in the way. This is when it is so important to look deep into her eyes and listen with your heart, for that is the true basis of what women want. It is then you will know if she is the one. This may not be the easiest part of getting a girlfriend as its easy to misinterpret her body language. This complicates matters, as your fear of rejection may take over. And this is where again I stress look into her eyes for the answer. And listen then and only then can you understand her signals of what she wants from you and with you.

Love and Romance involves holding hands and just being together
Love and Romance involves holding hands and just being together

Become Boyfriend Material

Respect is the number one consideration here. In order to become boyfriend material first look at yourself and how you treat people. Are you filling your life with positive activities, and improving yourself as a person. If you’re not great boyfriend material, then girls won’t consider you as a date in the first place and boyfriend status for you will never be a possibility, no matter how many strategies you use to help you know how to get a girlfriend. Respecting a girl is so very important. It is the foundation for any romantic relationship and one of the most important things that girls want and need and most of all deserve.

How To Keep the Relationship Alive

As you can see getting a girlfriend isn’t so hard, and the real hard work comes in keeping one. Relationships take work and if you do the work right the benefits are endless. So always remember that it is important to be a good boyfriend by respecting her and yourself. Make sure you are hearing her by really listening and you will always have good people skills in life. And Its important to always be willing to make sacrifices for the girl that you are with, therefore being e trustworthy person. Your priority should be making your girlfriend happy. When she is happy you will be too and you both will have one great loving relationship.

Red Hearts beating together
Red Hearts beating together

Best Boyfriend Tips

  • Give her a big Tee shirt of yours to sleep in
  • Send her Cute text messages
  • Pay attention to her in front of your friends - a kiss is always a great idea
  • Tell her she looks beautiful
  • Always look into her eyes when you talk to her
  • Let her mess with your hair
  • Just be happy to be with her walk around with her
  • Hold her hand when you're around your friends and in private
  • Let her fall asleep in your arms
  • Come up and grab her by the waist

The Best Boyfriends

Always Always Remember :

  • DO NOT. . I repeat Do Not talk about other girls around her
  • If you love her, others shouldn't matter especially what your friends think.
  • Relationships take work so do your part.
  • If she is sad or upset about something let her know you care and be there for her.
  • She's important to you so make sure you make her feel that way
  • Romance her .. When you fall in love with her, tell her.
  • And last but not least . . Answer her phone calls and text messages no matter what!

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IzzyM 5 years ago from UK

Great advice! I wish I'd read this when I was young! Voted up and useful!


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

sometimes I think we would be better off if we lived life backwards! The things we know today would have come in so handy in those times when we werent sure of who we are! And I sure make a better girlfriend today then I did when I was a teenager!


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jimmythejock 5 years ago from Scotland

Great advice Wavegirl, teens should learn a lot from this article thanks for sharing an honorary teen.....jimmy


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

jimmy - as you know we live and we learn. I bet you made the best boyfriend material!


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romper20 5 years ago from California

Ask her from your point of view which is damn she is fine and i like her a lot lets go for it! The rest shall follow, or maybe that's my plan :D 83% of the time


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icciev 5 years ago from Kuwait

thanks for this nice article and tips, but Seriously where can I give my application - I want a girlfriend!

Voted up


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drbj 5 years ago from south Florida

Excellent tips, Shari. Feeling self-confident is probably the most difficult to master (or is some cases, to mistress), but as you pointed out, it does make THE difference.


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

drbj - yes yes we both have been around the block a few times to understand the importance of being confident and sure of who we are and where we are going. An added smile is always a good idea as well, and a smile is always on my face when I read your insightful comments!


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samsons1 5 years ago from Tennessee

up and beautiful! Very good advise, wish all young people would read this...


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LeanMan 5 years ago from At the Gemba

What are you doing Friday night? Would you like to go out???


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

samsons1 - sometimes the best advice is just simple common sense! A good attitude and most of all respect - its really as easy as that isnt it!


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

leanman - ill meet you at the Casbah ;)


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equine 5 years ago from Hillsboro, MO

Be genuine. Be nice. Join something where you might meet people similar to you. Extend your circle of friends.


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

equine - beautifully put! A general peoples person - nice attracts nice.


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Angel709 5 years ago from midwest

I like the article and agree with your comment as well..."the things we know today would have come in so handy in those times when we weren't sure of who we are! And I sure make a better girlfriend today then I did when I was a teenager!" SOOO TRUE!!!!


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

Angel709 - you said it and as the old adage goes, time waits for no one! The time is now and we might as well enjoy the journey.


jack 5 years ago

great advice i really like a girl next door a just need the confidence to ask her out because ive talk to her before


Lonlyguy 5 years ago

do girls like funny cool guys or handsome ?


rcky 5 years ago

Great advice and tips I got the girl I always wonted


lui 5 years ago

Im always clean im happy i have good friends i love what i do the only problem is trying to get a girlfriend.


rahul 5 years ago

girlfriend is not for school boys


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

jack- you can do it...just let her know, she probably likes you too!


thedude 5 years ago

what if she is always running aroung and you dont have that much time with her?


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

thedude - run around too. .. you just might bump into her!


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equine 5 years ago from Hillsboro, MO

There is also something to be said about presence.


Justice 5 years ago

The more i try the less i get, sometimes i feel i'm the only one living without a girlfriend, but let me take ur tips & try to see if it will work.


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Relationshipc 5 years ago from Alberta, Canada

I so agree with on important point you made! Miss-communication can totally get in the way of understanding what a girl is actually thinking about you.

I also agree with wavegirl - what we know today would have solved many relationship issues back when we were younger.


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

yes a smiling presence is always important when you want to impress her!


Nick 5 years ago

I like a girl named emalee but I'm in sixth grade should I ask her out or wait till I'm older?also I'm kinda the dork of the sixth grade at my school and she's popularish but she stills talks to me and hangs out with me is this a good sign?


mr.desparate 5 years ago

How do I get this girl in my class? I'm not sure if she likes me or not. I need to find out soon.


YOMAMA!! 5 years ago

ok so I'm about 15 and I really like this girl but she's two years older than me. She thinks of me as a freind but nothing more. I think there's potential for a relationship but it never feals wright when I talk to her so she has no idea how I feal about her(although she has commented on how I look at her before). I'm just afraid that if I tell her how I feel I will lose a good friend. What should I do.


YOMAMA!! 5 years ago

ok so I'm about 15 and I really like this girl but she's two years older than me. She thinks of me as a friend but nothing more. I think there's potential for a relationship but it never feals wright when I talk to her so she has no idea how I feal about her(although she has commented on how I look at her before). I'm just afraid that if I tell her how I feel I will lose a good friend. What should I do.


uberstriker25 5 years ago

hi im a dude in school and ilike this girl so inned to be her friend and ask herout right then what do i do i need steps so please help


lassana 5 years ago

yes yes thank you very much, this was wonderful news you did great and you help me how to a girlfried and I love it I hope she will like me but thank you and you did your best, nice work maen?


anonymous 5 years ago

i really like this girl but i am rather ugly and she is the year above and so hot what should i do?


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Manny2437 5 years ago from Sacramento, CA

Haha nice. I think this is the first non sports hub I've read. Good stuff, voted up.


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

YOMAMA!! - what do you have to lose by telling her. She probably feels the same way!


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

mr.desparate - go up to her, smile and share some positive words with her. You cant stay in the corner when it comes to love!


Waste 5 years ago

Hi I'm 13,

I just read this thank you I think you nailed this but I'm still stuck I'm in love with 2 girls and I don't know which to chose and my friends will Insult me plz help


Waste 5 years ago

As a follow on to what I just said my friends have always been able to get girls and I can't I've been told that I'm very romantic and would make a good BF but I havnt had a girlfriend


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

Waste - when what your friends think do not match what your heart thinks yet you go for it ..is probably a good barometer as to when you will have the girl of your dreams in your life.


zeth 5 years ago

hey i really like this girl named kira and another named kina, kira is an old friend and kina is the new girl, i am an average smart 13 year old teen but i have never had a girlfriend before HELP!!!!!


uberstriker25 5 years ago

hello i like this girl in a few of my classes but to shy to say anything we talked to each other today but other then that nada. can you tell me what to do

my fake email is vrengifo123@yahoo.com


Waste 5 years ago

Ok I feel more succure about it but I'm not the most populare or fittest kid have you got any advice on what to do ( I read you page but i would like to know if ' girls just care about looks popularity in boys) because as I said I'm neither and Ive never had a girlfriend and I'm in high school


Ryan 5 years ago

hi im 13, and im not exactly skinny. this is another reason why im fearful of talking to another girl. what you said does look like good pointers, but i still fell nervous. can you help in any other way?


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

Ryan - be confident put a smile on your face and go about your responsibilities. When you are ready and your life is full and you are working towards a goal, you will be in a good place and interesting and she will then show up as you will be ready for her


Austin wells 5 years ago

Thanks a lot your tips got me a girl friend


Falcon 5 years ago

I'm 12 and a girl I like won't come near me coz I'm popular and big so she is scared I will reject her

Wat should I do


zane 5 years ago

wana go out wavegirl plz


d-man 5 years ago

ok so im 13 and there's this girl in my school and we're pretty good friends but everytime i talk to her it feels like it would be awkward to ask her out what do i do???


Nimrod 5 years ago

I think those comments have surely helped to get a girl whom liked most.


Cute boy 5 years ago

In my class room there is a girl that is my friend only my friend but she asked one of her friends to get me and her hooked up but I don't like her what do I say to her ,I don't want to hurt her feelings because it might mess up our friendship what do I do?????


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wavegirl22 5 years ago from New York, NY Author

honesty is always the best policy


fuzzy11 5 years ago

ok there are these two girls in my class and i like them both but im not sure of which one i should pick they both have the qualities im looking for but im afraid if i pick one and it doesnt turn out good i might not be able to get the other one. what should i do?


what happened 5 years ago

ok so i went to my first school dance. It was on 11/4/11 . Ok so my question is does the gire that i danced with like like me . imean she asked me to dance. ohohohohohoh pleasepleaseplease help me please


digitalph33r 5 years ago

ok so im in the 6th grade and one day this friend of the girl i like comes up to and says do u think shes nice to u i look and we make eye contac then teacher


IAn 5 years ago

So what if i like 2 girls. Which one do i go for, or both?


Andy 5 years ago

Hi i'm 14 in high school and really want a girlfriend but am very shy,mature,average in weight,intelligent in many ways, and have a(n) ok confidence in myself can you please help me to find a girl I may like (possibly love) please i'm not desperate but just very lonely and scared of most things I also have a thing with technology and can't seem to get away from it


Brandon 5 years ago

So there's a girl, I'm not sure if she likes me, but she comes off like she does. I don't know if were really good friends or if she likes me, how do I find out without a direct question "Do you like me?" ?????


Wolfey101 5 years ago

Um hi I'm 12 and sports captain for my school team and I like this girl but my friends keep putting her off

What should I do?


dcubed 5 years ago

i'm 13 and i really like this girl in a few of my classes i'm pretty good friends with her but i don't know if she likes me.HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


kyle 5 years ago

i need help there is a girl in ny class and she luaghs when i tell jokes and she often stairs at me and i stair at her i dont get wats thats signaling plz help


Anonymus 5 years ago

I am 12 but the girl I like is 14. Her bro is my very good friend. She is where ever I am but I really want her. What should I do?


Zac55 5 years ago

hi guys umm im trying to get hooked up with a friend but i dnt feel like she likes me no matter wat i do.... she only talks to me at school.. and she doesn't talk to me on facebook... any suddgestions?


Austin 5 years ago

there is this girl I like and we good off and laugh together are good friends how do I move to the next level with her?


Anon 5 years ago

I'm 16 and the girl I like is 15, I really like her (possibly love) I'm just afraid that if I tell her I like her that I will lose a good friend. Help please


anonymus 4 years ago

im 18 and ive never had a gf (ever) :D


Person 4 years ago

Haha that was good but I'm never going to be brave enough to ask a girl out I just wait for them to ask me...


Justin 4 years ago

I'm 12 and I really like this girl and I've told her I like her but I don't know if she likes me back cause shes really popular and I'm really not popular and she might think I'm weird if I ask her out what do I do.


T.S.W.A.H.B. 4 years ago

i also recomend you search 60 things guys should know about girls.


T.S.W.A.H.B. 4 years ago

i also recommend you search 60 things guys should know about girls.


can'tsaymehname 4 years ago

I like this girl were both 11 and I have a hard time talking to her. I want to be with her, but I don't want to fail majorly and then never get a chance. What should I do?


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Just be yourself! And keep being her friend!


can'tsaymehname 4 years ago

sorry if I'm getting annoying, but should I tell my parents sooner or later?


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Try having a conversation with her about something you know she is interested in. It's hard when you pit someone on the spot with your feelings.. Just try being her friend for now and then see where it goes! Most important be yourself!


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Haa there ever been a girl you liked enough to want her to be your girlfriend?


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Be yourself .. Sometimes the vest relationships are friends whose love is set onfire!!


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

You need to do what feels right .. If the right moment presents itself you will know. Just dont push it, let things happen naturally.


Theincrediblehelp 4 years ago

Hi im 13 and i like a girl that is very popular and beautiful but im one of the least popular kids in school cause im 1/4 vietnamese.What should i do???


ashleyboy135 4 years ago

hi i am 14 and there is a girl i like in my year but i am not friends with her and i can't talk to her because i am too shy but i just can't help but look at her when she is around can you help me please


Rex 4 years ago

Hey guys I'm a 12 year old girl. I love reading this. Awwe guys r too cute!:-) ha well a lot o times girls get set off when they see another guy with another girl. Or if you don't.wanna do that just be.yourself even if your a fulltime nerd. Also girls like guys with as sense of humor. But this is just my opinion.

Ur most.certainly welcome.


Kowaleyer 4 years ago

Help me plz. Theres a girl whos my best friend, and i rlly like her but i have no clue if she like likes me. Weve known each other since kndergarten, and in 4th grade she told me she had a crush on me. Were both 11 now, in 6th grade and we r with each other a lot. but i still dont know if she like likes me. plz help


cowboy71 4 years ago

I realy like this hub because i had just got a great gf and i recomend using thjs for realy great tips so i wish everyone els good luck on getting the girl you have been wanting.


Anonomus 4 years ago

I am in 6th grade and have a crush on this one girl and the other boys found out and told her she really still anors me. What do I do?


Anonomus 4 years ago

I am in 6th grade and have a crush on this one girl and the other boys found out and told her she really still anors me. What do I do?


Mastercoffee 4 years ago

All you need to do is get 20sec. of insane,crazy bravery and courage to ask a girl out and this is a single guy writing this.


Oliver 4 years ago

That was ok but i have only had 5 girlfriends and my x hates me please help!:(


Camo Girl!! 4 years ago

Hey There Kowaleyer well you said that she told you that she had a crush on you in 4th grade well that was two years ago she might still like you don't let her do it all the guys i liked i had to ask them because they were just to shy to do it and most girls like guys who will take the lead so go for it ask her if she likes you all she can say is No or Yes. HOLP THIS HELPS=))


Camo Girl!!! 4 years ago

To all you boys on here i am 16 and i have dated two guys in my life and i asked them out because they were just to shy do it but lots of girls like guys who can ask them out not to be mean but if you can't ask a girl out you should not get her if she has to ask!!! And I just met this guy and i had to ask him if he likes me and he said he did not know because he don't know me that well but i like him alot.


Turkic 4 years ago

Very informative! But my teacher at college tells us that we never must get a girlfriend because girls are manipulative and are like devils.

So is it true that girls are manipulative?


Camo Girl!! 4 years ago

Yes some girls are if they want money or if they want something but not all girls are like that i am not manipulative!!!


Nathan 4 years ago

Last year I had to leave the love of my life thanks to moving. We liked eachother a lot and it was almost as if we were gf and bf. That was the first time in my life I was actually truly in love instead of just plain old crush. That was a year ago and I still can't get over it. Please help me wavegirl22! -Nathan


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Camo Girl!! - you seem to have a good head on your shoulders

Nathan - long distance relationships can work. Make sure to keep in touch with her. You never know what tomorrow will bring!


Kinda confuzed 4 years ago

Im 15 and i had this amazing girlfriend quite recently and then out of nowhere she dumped me. I drew her pictures saying I love her and bought her perfume and wrote her a massive note about how I was there for her and how much I loved her and I don't know what happened. Wavegirl22 if u have any ideas why she dumped me it would be greatly appreciated


Kinda confuzed 4 years ago

Im 15 and i had this amazing girlfriend quite recently and then out of nowhere she dumped me. I drew her pictures saying I love her and bought her perfume and wrote her a massive note about how I was there for her and how much I loved her and I don't know what happened. Wavegirl22 if u have any ideas why she dumped me it would be greatly appreciated


Camo Girl!! 4 years ago

Thank You wavegirl22 and i dont want to be a pain in all your guys butts but over three yrs ago i was in a relationships with this boy and i had to move so i was going to be like an hour from him and he said he loved me and we could try a long distance relationships well about three weeks later i found out that he had got a new girlfriend so i just moved on that was my story but it might not be yours Nathan if she is a nice girl, I hope not. GOOD LUCK!!!!


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Kinda confuzed - sometimes more is too much. Were you suffocating her? it sounds like the old cliche . .less is more. Maybe if you back off and give her some room. Give her some time to miss you. In other words for now move on and do something terrific for yourself.

Camo Girl!! - sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders!


Camo Girl!! 4 years ago

Thank You Again!!!!


Shemar 4 years ago

I like a girl named Gabrielle she's kinda popular but she and her friends still talk to me i don't know if she likes me in that way what should i do?


Mrman 4 years ago

I really like this One girl. We are both in 8th grade and I'm not really sure if she likes me back. How can I get out of the "friend zone"

Thank you.


Mrman 4 years ago

I really like this One girl. We are both in 8th grade and I'm not really sure if she likes me back. How can I get out of the "friend zone"

Thank you.


gipseyboy 4 years ago

wow gr8 advise but my best friend has just asked a girl out he met 2 days ago and she is the girl ive been trying to ask out 4 2 years plz help


Davis 4 years ago

Hey I like this girl I'm cool and I play football and all that she's at all of our games but how do I know when the times wright ? To ask her


Davis 4 years ago

Hey I like this girl I'm cool and I play football and all that she's at all of our games but how do I know when the times wright ? To ask her


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

To ask her what?


Girlzz dig me 4 years ago

Cuz of this stuff here I had 7 girlfriends in 1 year of school


Anirudh 4 years ago

Hey,I'm 15 year old guy. Im sort of silly always cracking jokes. I like a girl,she's very nice to me, we always sit together in our sanskrit classes. She always smiles when she sees me. She holds my hand when going out somewhere, we've been together for 2 years and I now started developing feelings for her, whenever I hold her hand I feel like I am in heaven. My friends tell me that that I have a good potential of having a girlfriend. what should i do now???

P.S Your article has raised some hopes in me.


Connorkid 4 years ago

it is very good advice thank you but some of the girls i have liked are my friend first, so i cant be sure whether she has any feelings for me or just wants to be friends. i never feel too confident because i never know what they think of me.


James 4 years ago

Thanks! This really helps.


Conor Mallon 4 years ago

Hey I'm 13.

I've dated 7 girls In my life and am currently still dating one now :)

My advice to all the guys is to chat the girls up on Facebook and start communicating a lot more with your dream girls and once you feel the time is right just say something like (I think you're peng, and was wondering if you would go out with me?? xx) is a good line and Wait for your responce from them if they say no then don't feel heart broken there are a lot more girl in ur life with this technique and remmember to act mature and go along with the girl, say she's right all the time, give her hugs and kisses, and dont just go out with her because of her tits or something, that's just silly... You go out with someone because you like them for who they are inside.

Hope I helped if you need advice email me conormallon@live.co.uk


Justin 4 years ago

Well there's this girl I've always liked and I am a good friend to her and we talk frequently but I'm worried she just thinks as me as a good friend so I'm scared if I ask her out I will get rejected and she it will ruin our friendship and I'm not exactly the most handsome guy in the class so it makes me nervous she likes someone else please reply


Dan 4 years ago

Look, im an eleven year old boy with a girl so pretty I can't breath when she walks by.


brennan 4 years ago

im 12and i like a girl named carly but im shorter than her should i ask her out


Nick 44 4 years ago

hey im kinda scared to ask this one girl who my friend thinks i have a chance with but i thank ill get rejected and im not sure if i should or not and im really freaked out man and i just turned 13 and she at least knows my birthday. :(


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Aww that is so sweet


Georgie 4 years ago

Any tips for getting a BOYfriend?! I'm 15 and think he might like me and I think I like him. I've never been in this situation before. He flirts with me & I flirt back. Help! I've never fad a boyfriend before and I don't know what to do!!


skarface 4 years ago

yo i am 10 and all my friends have girl friends but i get my pysical ass kicked im going to try your advice and try you are a very helpfull person


sacrface 4 years ago

helo im ten year old boy lookin for a girl friend all my friends have girl friends so i get my physical ass kicked a school but lucky im quite a good fighter so that puts them of me.im going to try it but ill speek back soon thank you :-)


sacrface 4 years ago

pleas help me im a 10year old boy whos a decent ill try your tips in school but if i get my but kicked well sorry plz post


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Keep smiling!


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Good sign she likes to hold ur hand


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Theincrediblehelp - smile and find something you two have in common. Be confident and proud of who you are. Its something that all girls find attractive!


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

ashleyboy135- SMILE SMILE SMILE! I too am shy but I find when I smile the world smiles back at me!


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Rex - its always smart to be yourself. . there is no other like you!


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Kowaleyer - friendship is a great start to a great relationship. .


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

cowboy - you make my heart warm and fuzzy.


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Mastercoffee and dont forget to smile!


malik 4 years ago

Im 15 years old and I like this girl but i never talked to her. She is 2 years older then me. She added me to facebook but we do not know each other. We always look at each other when we past with the hallways. So can you please help me.


skylar b 4 years ago

i was really good advice for us young one i used it and gaot asked out three diffrent times.


Neon56 4 years ago

There's this girl in my class were both In year six and both 11 turning 12 she talks to me a bit like only a little tiny bit I'm not sure how to approach her I don't even know if she even wants to get involved with someone she hasn't been in a relationship before and I haven't either please help wavegirl22 thanks ^_^


4 years ago

Im not sure if she got a bf what i do


John 4 years ago

eIm in 6th grade and theres this girl i really like who is also in 6th grade and were good friends and she knows i like her but i want to ask her to be my girlfirend. How do i ask her out?


Conman34 4 years ago

Girl liked me I liked her was going to make my move and asked who she liked before me and she stood me up for a guy that dumped her :( now doesn't like me:(


scotty10 4 years ago

im 14 and im seen as a bit of a nerd because i read but there is a girl in the same year as me that i really like but dont want to ruin our friendship by asking her out. have you got any pointers on almost rejection proof methods to ask her out? if you do it would be a great help


xXHOTMANXx 4 years ago

this girl she talks to me, i make her laugh but she just seems to like popular kid more )=


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

malik - something had to have happened that she added you as a friend on facebook?


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

skylar b - so happy for you, Keep smiling!


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Neon56 - find something you two have in common .. that is always a good place to start.


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

v- try being her friend.


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

John - remember communication is one of the most important things in any relationship. Try talking to her as a friend before you ask her to be your gf.


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Conman34 - I am not really understanding what you are saying . ..


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

scotty10 - talk to her. . find some common ground and then let things happen naturally. .. oh and always remember to smile and have a good attitude. . .


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

xXHOTMANXx - are you making a general assumption here to protect yourself from rejection? Try to get close to her as a friend with no pressure for anything else. Be fun to be around and you will see that you can be like a magnet!


Brittany 4 years ago

Hey Wavegirl i am a girl and i know this is for boys who want girlfriends and well i need your help over 4yrs ago i dated this boy and he was 2yrs younger then me and after about 2 months of dating he cheated on me well i dumped him and still to this day he wants to date again but i dont like him i like this other guy and my sister and his siter have both told him i just want to be friends and everytime i see him he says that he likes me and we should date and when i tell him i dont want to he gets really mad at me and says dont you lie to me and i tell him that i am not a lier i am 16 and he is 14 and i know he is young but i am done with young boys they are just to imature not all of them but some are. So If You wavegirl Or Any of you Boys On Here Can Help Me Pls Help!!!


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

Brittany - Put the boy who cheated on you in a file and then burn it. Though he is very very young maybe the fact that he cheated on you and lost you will have taught him a lesson and maybe you were put into his life for him to learn that lesson.

As for you now remember that Girls mature alot faster then boys so you being 16 and he is 14 is not a relationship that you should even entertain, Move on and find the one that will always be true to you,

Good Luck.


Brittany 4 years ago

Think you And yes i think i have found the guy that who is true to me.


Country Girl 4 years ago

Hey to all the Boys and Guys you all are so cute and i think that if you guys like a girl and you cant do it and tell her you like her yourself then have one of your friends do it or if she has any sisters or friends then have one of them do it and tell her most of the time when you tell a girl you like her she likes you back if she says she dont like you then it is her prob and one day we all will find the right girl for all of you and just to tell you that most girls like guys who are funny and like them for who they are and would not change anything about them and some girls like guys who tell them what they think about her hair or her makeup some girls like to hear the truth and some will be hurt if you dont like something on them and just to tell you that i have dated 4 guys in just the last 6yrs and i had to ask all of them out and i dont mind it at all and some girls dont like to ask the guy like i do but just last year l meet this guy and he asked me out it felt good that one guy had asked me out and i did not have to do it he liked me and i liked him back see so sometimes when you like a girl she most likely likes you back.


Anon 4 years ago

Well you see its really hard for me too get a girlfriend not because of my personality.. its hard due to the fact that i go to an all boys school and that my religion says that i can only date my religion.. and my religion is rare so not many people are my religion.

My brother is now getting engaged and i wish to be in a couple by the time he gets married and it requires couples.. so i have about 2 years to get to really know a girl but my school is VERY strict against boys and girls yet somehow 70 percent of the boys school have girlfriends :(


Vidyut 4 years ago

Thanx a lot!

I got that pretty girl i wanted always!


Labrodor 4 years ago

Just ask her out of the whole world who would u like to ask u out most then say who in our class would u like to ask u out if she says u Ask her out!!!! Done without to much embarrassment


Brittany 4 years ago

I got the guy i wanted Noah you are luckly guy because alot of guys want me thank you wavegirl22 so much!!!!!!!


desperate musician 4 years ago

OK so there's this girl I like who I have a lot in common with and she likes me back (she is always staring at me, brushing up against me, taking any chance she gets to hold my hand, etc.) and I want to ask her out. I don't fear rejection (to be honest, the thought has never entered my mind), I just don't know where, when, or how to ask her out. Only one of my friends and (I think) one of her friends knows what's going on. I don't know anything about asking a girl out, this is my first time. I just need to know what to say, when to say it, etc. and I need help. I am 12 and in sixth grade.


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B kirbs 4 years ago

so should i tell the girl i like that i like her


Person 4 years ago

OK so there's this girl I like who I have a lot in common with and she likes me back (she is always staring at me, brushing up against me, taking any chance she gets to hold my hand, etc.) and I want to ask her out. I don't fear rejection (to be honest, the thought has never entered my mind), I just don't know where, when, or how to ask her out. Only one of my friends and (I think) one of her friends knows what's going on. I don't know anything about asking a girl out, this is my first time. I just need to know what to say, when to say it, etc. and I need help. I am in sixth grade btw.


Everybody 4 years ago

So I like a girl and she likes me back but we don't know each other too well. We flirt whenever we see each other and we both really like each other. My question is, should I ask her out now or wait and try to strike up a friendship first and then ask her out? I'm in middle school btw.


Abraham 4 years ago

Ok so I like this girl but I don't know if she likes me but yesterday she was playing soccer and I was siting down and than she sat down next to me and leaned up next to me she said she was tired and then at p.e. class I was in the school weight room and then I was told by my pe teacher so I went outside and I was talking to her and then she sat on my back until she was on the floor but the next day she hugged me she is a real good friend I will make her laugh alot but I don't know if she likes me plz help me out


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Courtney Leah 4 years ago from Atlanta, GA

I think that love notes are still worth doing. Those will never go out of date.


Da gangster 98 4 years ago

Ok so I like this one girl at my school but don't know if she like me back but the other day after we played soccer I sat down and then she sat down next to me and she leaned up agents me for the rest of our lunch and a PE the same thing but this time she sat on me until her butt hit the floor I don't know if she likes me o what's going on but I don't want to blow it cuz she is a real good friend


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

desperate musician - there is no better time than now. Just do it! or since you are a musician you can always write her a song and ask her out in the lyrics!


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wavegirl22 4 years ago from New York, NY Author

@B kirbs - of course you should tell her and make sure you tell her with a big smile on your face!

@Abraham- open up a conversation, never just assume things. Talk to her and see what she thinks and feels about things.

@Courtney Leah - you are so right, there is nothing a girl loves more than to receive a love letter!

@Everybody- strike up the friendship and see where it goes from there!

@Da gangster 98 -the best kind of love is friendship that is set on fire


desparate musician 4 years ago

Wavegirl22 thanks for the advice. But that didn't really answer my question. I was wondering what to say, and how and when to say it. And I really can't do the song thing cause although I'm a musician, I can't sing. Thanks so much for your help.


Drlove567 4 years ago

I like this girl and I know she likes me and were really good freinds, but she won't let me help her when she has a problem. Whould asking her out help the situation and let me help her or wreck the inner relationship undermeath


donald 4 years ago

I still CANT GET THE HOOOOOOOOOOTTTTTEESSS GIRL TO LIKE ME ME and her would make a good relathinship


Miranda 4 years ago

Great hub!! Guys if you really like her than ask her out. Be straight-forward and respectful, and tell her you like her. Even if she rejects you now it doesn't mean she won't like you in the future. I'm 15, and i've only dated two guys and only one was respectful and liked me for who I was- and am. It didn't work out with either relationship and i'm still single but i'm waiting for the one who loves me for me and won't use me just because i'm hot, or sexy, or pretty, or whatever it is they think of me. Goodluck everyone, I wish you the best:)


catsap9000 4 years ago

HONESTLY GUYS GET TO KNOW THE GAL FIRST. and not just by her looks,by her hobbies, favorites, and\or personality. then express your feelings after a while writing notes help too. p.s. friendships are a good start.


Austin 4 years ago

How do you know that all girls like that stuff did u survey at least a hundred girls or did u just go by what u want


Dan1057 4 years ago

I have this girl who I really and I am up to the stage were we are friends not the best friends,but pretty good

I can have conversation with her to

Mum and her mum are good friends and often I have to do things like escort her to her family at the far end of the pub with heaps of mys friends there

We have lots in common

Please help me !!!


jacob 4 years ago

thanks for the advice i will be sure to use it with my dream girl


Dan 4 years ago

Hi I am 12 and I like this girl in my class we a good friends, but we don't talk that much I am not the most popular kid in the school we know each other very well and we hang out sometimes HELP


foster 4 years ago

ok im in sixth grade and im 11years old and theres this girl ive had a crush on since first grade but im just dont have enough willpower to do. Can you please help me out?

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