How Does a Lady Attract The Wrong Man Into Her Life

It is true that a man broke your heart by dumping you either for another woman or without justification, but why? This question of “why” is one big question that women fail to answer whenever they are faced with situations like this.

Before a man dumps a lady, something must have transpired it, it doesn’t just happen. Some ladies would tell you that they did nothing wrong to the man who eventually dumped them, which is a big fallacy I hate to believe. I know quiet sure that most of these ladies who became victim of this devious act, are most times innocent when it comes to moral judgment, but that is far from what I am talking about here.

Whether you did something wrong or not that triggered the eventual collapse of your relationship with the man you love, I want to tell you that you have a hand in the failure of that relationship.

I said this because you attracted this man into your life in the first place. If you did not attract and allow him into your romantic life, it is definitely impossible for him to hurt you. Secondly, you allowed your heart to fall in love with him without putting into consideration his early signs of betrayal; this is why it is necessary for you to test before you trust. All these all well explained in my E-book titled: “Secret Exposure for Single Ladies”, get a copy today and watch your life transform into virtue.

If you did not blindfold your eyes and sense of judgment with the illusion of love, you will be able to know if the man you are dating is good or bad, and you will be able to predict his ability of exhibiting such behaviors.

Remember once again that a man doesn’t just go to any lady he comes across, something must attract him to her. This may either be as a result of:
1. Physical attraction
2. Emotional Attraction
3. Spiritual Attraction

Physical attraction has to do with a man being romantically or sexually attracted to a woman either as a result of her physical beauty, shape, body movement, dressing or body exposure. This form of attraction is very vital in every romantic relationship because, before a romantic relationship can be successful, both parties must first be attracted to each other physically before any other reason. This is why it is also vital for a woman to be very cautious of the way she dresses, to avoid attracting the wrong man into her romantic life.

Every man loves a beautiful woman, but not every man loves a provocative woman. Remember, if you dress provocative or skimpy as a woman, you attract randy men. On the other hand, if you dress religiously, you attract religious men. Have you ever seen a stripper getting married to a Church Pastor, never! Logically, where will they meet in the first place, except the Pastor goes to a Night Club, which means he’s no longer worthy to be called a Pastor?

Strippers date club men because they are their remote choice, unless the stripper changes her dress code, physical look and also her environment.

When you dress wrongly, even with a pure heart, men will believe you are wild, and they will come wild. Men hardly forget the first day they met a woman; it keeps ringing in their head. And if for instance, a man meets you on the wrong interpretation of your personality; it is very difficult to change it because he will always believe that you are a wild woman even when you have changed. All these are the reasons why you need to be careful of how you attract men into your life, it matters a lot.

Does all this imply that you should not dress well as a woman? No! As a woman, you should dress smart and beautiful, but not provocative, unless you have made up your mind to play the game. If you really want the good men to come your way, dress modest. One thing women don’t know about men is that they rate them according to their physical appearance.

Another means of attracting men into your life is by emotion. Your emotion sends out signals to men every time, but the ability of your jamming device to diffuse or jam their own signal receiver, protects you from harmful attacks, which come in the form of advances by men.

Bad men or simply playboys, have high frequency signal receivers that have the ability to receive even the least frequency signal coming from the women. What do I mean by this? Be careful, if you have a poor emotional control, bad men will ripe you off emotionally.

Let’s take for instance you are a young lady, who is still in the University, and a time came that you became financially handicapped, and the you start getting pissed with yourself because you cannot even afford to buy yourself the basic things you need as a lady. Now listen, if you do not guard your emotion carefully, it is very likely that you will attract a man who would want to help you financially. And most often, such men are playboys looking desperately for preys to devour. If you do not exercise your wise sense of judgment at this point, you will fall prey to this man, thinking that he is being kind to you.

Eventually this leads to a romantic relationship with him, it is more likely that he will leave you the moment he achieves his set target of having intercourse with you.

It is therefore advisable that you control your emotion, especially when things are going wrong in your life, so that it doesn’t send the wrong signal to bad men waiting desperately for such signals. Don’t forget that hard times are a common and natural occurrence in human life, no wonder the Bible said in Hebrews 12:7 “Endure what you suffer as being a father’s punishment; your suffering shows that God is treating you as his Children. Was there a child who was not punished by his father?”

Be bold and confident at all times, and you will see that the bad men will run away from you. They only come when they sense or receive signals of emotional fear, weakness or anxiety in you.

I feel like going on and on, but space wouldn’t permit me, therefore I will rest my pen here for now, if you did enjoy the words you red from this hub, there is still more for you to read on my newly published E-book titled: “”Secret Exposure for Single Ladies”, click here or log on to http://www.lulu.com and search for the book title on relationship and love topics. I look forward to reading your wonderful and encouraging comments about the E-book. God bless you always!


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Nell Rose 6 years ago from England

Hi, I quite agree with you, we all attract a person who is in a way, the exact mirror image of ourselves. if we dress provocatively then we meet someone who won't take us seriously and just wants a good time, and of course it goes the other way too. dress to conservatively then we meet someone boring. we should always remember that it is our lives that we are ruining if we don't choose wisely, thanks nell


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accofranco 6 years ago from L Island Author

Yeah,ladies needs to be very cautious of what they wear. Thanks nell,nice reading your comment.


Feggy 5 years ago

Yeah, you did a great job in this your write-up and I wish most ladies can easily have access to this vital information. God bless you and I do hope you will keep it up.


Feggy 5 years ago

Yeah, you did a great job in this your write-up and I wish most ladies can easily have access to this vital information. God bless you and I do hope you will keep it up.


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accofranco 5 years ago from L Island Author

@Feggy, you just made me feel more fulfilled and inspired to do more...thank you for that awesome encouragement, i am really grateful. and i also believe that this hub did helped you to learn something new about love and relationship...please do keep it up and thanks for bringing out your precious time to read through and comment, thank you. i wish you all the best in your life endeavors. lots of love....


yoji 5 years ago

Very helpful. Thanks for this blog and more power!


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accofranco 5 years ago from L Island Author

@yoji, thanks for the encouraging comment... i am so glad you did enjoyed the article...please do pass it accross to your friends and relations. thanks.


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toknowinfo 5 years ago

Well done hub. Very practical tips and gives everyone things to think about. Thanks for sharing. You are a good writer. Rated up and useful.


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accofranco 5 years ago from L Island Author

@toknowinfo, thank you very much, i am so glad you enjoyed the hub and also found the information in it helpful...thank you once again for finding out time to read through, and to also drop an encouraging word..thank you.


Alicia 5 years ago

This stuff makes sense.. I kept wondering why I was ending up with bad guys, and then I realised it was because I was unconsciously seeking them out... I would go for men that were outgoing, charming, charismatic because I wanted these values.. but they were playboys... now I realised that I am outgoing, charming and charismatic and deserve a man who treats me with the respect that I deserve.


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accofranco 5 years ago from L Island Author

@Alicia, i am so glad this hub helped you realize the things you did wrong, that was the purpose of putting it here...and i am glad it is working as planned, the earlier we realize our errors, the better we fix them....thanks for commenting, i am glad.


rowena 5 years ago

The things you talked about from how to tell if a man truly loves you thrugh to flat Tommy till i got here is so amazing they are the real n true stuff i wish every lady would have access to them and have a blessed and fulfill love life is great keep it up.Rowena


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accofranco 5 years ago from L Island Author

@rowena, thanks for reading and finding time to drop a word...i wish you the same..and thanks.


Jack 5 years ago

If u re desperate to start a relationship and u don't tink well it will make u do the wrong thing by attracting the wrong man.


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accofranco 5 years ago from L Island Author

@Jack, you certainly hit the nail...anyway, thanks for making out time to read through....welcome!


Tumza 5 years ago

Wow this articles just made my day,and i now know what to do,and nt do in a relationship.i ws so much stressed,bt nw im relieved,im out of a useless relationship,and im empowering myself.GOD BLES U!!


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accofranco 5 years ago from L Island Author

@Tumza, i am so glad the write up reached out to you as it was intended...and may God strengthen and bless you more! And please do pass the article along...you can copy the url (the website address) and share it on your facebook status so your friends on facebook can equally benefit from the knowledge...take care for now.


ross 5 years ago

wow!i luv every of ur description on relationship here.this piece of information has already change my view on how to be myself and not trying to be what i am not.this wil enable all the young and old ladies out there to know what it takes to be character oriented and to have gud manner in every relationship.kudos...


Vanessa 4 years ago

I enjoyed reading this post. I do believe that, if it is meant to be, it does not matter how the person dresses. Mother Theresa once said something along this line: when we judge, we have no time to love.

Life is short, just do what makes you feel happy.

Cheers!


Hlubia 4 years ago

Wow,ds z so wonderful to read. I have bin playd,fuld,lied bt ths endz 2dae. Wat a gr8 incouragement. U just turnd my lyf easier. Ds part of sexual intercause then bein dumpd happnd 2me. Tanks 4ur advcs alot!


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accofranco 4 years ago from L Island Author

Please i want to first apologize for late response to your comments, i am so so sorry for that, i have been so busy with my holiday, and just recently, i lost my most beloved illustrious brother in an auto crash on the 4th of January, and coupled with the issue of strike in my country, i have not found time to respond to your comments, please bear with me, i am sorry. Thank you.

@ross, thanks so much for that encouraging comment, i really appreciate, thank you...and i wish you all the best in your romantic endeavor. thank you.

@Vanessa, thank you vany....lolz...you are right, i appreciate the contribution in no small measure, thank you and please pass the message along.

@Hlubia, oh oh, i am so sorry to hear that dearie, but all the same, i am glad you have finally learn a great lesson, please always think wisely before you act next time, and by the way, i wish you a more prosperous happy love life ahead! Thanks for contributing for other readers to learn from your experience.


nazia 4 years ago

Thnks for the wonderful post,,,,,,,i just went thru it and am sure will now onwards take right decision in my life


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accofranco 4 years ago from L Island Author

@nazia, thanks too for taking out time to read and drop a comment, i am glad you found it useful. Thank you my dear, and i wish you all the best.


Hope 4 years ago

Thanks hub for dis wonderful writting. Now i know beauty is not just our physical appearance, and have also learn how not to get involve with the wrong guys because of financial constriant


Hope 4 years ago

Thanks hub for dis wonderful writting. Now i know beauty is not just our physical appearance, and have also learn how not to get involve with the wrong guys because of financial constrain. I pray that God will give you more insight to do more of this. May God bless you aboundantly


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accofranco 4 years ago from L Island Author

@Hope, thanks for dropping a comment, I am glad it helped you to understand men more....I wish u success in your relationship endeavors!

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