How To Get Over The Fear Of Change In Your Relationship
When you're doing something new or making a change in your relationship (or life in general), it may seem a bit scary. That's because you're stepping out of your comfort zone and you're unsure on what may happen.
But if you want to get different results and become a more happier person with a more satisfied partner, something has to change...and it should start with you.
A few days ago I was interviewed on a radio show (my very first time on a show), and I was really nervous. The show was aired LIVE, and I wasn't sure on how I would perform. even though I stumbled on a few of my words and had moments where I thought..."I should've said this...or I should've said that", I was happy overall with how I did. (listen to the show here: ( http://www.blogtalkradio.com/Circle-Of-Seven/2008/10/07/Book-Bridge-From-Authors-To-Readers-with-guest-Daniel-Amis )
I decided to take a chance and step out of my comfort zone regardless of how nervous and unsure on the outcome I was.
You may not be planning to go any radio shows, but believe me, your partner is oberving how you are...and if you have the ability to make a change to have a successful relationship.
So take a few deep breaths and tell yourself you can adapt to any changes that comes your way. Repeat it to yourself until you firmly believe it. You will be very surprised with yourself...and your relationship may improve dramatically.
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