How To Become Your Husband's Girlfriend-Part One
Preparation For Transformation
Whether you want to admit it or not, you as a married woman are in a war. Your enemy is silent, seductive and skilled. Your enemy is so effective that you will not see, hear or feel her attack until it is too late. The goal is your husband. YOUR husband.
Some wives will say excitedly "PLEASE TAKE HIM!!" If that is your attitude, This is not written for you. You have already lost the battle. This also is not written to those of you that have been abused by your husband. You don' t need help, you need a divorce.
On the other hand, if you genuinely love your husband, and want to keep him excited, happy and HOME, please take my advice. This is designed for woman that are experiencing the downside of marriage. This is for the wife whose husband has said or shows that matrimony has become monotony.
Truthfully, there are three (3) things that a man (your husband) hates:
A woman that is:
clueless in the kitchen
careless in her appearance
lifeless in the bedroom.
If you still want and love your husband, but have noticed that he is not home as much, attentive as much, doesn't talk as much, not wanting to make love to you as much, no longer seems to care that much, is not connected to you that much, It is a safe bet that another woman is working on him, and if you don't turn the tide and the table, she will soon be working over him. Then you will do the "wife" thing: cry, ask why, how could you do this, get angry, seek revenge, etc, etc, etc, when it all could have been avoided.
Maybe you should re-think your strategy and stop thinking, acting and talking like a wife, and think, act and talk like a girlfriend, a mistress, a geisha.
You see, the other women is skilled in the art of seduction and deception, and she can and will get your husbands' attention. The purpose of this article is to give you the tools to win the war over YOUR husband- I-a man- will tell you-a woman- how to become your husbands' girlfriend. Going forward, I will write a twenty three article series, revealing those treasured traits that will not only keep him, but keep him coming back for more!
How To Be Your Husbands Girlfriend. Attribute #1: SMILE MORE
Let's face it. Two becoming one is not easy. His past, your
past, the kids, the bills, etc, etc, etc, can take a long and hard toll on a marriage, and that toll is often
reflected in your face, and let me tell you from personal experience, and I speak very broadly and boldly for all men: No man wants to see a sad, tired, and frowning woman all the time.
When he comes home to you, or you to him, HE is looking to you to be his reviver, his refresher, his battery recharger, and when he sees you, he NEEDS to see a happy, smiling, loving face.
Please do not misunderstand. Life happens, and every day will not be a joy filled picnic. There are challenging times when you will NOT be happy, and you will need some positive strokes and re-assurances from him, but guess what? You as the wife have the greater responsibility to keep him emotionally up and going. If he collapses emotionally, so goes the home.
To make things better and brighter, try smiling at him more. Trust me, it works. Your smile brightens the
room, softens the mood, and actually will give you more energy. It is a medical fact that it takes 72
muscles to frown and only 14 to smile.
"She" will always smile, and make him think and feel that she is glad to see and be with him, and that the problems can be worked out. You should start doing the same. A smile can go a long way. He wants it, she knows it, so you should do it.
"She" will never kick start her broom- perhaps you need to learn from her. After all, she is a master at "the game", and your husband is the trophy. Smile more. It will work.
Part Two Coming Soon!