How To Take Care of Your Man (and Have True Commitment)
Keeping Your Man Happy
I'm sure many activist women will have steam coming from their ears and blood oozing from their eyes when they read this commentary. However, let's face it. We've had a horrible reputation of emasculating our men; and allowing activist women groups dictate how we should manage (or not manage) our love relationships.
It's a known fact that men and women are different psychologically, physically, and emotionally. You can deny it all you want; but let's stop lying to ourselves. Stop believing the lies mainstream media and activists groups spew throughout the airwaves. We are just outright different.
Our sexual desires are very different. So, let's start with emotions and how men and women are different. Women, we are emotionally connected immediately upon having sex. Yes, there are some women who may not be able to connect emotionally when they have sex; but that's a rarity. We are nurturers. We are emotionally little girls who want to be held, caressed and told how beautiful we are and how much we are loved. We want to feel safe and protected. We desire the manly-man who can be our superman at all times. We want to be Sleeping BeautyTM and have our Knight-In-Shining-Armour rescue us.
As for most men, we want to believe that men aren't emotionally connected when they have sex, but that's another lie we've been fed. Most men fall in love and connect with their women just as easily as we connect sexually. Ladies, we need to stop allowing society to dictate how we should treat our men, and learn to be real women in bed, at home, and in public.
Girls, we should allow our men to open our doors and pull our chairs out at the dinner table. If our man wants to have sex everyday, we should take care of him unless health doesn't permit it. Believe me, even if you don't "feel" like it in the beginning, once you get busy, it's all very good! So, stop denying your man the simple pleasures in life because you're denying yourselves those same pleasures. Take care of him; and he will surely take care of you. If your man is "creepin'", then start taking care of his needs and watch how your relationship flourishes.
If you want to keep him home, if you want him to desire you often, then keep yourself looking good. If you were looking fine when you met him, then you should keep yourself in shape and looking sexy. Yes, I'm sure many of us have had children; but that's no excuse for letting ourselves go. Looking good for him also means looking good for ourselves. Not only will he be happy, but you will be his queen.
For those women who are angry with me right now, I don't care. I've listened to so much garbage from you man-haters; and I ruined great relationships because of that poison. So, I now stand up for my man and and all others out there who are wondering where all the real woman are. We are right here waiting to take very good care of you. Finally, Ladies, take heed. Take care of your man and keep him satisfied. You will be happier than you can imagine!
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